Whoa!

How to write up the experience that my wife Melodie and I just shared… I am searching for words because this was soooo nice… sooo good…. so erotic… so loving… so fulfilling… & even so Spiritual! I titled this post “Whoa!” because that’s what came to mind from this experience!

I will give it a try. But the written story can’t match the reality.

You need to know that I’m recovering from surgery. And my wife Melodie is under treatment and recovering from an infection of some kind in & on her ladyparts. So, that isn’t sexy to share… but most of my stories are our reality. To us, there is a hope for encouragement for our MH readers in our sharing and you reading how we have overcome our general life challenges and more specifically our sexual challenges. We hope y’all benefit and feel hopeful that love can find a way even when the detours in life are long and bumpy. And yes the love of God, the love of God’s Son – our Savior, and our love for each other has led to a happy marriage with wonderful sexual encounters within our marriage covenant

Let me tell you about today’s encounter…

We had gotten up a little later than usual. Melodie got in the shower and I quickly set up the bedroom with one of our halite lamps + a YouTube Christmas fire & music with an acoustic guitar on our bedroom flatscreen TV. I also got our coconut oil ready and brought out our three favorite vibes along with a new wand vibrator that we were giving a second chance.

I then went into the bathroom & shaved my face and we swapped places in the shower. (Actually, we were in there together for a bit.) I helped Melodie out of the shower when she was done. I sill made it back to our bed first because my beautiful wife was drying her hair.

Melodie walked into the bedroom and she looked amazing. She was nude and freshly showered. She had only partially dried her hair so it took on a cute curly look that I like. She was lit up only by the Halite lamp and the TV fire. She absolutely glowed.

She laid down next to me and she was soooo beautiful that I caressed her face with one hand and told her that she was particularly beautiful this morning. Then we started with some great kissing that sometimes we neglect during sex sessions. She suggested a different way to kiss involving her chewing gently on my lower lip (It felt AMAZING!) So,  I was happy she spoke up. Communication is so important to marriage and to a couple’s sex life together. From kissing I moved to loving on her magnificent nipples. They were already my hard raspberries!

She wanted to give our newest vibrator (the OMG  Wand) another try at once so although normally she would want to go at my man nips next, she turned on the wand and applied it to her anxious ladyplace.

In the meantime, I feasted on her raspberries. But soon I just HAD to be inside her precious pussy. I mounted her in missionary position. This has been rarer of late, however, my what seems to be successful recent surgery has made this intimate face-to-face position doable again… at least for a while.

I had applied coconut oil on & IN her pussy then I slid inside to just amazing sensations. She pulled on my hips to draw me in deeper. I braced myself on my hands as I began to slowly “flick” her tender pussy. I leaned down and we shared several erotic tongue-twister kisses.

I was still pumping but instinct had me increasing my rate. I leaned low and down to orally access each raspberry nip and give each some loving and vigorous sucking attention. My wife shuddered and gasped quietly. I was still loving her with each thrust & each kiss on her mouth & each suck on her nipples. She was getting more & more aroused. She was looking so lovely and I just wanted to merge our bodies.

I couldn’t help myself and I cried out to her,

“Oh, Melodie I love you so much! I love flicking your pussy too! I love being inside your beautiful pussy!”

“I love having your outsides on my insides!” she said in her sultry voice. “Feels good to me too!”

She looked sooo sexy and beautiful and cute all at the same time! We kept flicking a bit more. I even kneeled up and spread her legs wider to thrust even deeper into her most sacred parts as I watched with a clear view of my hard manparts being engulfed by her soft but firm ladyparts.

But I HAD just had surgery a week ago and I had to slow the sex down or face some unpleasant complications. Plus pain at my healing incision in my chest was starting to invade our erotic loving. This slightly softened my erection and yes the pain worried me a bit. So I slipped out and while kneeling between her legs rubbed her sexy and beautiful clit with my thumb. I then moved to one side of my sexy bride who previously had been pushing up a beautiful round breast to my mouth.

Then I launched my loving on that same breast’s firm nipple… & the other nip too. I massaged the far breast as I tongue-tickled and sucked on the near nip. I had so much love for Melodie and I wanted to give her sexual pleasure and sexual joy. I started gently pinching the far nipple too. Melodie sighed and said, “Ooooo! That’s very nice!”

Personally, I think that sexual pleasure can come from sex without being married to the sexual partner, but true sexual joy comes from the sexual pleasure being approved of by God because you and your spouse share the sexual pleasure within the bonds of marriage.  I should mention that I also believe that having sex outside of marriage drives away the Holy Spirit.  And having sex within marriage enhances the Holy Spirit.

Having God’s approval in your sexual encounters with your spouse means you can have His assistance as well. I frequently pray for my wife during our lovemaking sessions. I say prayers in my heart and head that I know God hears. In fact He (or His Holy Spirit) often gives us both inspiration during sex.

This morning during our first sexual intercourse of the day I had slid out of Melodie before I came, but the whole experience had us both wanting more. I sucked etc. each nummy nipple then slid down to our X position and I reentered her luscious pussy with her using her new wand vibe. But she soon decided on one of her bullet vibes. She began using that one in her clit and I resumed flicking her in this great position for using a vibrator! I was on my side facing her and she was on her back.

I could see her beauty as we flicked. My orgasm built and built until I erupted inside her pussy. She had felt and sensed my closeness to the Big O so she started caressing my cock using her Kegal muscles. Then as I started my climax she began to twerk – increasing my sensations by an order of magnitude! My orgasm was intensified and prolonged!

Melodie lay there – clearly pleased with herself. She loves to give me sexual pleasure and sexual joy as much as I love giving those life treasures to her.

Well, we had not come together. OK, we HAD come together but not cum together and there is a difference. Melodie needed, and from my perspective DESERVED her release as well. We laid there together with me slowly pumping my waning erection as she buzzed her clitoris. I finally slid out to come by her side to suck and tongue her sexy nipples.

Melodie was flushed and her face and body looked like a young woman to me. She switched to her more powerful Sensuelle Plus vibrator and we continued our lovin’.

I kissed her some more and she kissed back with passion. I laid my head down on her left upper arm and accessed her large beautiful boobie that was close by. Then I felt impressed to switch my attention to her right nipple. Her breathing got deeper and more ragged.

But Melodie’s treatment cream, which the doctor had her applying daily, had desensitized her clitoris. She was finding it difficult to make it over the orgasm hump.

“Never mind me, Tom,” she said. “I can’t get there.”

“We‘ll try just a little longer,” I gently suggested as I very gently scooped some coconut cum from her pussy to rub on her nipples. Then I resumed my oral & manual stimulations on her nipples. (Maybe it’s not for everyone but we like doing this.)

But, to her frustration, she just wasn’t getting quite there. I was enjoying the journey – but didn’t want her to be frustrated nor miss out on an orgasm. (A few weeks ago she’d had three orgasms within an hour-long lovemaking session.)

“It’s OK,” I reassured her. “We’ll try a little longer.”

We did more kissing – then more nipple play as she buzzed her clitoris with her vibe some more. I was praying in my heart for her to be able to climax. I had gotten all hard again so I slid back into our X position and we flicked some more.

“It’s not working Tom,” she said. “I wanna quit. The medicine has made me numb down there. And I’m afraid I’m getting sore.”

I slid out of her very moist pussy (remember I’d cum once in there already). Then I leaned away from her and onto one elbow with my head towards her feet. I gazed at the very pleasant sight. Flickering shadows from the fire lit up her beautiful smooth Norwegian skin. Her large beautiful Scandinavian eyes looked towards me. The halite lamp gave her skin a glow to it. Her breasts were more lit up on the lamp side too. This shadowing emphasized the beautiful shape of her full breasts.

“You are so beautiful! I said – & I meant it too! “Someday I hope we can fuse minds so you can see how I see you,” I said. “But remember that I fell in love with your smart and kind mind first. I fell in love with your sexy Norwegian body later!”

I think that did it. Hopefully, she knows that she is beautiful in every way. She had kept buzzing her clitoris this whole time but SHE reached up with her free hand and began to pinch and squeeze each nipple. After almost 30 years of marriage, I knew this sign. When she’s picking her own raspberries she’s ready to reach the high ground in the garden of love.

I quickly got up close to orally love on the nipple that she wasn’t stimulating with her fingers.

But then I felt impressed to try another one of our sexual discoveries. So I kneeled up next to her and began doing tip-on-nip. Meaning I pumped my rod and rubbed my tip on her left nipple. Suddenly Melodie’s breasts were heaving as if to get more stimulation from my glans. I reached over and rubbed & pinched her cum coated right nipple as I continued to do tip-on-nip. She looked so good that I knew her peak was approaching. In just like 15 or 20 seconds she reached the summit and shook as her breasts swelled even more & her whole body flushed and her transformation (to me) appeared to be complete.

She had started the lovemaking session as a senior citizen who already looked 10-15 years younger than her actual age. But now she looked nothing like a senior citizen to me as she came and in her afterglow in the firelight and halite lamps.  I could swear that she was in her 20s as I watched her sex glow and afterglow!

I nearly came on Melodie’s excited boobs but I kind of felt that I couldn’t quite get there. (We have done simultaneous orgasms that way and that’s fun.) But I also got distracted because I suddenly really wanted Melodie’s loving lips & tongue on my man nips.

So after we kissed and we told each other that we loved each other… I propped back onto my pillows and Melodie began her oral loving on my man nips as I pumped my pole. Melodie was still in her post-orgasmic afterglow so the view of her smooth Nordic skin was excellent! She got me over the top in like a minute. I had an excellent second orgasm and sprayed all over the place – on me – on her – & on the bedsheets. It’s a good thing that we were planning to wash the sheets today!

I have felt such gratitude and love towards my wife all day! This was such an amazing experience we shared this morning. I also felt very grateful to our Lord for giving me such a treasure to share my life with!

Her lips and tongue can do amazing things to my nipples. I should mention that she gets a lot of practice. Since I have a sky-high sex drive, on most off days when we don’t have sexual intercourse or oral sex planned my kind wife will give me this kind of nipple-stim orgasm. With health concerns, we have changed our sex schedule to every three days. But on this new schedule, the build-up helps and we both cum almost every lovemaking session.

Concerning the new wand vibrator: Although it has yet to trigger an orgasm for Melodie… she says it definitely gets her motor running! We’ll keep using it.

About what I said previously: Don’t get me wrong. I think Melodie is beautiful all the time. Not just during & after sex. Clean living & good Christian values have helped. But her coital-orgasmic-& post-coital appearance is a beautiful sight to behold… for me & me alone. I’ve noted before that maybe this is a spiritual gift – to see your spouse’s eternal youthful beauty even among the appearance changes of advancing age.

I also read an article that said regular sex helps you look younger.  That works for us!

I truly hope you found our story inspiring. We try to focus on what we CAN do and enjoy sexually and not focus on what we can’t do because of aging & health issues.

Just a quick note on “FLICK” (or FLICKing). It means the following:

“For Lawful Incredible Carnal Knowledge”

As opposed to FUCK which means:

“For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge”

Our sex together or our carnal knowledge together is legal and incredible because of a loving, kind, compassionate, faithful marriage.

So we rarely use the other F-word… even during sex. FLICKing each other makes more sense.

By the way, FLICK could also be considered:

“For Loving Intense Carnal Knowledge”

Keep on lovin’ y’all!

-LovingMan