We have been married more than 20 years, but I still find my hubby sexy and arousing. I posted here a few years ago regarding some sexy texting that we engage in when we are apart. I know that the visual image of seeing a nude figure is much more of a male thing than a female thing, so I often wonder if I am in a super small minority of women who find the male body—their husband’s, in particular—visually stimulating?
We have a couple of different residences, but both have bathrooms with clear glass enclosing the shower. Recently, just after emerging from the Covid cocoon, we entertained two couples at our home for a small patio get together. During the course of the evening, the women’s talk veered to how things went during the lockdown and how everyone got along, being together so much. One of the women, whom I’ve know for years, was talking privately toward the end of the evening. We had consumed a few bottles of good wine so the conversations were flowing easily. She remarked that both the Mr. and I had actually lost weight instead of gaining during the quarantine. Sadly, she confided that she and her spouse had a bit of a rough time being around each other so much during the pandemic. Her hubby is younger than mine, but my husband stays super active riding bicycles, working out, and playing a lot of golf. She mentioned a couple of attributes about my hubby that she was sure I “enjoyed”!
This conversation got me thinking, and I mentioned to her that I actually sometimes fantasize while gone from my hubby about his body, what we have done and what he feels like, etc. She pressed on and begged me to tell what kept us having sex fairly often. I told her of how I often watch him showering without him knowing it, so he is carefree and genuine, and that I especially loved watching him rinse the soap out of his hair since he arches his back, leaning back into the spray of warm water. I watch the soap flow down his chest and stomach, running off of his penis, and imagine the times that I have soaped up his slick body.
Sometimes, I do things to see if I can cause him to get an erection, all the while acting innocent and pretending that I don’t notice. When we are getting cleaned up for the day, while he shaves, I will often slide down my pjs and brush my teeth next to him, nude. I love bending down slightly and letting my fairly large breasts hang and bounce as I scrub my teeth. Without letting on, I will glance down to watch his penis begin to fill and swell and love seeing the large head weighing his semi-hard shaft down. Sometimes, if I spread my legs and give him a glimpse of my bottom and slightly spread lips, I can even get him to leak. I love that since it shows he really wants to be inside me.
If any other wives or women on here are visually stimulated by their husbands, I would love to hear what they find arousing as well.
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