Confidence is Sexy, Part 1 (L)
This post contains strong language (L).
When our third child was born I had been through a very rough and stressful pregnancy. My body went through it all, and I put on a good amount of weight. After the doctor had cleared us to have sex again, my husband was excited—but I wasn’t. I was so unhappy and didn’t feel confident in myself. I wasn’t the same thin wife with big tits and a perfectly round ass.
Months passed. Though my husband kept trying to initiate sexy time, I had an excuse every time. I kept trying to lose some of the weight and get my shape back but never really made the serious progress I wanted. One night, we were relaxing in our room and I got up to change into some sweatpants. I stood in my closet to change, and as I did, Timothy got up, walked into the closet, and gave me a kiss. Then he grabbed my ass and continued to kiss me.
“Stop, baby; not tonight.”
Timothy sighed and walked off.
“Baby, I’m sorry. I’ll make it up to you. Just not tonight.”
“Honey, you’ve said that multiple times in the last six months. We haven’t had sex in HALF A YEAR. Why?”
“We’ve been busy! And I just had a kid, honey!”
“Those weren’t excuses with the first two.”
“You know what? FINE. If you want sex come on.”
I got on the bed and turned the lights out. (We didn’t usually do this.)
I pulled my sweatpants off, and Timothy entered me. We had very uncomfortable sex for maybe a minute before I started to tear up.
“Baby, stop. I can’t do this.”
Timothy immediately stopped and turned the bedside light on.
“Baby, what’s wrong? What did I do??!
“It’s not you, honey.” I was having a breakdown.
Timothy grabbed me and hugged me. “Baby talk to me.”
Fighting through the tears I said, “I’m sorry, honey… I don’t want to have sex… because I don’t feel comfortable. I’ve gained so much weight, and I’m fat now. I don’t feel like the sexy mother and wife I used to be. And I’m sorry, I shouldn’t be refusing sex from you. But I just haven’t felt comfortable, and I’ve tried so hard to lose the weight, but I still just don’t feel comfortable. I’m sorry honey.” I continued to cry.
“I forgive you honey, and I love you. I love you more now than I ever have. Understand that. Also understand that, to me, you’re just as beautiful now as you were before, and I’ve never not wanted to have sex with you. That’s the only thing you should be worried about—not what other people think and not your own insecurities. You are hot.
“Baby, you don’t have to lie.”
“I’m not lying. Here, get up.”
We both got up as he walked me to the bathroom. Timothy turned a light on and stood behind me.
“Now, look at the mirror. You know what I see?”
“A fat mom,” I said.
“Wrong.” He smacked my ass. “I see the woman I married, sexier than ever.” Timothy turned me around. “Your body is perfect to me.”
“How can you find this perfect???” I gestured at the woman in the mirror, pointing out her thicker thighs and a stomach bigger than it was before.
“Baby, your thighs turn me on. I love those thick thighs. Your thighs and booty have gotten bigger, and I love it—it gives me more to grab. And your stomach is just as beautiful to me. That extra weight and those stretch marks remind me of how you carried my children and gave birth to them.”
I teared up again.
“Baby, I love you. You are just as beautiful to me now as you always have been. You’re my little sexy MILF.”
We both laughed, and I started to realize I was wrong to beat myself up.
My hands roamed Timothy’s naked body as we kissed and hugged in the bathroom. I then grabbed my husband’s soft cock, dropped to my knees, and took the entire thing into my mouth. I began to suck as it grew quickly to its full length. Once his cock reached full size, I sucked on its head and looked up at my husband.
“All the evidence you need that I still find you hot is in your mouth,” he told me.
I stopped sucking his cock and spit on it. Then I started slowly stroking his shaft while licking his balls.
“Oh fuck, Liz, that feels so good.”
I moaned and returned to sucking his cock, pausing to tell him, “Mmmm baby, your cock tastes good. I love sucking you.”
Suddenly, I stopped and stood up. I grabbed Timothy’s hand, pulled him to the bed, and told him to lie down. Then I grabbed the lube and lubed up my big titties which, though larger, were still in great shape. (At the time, even I’d admit this.) I grabbed my boobs and began stroking Timothy’s cock with my boobs.
Timothy began moaning uncontrollably.“Holy fuck, baby, keep doing that.”
“Oh, yeah? You like my big boobs? You like when I stroke your cock with my boobs?”
“Yes, baby… oh god, your so fucking sexy.”
I continued to stroke faster and faster.
“I’m about to cum, baby,” Timothy warned me.
I stopped stroking and rolled over. “I want you to cum on my face, baby.”
Timothy put his massive cock in my face, and I returned to sucking it, pausing at times to use my words to urge him on. “Mmm-hmm, baby…. Oh yeah… Your cock is so big.”
“OH YEAH, BABY… Oh I’m about to cum… I’m gonna cum… Oh, honey…”
I stopped sucking and jerked Timothy off.
“OH FUCK…… I’m CUMMING!” Suddenly, Timothy’s cock unloaded so much that it covered my face and boobs.
“Mmmm, baby, you’re cum tastes good.” I licked Timothy’s cum off his tip and my lips.
Timothy fell over on the bed and pulled my head to his for a kiss. We both missed this so much, and we hadn’t even had intercourse… yet.
“Baby, thank you.”
“No, Timothy. Thank you for loving me unconditionally. I was wrong. I missed your cock, baby. I missed our love.”
After a few minutes of kissing, I asked, “Ready for round two?”
To be continued.
mmmmmm, wow!
I SO remember going through the same experience with my first birth. Jim convinced me I was still hot and I embraced the love and developed even more confidence than ever before. Thanks for this morning's pussy tuneup; I now feel wet and wild!
Jimmy will thank you later …
@CreamyPatty, my wife and I are very impressed and inspired by how you and James have such passion for each other, seems like you can't keep your hands and mouths off each other. We have 3 kids, all under 10, and after reading your stories feel like we could never do some of the things you guys do. But since you mentioned here that you had at least one child, may I ask how you navigate time with having a child/children at home and still being passionate with each other? Are they out of the house at this point and that's why you have more time? Maybe it's too long to answer here; if you feel like it, maybe you could do a post about it. Again you two are setting some high standards. Thank you.
@CreamyPatty I was also surprised (and impressed!) that you have kids and still have such a passionate marriage. Your relationship is definitely something for my husband and I to aspire to!
My wife struggles with confidence in the bedroom but is confident everywhere else. I was lucky as she gave sex through the entire pregnancy with our first born but not our other 2.
Nice story and love the ending. Cumming on your face sounds hot 🔥
I've been trying to convince my wife that her weight gain is of no matter. Will share your story with her. Maybe??
I shared it with my wife… we are in the same situation as you & your wife Drag69.
THP&HSW… I DID share your story with my wife! HP you are a great example to us men. And HSW since you figured it out you also are a good example. Thanks for sharing this beautiful and important story!
Lovely story – enjoying your partners body especially as you grow older together is so sexy- I enjoy cumming on my wife’s body – and occasional on her face like in your story.I find it a huge turn on also for the visual aspect and also a very intimate thing to share – thank you for sexy story !
Great story you two. My wife says you two are among the hottest couples on this site and I agree. We have read your offerings to each other while naked in bed, on our tablets, and you two have helped generate very powerful orgasms. Your love and appreciation is impressive and we love it.
Keep fucking hard and often
I have to second that, FunJames. Both your stories and the horny pastor's stories have added a lot of spice to me and my wife's bedroom lately too.
Nothing wrong with a woman with confidence. What makes my wife so fucking hot is she is shy on the outside but slutty and wild on the inside. Sex and confidence certainly improves w/ age for sure. We went from vanilla sex in our 30s maybe once a week to having the hottest sex life in our 40s. MarriageHeat has definitely added a lot of heat to the bedroom. We've had sex multiple times a day for 3 weeks straight thanks to these stories.
Picklez, our daughter is now 19 and in her second year in college, so for the past 18 months we have had our usual aggressive sex lives in overdrive! We make our time together in the bedroom (and other spontaneous locations 😉 ) a priority. Thanks for your interest!
Hi Patty! Do you talk openly with your daughter about sex, masturbation and so forth? Curious if she has the same high sex drive as her mother? (which I think is awesome, by the way)
Hope to read more hot stories from you!!
This is a great story, and I can definitely relate to the feeling. While I "lost the weight" after giving birth to my youngest, I was left with saggy skin on my stomach that never firmed back up and it has made me feel less than sexy at times. Supportive and loving husbands really are the best antidote.
Hey again Booty!
Yes, my daughter and I have a very strong communication line going with each other and she asks me about relationships and sex quite often. I tend to emphasize the importance of being her own woman and how to best empower herself. She does see from watching Jimmy and I that she can be free with her feelings and affections in a positive manner. Hope you are well, thanks!
TheHornyPastorAndHisSexyWife – we had a similar situation when we were pregnant the last time. We wrote about it last January (Ron and Anne 11.0: Pregnant with Twins). Men need a lot of coaching before they understand why a woman has to see herself as desirable before sex becomes a shared love as opposed to an obligation.
That was so hot and exciting! I feel the same way about my wife and have told her so many times. Married now for 38 years, both of our bodies have obviously changed. But I love her and find her just as hot now as I did on our wedding night. Thanks for sharing!
Many women I know love sucking cock. So do I. I have no hang-ups about it and as my husband knows I was very much into it from a young age. As he respects my wishes, he actually capitalizes on my experience to get full enjoyment.
What a gift to your husband! Cock sucking is a pleasure of the highest order!!