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Hi MH fellowship,

I was feeling pangs of guilt for listening to soft audio erotica last week, and it was worrying me somewhat. I am on fire for Jesus and don’t want to engage in anything sinful. I only gave it a try because my libido had been flagging with all the changes going on in my life of late. At 55, my appetite is not what it used to be, even though the HRT helps a lot.
My husband always says he finds me so sexy, even though we’ve been together for close to three decades, and he is always hungry for me. I’m not surprised. I take good care of myself, and years of gymming and being active have kept my body in good shape. I am very comfortable in my skin.
I love what he does to me, but I struggle sometimes to get my mind “there.” Know what I mean? Once we get going, I normally can’t get enough. The trick is to get going, haha!
The audio erotica really “worked,” but the cussing grossed me out, particularly the f “bombs,” so I duly went on the internet looking for some advice,  and low and behold, I found www.marriageheat.com Hallelujah, I’m in love!
I feel so elated that I sent my hubby a WhatsApp message to let him know. He is away on overnight business but will be back in the morning. It looks like I found a solution, and truth be known, I’m mind-blown that something like this exists. Genius! The least I could do was put pen to paper and share.
So I find myself “hungrily” clicking through the categories, and in Stories, a photograph of a woman holding a vibrator catches my eye. Now, why doesn’t that surprise me? Hee hee. The story is called “It’s getting better.” About halfway through, I feel myself getting very turned on.
The way she describes her emotions and her sensations, without profanity, so tastefully takes me to a yummy, dreamy place in my mind and has me yearning for the same experience. I feel my body tensing with anticipation, my pussy sort of suddenly tightly contracted and pulsing.  I am so engrossed in her experience, which I can relate to, I find myself speed-reading to the end and getting hornier and hornier.
I want to play, and I want to cum so badly. I do have some toys, but it just wouldn’t feel right. When I had given in before and told my husband afterward when he was out of town, he was ok with it, but these days, I never want to cum without him. I want to share absolutely everything with my hubby, my best friend.
My orgasms will need to wait.
So, to distract myself, I am sharing my / our story on the website. I hope you have enjoyed it. We are so glad to be here with all of you!
Sex really is the most beautiful God-given gift that solidifies a married couple’s union. We have not been perfect angels in the past, and we have sinned in our marriage, but as we have turned our backs on sin, our relationship with God strengthens and grows, as does our relationship with each other. God is at the center of our marriage, and we are becoming more and more spiritually bonded. What a beautiful thing!
I’m signing off for now, but I hope to share more stories in the future. Thank you for reading.

Yours truly,

SexyHorneyObedientWife

Poll Question: How do you take responsibility for getting in the mood and enhancing intimacy with your spouse? (Give Your Top Four Answers)

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22 replies
  1. Tulsa says:

    We are a hi-drive couple, so it takes little to get either of us in the mood! One of us may just reach out and grab something, or, we may flash something of our own!
    I remember one time, all I did was stick my tongue out at my wife, and she started taking off her clothes. I asked her what she was doing, and she said that sticking out my tongue looked like an great offer for some clit licking to her!
    I guess we are easy, because I can think of many little things like that, which have started something!

  2. NorthCoast says:

    My wife and I have been together 16 years (we share this account).She ignites my desires to this day. Even though our sex has always been amazing, we have had to take a more active and thoughtful rolls in our sex life in the last few months. We came across this website in the same fashion.
    Often times when I have some free time at work, I will read storys here and text her a link to the one that is turning me on that day, or that I think will turn her on. We flirt and tease eachother from a distance to near insanity. When I get home I'm ready to skip dinner and go straight to dessert (if you know what I mean). I think the combination of reading here and then telling her how aroused I am, and hearing her describe all the ways she wants to please me, or be pleased by me builds the tension in an amazing way.

    • SexyHorneyObedientWife says:

      I love that. Thank you. Those are great idea's. Sadly our sex life has not always been amazing. There have been times of group sex (swinging), deceit, and addiction. We have been through so much but by God's grace we are still together. These days we have less complications, etc but the adversary still prowls like a hungry lion. We stay steadfast and strong in our love for each other, and our almighty God.

      I have come to realise in the last few years, there is a huge difference between sex and making love. Making love in a sober mind and really being in the moment, with your loved one giving and receiving complete attention and pleasure is a true gift!

      I look forward to sharing the links and stories with my hubby too 🙂

      Thank.you for sharing and engaging xxx

  3. Longingforeden says:

    My wife is very open to the idea of sex toys for me. She likes to shop and buy different toys for me. It’s a turn on for me when we shop together for male pleasure sex toys. Owning and using sex toys takes some of the pressure off of her to provide all the stimulation I need as she is not able to do very many sex positions because of sciatic pain the last couple of years.

    Another thing for me is to watch or listen to erotica, I have made some of my own solo sex videos but more often I try to find videos of loving married couple sex or sex instruction. I wish we could watch that together because that would be an awesome turn on for me but my wife is completely turned off by that.

    Another thing that’s works for me is just being naked around the house or if I’m lucky, finding a place to swim and lounge naked. I’m really working on helping my wife feel better naked, and when she does, (so rarely) get naked, that about doubles the turn on. Sleeping naked is the norm for me but not for her but if she does that is wonderful for the libido as well.

    • SexyHorneyObedientWife says:

      Mmm yummy! Naked sleeping is the BEST. Our adult children are still at home so we can't walk around naked.

      Our naked swims and tanning normally happen when they are not around, which is not too often. I guess there is a time and season for everything

      I would LOVE to find vids of married couples having loving fun together. So long as there is nothing degrading or smutty, I am all for it. In fact being more visually stimulated, I would prefer that.

      That is so great that as a couple you are finding ways to keep your intimacy alive, despite the pain she experiences with her sciatica. From what I've heard sciatica can be quite debilitating. I will pray for your wife that she will get healing and relief. Bless her for not being selfish, and satisfying you however she can.

      I find the idea of guy toys quite a turn on. We did try one many years ago, thinking of it now, so outdated considering what you get now, but I think truth be known he is just more than happy for me to be his TOY, hee hee.

      Thank you for sharing and engaging xox

    • SexyHorneyObedientWife says:

      Hope you feel better soon. We live in crazy times and self care is more important than ever. Maybe some Melatonin or Valerian to assist with sleeping? Strongs to you.

  4. KingdomMan says:

    Welcome to MH! Thanks for sharing a little bit about yourself and for creating an interesting poll.
    I think you have definitely found the right place for inspiration. This is a welcoming and respectful community, and I hope you’ll continue to share.

  5. Rab Keth says:

    My wife and I are passionate about each other, however we do not have sex as some regularly as some seem to. Three days a week? We are lucky if it’s nice a month. Partly it is because she is stressed with work or parenting a teenager (we are actively looking forward to empty nesting in 5 years), partly because of things in her past, and partly because she “Just doesn’t think about it,” but is glad to be reminded when I go from “Would be nice” to “existential NEED”.
    I am blessed in the fact that when we do have sex it is SO extremely hot that it fuels my personal fantasies until our next intimacy. After 24 years I can honestly say that I have no need to go looking at steamy inappropriate videos online. She is my only “adult entertainment star” in my head.
    Back to the purpose of writing…my “other” in the poll, is reminding her of our sexy times. Many nights I’ll be laying next to her and she’ll ask what I’m thinking about once she notices that I’m stroking myself. Without fail, once I start listing off memories she goes from “meh, could take it or leave it” to pinning me and claiming me with her cunt.
    “Oh, not much. I was remembering the time we pulled off the side of the road in broad daylight…that one time in the pouring rain when the rain was pouring off your nipples in a stream and I drank…and now I’m thinking of the time I tied you down with your bathrobe tie. So crazy that I fulfilled that fantasy for you before we were married. Honestly, I sometimes have no idea how we did so much before marriage but we’re still virgins on our weeding night. I’ll just blame Gods protection. Oh! And then there’s the six times we made love at the hippy dippy nude hot springs in one day in Colorado. We should really go back there…”
    Of course I get more intimately detailed, but and some point she will climb astride my naked body, tell me to shut up in between aching panting breaths, place her tongue in my mouth, and grind her hips until she slips me inside her.
    There are hundreds more memories…

    • SexyHorneyObedientWife says:

      Mmmmm….so much to be said for memories, and quality over quantity.

      Our appetites wax and wane. Life happens with highs and lows. The only constant is God, he never changes and loves us unconditionally.

      As I reflect on the comments I read this morning, the one thing that stands out for me is unity. As long as we keep our eyes on Jesus, our marriages will stay strong.

      Mmmm, I'm REALLY liking the idea of a hot springs holiday. Takes me back in time.

      The heat, the bubbles, the jet of water on my clit as my husband took me from behind, slipping his long delicious penis inside of me and seconds later I'm exploding and convulsing with the hugest, most delicious orgasm that rips through me.

      Sexy memories, oh boy. YES, I have SO many of those.

      Thank you for sharing some of yours, and reminding me about one of mine.

      Right Google, let's see if that hot spring resort are still in business, so we can get a booking *naughty grin*

    • Rab Keth says:

      We have been there many times and I can assure you they are still in business. :). And you are right…unity is so important and developed and grown into over time deeper and deeper through every orgasm as well as every mundane or tragic day. When you are sure as a couple that you are aiming at oneness…then you are able to know and be known by your spouse.
      Someday I'll tell the story of how we developed "Mermaid Style" as a position at the Hot Springs. 😉

  6. Britbloke says:

    Thanks for the post 'SHOW'
    (The Acronym works pretty well btw!)
    As others have said, welcome here! Always great to hear a woman talking about their turn on's, stories and fantasies.
    It's a great question.
    Sometimes we naturally turn each other on, and it leads easily to sex but most times we have to work on it. We have great exciting sex, usually once, maybe twice a week, usually at the weekends. (More on holiday 😄)
    I don't have an 'always on' drive like some guys here (although I think about sex quite often). I wish my drive was higher, but after sex, my arousal drops for a couple of days or so and I build back up to it. My wife might well choose to have it more often than me, given the chance, but we both enjoy the level we have. Quickies are rare, we prefer to feast than snack!
    I love her dominant, but it's usually me that initiates, and takes the lead.
    We both are totally happy with the other masturbating either together or alone. We love to watch each other. It gets her wet staring at my hand going up and down! The idea of her at home in bed with a toy right now, going all the way to orgasm, is getting me hard at the thought. If you like him doing it, tell him. Give him permission. It's totally normal and if you share it with each other, that is a great thing. I suspect most, if not all, men here would love to get a text at work saying "I'm buzzing my wet pussy right now". That's a prequel to sex right there!
    So I'm thinking of our top five ways of initiating sex.
    In no particular order;
    1. Sexting. "If I find you in bed when I get home, I won't be responsible for the consequences…. "Feeling horny..just saying" …. "Love the way you pressed my face into your cleavage this morning, 😜"
    2. We are a quite touchy feely kind of couple, we always hold hands out and about, easy about public shows of affection, I will touch her body\ass\breasts in the kitchen often, this is an everyday thing but it can ramp up to more heat, resulting in "shall we take this upstairs?"
    3. Pre planned. We talk about it, decide a time, "Saturday afternoon, when I get back from xxxxx, let's have sex. We independently think about it, expectation can get you all hot and horny. This was more common before we were empty nesters, planning times when the kids were out, always good.
    4. I start massaging her body. I do try and keep it 'clean' as long as I can but it gets more naughty the longer I take.
    5. The direct approach. On Sunday, we were sitting in the garden, drinking something alcoholic, chatting innocently. I suddenly lean forward and whisper "you wanna go fuck?" She wasn't ready before I said that, it was out of the blue. She takes a little while to build up, sometimes the massage above is the best route, or in this case I just take her hand, pull her to the bedroom, we wordlessly strip, she goes to freshen up, I've already showered, I push her onto the bed and move my cock near her face "suck it" I say, she loves it, wants it, takes me in her mouth. It gets her juicy. If there's one thing I love more than anything else, it's going down on her to lick a honeyed pussy. I take her, twice, to orgasm with my mouth before taking her from behind. It's all very hot and frantic and we love it!

  7. SilverGold says:

    Thanks for sharing your story and the poll. Sexual unity as sole and soul mates is so God intended. Sounds like that’s so true in your marriage!

    We are in our 6th decade of a great marriage – deeply in love and lots of love making and sex! Our libidos have waned, yet we enjoy sexual innuendo and lots of flirting and touching and cuddling. It’s not always about the O, but we sure love to cum!!

    There are lots of ways to have and enjoy sexual intimacy. Spending time on her breasts – we both love the nurturing intimacy of me suckling her. Mutual masturbation – side by side and watching and listening to each other deep in our own rapture really turns us on as we cum.

    We’ve also agreed to never let a horny moment pass and encourage each other to get and be horny – MH is a great way to be inspired! As we’ve aged, it’s important for us that we do enjoy the O. It’s not unusual for my dear Anne to notice that I’m horny and if she’s not in the mood, she’ll invite me to masturbate for her and me.

    So many of your poll questions work for us!!

  8. LovelyLonelyLady says:

    Welcome to MH! I just pulled up the site for my daily dose of sexy reading and saw your story. And how honored I am because I'm the one who wrote the post that got you all worked up! So happy that I could inspire some arousal on your end and get you ready for your husband's return! I love this site and have been so blest by every person on here. I hope you enjoy it!

    • LonelyManofSteel says:

      I think ALL your posts inspire arousal. Lol. At least for me they do!!🤣🔥🔥🔥

  9. ParkerJen says:

    I hesitate to say I’m visually stimulated so much as I’m just easily stimulated, hehe! But visual erotic signals do have a big impact on me… if I’m watching outlander or love island or if I’m scrolling instagram and see a delicious model or fitness influencer or scrolling X/twitter and see something NSFW, I get FERAL in all caps… hehe! My husband knows sometimes I’ll just randomly need him to hang up his zoom work call bc if he doesn’t, I’m crawling under the desk for a taste!
    I’m also “suffer” (if you can call it that… I don’t!) from sympathetic arousal… it’s a gift and a curse but I’d say it’s a gift more often than a curse hehe.

  10. Realman says:

    Occasionally my wife takes herself to orgasm when we're apart. It does not lessen my desire for her, especially when she describes it to me. I encourage you to ask/ tell your hubby that you want to A. bring yourself to orgasm. B. Tell him all about it. C. Ravish him later

  11. Salcpl says:

    Can someone post the name of the resort in Colorado? Date nights always get us ready for hot steamy sex. We have a Friday night ritual of some alcoholic drinks, a movie and then playtime. This is every Friday, and as the week progresses we both get hirny in anticipation of what’s to come. Saturday is usually a repeat of Friday. We also cook some good meals on those nights. Of course, anytime we are out of town we tend to be horny. Erotic audio really gets me going, and my wife. We haven’t done that recently, because good quality audio is hard to find. I’d love to hear of places others have found audio or good quality monogamous movies between couples.

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