First Time Squirting
My wife and I had not been married long at all—maybe a year. One particular night, we were having sex all over the house. We had started on the living room couch but had ended up on the kitchen table and then a barstool in the middle of the kitchen. She braced herself on the countertop with her hands and sat on the barstool, hanging her bottom off enough that I could slip under and thrust inside her. At the same time, I was rubbing two fingers over her clit really fast, almost shaking it.
As she got more and more excited, I suddenly felt a rush of warmth and pressure around my cock. I pulled out, letting my cock swing away from her body, and as I did, her pussy gushed a huge amount of liquid onto the floor.
She was as shocked as I was. We’d never experience that before and found out much later that she had squirted. She’s only done it one other time since. It’s incredibly hot.
As I write this, I’m thinking I need to put some study into how to make her squirt more often! Any pointers, MH fam?
The more relaxed and the more arroused and the longer the stimulation of the GSpot and my Aspot. The best way for me is the firefly glass wand and I’ve read another story about the stainless Njoy or leWand stainless dildos. The Size of the head and the weight of them work wonderfully. First time fir me was a w his fingers after we had Sex the combination of his fingers and his warm cum did the trick it was a wonderful surprise for us both
Great advice! Thanks!
The more relaxed is definitely key. The more she is aroused the more likely also. I started squirting since I found out I was knocked up and my husband and I thoroughly enjoy it. The first time I did it I was embarrassed because naturally I thought I peed and worried because I was pregnant but I was also convulsing in pleasure and my husband was so turned on by it he was raring to go and instantly hard again. Once we confirmed with the doctor and talked about it with sex educators, obgyns, some girlfriends and my mom…we realized it was a blessing I was able to squirt. The more I feel like I need to pee during sex (whether being fingered, toys, dildos or my hubby’s erection) the closer I am to squirting. It feels amazing and I highly encourage it but don’t let it take away from Orgasms along the way while trying to squirt!
My wife began generating FE after 25 years of marriage. Even now after a hysterectomy decades ago she produces cum, particularly when I hit her g-spot perfectly as I finger fuck her. The key for us was the combination of her relaxing and letting it happen and my skill at finding her ‘spots.’
Relaxing is important and his skills have improved. Didn’t happen for me until after 30 years of marriage.
Nice!
I Love making my wife squirt!
Right??? So hot!
Great Story. However, my wife doesn't squirt.
From the sound of these comments, maybe it’s possible. Let’s keep working on it!
Looking at a class for my wife to learn to squirt. This is a masterclass by Dr. Cari Oneal on female arousal, vaginal orgasm sweet spots, and the methods you will want to learn to experience the elusive Squirting Orgasm. She says she can teach anyone; Is this possible?
Should I buy it as a surprise or talk with my wife 1st?
Sounds amazing!
It’s an amazing feeling having a squirting orgasm. Every woman deserves to be able to squirt and orgasm; there is nothing like it. I would buy it for your wife. How do they actually teach you in the class? I would be first in line that’s for sure ?
Congratulations!
What you did with your fingers sounds a lot like kunyaza, a technique where the husband rapidly slaps his wife's clitoris with his penis. It's proponents claim that the vast majority of women can squirt from this. Search the web for more info.
I just learned about kunyaza and haven't done any experimentation yet. I was thinking maybe doing it with fingers would work. Her normal way to orgasm is manual clitoral stimulation. So the timing of your post is providential!
What works for us and for most women who squirt is firm, rapid stimulation of the inside top of her vagina with your finger or fingers. Try starting around her G spot or a little deeper. I can sometimes feel my wife's G-spot. If you can find that, it is a good place to start. But we find that covering a wider area works better. I think what you are actually doing is stimulating the underside her clitoris.
But hey, what you did worked once, so it will probably work again!
If you can time things so she squirts in your mouth, it is an experience to remember.
Thanks for sharing!
OK. I did a little reading on that kunyaza. That's interesting! "Help her find her water." I love the fact that the whole sexual culture is based on her pleasure.
Didn’t know that had a name. Thanks for the education! Fascinating.
I personally would not pay anyone good money to teach me how to pee. Squirting is only the expulsion of urine at that fine line between pelvic floor tension and release….orgasm. The pelvic floor is a major player in urinary continence, so learning to relax it on command and at that special time(if explosive peeing is special to you) is what your goal is. Men can learn a similar thing of multiple orgasm without ejaculation. That involves the control of similar structures during that knife edge moment in time.
I don't think the fluid expelled with female ejaculation (squirting) is necessarily always urine. I've heard some people describe their experiences, and they were pretty sure it was different from urine. Sometimes it can be, sure, but I wouldn't say that's the case for every woman, or for every instance of squirting. It's hard to tell for sure, because it's not exactly a well-studied function of the female body, as far as I know.
I can assure you that squirting is definitely not peeing! Coming from a woman here who squirts often since being pregnant I can tell you it is not pee. I have confirmed with more than one sex experts and have had many conversations about squirting with my obgyn who reassured me that I was having squirting orgasms. I have talked to some of my girlfriends about it and my mom and realized I am very blessed for being able to squirt. My husband is absolutely in love with it and it happens when I lose control because I am in so much pleasure. We have bought the waterproof blankets and all and they sure get their use! Squirting during sex with my husband or while I am masturbating feels amazing and is one of my favorite things to do
Having been educated in Anatomy & Physiology and spent some years in surgery, I have never seen any ejaculatory organs or vesicles in the female anatomy that specifically expel large volumes of liquid. The skenes gland play a minute role in the total volume of excretions during female orgasm. The total volume of excretion from the female skene glands might make up 1/2 teaspoon…..probably less. So, when the bed is “soaked”, that is not ejaculate that equates to a man’s seminal fluid. The bed is soaked from urine. The emptying of the bladder in conjunction with the rhythmic orgasm as the woman momentarily vacillates between tension and relaxation is what is occurring when women squirt. I am not calling into question the practice of such…..i have experienced it myself…..I am just offering good medical science for what is physically taking place. Orgasmic release and expulsion? Yes. Ejaculation from an ejaculatory gland like men have? No. Pleasurable and erotic? Oh yeah.
Oh it feels so so good though!
Poor me, never squirted and never found a G spot.
It's never too late!
Marge with the way you’ve been commenting lately and your sexy womanly self who yearns for some sexual release… I bet you could learn to squirt in no time.
I don’t believe either! 😉
I agree about Marge's comments lately as well. They have been extra sexy's that's for sure.
I always get wet to the point of oozing & dripping, but I have never squirted. Not sure if it's a good thing or not.
My orgasms are all I can handle regardless of how they are produced. My husband sucks up all the honey he can when he's sucking me and I most often leave a wet spot wherever I cum. My vibrator gets me wet & dripping when I orgasm, and when my husband's cock is in me, I get wet & really creamy. I love sucking his cock when it's wet with the cream from my pussy. His cum mixed with mine is shared & loved by both of us. My husband loves sucking my pussy & I always cum when he fingers & sucks me. My pussy pulses & my cunt quivers, but I've never squirted.
Here’s my two cents on this topic: Perhaps all women here have squirted and didn’t realize it. A powerful orgasm can hide a squirt as can your partner’s furious activity! Once, while in a 69 position, I moved up Jim’s face a little as I was cumming, and I squirted all over his nose! I was embarrassed, and he was HOT! I licked my juice off his nose and savored my sweet juices!
Congratulations!! Squirting is so much fun! Husband loves making me squirt on his face. He makes me straddle his face and he licks, sucks & nibbles on my clit while fingering me at the same time. It took us years to get there but I’m so glad we did! Also to note, I only squirt when I’m really REALLY turned on and relaxed.
Your hubby and mine have similar desires! We should consider ourselves very fortunate to have a spouse so attentive to our pussies and breasts! If you’re like me you are very eager to service him the best way you can. Jim loves me swallowing and also painting my face with his cum.