Butts vs. Boobs!!! (L/A)
Some of the responses to this discussion post involve anal play/penetration (A) and may contain strong language. (L)
All the butt guys unite! Boob guys, defend the castle!
Question for all the guys out there …
- Which one are you: butt or boob?
- What are some of the ways this manifests itself in your relationship?
- Is there a specific activity you like more because of your fascination with your wife’s butt or boobs?
Thanks in advance.
Tits all the way man! Unless of course my wife has her ass up and ready doggy style! But then I still love seeing those breasts swinging in a mirror while we are doing it that way!
1. Definitely boobs! I even remember noticing early on in our marriages that her aroused nipples closely resembled ripe raspberries.
2. Many ways. I love how my wife looks in general but her D-cup boobs I find give her a lovely shape when clothed. Her cleavage is very sexy when in a swimsuit. But her bare breasts are the absolute best! Our lovemaking sessions involve extended boob-play. Funny thing is that although she likes to be nipple stimulated a LOT, she likes stimulating MY man-nips just as much. Nowadays in our lovemaking sessions she almost always needs me sucking on or tongue-flicking her titties for her to cum. (She usually goes through a sequence of vibrators while I’m orally living on her breasts n nipples.) On most “off-days” when we don’t have a full sex session often I start by sucking on and manually pinching etc. Melody’s tits to get my motor going. Even just the sight of them starts my engine. Then she or I pump my erection to orgasm as she orally loves on my nipples. (I often use a “Hello Cake” vibrating stroker too. But only while she’s sucking n tonging my nearest nipple.)
3. I kind of already answered this one in question #2. But I’ll add that her orgasms usually come after we’ve stimulated each other’s nipples, had banging sexual intercourse, & then when I’m cleaning her nipples off with my lips & tongue. I say cleaning them off because after my orgasm in her pussy I scoop some of our @protein shake” out and rub it onto her nipples n boobies. Then I “clean” it off! We use AloeCadabra flavored lube either in her pussy along with coconut oil OR smeared directly onto each of her nipples with the “protein.”
Finally, I appreciate this little survey. I’ve sometimes wondered if other married boob-men were…
-as obsessed with their wife’s boobies as much as I’m obsessed with my Melody’s boobies n raspberries… &…
-What percentage of other married couples enjoy manual n oral nipple play as much as Melody n I do.
Hey! You’ve inspired me! I think I’ll make my two questions a survey post!
Thanks! Happy to be of service and I will be looking for your posts!
Definitely a boob guy but more specifically, nipples and areolas.
My wife’s are constantly naturally hard all the time and with her small areolas they always have my attention and she loves to tease me from time to time with them and occasionally send me a picture
Whatever sexual activity we might be doing, regular sex, masturbation oral or whatever, seeing her pull on her nipples and stretch them out always puts me over the edge.
Thanks for the great question, and now my mind is full of images of my wife lol. I’ll have to do something about that
Definitely a boob guy. I cannot snuggle without groping her tits. And I like cowgirl position more because her tits are in my face! 😍
Oh most defiantly it has to be boobs for me. Although my wife as a very inviting heart shaped butt, it’s HARD (no pun intended) to not love her amazing 38dd boobs’!
Her lovely globes’ manifest an arousal for me, clothed or unclothed. And for her they are very sexually sensitive and a source of arousal for her when I feel them up, suck on their nipples.
One of our favorite things to do in relation to her amazing tits’ is for her to put my hard cock between them, push them together, while she sucks on the head of my dick.
She’s been blessed. Thus so have I !
While I love and appreciate both, I’m a butt guy! I show my appreciation by light spanking, trading with my fingers and massages. She loves to grind it against me.
Nice!
I hope ladies can respond too, because I'm about to! I enjoy looking at both (in an appreciative, not sexual way, when it comes to other women). I sometimes wish my breasts were a little bigger, but knowing that some men like small ones encourages me. As to my butt, it looks a lot better after years of exercise, but I'm trying to build it even more. I wonder which my future husband will like better!
Sure! Maybe a better question for gals would be,
Whats are you more attracted to the chest/fitness of a man ir a a good butt on a guy?
Never gave it much thought, regarding my wife as she is a "package deal' and truth be told, sexiness is a state of mind, as much as a physical attribute. While the appearance of a shapely behind, or perky breasts mat attract attention, an attitude of entitlement based on appearance is a fast turn-off for me. I will say it is enticing to watch nipples become erect from attention (or even cold). At my work one day, I a co-worker (who'd recently given birth,& freshly returned to work) become angry with someone. In her anger, her breasts (nipples) become engorged and start leaking on her blouse. I found this strangely erotic despite not being drawn to her in a sexual manner. Just a strange response I noticed & remembered. As I've matured with age, I may appreciate an attractive physical appearance, but the attitude that accompanies matters more than it did in the past.
Tits all the way! Love to look at ‘em!
Everything sits better when it sits on her tits! That includes my face, my mouth, my tongue, my dick, my balls, and loads of my cum!
Fondle ‘em, pull-on her nipples, suck on ‘em, and keep at it till she has a nipplegasm!
YES! TITS!
Slight nod to her boobs but salivate over both. They garner my immediate attention and so responsive to my touch. In almost any position during intercourse I must play with them. The reach around fondle during doggy; the massage during missionary or the reach up nipple squeeze during missionary are some of my favorite positions for play time.
Awesomeness… salivate is a good word hehe
Tits tits tits and more tits. Asses are fun but tits are heaven, and they don’t have to be big!
I like to think that I’m equally appreciative of both and equally turned on by both. Really, it just depends on which way she’s facing. 😉
Which way she is facing lol LOVE IT!
I am a boobs man. My wife has a great set of boobs, which I definitely admire and really enjoy playing with when we make love.
To the OP, nice one! Cool break to delve into such a discussion and interact more than a typical account.
1. Absolutely BUTT!!! I have no rationale or backstory to suggest why I've always found shapely butts so appealing, but have been this way for as long as I can remember.
To be clear, I've got nothing against boobs, but they've never been much of a factor in evaluating attraction. I ended up marrying a wonderful partner with about the smallest breasts I have seen, but I obviously married her for who she is. Generally, breasts don't come as large for Asian women.
2. It started early on in our marriage with light, playful smacks, both of us. Kate would be walking up the stairs in front of me, and I would be drumming on her butt all the way up as she walked, which she got a kick out of and began to mimic on me. She has a fascination with my butt too. She had no prior experience with anything oral before me and, very early in our marriage, she was sucking on my scrotum and getting lower and lower until she began tonguing away at my asshole. We hadn't discussed the matter at all. We've been eagerly eating each other's asses ever since with the utmost intensity. Kate will often massage my prostate while fellating me, and she freely allows me to finger her asshole too, although I might end up having to buy her flowers and cook dinner if I've neglected my fingernails, LOL. Sometimes if I'm struggling a little to get firm and stay hard, we'll use a combination cock ring and prostate massager toy. Once she gets me going again and has the ring in place, she enjoys sliding the plug into me. It's an amazing addition to cowgirl, as she'll send vibrations my way. If I wear it when I fuck her in the ass, it's an amazing sensation of feeling like I'm receiving as I'm giving it to her. I fuck Kate's ass about once or twice a week, not quite as often as we have vaginal sex. With that said, there have been occasions around Father's Day or my birthday where I've fucked her butt multiple times in a day.
3. I don't know that there is anything to add to the above question. For us, the buttocks and rectum is just as much a part of lovemaking as our genitals. We wouldn't have it any other way.
I’m with you all the way, Alan. Our butts are there for our pleasure.
Nice Alan Adventurous! I have a feeling we think alike in many ways lol
Alan this is totally hot! I was always a tits man but have grown to be an ass man the last year or two. We went from me eating her ass after I ate her pussy to fingering her ass to playing with plugs and toys to recently full penetration …out sex life has gone into overdrive ever since we have added anal fun. It gets her super hot that it turns me on so much that it turns her on just as much .
She recently went to recently wearing strictly thongs and earrings and I love it.
Just like you I fuck my wife in the ass about once a week.
I also need to thank you for the vibrating ring advice Alan …we read this early this afternoon, and i went out and got a vibrating cock ring and tried it tonight back there and wowwwwww.
That sounds pretty great AA. I think it’s safe to say you guys are far more freely anal than the average couple. And the fact that it happened so naturally makes it even better. So…two thumbs up from me! 😉
Boobs! I love my Anne’s breasts and her erect nipples. It’s always a double invitation – her nipples' wonton desire and her verbal request – to nestle in and suckle her intimately. Often, she edges to a nipple orgasm as I edge to my own O before we both climax to our mutual, ecstatic Os!!
While I love my wife’s tits and her ever-erect nipples…
1. I’m an ass man.
2. I’m constantly copping a playful feel or grabbing her hips while I graze my crotch across it when I need to get past her somewhere.
3. I’ve always been fascinated with what was between her cheeks. Love massaging her so that I can spread her and catch a glimpse of her puckered hole. I believe adult film stars would pay millions to have her perfect back door. If I could take a picture of it, I would look at it all day. You better believe I take advantage of any and all opportunities I get to put my mouth on it.
So I am most definitely a butt guy…in fact i feel pretty neutral about breasts lol… I play with my wifes's breasts more for her enjoyment than my own.
There is something beautiful about the butt… it draws me like a moth to a light bulb! She has a very fine and fit figure, but her "badonkadonk" is stands out to me by a mile! We have enjoyed anal sex occasionally, but honestly, the sexual attraction is more for holding and groping it than penetration.
Looks like a strong showing for the "Tits team" lol!!!!
Welcome to the Butt Team!
I love my wife's everything. I love her small boobs because she has such sensitive nipples. Kissing them make her gasp for air and demand that I do it some more.I love running my hands all over her sweet ass cheeks. I love kissing her all over body and recently I've really enjoyed eating her ass when she's fresh out of the shower.
Mmmmmmm
I've told women before, it dosen't matter as much as how good a wife you are. I'm not into blondes, but I'd go, "She's so good to me, and for me, that's my blonde." Boob man myself, but I'd like HER boobs, however big, because they're a part of her—even if that sounds cheesy.
Butts it is! Tits are nice and my wife loves nipple play, however, most of the pleasure palaces are in the hip area. My wife has the most perfect, round butt I've ever seen and she loves to have it caressed. She thinks it's to big, (it's not) I think it's perfect! We generally shower at the same time, she first, then me. I always look forward to opening the shower door and oggling her butt as she leans over the vanity doing whatever it is she does. I guess I'm too distracted to know what it is. I keep telling her her legs go all the way to heaven. Butts are the bomb.
Butt or boob? Boob
What are some of the ways this manifests itself in your relationship? She goes around the house in a t-shirt, without a bra, from directly after supper til she has to put one on before work the next day. Been this way all our marriage, kids home or not. Plus, sleep pants always. /// I grab her breasts in the car, a lot. ///
Is there a specific activity you like more because of your fascination with your wife’s boobs? /// Everything. Her boobs make it all more fascinating. Church, store, home, all of it.
This is a very fun discussion. It sure looks like the majority will fall into the boob category. That being said I will have to put my vote in the butt column. For me it is that visual when my wife bends over and I am able to see her pretty little pussy looking back at me. It’s like the Lord knew the perfect position and angle to place His creation. My wife knows that when she bends over in any way, she will get my attention. Of course I want to give a couple of my favorite examples. Our shower is big enough for both of us, and we love to wash each other. At some point, my bride will drop the soap and need to bend over and pick it up. This is her way of telling me that she wants my cock to slide down her butt crack. We both love it when my cock slides down her slippery crack and into the folds of that wet pussy. She is okay if my cock bumps into her butt hole a little bit, but that is not necessarily our objective. This playing can very easily cause me to cum in her pussy folds, and it can also be great foreplay. This position may be fun, but if you take this position to the bed, it becomes spooning. The same action is taking place, but we are both lying comfortably, and I am able to caress her body. We will normally place my erection between her legs, and as time goes on, our combined leaking allows for some great sliding action. We love to tease ourselves until we are both ready to explode, and that is when she will tell me that she needs me in her pussy. Even in this position, I visualize in my mind that bent over image. It’s a beautiful thing.
As much as I love her butt, I would be remiss if I didn’t express my love for my wife’s breasts. I love to caress them while in the spooning position, for one. I also love to gently squeeze them together and suck on both nipples at the same time. Although, one of our favorites by far is when she asks me to place my erection between her two soft pillows. She will play with my balls and caress my cock with her breasts, and in no time, I have leaked enough to allow for friction-free passage through her cleavage. She loves to watch as my cock enters the bottom, and as I squeeze my butt cheeks, she is able to see it come out the top. This process always ends in a very explosive way.
I am sure I could continue, but this has gotten long enough.
I may be late to this post, but I am an ass man.
I love to look at her naked butt. Rub it, pinch it, and spank it.
My wife and I sleep naked, and I love cuddle up behind her and fall asleep with my dick between her butt cheeks and my hand on one of her boobs.
I thought I'd commented here already, but it looks like I forgot to. I'm throwing in another vote for Team Butts! At my current count of clear votes in the comments, that seems to put the score at about 12-8 in favor of Team Boobs. It was looking like way more of a landslide in favor of Team Boobs at first, but Team Butts has regained some ground. Maybe they'll… come from behind? 😉
I think all parts of the female form were created mind-bogglingly beautiful and intensely attractive, but there's something I find extra special about the female posterior. When I fantasize about times of intimacy with my future wife, thinking about loving on her breasts definitely turns me on… but thinking about kissing and caressing her butt takes me to another level and drives me absolutely wild!
I make an effort to keep my thoughts appropriate toward the women around me, and I find it's butts that more frequently and powerfully challenge the appropriateness of those thoughts. Although boobs offer their fair share of challenges too!
Come from behind!
Lol thats hilarious
Definitely a boob guy. Just love sucking on them, playing with them and seeing them when she rides me or I pound her from above. "May her breasts satisfy thee always."
I know you said this was a guy question. But I have to answer. I have both big tits and a big ass.
While i appreciate boobs i really get excited over butts. But boobs are a close 3rd
On small breasts, I wrote this as part of another story:
Michelle asked what she should do. She had been wearing a padded bra as with her A-cups, complaining that God had not been generous to her. First, we explained that as an A or a D, one is not more generous than the other. God's generosity is in giving our bodies including our sexuality, not in the size he gives us. So we helped her with her wardrobe. We are pleased to honestly say that Michelle has not worn a bra to church for at least a month and all her tops have been snug across her breasts revealing their beautiful shape. Yes, her breasts are small, but her natural treasures are more visible, especially her nipples. During our services, she wears a shawl or jacket over the top, but afterwards, she removes them. Michelle said she feels more feminine and she looks it too. One bonus of being more feminine is a boost to her libido, she has been masturbating herself more often. Especially on Sundays after her morning fast and our worship.
Similar advice could be given to a woman regarding her butt. Even if it's small, a figure hugging skirt or slacks could emphasize what she dies have. The dress or skirt could also, or alternatively, be partly sheer. She could wear full coverage panties or a thong.
As I said above, I love tits, but not just any tits, I love small tits with cute little areoles and tiny nipples, I have viewed large ones on line and they just don’t cut it for me, too blatant. Cute little one drive me crazy. Asses on the other hand, the more the merrier. My wife fit both.
I happen to be a guy whose brain was wired for her DD boobs.As for butts I like potatoes with my meat if you get my drift.
I appreciate both Butts and Boobs but I am Butt guy.
Very grateful here for discovering MH community.
I'm a butt man, so says my wife.
As a woman who appreciates women as well as men my husband and I often have discussions about what we might find attractive on others.
Although I have a 40 D cup my behind doesn't have the roundness that many other women have and I do very much have an enjoyment for women with a delectable derriere.
I will often point out women who I find in attraction to to my husband and explain to him what it is that I find attractive about her. I also do enjoy a man with a nice butt.
Having been to a few nude beaches where nothing is left to the imagination we've had the pleasures of seeing pretty much everything.
And I have to say that my preference is more for a woman with an A, B or c cup because I just think it's so cute and perky. And when she's got a beautiful butt as well it definitely has me admiring.
Lady L. 💋
I'm definitely a butt man. But I do love Jeanie's B cup titties. Jeanie has a big round ass. And it still turns me on even as we get older. I have a thing for visible thong or panty lines. She will tease me by bending over and letting me see what she has on under her leggings. Then I give her a love spank lol.
We love doggy style and like a lot of others we have mirrors strategically placed in our bedroom. We can see her ass and tits jiggle and swing as I pound her pussy. I spank her sexy ass too. I'll finger her tight asshole too if we haven't put her anal beads in.
I would love to see you guys submit a story about one of those sexy escapades 😉