I’m a 23 y/o male virgin, single, and interested in advice for preparing for my future wife and wedding night! I think about it a lot but have a lot of questions, wondering, and worry!
I am not sure what part size plays in the bed and worry about how to ease into it. I’ve read that the average vaginal depth is 2-4 inches when not aroused, and up to 7 when aroused. My insertable length from the base of my shaft to my head is 9.3 inches (God made me very well-endowed), the girth of my shaft at its widest it 6.2″(widest at the head, lessens to 6″ for the majority of my shaft before going back to 6.2 at the base).
If the female cervix is generally 7 inches deep, what am I going to do, especially on my wedding night? Genuinely hoping to meet another God-fearing Christian who sought purity and guarded her heart and virginity so that we can give ourselves to each other fully and enjoy ALL the benefits of marriage. Will she be terrified? I don’t know. It’s the same size as most commercial XL or BBC dildos.
Does anyone have experience with playing with 9-10″ toys with 6″-7″ girth?
Is anything anal even going to be on the table for us if we want to get frisky?
So many questions. I assume take it slow and easy at first, but I’d like to make notes and lists of the best positions to avoid pain and hurt.
Thanks in advance! I appreciate ALL the help.
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