Female Bush or Bush-free?
This question or questions go out to the wives of MH.
My wife and I are from the “old school” generation, and were married in the late “70s”. This was a time when ladies were “au naturel” when it came to the pubic region, and wore a full bush down there. Over many years of marriage, my wife still maintains that bushy area, though somewhat trimmed. I find this to be very sexy. There’s nothing like sliding my hand down her panties and feeling and running my fingers though that tuft of bush. Hence my curiosity and questions:
- How many of you ladies keep a full thick bush, or partially trimmed pubic area?
- How many of you have gone the way of complete hairless/smoothness?
- How many of you prefer your man to be “manscaped” versus having a full growth of pubic hair?
Thanks in advance.
This was decided very early in our marriage. We believe completely in Corinthians "A wife does not have authority over her own body, but rather her husband, and similarly a husband does not have authority over his own body, but rather his wife."
She came out of the bathroom one night, naked. That immediately got my attention, and still does.
"How do you want me?" pointing to her vagina. I smiled and stood up, she grinned "guess I need to clarify that last question."
"Bald, trimmed, wild and wooley?" I like a woman to look like a woman, "trimmed". She nodded, then pointed at me "same with Marshall Dillon. I don't want to use a weed wacker to get to my lunch."
Over 40 years later, we still trim each other as needed.
I love that woman.
That’s sexy and sweet standerson. Y’all are truly blessed.
Standerson, I love this, made me laugh!
She likes me as I am, I would prefer totally smooth although neither of us like the prickly stubble that follows 2 or 3 days later. Not comfortable. So we have settled on neatly trimmed. I don't like long hairs in my mouth , but quite happy with short and soft.
Sorry sheisthebest60 to be the second man to answer your ladies only question!
Thanks for the assurance that there are others who have long lasting marriages and who still keep the intimate connections alive. We’ve been married over 50 years and our practice has evolved over those years. Early on, I pretty much stayed hairy, with my wife trimming me as needed. Then I had a medical procedure done that required me to be partially shaved smooth. Afterwards my wife commented how much she liked the smoothness and asked me to shave the rest and I’ve been keeping myself smooth now for over 45 years. Just shave every time I shower and she has me the way she deserves as it’s hers to enjoy.
As far as for her, I started trimming her early on. But her public hair is very thin and so, I started shaving her clean too, about the same time she said she wanted me shaved. We have developed a habit of me shaving her two or three times a week and enjoying oral love making and we both win. She receives my oral love making to her silky smooth love garden, and I have the joy of inhaling her wonderful aroma and tasting the sweet nectar that I so love.
A smooth connection is our practice and we love it.
We both love the completely shaven look and feel for her. Over the years, we gone through phases, though. She dislikes the itchy stage, so more often she is wonderfully au naturel and neatly trimmed. Such a sexy pussy!!
Sanderson; It's quite alright. Getting a perspective from both sexes is great!
I like my Hubby to trim his pubic hair and he’s always done it. I get sugaring every couple of weeks and prefer a little triangle left. Once I experienced him going down on me the day after sugaring, there was no going back for me. Having a smooth vulva heightens my senses and feeling Hubby’s tongue with every inch of my skin feels amazing.
Most of the time, we both let it be, and remain natural. Easy maintenance when there is no maintenance to do!
Every now and then, she will trim, or shave, including shaving the whole bush! It’s just something to do that’s different now and then, for a surprise, and it always gets my attention!
I have trimmed and shaved a few times, again, just for something different, but it’s been a while. She likes me hairy, so I just let it be!
My husband Ben loves for me to have a full bush and for most of our marriage it has been that way. He says that he prefers that a woman be all natural. However, he came to me one evening and asked what I thought about shaving my bush and going bald down there. He then said that he would do it too if I wanted him too. I was stunned by his suggestion, but also a bit turned on. So, we did and are now both completely bald. We had sex afterwards and it was awesome!. I don't know how long we both will remain clean shaven. But right now we are both enjoying it.
This is Chris' wife (I don't have a profile). I keep a full bush most of the time, but I do like to surprise my husband by fully shaving my vagina. I usually whisper something like "I shaved today, but you have to wait till we get home to play with it". I also like my husband trimmed, but not fully bald.
Bush for sure. My wife and I married in 1992 (and were virgins). Just love her scent and the hair keeps it in. What's not to like about that? I am not a fan of body shaving (male or female – with the legs and armpits being my exception for the ladies). I want to look like a man and not a prepubescent boy and my wife to look like a woman and not a prepubescent girl.
Thank you all for your responses' to my little survey. I enjoyed reading the result!
We both prefer silky smooth. She gets laser and I shave but hope to laser down the road
How well does laser work? I am looking into it because I can't stand my armpit, leg, and pubic hair, but shaving doesn't last.
Bald pussy is awesome and also like the little landing strip. Not that my wife let's me lick her pussy. She is not that hairy so it's not a real concern that she doesn't wax/shave often.
I always trim but leave a little bit of hair. Every now and then I will shave completely bald.
We have been married almost 40 years. My wife trimmed short even before it was a trend. I started trimming 30 years ago. But wife let hers grow out last year, and I loved the feel of her hair! Feels nice. First time I ever saw her "wild and wooly" and it was nice. But, she doesn't like it like that and trimmed it back and then back to shaven. She has mostly shaven clean the past 20 years.
Me, I am shaven clean, no pubic hair at all. I get hot with it, lol.
Kate doesn't post here, although she enjoys reading my explicit descriptions of our awesome love life. Answering on her behalf, she has always gone totally clean shaven. She thinks having pubic hair is dirty and would lead to odor. Now, I don't agree at all on those latter concerns. Given that we enjoy golden showers on occasion and even drinking some of each other's love lemonade (not everyone's cup of tea–or rather pee–admittedly, and that's more than understandable, as we're on the more extreme fringe in most things), the thought of a little dried urine residue on hair wouldn't be a turn-off, but if anything, a turn-on. So, no hygiene concerns from my point of view, but I do like the appearance of her shaved pussy. That's probably because it's what I most accustomed to. Had I grown up 20-30 years earlier, I'd probably view it differently. That said, she spent most of her life in the Philippines, so it wasn't an American culture thing. Personally, I enjoy not having to navigate hair and be hyper focused on her lovely clam and lapping up every bit of its sweet juices. In any event, had she been one that preferred to go "natural", it wouldn't really matter at all to me.
As for me, I've always enjoyed trimming and keep my hair short and manageable, which Kate likes. One of our couple friend that we are sort of mentoring as they prep to explore anal sex in their marriage, told us that HE goes to considerable measures to be clean-shaven. So, one time I tried, thinking it might be something Kate would enjoy. The juice just wasn't worth the squeeze. Whereas it was relatively easy for me to help Kate shave her pussy when she had her large preggo belly years ago, it's much more to navigate for us males. We gave up on the idea really quick. It was foolish anyway. Kate never complains about my ass hair when passionately rimming me, so not sure what I was expecting to gain.
I used to prefer just being trimmed, but then I started shaving and noticed how much more sensation I got, so now I love being smooth. I sometimes experiment with a landing strip or leaving hair above my slit, but I don't care for hairy labia anymore. It really dulls all feeling for me.
I'd like my future husband to be completely hairless down there too, so I can see his full meaty package without any hindrance!
I wouldn't do laser. Styles change, and who knows what your future husband will prefer. And my wife's full natural bush smells SO GOOD.
I am all natural, and it doesn't hide my package at all 🙂.
My wife and I try to keep a trimmed area, but if we let it go a little too “long” it doesn’t stop us from some awesome lovin’!
It’s been a while since I ever sported a full bush. Ever since I started shaving down there I have just kept doing it. My husband enjoys it bare and smooth and I do too! Although hearing some of your lovely descriptions of your hair almost makes me wonder if I should grow one out again. What I like about shaving is the increased sensations I feel when I’m completely shaven. I find it easier to see and access my lady bits for both me and him, and I can feel everything clearer. sometimes have a trimmed look rather than shaven when I haven’t shaven in a while, but it hasn’t grown out to a full bush ever since I first shaved
Full bush all the way. Hubby loves how it looks, particularly through semi-sheer knickers I like wearing. He loves looking up my skirt and seeing my bush through my knickers especially when there is a wet patch on the crotch of my knickers.
And running his fingers through my hair, and he likes seeing me running my own fingers through my hair.
Bush all the way.
PS, regular readers will know my children are grown up – all prefer bush as well.
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As a 74 year old man, I also prefer a full wild bush – so much more inviting and makes a women look very mature !
I love this topic! Female beauty and preferences are so diverse, and varied.
My first sight of a female's garden was a natural bush. I have never found it unattractive, in fact, just the opposite. But as I've grown in acceptance of my sexuality and varied tastes, I've also come to appreciate a smooth look too. And so I've come to a point where I really appreciate how a female friend of mine handled this particular topic.
Her approach was "seasonal" to enjoy her look in all the ways her body is capable of. So in winter, she'd rock a full and soft bush, then as spring approached trim, and in the warmth of summer bikini season, was 100% smooth. Then growing it back in for fall and into winter. That way, she got varied looks, and varying sensations when she'd play with her pussy. I think even if my partner shaved regularly I'd be curious to see her natural at least once.
As for myself, in part inspired by some of the posts here, I recently tried shaving fully. The hair doesn't grow back as fast as it used to, but still leaves a trim patch up top, while I maintain the shaft and balls as smooth as can be. I enjoy the feeling, how it makes my size more prominent, and seeing my large, frequently seed-filled balls swing freely, being able to see every inch and texture of my manhood. Invariably, after shaving, I'll have to spend some quality time masturbating.
I am 55, so old-school, but my first experience with a lady 37 years ago was full all natural bush. I have no complaints with a full bush. I have been married twice so I have experienced shaved, trimmed and full. I prefer full bush as I don’t like the shaved appearance. It is all a matter of preference I guess.
I was married in the ‘70’s. But one evening during dinner out, I whispered that I had a surprise for him. I told him that I was “bare under there!” No undies, no hair! He couldn’t wait to get home! I’ve never gone back to bush and now wax every month. Sensations are awesome. He loves it and trims.
That’s interesting that you shaved in the 70s already. I would have shaved my bush already in high school but no one did it back then and I would have stood out like a sore thumb…or pussy hahaha🤪 Did any other women see you back then and comment? Like you, once I shaved it all off, I never went back to bush. LOVE being bald!
My wife has been fully bare since before we even dated. I love her that way. To me it looks great all the time and makes eating her out wonderful. She has even talked me into waxing a few times. It feels great just being smooth in general.
Hubby and are both smooth. We both love being bald and love the look and feel on ourselves and on each other😍.
We tried both. The choice runs with both partners. My wife likes to be bush free so most of the time she’s clean shaven. However when our sex levels rises I ask her to grow. She is happy to do so and I love the bushy feeling. It produces a different kind of sexual appetite is very lady like and sucking is especially sweet after semen has embedded itself in her wild area. Bushfree is a little easier especially for creampies and clear oral sex. Both are equally acceptable
I'm an unmarried man, and I've only been in one past relationship. She usually didn't bother shaving her genitals, mostly because she didn't like masturbating in front of me. She also knew I had reservations on giving her oral sex, so if we ever made the rare attempt she'd shave herself clean and buy some flavored lube.
I thought I'd commented on this post but perhaps not! I'm with you there, the concept of going down on my future wife if she has a full bush is a bit off-putting, because I can imagine it would feel like flossing, and also just imagine if I inadvertently pulled out a few hairs with my teeth! Trimmed is probably an acceptable middle ground.
Wife is 100% au naturel. I rarely get a hair in my mouth, and never in my teeth. I think getting hair in your teeth is a myth.
Wow! Great discussion. I really hadn't thought to much about this and what a man would like. Thanks everyone for being so open. Personally, I trim so that everything is neat and tidy, especially during swim suit seasons. Hadn't really thought about sensitivity but that makes sense.
Currently smooth and I think women are sexier bald. I equate it to shaving under arms and legs.
I don’t like manscaped men. Unless they are super hairy.
My pubic hair due to being blonde and sparse was never very appealing. So I have shaved for years.
That being said, I have over the years seen women who have thick plush mounds and have always found that to be very sexy. Especially when they have very apparent labia and clitoris. I've always been open about my sexual attraction to other women and that definitely sticks in my mind especially when I know her.
M. Had shaved for years and I think its sexy watching him swinging as he walks or going down on him, licking, sucking and fondling him is more fun and very seductive.
I happen to like what I call "The Frame". It is the opposite of a "landing strip".
The woman should remain bushy, but trim back the area immediately around the opening of her pussy. This reduces friction during sex. (Because my dick is thick, I used to get "friction burns" on the sides of my dick from the hairs of my first wife's pussy. OUCH.)
Although the "safety" aspect is important, I still enjoy the look of a full bush. By using the "frame" technique, it enhances the view of the immediate opening, while still providing the "aesthetic" view of the bush. I liken it to putting a fancy frame around a classical painting.
Another advantage of The Frame is that it helps prevent pussy hairs from getting stuck between my teeth or going down my throat.
There is actually a little "Micro Trimmer" available. It was designed for a moustache, but works well around the pussy. Near-ZERO chance of a painful experience, and yet with a good quality trim.