Just Some Questions for All Horny Spouses (F/L)
(F) – This post contains discussions of extra-marital fantasies.
(L) – This post contains strong language.
MH readers,
Let’s begin a Hot Topic shall we? Those of you on this site may know me from very personal stories I have shared, with my hubby Jim being my passionate lover and one who tolerates and encourages my exhibitionist ways. From day one, Jim knew I was a notorious cock teaser and perhaps the horniest woman by nature he has ever met.
This being the case, and after 22 blissful years of marriage, I realize I am “oversexed” if you will, but I also know there are many women out there who are more like me than they would care to admit… hubbies, too.
So, with this in mind, I have two questions:
- For us gals, how often are you thinking/fantasizing about getting fucked hard and fast, no foreplay, just an impulsive, well, fucking? Or, just see a bulge in a guys jeans and get creamy thinking about cocksucking? (choose from a. frequently b. sometimes c. never).
- Guys: Same basic question, but with a kicker: How often are you motivated to pull out your cocks and stroke when the opportunity presents itself in seclusion after sizing up a sweet and sexy woman who you determine to be (as Jim refers to me as) highly fuckable? (choose from a. frequently b. sometimes c. never).
And for all, have any of your fantasies (we all have them) included watching your spouse with another partner?
Thanks all, still waiting for Jim to return from another long biz trip. Love to all!
UPDATE: Jim is cumming home this early afternoon, just in time to share with him all of your comments – so get down and dirty with your hot fantasies! Thanks in advance …
Well….only 1 other person knows this fantasy and it's the gal that cuts my hair. This fantasy rented a spot in her salon years ago. At the time of this dream i had I was 50 and the renter was 65. I had a very sexual hook up with this person. Yes I think she is very attractive women. I wish I knew how this hook up started and how we ended up at this place. The dream began us heavily making out on the couch. It turned in to having sex multiple times, different positions, many Os for both of us. Couch and the bed. I woke up extremely hard and had a wonderful solo session. But I had 3 more throughout the day. Good thing i was working from home. I have even thought i would be giving her the best oral she has ever had. The person I know cuts my hair enjoyed hearing of the hook up. She does not know of the solo time. Of course she added fuel to the fire saying I am certain it's been many years for her as her husband has major medical issues. This made me think if it has been years for her this could even be a hotter hook up. I have had many solo times thinking of her 3 years later. I wonder what would go through my mind if our paths crossed. Being we are both married, it's not going to happen. I told person that cuts my hair I want part one of the dream to what started the hook up. Now I say forget that. I want another hook up dream
Very cool and interesting! Sounds like your thoughts are keeping your cock nice and hard, does that make your wife the ultimate beneficiary of your increased libido?
I know when Jim gets hard in a work environment or just spotting another woman with a cute face and a great rack, I will smile at him and indicate I am ready for a long, hard ride – and he always delivers!
Thanks again for sharing…
Yes it does. Now I can't deny if that lady and I were both single. Hmmm somehow that crazy dream may need to get to her. Hehe
Cindy here:
Instead of A. How about A+.
Honestly for us some of these fantasies are memories. But yes, the idea of fucking mussels while I watch a little hottie bounce on Cal drives me wild. I once role played as another woman on a vacation we went on and I mean I really played her. She was a coworker of Cal’s. I dyed my hair and even got a henna tattoo of a tattoo she has. We ended up fucking in front of a mirror and even though I was the one getting fucked, my naughty little mind imagined Cal was fucking her in the mirror and that I was riding a dildo watching.
But I also want to be honest about something else, since we decided to become monogamous a little while after finding Christ, I did have an affair, it was with another woman and I was honestly hoping Cal would want us both as it was with a woman who was previously a roommate of ours and I wasn’t ‘ready’ to give her up. It ended how you would imagine, badly. I say that to encourage you all to learn from my mistakes-keep the fantasy a fantasy. It’s so hot, but not worth the real life consequences.
Wow, interesting! I totally get your fantasy watching hubby fucking someone you know, as it has happened to both of us many times. For me I think it’s like an out of body experience; I’m watching me getting hammered by Jim.
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Think about that, and yes, we did! 😎
That’s an interesting fantasy, and if both you and your husband have a clear mind, you have really good communication, and your marriage is healthy enough, I think it’s fine.
I like role play scenarios and this one is on the spicier side. As long as it doesn’t generate actual desire to be with that person, it’s really no different that using a dildo or pussy sleeve while having sex with your spouse.
Also, I don’t know why, but I love henna tattoos. 😉
KingdomMan because Henna tattoos are hot! Somehow with my history I managed not to get any real tattoos. Even though I was involved in a world of tattoos and strippers and all that entails, I always went for the clean girl look. I once had a DJ at a club tell me I was his favorite girl to watch because I didn’t have any tattoos. So yeah, whenever I want one, I go henna.
Can very much relate to the last part of your comment. And I've known some ladies (quite Christian ladies!) who would have felt the same about watching me in such a situation.
Loooove this. ❤️
I think we have some things to say here, but don't have time at the moment.This afternoon should have a space to share some things. They may get a little raw and taboo.
….I am relaxed thing about you. …
Hubby here-
It's more like a B for me. I'm always inspired to give myself a nice massage. I wake up every day ready to have my Mrs for breakfast.
Some time before meeting her I was in an open/swinging relationship in my younger and less wise days. The experience was thrilling but it's not what you do with someone you truly love. I covet my wife and could never share her with anyone…but I would be lieing if it didn't turn me on to fantasize about.
Just this summer we had friends over who are a married Christian couple as well. We have a hot tub in the back yard and we will soak and conversate with them over drinks on occasion. Our friends are a little less reserved than us and recently discovered 'nudism'. We had anticipated the invitation of a skinny dip from them and to both of our surprise we were okay with it.
We turned off the lights (it was 9pm or so) and enjoyed a starlet summer sky free and nude in a hot tub. It was surprisingly NOT awkward and as the night went on I found myself fantasizing about touching her under the water. Lightly brushing her button and getting wet on the inside. This grew into picturing her returning the favor, and our friends catching on eventually and doing the same. My thoughs raced and my cock grew hard while we were talking innocently about random topics and I couldn't get the thought out of my head that she should be riding me right then, and our friends having their own fun next to us.
We were both turned on and talked about it later. We had sex, fucked, and made love over the next few days until we were both blissfully spent.
We will always remain eachothers 'one and only', and we have the best sex.
Patty, I am saddened to read that your questions encourage our brothers and sisters in Christ to sin in their thought life. Our LORD clearly said if we have considered adultery in our minds/hearts it is as if we had done it. I wish my wife and I, after 48 years, would have the sexual relationship you and your husband have, but I strive to keep our marriage an example of that between Christ and His church as much as possible. I am praying that He will bless you and your hubby as one in Him.
Agree to disagree. Our bodies are beautiful and we are exclusive in lovemaking, but we sometimes are a bit exhibitionists with friends we are comfortable with. It’s a turnon and Jim and I often exhaust ourselves while lusting for each other! Thanks for your thoughts though Rufus
Being single and a virgin, I'm still kind of new to the enjoyment of fantasies. Yet I think they can be super-hot. I've made it a rule to not fantasize about men that I know, and even when I imagine lovemaking with my future husband, he is faceless. But certain things will definitely get me hot and horny. Funny thing…I've never actually seen a guy's bulge! For one, I used to never look at the groin area, but now I do take sneak peaks at guys. Still haven't seen a cock outline or anything to get me going. I guess all the men in my life know how to sit and position their pants just so. 🤪 Anyhow, most of my fantasies are just picturing things my man and I will do together. Some are spicier than others and I will never act on them (another guy using me, observing an orgy), but they provide fuel for arousal at times.
That’s beautiful LLL and I’m betting that as your love blossoms you may explore new things that stimulate you both….and if not, that’s okay too!
It's funny it never occurred to me in nearly 30 yrs that women checked us out like that until I heard women talk about it,
And Same I can't imagine womenl I actually know.
And I don't think about sharing her.
I'm pretty imaginative so fantasy would be a part of intimacy.
Even as a single younger guy, my self-play times are virtually never inspired by attractive women I see. Of course, there are women I find attractive at church, at work, in the media, and beyond. But I don't use their images as fuel for masturbation. Nor am I really interested in that.
In this way, I may be a bit out of the ordinary as far as men go. For me, sexuality is very relational., and I believe that's how it should be! Yes, I feel the carnal draw of physical sexual attraction, but it feels empty, sad, pathetic, and sometimes even sickening without the context of a loving, committed, marriage relationship.
For the same reason, it's usually a turn-off to imagine anyone but my future wife in my solo play sessions and in any fantasies I have. Not only do I have moral issues with intentionally fantasizing about extra-marital sex (as I've expressed thoroughly in other MH discussion posts on this topic), but beyond those moral issues, it feels shallow and unfulfilling.
I definitely fantasize about watching my future wife in sexual acts, and I think it would be wildly hot to record videos of the two of us in all different kinds of lovemaking, then make love again as we watch ourselves on video! But that's as far as my "watching" fantasies go. I'm not at all interested in seeing my wife with another partner, or being with another partner myself, even in fantasy. Although some people clearly like that idea, it's one of the biggest possible turn-offs for me. To me, it's a radical violation and betrayal of the sacred bond of marriage. It's a moral issue, but also a relational thing. It would devastate me if it happened in reality, and I feel like it would destroy the intimacy between us. Because of that, even the mere imagination of it is enough to turn me off very quickly.
And these reservations aren't due to having a low sex drive, being a prude, being sexually repressed by my Christian beliefs, or being an asexual person. I love my sexuality, and I eagerly anticipate sharing all kinds of steamy intimacy with my future wife! I'm of the humble opinion that these reservations I have come partly from simple personal preference, as the unique person God has made me, and also from having a transformed heart in Christ, having been made to love his ways and have a distaste for anything that violates that design.
I totally get it – and the hottest fantasies I/we have always involve us exploring each other and pushing sexual boundaries.
I stand by all I said previously, but I wanted to add that there IS a related fantasy that I'm still working through. The problem I have with these kinds of fantasies is having extra people involved. It feels gross to even imagine, for me. But I understand the attractiveness of multiple-partner fantasies, and it got me thinking.
What if the fantasy involves extra bodies without extra people? What if I contextualized these fantasies in a setting with sci-fi technology or magic? What if, through science, magic, or superpowers, people could have multiple bodies? For example, what if a man had two identical bodies, two brains, and yes, two sets of manhood… but one mind, heart and soul controlling them simultaneously? It would be two bodies, but one person. In my mind, that would allow me to feel better about a fantasy of a two-man-one-woman kind of encounter without the moral issue of cheating with another person, and without breaking the intimacy and covenant of marriage. Of course, it's an impossible situation, but that's partly what fantasies are about!
I have all kinds of ideas I could write about using this one-person-with-multiple-bodies framework. I thought up a whole series of 7 or so stories just today! I'm still thinking through the ramifications of this idea, and whether I should pursue writing about it, but it's certainly more morally acceptable to my conscience than fantasies specifically involving people outside the marriage.
My hope is that this would be a morally-safer mental context for multiple-partner fantasies—a context that keeps the focus on one's spouse, but still allows for wild, impossibly fantastic sexual ideas to be enjoyed.
Really insightful and imaginative there, PP! Sci-fi, fantasy, etc are realms where my mind has often drifted; I've had some fantasies along the same lines as you but I think they may be too wild for this site. I'm certainly interested to read what you come up with though.
In regards to your sci-fi three-some thoughts, I've had the very same ideas for a while now.
I don't have any desire to include a third (or fourth) person in our love making, but there are certain positions that would be really exciting to try that can only be accomplished by three or more people, such as her sucking my cock while being pounded from behind, or her riding my cock and my face at the same time, etc. As a sci-fi/comic book nerd, I imagine those scenarios by creating duplicates of ourselves, like Triplicate Girl from DC Comics or Multiple Man from Marvel. I enjoy fantasizing about having sex with two or three of her at the same time, or imagining her having sex with two or three of me. Makes for super hot fantasies!
I wrote a similar story once about a magic pool where our reflections came out of the water and could act out some fantasies. Like you suggested, it was only two people, but four bodies.
Definitely A. Great way to fantasize, as a guy 63yrs old OMG thanks
Oldschool, at 63, you have LOTS of action left in you. Exercise the largest sex organ in your body – your mind!
As I’ve written about this kind of fantasy before, (especially in my story “Beach Babes Role-play Story” back on September 10th).
Over a year ago my wife bought me a vibrating stroker. She was going to have back surgery and sex would be off limits for over a month. She was very kind to anticipate my needs.
The first time I used the vibrating stroker (with wife present) my wife named the stroker Julia. And my wife, Melody, TALKED for Julia as if I was fucking a real woman. I was so surprised and totally turned on. My wife says things for Julia like “Feels so good! I love having you inside me! It’s fun riding your big cock!”
So in my mind I imagine Julia as a beautiful Latina masters program in Marine Biology college student and she’s Melody’s & my good friend. Yet Julia is still an extension of my sexy Nordic wife Melody. Remember that Melody & I are retired scientists… so Julia needed to be a science-oriented person.
We still use Julia frequently on many days that are off-days for lovemaking. (We have full sex every 3-4 days.) On the off-days My wife titillates my man-nipples & talks for Julia. In this sense Julia is an extension of my Melody. We also sometimes use or fuck Julia as part of foreplay. I never fuck Julia without Melody being there to “be” Julia.
Melody & I have NEVER even considered actually having any kind of sexual relationship with anyone but each other. But this frequent fantasy of my wife’s alter-ego riding my dick has been very fulfilling. I know something like this can be controversial but we feel like us playing this fantasy is perfectly acceptable to our Heavenly Father.
I’ll add that once in a foreign vacation a young attractive couple at the pool was wearing very little. We befriended them and talked for a while. We were staying at the same resort. My wife & I got so turned on that when my she & I got back to our room we had some really EPIC sex!
You two really know how to play. Jim and I salute you!
Good for you.
While it's true that women are cute and I will often admire their beauty while out and about, I don't really succumb into lusting after them because it is biblically forbidden, even when I know it would never happen if I acted on it.
When lustful thoughts do occur, I redirect them to my wife. It has kept me out of trouble and our marriage strong. A strong marriage is healthiest and she's good in bed so I am lucky.
That said, I never have any thoughts whatsoever of someone else with my wife let alone watching it. Gross is all I can say to that. The thought is repugnant and repulsive.
My wife is jealous natured which is sweet in a way. She controls it and she knows I am faithful so it is never a problem. Its not jealousy that prevents me from thinking about her with others, but feelings of disgust. These are not manly thoughts but thoughts of sniveling cuckold.
Lust is always there but redirecting it towards your spouse is the way to go to remain a good Christian.
I certainly get it – and all I can say is, to use your term, I always redirect my lust back to Jim, and his marvelous cock, that I miss so much now and I can’t wait to devour it very soon! 😎
I rather think that most men if not all have jerked off thinking about another woman not their wife. To say it’s never happened may honestly be throwing a stone at other men that have done so when deep down they know that they, too, have done so.
I admit that in my over 50 years of marriage, I’ve imagined fucking another woman, not my wife. However, my Anne is an incredibly beautiful, elegant, and sexy lady and imagining and actually fucking her is so delightfully satisfying. When a woman awakens my cock, stiffens it, and creates that indescribable desire to jack off and cum, I’ll do it! Because Anne is my love and my sexy woman, my thoughts turn to her as I stoke and cum in the heat of the moment.
Amen! Bring it all back home to Anne- I bet she loves it and appreciates however you share your cock with her.
I don’t have any desire to actually have sex with anyone else, but if I said I wasn’t aroused by some of the sexiness out there, I’d be lying. Like your Jim, I spend an awful lot of time at work, and some days it’s all I can do to keep from going to the restroom and relieving myself.
I have done that, but it’s extremely risky.
So, to answer your question it’s a A, but I try to keep my mind on the safe side of things. By that I mean that I don’t think it’s any different to be aroused by the sight of someone any more than it is to be aroused by reading a story here. I do think there’s a line, though.
As for your second question, I have had that fantasy, (both sides of it), but it’s infrequent these days. I think we have to be careful and the same line exists.
Well, I hope that restroom stall has a locked door! I got myself off in an airport restroom once (I have on a plane several times) so I know it’s hot! Jim has asked me in the past if I masturbated during a long potty break on a plane, and I answer by bringing my creamy index finger to his nose …
I'd say a B+, but my mind always goes back to my wife even if the initial arousal was sparked by seeing someone else.
And yes, those fantasies are fun.
That’s exactly what these fantasies are all about F2G!
As I have shared in the past, Jim and I curl up together at times and read MH stories to each other while masturbating and/or performing oral delight to whoever is reading. It’s a very hot and sexy shared experience. And it is certainly very hot having him lapping up my cream while I read sexy stories- as well as some of the answers here …
I know this is off topic, but if you could pray for my neighbor I'd appreciate it. His dog just got hit by a truck and died a few minutes later in his lap. Major internal bleeding in both thoracic cavity and abdomen, there wasn't much we could do about it. He's an older man who lost his wife a few years ago and now lives alone.
Praying consoling thoughts
Praying 🙏 for your neighbor. We know how hard saying goodbye to your beloved pet is.
I'm what may be a bit of an unusual case. Or perhaps not.
I don't often fantasize about beautiful women I see or know in real life. In part, because I am relational, and my fantasy is also connected to the person actually loving me and knowing each other very intimately.
That being said, I have had fantasies, that are "Old Testament" in a sense. And I have known some ladies who find that idea arousing, the thought of watching me, or participating, and when I was in a relationship with one, I did find a lot of arousal and pleasure in that fantasy. Then, when we weren't a couple, I reverted to a relational fantasy.
In that sense, even if the fantasy were somehow morally do-able, a huge part of the excitement involved sharing that with my beloved partner. So I have had those fantasies, but when they're "generic" they don't do near as much for me as when I imagine sharing it with my beloved.
Sounds like a sexy and healthy fantasy to me, especially if you are able to discuss with hubby in bed – even better while masturbating or servicing each other. "Generic" thoughts are greats; I happen to be very visual, so a guy in a tight pair of jeans (and sometimes women) can awaken my libido and make me crave whipping up some fresh cream, or coveting Jim's incredible tool any way he wants to give it to me!
As the hubs in this account, (married more than 40 years), I would have to say that in real life it's probably a C as in my sexuality I am very relational, and a connection is extremely important. However, seeing attractive women, or couples exhibiting sexually charged PDA, whether mild or wild, will fire us both up with a hunger for each other and awesome sex when we get home. We have had the occasion in our travels to actually encounter other couples making love in some interesting places, and it has always been, (and continues to be so in our reminiscing,) a huge turn on and stimulus for great sexy connections for both of us to the point where we wish we could provide a similar opportunity for others to experience the same joys in their relationships that these encounters gave us.
On the other hand, I would have to admit that in fantasy scenarios, which is more likely to occur when we are apart and I read sexy stories, or see romantic and sexy videos or movies where there can be a fantasy relationship, it is an A+ and can lead to a prolonged solo session of extended play and edging to an explosive release.
On the topic of fantasies, I have definitely had fantasies of watching my dear wife with another man. There is nothing I like more than to see her lost in the peak of passion, whatever it takes to get her/us there! Interestingly, this developed out of discussions we had seeing several wonderful Christian friends lose their life partners, and how much we would desire for each other to find a new, sexy and adventurous partner ASAP. But what of the dearly departed spouse? Knowing how much we love to please each other now, we agreed that if it is truly possible, it would be delightful to watch the amazing sexuality of their new relationship. We have even role played this to a point, pretending to be both the one watching, (describing every detail of what we are seeing) while acting out everything we would do as the new spouse! Amazing hot sex!!
Considering that, two other scenarios entered our discussions: 1) Chronic illnesses: We heard of a woman who while seriously ill and knowing she would die soon, facilitated the future engagement and marriage of her husband to a known friend in advance of her death. Another friend patiently cared for his incapacitated wife for more than 10 years, before she died, and we were delighted at his renewed life (after his wife died) with a beautiful, vigorous new wife. If severely incapacitated, and unable to physically please my wife (even if I had consciousness and intellectual connections), on one level my love for her would want for her to be able again enjoy those sweet sexual intimacies, and it would be my joy and delight to be able to see her in that situation, even while I am still alive. 2) Heaven/New Earth: In the beginning God said it was not good for man to be alone, provided Adam with a help mate, commanding them to be fruitful and multiply, and declaring that it was VERY good. When Jesus was asked about a woman who was married to 7 brothers through the Levirate marriage laws, and they all died, who would she be married to in heaven, and he responded that there is no marriage in heaven. What will our relationships be like in a place where He makes all things new and there is abundant love without selfishness, possessiveness, or jealousy?
Stay adventuresome and loving!
What a thoughtful and wonderful response. Anyone who shares such a special love and caring partnership is truly an inspiration to all – and it appears that you two are creative in your lovemaking, which I am guessing is a factor in your longevity as a couple.
God bless you two!
CreamyPatty, I think for me it’s not necessarily that I see an attractive woman and want to fuck her but will notice another tall woman who resembles my wife and instead of me fantasizing about that woman I picture my wife and giving her a good banging. My wife is a tall 5’ 10” and I am 6’2” so when doing her standing up from behind the parts line up quite nice.
[Story summary by MH: One night a few weeks ago, my wife and I had an amazing time together in the shower. After that she went to bed early, and I went out to put gas in the truck for church the next morning. At the gas station, I saw a woman who looked so much like my wife that I had to do a double-take! That made me want to rush back home and treat my wife's pussy good, but I knew she needed her sleep. Instead I edged myself on the way back home, and once I got back into our driveway, I came all over myself.] Hope this story inspires you in some way.
[From MH: Great story, LexusWillXxX! But in accordance with the guidelines of the site, we ask that longer stories not be posted in the comments, and instead be submitted as stories for publication. This one was about 600 words, which is more than long enough to publish as a story! If you'd like to briefly summarize stories of your encounters or fantasies in comments, as we have done above, feel free! For now, we've copied your story into a draft on your account and done some light editing. Please submit it for publication if you'd like!]
MH I fully understand and got carried away commenting on my fun I had with my wife. I took your advice went to my draft where you put my comment story and I turned it into a great story to hope to inspire others.
[From MH: Great, thank you so much! We look forward to publishing that steamy story when it comes around in our publishing schedule!]
I have a fantasy about sharing my wife with someone else. It would be fun to spit roast my wife which is, Amy giving me a headjob while being pounded doggy style from someone and also would like to do double penatration with her and even ad a 3rd so all 3 holes are filled.
Interesting. I’m wondering if your wife shares your excitement in this fantasy. I ask because, if my fantasy with Jim is too extreme, I am not able to get “creamy” because so much erotic momentum comes to a halt if the boundaries are not recognized.
But, he’ll, it’s your fantasy, who am i to judge! Lol
Very exciting
I have seen stories that are fantasies about wife sharing and cuckolding on MH and I think each husband and wife need to consider the boundaries allowed based on scripture. Could be a slippery slope fantasizing about co-workers and friends. I am not judging because I have struggled with such fantasies myself. My wife discovered by accident and to my surprise that her sharing her experiences with her former lover with me got us both turned on and she shared her experiences as foreplay. We have been married 23 years and very open about our pasts. Now I am not sure it is ok to do such things in the marriage bed. Is that bringing another person into your bed even if it is a past experience or a fantasy? We have to consider this according to God’s word and be very aware because it could cause some to lust in unhealthy ways.
Couldn’t agree more.
Very hot topic and happy MH has allowed fantasies outside of marriage t/he most people have. Yes sometimes just a hard cock deep fast and hard is what I want. Yes if I see a bulge in a guys pants in response to looking at me turns both of us on. Yes his top desire is to watch me having sex with others. And we role play all of these. Our belief remains no thoughts are sinful.
I think your fantasies are very on point and normal. Him watching you is just him having an out of body experience; think about it Marge, He's watching himself fucking you in a way you only dream about. AWESOME!
My wife and I have been married 35 years and we definitely keep the spark alive. My answer to your question would be C the way it is written. I do have this wandering mind however where I imagine my wife in situations she would never agree to. They normally involve me sharing her with another man or her with another woman. As long as it is still fantasy I am telling myself it is all good.
We have a roleplay life that is pretty hot. We own a massage table and I often hire a massage therapist to come over and “take care” of my wife who is also played by me. I often hire a lady of the evening to come by (Played by her) who does things for me that my wife would rarely do. Of late though, I wish I had more dicks to fuck her with.
Toys have been a new add for us as she was very proper back when we had kids at home. She has since over the past five years loosened up a lot. It may have something to do with the “romance” novels but she is now my dirty-talking cum slut more often than not. I recently bought three different sizes of suction cup dildos so someday we can put one on a mirror where she can ride it while sucking me off. We took our first step Wednesday when I used one of them on her while performing oral. She came so hard and then had a couple more when I took Mr. Dildos spot and fucked us both to completion.
Taking her temperature afterward I asked how she liked having two cocks and she said, “Who wouldn’t love that?” I feel like we are making good progress.
Love your role-play. Use a blindfold sometime and work on ways that you can [play the part of] more than one person fucking her at the same time. Hint: you may need the dildo for that, and have lube on hand …
I have had massages that took me to the brink. And discussing [the fantasy of] them going further is very exciting. Whether my man joins in and the two of them fill me in every way. Or her gentle touch brings both of to a moaning climax. It has never ended in sex, that is PIV. But touching can be fun.
Marge, what are you saying here? Are you saying your masseuse nearly made you orgasm? How does your husband feel about that? I would not care much for it if my wife told me she nearly came from the hands of her masseuse. That's for me, her husband, to do.
The rest is fantasy, correct?
Q: “How often are you motivated to pull out your cocks and stroke when the opportunity presents itself in seclusion after sizing up a sweet and sexy woman? … (choose from a. Frequently b. sometimes c. never).”
A: When I was single answer (B) sometimes. As a married man answer (C) never, or at least almost never. If I slip up I consider that a sin and pray God for forgiveness. As a married man, I try not to “size up” women, as the marriage vow “…forsaking all others…” would seem to apply to this.
Q: “And for all, have any of your fantasies (we all have them) included watching your spouse with another partner?”
A: I’ve sometimes thought about my wife when she was a senior in high school and also when she was in college, long before I knew her, and imagined what it might have been like to see and touch her back then. I have imagined (and masturbated to fantasies of) her younger, leaner nude body based off of clothed pictures I’ve seen of her from back then when she was about 100 pounds lighter. I know she had a boyfriend back then, and she said they did everything except intercourse. Do I sometimes imagine what it must have been like to be him, with her back then? F*ck yeah. Do I explicitly imagine or conjure up mental images of him with her? Not really. That would just make me feel jealous.
Going to be open and vulnerable. Im fine with judgement as long as its honest and guided by scripture. I personally have the conviction that my fantasies are sinful in nature because i know my wife doesnt like them and if they were to ever happen it would just be flat out infidelity. Ive sized up many other women and thought sexually about them, in and out of church, married and not. Now to be clear, this is not secret from my wife. We both openly tell eachother we find so and so attractive but i dont get graphic. She knows i have thoughts of being with other married women and i dont rejoice in this. Is this a struggle for others or do you all find yourselves more at liberty usually. Its my first time being open about this with other christians and i figure its a safe space to gain some insight as well
I have occasionally imagined “generic” women when masturbating, but usually I imagine my wife. I sometimes have fantasized what it would be like to live in the Old Testament era where a man could have multiple wives. But like I said, my fantasies have been limited to my wife and other generic, imaginary women. My wife is pretty good in the sex quality and quantity department, so being frank with myself, if I really did have multiple wives, it would probably leave me lacking enough energy to satisfy them all assuming they all wanted sex multiple times per week, like she does.
WlrdFit, have you tried inventing some fictional characters together to use in fantasy scenarios? That seems safer than indulging in fantasies about an actual person (especially someone who the two of you may interact with socially).
I think i definitely have, but that line could be blurry because i was addicted to porn by 10 years of age; and what i generate in my mind may very well be and im sure has been some woman ive watched on the internet since then or some combination. Theres a long history to my youth and i wish it upon no one. Im certain its left some permanent sexual psychological dysfunction. Suffice it to say, when my wife and i are intimate its really good. That woman is a grace from God 100%. I think my absolutely diesel sex drive is some combo of bad history/mental rewiring and high testosterone.
CreamyPatty, you’ve stirred the pot with this one—great topic! Alright, I’ll bite on the wife-sharing fantasy question. Yes, I’ve got one, and it’s a scorcher that lights me up in the quiet corners of my mind. But let’s be clear—it’s pure fantasy, locked tight in my head, never crossing into real life. I love my wife too damn much to ever make it more than a hot little daydream, and our marriage is rock-solid in that biblical, one-flesh way. Still, the imagination’s a wild place, and I’ve got a story that flirts with the edge of that fantasy, so here goes.
The closest I’ve ever come to anything like this was a couple years back, during a night out with my best friend, Jake. We’ve been tight since college—trust him with my life. We were pounding beers at this dive bar, swapping sex stories, and both of us were horny as hell. The booze loosened me up, and in a reckless, heat-of-the-moment flash, I pulled out my phone and showed him a nude pic of my wife. It’s this smoking-hot shot—her standing in our bedroom, curves bare, that sultry smile she gives me when she knows I’m losing it. I hesitated, heart pounding, but the thrill of him seeing her pushed me over. I slid the phone across the table and said, “Check this out, man.” His eyes went wide, jaw dropped, and he muttered, “Holy shit, she’s unreal.” Next thing I know, we’re both so worked up we’re jerking off right there under the table, staring at her picture. It was raw, dirty, and over fast. We swore it’d never leave that night—I trust Jake to keep his mouth shut, and he has.
Here’s where it gets wilder. I couldn’t keep it from my wife—I’m an open book with her, especially in bed. One night, tangled up in the sheets after some steamy loving, I spilled it. I was nervous as hell, stroking her hair, and said, “Babe, I gotta tell you something.” I laid it out—the bar, the photo, the whole messy scene. She tensed up at first, eyes narrowing, and snapped, “You did what?” I thought I’d screwed myself, but I explained how it was just a dumb, horny impulse, how Jake’s my brother-in-arms, and how it’d never happen again. She softened, exhaled, and then—get this—she started asking questions. “What’d he say about me?” she murmured, her voice dropping low. I told her how he’d called her unreal, how he couldn’t stop staring at her perfect tits and that round ass I worship. Her breath hitched, and I could feel her getting wet against me as I talked. She was turned on. We went at it hard after that, her moaning louder than usual, like she was feeding off the idea of being wanted. It was one of our hottest nights ever.
We never brought it up again after that. Life moved on. I told Jake I’d confessed to her—he was mortified but relieved I wasn’t pissed. Then, at a house party a few months later, he pulled her aside, all sheepish, and said, “Hey, I’m sorry about that photo thing.” She just smirked, shrugged, and said, “It’s fine, no big deal. Men will be men.” They laughed it off, and that was that. He moved to Denver last year for a job, and we still talk, but that night’s a sealed vault between us.
So yeah, in my fantasies, it’s always Jake I picture sharing her with. Me watching him drool over her, her teasing us both, that photo moment stretched into something filthier—but it’s just headspace stuff. I’d never let it happen for real; my wife’s mine, and I’m hers, end of story. That bar night was a one-off, a crazy spark that fueled some killer sex with her later. Keeps the fantasy alive without breaking what we’ve built. Anyone else got a line they flirt with but won’t cross?
Okay Patty we've got our hands up you caught us!
Multiple times over the years and now our role plays we have included others. And some of our other writings and comments I've mentioned our friend the 8-in dildo that thrusts and vibrates which we bought together. It was his idea he wanted to see me for a big cock.
And believe me I have. It conveniently has a suction cup below the balls and has wound up in my shower wall a number of times. You'll be seeing some stories about it. [M.] has had me bent over sucking it while he pounded me from behind.
Being that I'm attracted to women, we will both make comments about men and women that we find attractive. (Although he is not attracted to men he can see my point though and will make a comment about what would be like to see me with them or sometimes women.
Those people who become fixtures in our homes also have a tendency to work their way into our imaginations. There are times I will have him out of his pants while we watch the local female meteorologist or he will be going down on me while someone I enjoy is on..
I had a, masseuse named Janine who I was going to for a while until she actually started to get a little too touchy.
There was no doubt about it that she was trying to get sexual with me.
M. Really enjoyed me telling him about her and he has seen her, and make comments about how sexy she was.
I use that sometimes to get [him] worked up while we're sitting on the couch.
Having him call me Janine and pretending that I was her.
Usually ending up with me bent over the couch and him thrusting hard.
💋Lady L.💋
Hey! Please pardon me for asking this as it really doesn't make a difference. But are you and your husband a couple of color? I was just curious. I just think it's beautiful if ya'll are! I apologize if I am wrong. I just have the occasional interracial fantasy or watching a couple of color naked and in the throughs of passion fantasy 😆
Either way, it doesn't matter as you probably won't see this post anyway! Lol. God bless you and Stay horny!
Well, Lady L., I see we have many of the same interests!
I have read some of your contributions in the past, alone, and have also read some to Jim while he, eh, I guess you know.
Creamy now …
Hey CreamyPatty! I guess we do! 😆
I have a couple of stories I wrote concerning black married couples. Of course the black men always have big dicks ( up to 10 inches)
A bit unrealistic but they are fantasy. I just don't know how they will be recieved coming from me.
We do indeed,
As well as husbands who indulge us.
the thought of you reading our life in words does bring a smile to my face as well as a tingle between my legs which is begging for attention. 💋
Hi CreamyPatty
I saw this post come up in the comments. I haven’t been here long so didn’t see it originally.
It’s an interesting question. How often? The short answer would be B. Stroking my cock when it’s motivated by other women, seems to take two tracks – the mysterious, made-up female and females my wife and I know. I’ve often suspected my wife has fantasies about me with another woman (we’re fiercely loyal) but we acknowledge the fantasies that exist in our heads. We have a lot of friends, and she’ll occasionally say to me, “She is attracted to you or, she wants you.” I don’t think much of it, but I will admit that some of these women are pretty damn good-looking. So, at times I will stroke my cock thinking about them, cumming inside them, or fantasizing about them sucking my cock and taking a nice warm load from me. Every once in a while, I’ll masturbate thinking about my wife watching me fuck another woman. I have occasionally told her about these fantasies, and it does get her pussy revved up. One in particular she has asked to hear over and over.
I don’t often fantasize about her with another man, and when I do, it’s generally having to do with an orgy fantasy. She has a group-sex fantasy so I will indulge her with her favorite dildo while she sucks my cock, occasionally I’ll play orgy recordings through our speakers (it gets her off). In that fantasy, for me at least, the fantasy is our connection, physical and mental as we fuck other people (fantasy only of course)
She fingers herself infrequently and keeps her mental masturbation fuel to herself. I’ve asked but she’s pretty mum about it.
I agree with LLLady about hesitating to imagine sex with a real person other than my wife, but before marriage, I had sex in my mind with my wife and screwed her brains out, she just didn’t have a face and wasn’t real. She also commented about looking to see a bulge in men’s crotch;, that was the ongoing embarrassment of my youth as I had an almost perpetual erection and was sure it would not be viewed favorably by any female who observed it. one of the plusses of aging is that they become less frequent and more controllable.
Sorry I missed your question GG! The answer is, we are a white couple. I can imagine why you asked; Jim is an extremely well endowed white male.
No problem CP! I was just curious! Ben was well endowed as well, though he didn't like for me to talk about it! Lol
I have some fictional stories I wrote where the men have big dicks ( 8-10 inches). Unrealistic but fun!
I’ve sometimes wondered how accurate the size stereotypes are. I am a predominantly White male with substantial Indigenous Central American and Near Eastern heritage, plus a bit of Afro-Latin as well. I’m above average in length, but on the narrow side. A good friend of mine however who is half White, half Southeast Asian, is unusually well-endowed, to the point he has said he has trouble finding condoms that fit correctly.
Having just commented on another story I came back to this , I felt this group of ladies fell into the category of what you were talking about.
I have circles girlfriends with which I can talk a different levels of freedom with.
In one of those (about seven of us) are a pastor's wife, a sixth grade teacher, myself (a realtor), a librarian, a meteorologist (weather woman, and another woman who works in her studio, a floor director.
All of which hold degrees of respectability.
But being in the privacy of our group where we all speak candidly.
Anybody else who had the opportunity to listen in to our conversations with have their mouth hanging open and utter astonishment..
I treasure the friendship of this group so much. And I'm so thankful to have the ability to speak openly and freely about sexuality with them all.
With the exception of the pastor's wife and myself the rest would be more of the Christmas and Easter type Christians.
And although none of us can't claim to not have spoken words that would have shocked others had they heard them coming out of our mouths.
Each have shared stories which would make a pornstar turn red. Each one of us having stories that also involved our various professional capacities.
The number of times each of us has been in that position where we suddenly got so horny that we needed relief NOW !!
Has put all of us at one point or another in the precarious position of seeking relief that sounds possible wherever we were. Now you think about all of the professions that I have named, I'll let your imagination go on that one.
One of the effects that this has had on me is that I find I now often look at somebody imagining what their sex life is like.
And these are people that I will meet in ordinary day-to-day circumstances.
Suffice it to say, good people love sex too !!!
Lady L.💋
I sometimes wonder how sexual some good looking church women are in the privacy of their bedrooms with their husbands. I can't help but get turned on thinking that this woman probably sucks her husband's dick seductively and wonder if she talks dirty. I can't help but wonder what their pussies look like, if they shave it bald or not. I wonder how some of these nice looking couples at church fuck. it's been a recent fantasy of mine to fuck my wife in the same room as some of these couples we see and get turned on looking at each other fuck.
Bulaman,
The majority of women regardless of their exterior beauty enjoy sex.
And as I have comented before.
Both me (having an attraction to women as well as men) and my husband will notice and comment among ourselves our thoughts about other people.
So, noticing others and having these kinds of thoughts is not an uncommon thing.
Where the problem exists is where something that is natural to most or all of us is treated as something wrong or sinful.
The point of differentiation are for the most part, when it becomes a controlling force in our lives thereby taking away our devotion to the proper areas such as our creator and our spouse.
Or when it is tempting another by being or presenting a stumbling block on to them in their lives.
In other words stirring up their sexual thoughts which could provoke them to other actions.
Which is one reason why we need to check ourselves every day and confess when we know we've crossed the line.
@Bulaman
I’ve found couples at church tend to fall on one side or the other.
Either missionary position with the lights off pre-planned once a month, or absolute freaks enjoying the bounties of marriage every chance they get.
And yes, same room sex with another married couple is truly great. Highly recommend finding a good Christian couple to share that experience with. Done it with one close couple friends of ours many times. It’s erotic and fun, but we also like to use it as a chance to be goofy and also learn new stuff to do!
Monogamyman1,
I’m afraid you left out the “No Sex” group.
@Kingdomman
You’re right about that. There are quite a few couples I know that I bet have sex once a year. Truly sad.
As an obviously high sex drive man, I could only imagine how that must be.
wow @ monogamyman1! I need to hear more about this. how did you even start this? the first time must of being nerve wrecking. would love to hear details about it.
@bulaman
I’ll write the whole story of our first time and get it submitted, but quick version:
We had been couples friends from church for a good while, all had kids and decided to do mini “couples trips” as adult only getaways. Was a 2-3 day camping trip once or twice a year at first. We were all very lax on clothing so we’d all seen each other nude or part nude and we’re all open about our sex lives.
One time we changed it up, rented a cabin for the weekend. Decided to skinny dip for our first time as a group. After a while we got out and were relaxing by the water and I got a massive boner. Jokes were made about me having to go take care of that, then my buddy got a boner as well. We were goofing around joking about needing to bust a nut and next thing you know we all decided heck let’s have sex so we did right there together. My wife hopped on my cock, his wife on his and off we all went. Because it was done in a goofy way (not overly planned) it was low pressure and just fun and set a good tone we were happy to repeat. There wasn’t any awkwardness and never has been any time we’ve done it since.
Since then, we’ve kept the “tradition” going.
It’s been a great thing, and has made our little friend group super close and I mean that from a spiritual, marriage etc wise. It’s much easy to be vulnerable and open with a peer couple when you’ve all got that level of a bond.
Dear Monogomyman1,
I'm very curious about more details of how a group of couples from your church organically decided to go to adult only retreats.
If I may ask 10 questions…
1) How many total couples?
2) In what context(s) did these couples come to understand that other couples wanted this same shared experience? How did it start?
3) What gave each of these couples the assurance that this shared experience would not escalate to forbidden activities?
4) Is this group of couples seen as unique within your church? Or is your generally more open about sexual teachings?
5) Are all the couples on these retreats open to fucking their spouses in the same room – or is their varying degrees of openness?
6) Do all the couples feel open to swim nude together?
7) When you and another man were hard at the retreat in front of others – and being told you needed to take care of it – was every couple on that retreat a witness to this or just some?
8) After more than one adult retreat – what degree of open sexual conversation is customary between the couples? How has it advanced?
9) Do all the couples feel safe and secure that everyone is committed to monogamy only?
10) Honestly, how turned on are you and your spouse from what you see and hear? Tell of your conversations.
Thank you
@LH and @Bulaman
I wrote the story and submitted it. It’s very detailed so hopefully it gets posted.
@LH to answer your questions
1) How many total couples?
– 1 other couple. We met them at church in a small group and called it a “couples retreat”, not related to an actual church retreat. We would all just go camping together as couples friends.
2) In what context(s) did these couples come to understand that other couples wanted this same shared experience? How did it start?
– we originally used to camp together as just a break from every day life. We were all relaxed about clothing but hadn’t spent significant time fully nude with each other, just occasional glances when camping. One day we decided to rent a cabin instead, and ended up skinny dipping together. That’s where the adventure started.
3) What gave each of these couples the assurance that this shared experience would not escalate to forbidden activities?
– given it was just our long time friends from church and had years of discussions before hand about monogamy, sex, life, beliefs, etc we all knew the lines when we went from hanging out naked to actually having sex. We’ve done it many times since, and have always maintained boundaries. We now spend plenty of time naked together, so yes, we’ve bumped bodies in passing or given hugs but always maintained a “look but don’t sexually touch” firm line.
We have no problem letting our eyes wander, as obviously we enjoy seeing each other have sex, but we haven’t ever crossed a line of intimate touch or engaging in a way that would cause emotional bonds to grow across sexes.
4) Is this group of couples seen as unique within your church? Or is your generally more open about sexual teachings?
– My church is very traditional about marriage (man/woman and firmly monogamous), but open about the value of sex. In our early married couples classes the elders often teach that sex is a blessing and also an important part of a healthy marriage so it’s not frowned upon. A few other friend couples know and have done similar things. I don’t think anyone explicitly encourages or discourages same room sex, but does encourage frequent and good married sex.
5) Are all the couples on these retreats open to fucking their spouses in the same room – or is their varying degrees of openness?
– again not entirely sure. I do know one of the elder couples who mentored us when we were younger were very wild in their youth and have told us hot stories when we were first married and trying to figure out good steamy sex and did talk about doing the same thing with another elder couple at church.
We aren’t shy about it with people we are close to, so it wouldn’t surprise me at all if other couples grew comfortable enough to try.
6) Do all the couples feel open to swim nude together?
– yes, we have skinny dipped with a few friend couples from church over the years. Not sure how many others are open to it, but in our close friend group, it’s common and fun!
7) When you and another man were hard at the retreat in front of others – and being told you needed to take care of it – was every couple on that retreat a witness to this or just some?
– it was just the two of us married couples and we were all skinny dipping so it was very tongue in cheek joking. The story I submitted tells it, but basically the two wives and the other husband were joking about my boner and then told me to “strut my stuff” before diving back into the water. Needless to say that broke the ice and more boners by both us men occurred once we accepted sexual arousal was both okay and fun!
8) After more than one adult retreat – what degree of open sexual conversation is customary between the couples? How has it advanced?
– we have continued this with the same couple many times since and enjoy it. I’d say we all have become “nudists” with each other, but also do still enjoy watching each couple go at it.
We also do bible studies together and as man/man, woman/woman and honestly feel because we are so close, it’s even easier to be vulnerable. It’s not for everyone, but it really does create a special and deep bond and they know more about our good and bad times than anyone else. We are all big advocates for each others marriage and have a special freedom to talk and engage since we started this.
We are currently mentoring a few younger couples at church. I have a story posted that should come out soon asking how to help them, as one couple has a semi-dead bedroom. As for the others that are a bit more mature in their married sex life, we are extremely open with them and encourage them frequently. It’s amazing how many times the answer to marriage problems is simply “go have a lot of sex”! Amazing how it resets a couple.
9) Do all the couples feel safe and secure that everyone is committed to monogamy only?
– very much so which is what makes it so fun. We have had hot steamy sex, but also have done goofy sex, and even “demonstration” sex before where we show each other new techniques and positions with our spouse. It’s fun.
10) Honestly, how turned on are you and your spouse from what you see and hear? Tell of your conversations.
– VERY. It took a decent bit of control the first time or two not to cum immediately. My wife is able to repeatedly cum so she never holds back!
When we have same room sex, it’s always so exhilarating and freeing. The sights and sounds are so erotic, and also it’s fun to put on a little extra show!
The majority of our same room sex has been with the same couple, but we have both been caught, and let others watch quite a few times over the years. Whether it’s another married couple watching, or as has happened a few times, having a single friend watch, it’s always great!
I posted earlier today about my college roommate— he and I used to masturbate in our apartment so it wasn’t uncommon to see the other spankings their meat. He was the first to ever watch us have sex, and though it wasn’t planned, we all had such a good time!
Also, if it gets posted, I called it “Sharing a Cabin With Friends” so take a look if it does post and it may help you understand how it happened and how fun AND funny it was.
If you get the opportunity to try same room in the right context, it can be an incredibly nice time!
thanks for sharing! it's so sexy, erotic, exhilarating, scary to think about doing in real life. because I have only fantasized about it. I'm really interested to read details of how it got started for you in your upcoming story.
@bulaman
It’s not for every couple, but if you have the right friends to engage with, boundaries and expectations, it’s really amazing.
It’s beautiful to watch your friends fuck, and obviously very erotic. If you are good knowing there is obviously nothing physical left to hide once it’s all said and done, it’s a great way to both celebrate each others marriage and also intimate bond amongst friends. It’s also oddly freeing— there isn’t anything else to be fake or untrue about. Your relationship and self is on full display and it’s amazing how close it brings everyone after.
As long as you know how to keep the love, romance and sexual touch separated, watching and showing is an amazing experience. I don’t know how to describe it, but it’s beautiful, sensual and an incredibly close bonding experience I’d love more couples to share and take part of.
@bulaman
Sorry for the bad grammar—- my wife and I were enjoying the fruits of our marriage while reading those comments and reminiscing, so my writing was less than par. Hard to type between thrusts. I’ll reply back if my comments didn’t make sense to you.
Monogamyman,
Thank you for taking the time to answer all my questions. I just saw it. Sorry I didnt see it until now.
I'm glad you and that couple have the same convictions for the boundaries. It is so unique to my mind.
It seems like it happened only after firm convictions were first understood between you all – or the possibility would be impossible.
That level of trust – in person – is huge!
The sights and sounds and smells in the same room must be overwhelming.
Brushing up against and hugging would seem the riskiest moments. But a quick thrill igniting the later fucking.
Did the single person watching you and your wife masturbate?
Were you having the same level of confidence in his or her view of monogamy?
Do you and your wife role play? Do the friend's names come up in the role play?
I am most happy for your commitment to monogamy. You have something very exciting. May you continue to hold to your convictions.
I look forward to the cabin story.
I have fantasized of others in a role play sense many times. I have wondered what kind of self control I (we) would have if I was in same room?
Your account is unique in that you've done it many times.
Your monogamy is indeed red hot. Thank you again for all your replies.
LH
Question,
The sights and sounds and smells in the same room must be overwhelming.
Answer:
it truly is. We’ve done it a few times and it is always exciting. Whether it’s a hot and horny passionate time, or when we’ve played games where we mirror each other and demonstrate new techniques, either way it’s a great experience. It’s also like a chain reaction, it’s really hard not to cum when someone else does. Tends to lead to everyone at once as the heat rises.
Question:
Brushing up against and hugging would seem the riskiest moments. But a quick thrill igniting the later fucking.
Answer:
sort of I guess. We never really do that in a sexual manner. We often hang out with the couple we have same room sex with on vacations or getaways nude. We’re not practicing nudists but it’s just a nice break from things in the right setting. The hugs or brushing up against each other is really that, it’s a friendly hug, or just hips tapping as you pass to grab a plate of food or whatever.
It seems like being nude would always be erotic, but honestly after maybe the first minute of being naked with others, it just becomes like any other time you hang out. Even a hug doesn’t feel any different, even though there aren’t clothes in the way.
Most guys fear having an erection, but honestly I think that concern is way overblown. Yes they happen, but not nearly as often as you think. Honestly you pop a boner about the same as clothed, you just can’t tuck it into your belt. It quickly becomes a nothing, or even funny, just depending on who you are with. Any woman or couple who is comfortable with nudity knows that so it’s not an issue.
One specific example, I went outside before my wife or the other couple. This wasn’t our first experience being casually nude with them, and we had all hung out the day prior naked. My friends wife walked out naked and except a backwards ball cap and struck up a casual conversation. Obviously I find her attractive and enjoy watching her have sex, but I don’t walk around with a boner when we are casually hanging out, naked or not. Well I have a weird kink for girls wearing a backwards ball cap; can’t explain it, just find it extremely hot for no good reason. I immediately got a massive erection while talking to her. My wife walked out and laughed, telling her friend “forgot to tell you about his hat thing!”—- it’s [now] become an inside joke and we all enjoy knowing that funny intimate detail.
Question:
Did the single person watching you and your wife masturbate?
Were you having the same level of confidence in his or her view of monogamy?
Answer:
yes and yes. He was my best friend for years. We were horny college kids and used to talk to each other while jerking off so I knew he had an affinity for her but he also knew my take on my relationship with her. He was also religious so there wasn’t any doubt. Quick summary, He was sharing a hotel room with us after a wedding. My wife and I tried to have a quickie while he showered and he walked out while she was riding me. She knew he had a little crush on her so she just straight up told him something along the lines of “this is your one chance to see this, so sit back and enjoy it” and so he did exactly that. It was a fun time we all enjoyed. I wrote about it in a story called “Accidental Wedding Afterparty” that hopefully gets accepted and posted.
Question:
Do you and your wife role play? Do the friend's names come up in the role play?
Answer:
yes at times we do. There are three specific things we’ve role played that tend fall into that bucket. One is obviously a 3 way where she uses her dildo, another is a 3 way with a fake pussy, and then also she knows I find an older woman at our church attractive and she likes to talk to me about her while she makes the fake pussy ride my cock.
Question:
I am most happy for your commitment to monogamy. You have something very exciting. May you continue to hold to your convictions.
I look forward to the cabin story.
I have fantasized of others in a role play sense many times. I have wondered what kind of self control I (we) would have if I was in same room?
Answer:
We are firm in our love and conviction. We enjoy the “look but don’t touch” and have no desire to move from that. Honestly, with the hot sex we have, why would we want to ever jeopardize that?
I truly believe consistent hot sex keeps couples together. Whatever that means in terms of a couples expression between them, go at it. It’s the people who don’t have good sex that tend to deviate or struggle.
Monogamyman,
Thank you so much for being so kind to thoroughly answer my curious questions. You did it so well.
You gave me exactly what I wanted to know. I'm glad for your carefulness. You are doing something so unique – but you've been able to achieve it without being reckless.
The hug and brush up against answer was very clear. You do a good job of really setting the scene and giving a feel.
Having another like-minded couple is so key.
It seems so exciting when you describe one couple essentially experimenting with a new sexual move in front of the other. Of course no touching – but having them in close proximity seems so taboo exciting.
The fact that you guys cause a cumming chain reaction makes me think of all four of you after just coming…
Saying "Whew! Fuck that was hot!"
All four wet – the smell of the mixture of so much cum, wet pussies – an intoxicating aroma.
Who gets the shower first? Or enough room in a suite for all four?
What is the conversation like after? Say…at dinner or next meal? Do all four say things? Get new ideas for next time?
Last thing: do either or both couples ever share that they are part of the other couples role playing?
Again, thank you for the responses.
I'm enjoying this only because it is able to be done under the solid foundation of monogamy.
Question:.
It seems so exciting when you describe one couple essentially experimenting with a new sexual move in front of the other. Of course no touching – but having them in close proximity seems so taboo exciting.
Answer:
Yeah it’s really fun and we’ve learned a lot of new moves (and failed to great laughter) over the years. Anatomical differences matter. For example, both of us guys have basically the same sized cock, but mine angles up and has an upward curve. He’s has the same upward curve but is able to angle lower. They were showing us a position, we tried, about broke my dick off to hilarious laughter (and my discomfort) but I soldiered on!
The first times we did it, it was just hot erotic passion as you will see if/when the stories post. It wasn’t until a while later we were hanging out and discussing sex positions and someone just said “heck let’s show each other” and so there it started. It’s fun, sometimes funny but all around enjoyable.
One of the things that seems to have helped (though I’ve never actually asked) is we are all kind of a comparable attractiveness (if that makes sense). I wouldn’t have any care in the world if that wasn’t the case, but it may to others?
He and I are basically the same height, build, basically the exact same penis (though he is more of a grower which the girls find fascinating).
As for the girls, they are different but both attractive. My wife is tall, thin, has brown hair, a brown trimmed bush or landing strip, cute little B cups tits and small to medium nipples and a tight butt more like a volley ball player. His wife is shorter, more of a gymnast or cheerleader build, blonde hair, bare pussy on much lighter skin, a bit bigger of a butt, and medium to slightly larger boobs. Each woman is what we individually prefer, but obviously enjoy the looks of both.
The women both know they are hot (and in my mind, equally as attractive just different) so there doesn’t seem to be concern there from any party.
Question:
The fact that you guys cause a cumming chain reaction makes me think of all four of you after just coming…
Saying "Whew! Fuck that was hot!"
All four wet – the smell of the mixture of so much cum, wet pussies – an intoxicating aroma.
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It’s insanely hot. None of us are Bi, but there is just something erotic about seeing someone aroused that it gets you going. It can be a chain reaction in many ways. He and I have been hanging out (naked) while the girls were doing whatever, and if one of us gets hard, the other one does without shame. It’s just contagious.
When it comes to cumming, seeing a woman orgasm, moan, shake, and sometimes squirt is amazing. It’s also insanely erotic to watch a guys cock swell while his balls tighten and he shoots ropes of cum. It doesn’t really matter who cums first, it almost always leads to the rest cumming. If one person is delayed, their continued horniness may drive the rest to a second wind!
I will say, if you are going to do it, double the length of your cum shooting range. We were too close the first time and didn’t expect that he and I would shoot cum everywhere. Needless to say we all got some of each other on us. Now it’s a fun thing and a sign of a good time.
The first time we did it, I was fucking my wife doggy style and he was doing the same. We were all basically next to each other. My wife reached back and spread her cheeks further to let me slam deeper—- I saw him looking even harder at my cock driving inter her now spread cheeks and pussy. If you like seeing your cock driving into your wife doggy style, then obviously seeing it double is great!He did the same showing me his wife’s cheeks spread ans he fucked her and I enjoyed the view. Needless to say, shortly after, we both erupted and sent cum everywhere on everyone. We later all agreed that’s an insane way to finish (and the view is amazing) so we’ve repeatedly that many times.
Question:
Who gets the shower first? Or enough room in a suite for all four?
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Never had a shower big enough, and honestly never really thought about it. Not opposed, but I’d prefer it’s big enough to comfortably fit everyone and not be anxious about inappropriate contact, as I could imagine it wouldn’t be “just a shower”
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What is the conversation like after? Say…at dinner or next meal? Do all four say things? Get new ideas for next time?
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First time, we were all exhausted as it had been a long day that built up to the unplanned first time, so after we all finished, we giggled, said goodnight, and then went to our rooms. Now, it’s depends— sometimes it’s hot and we all just lay there in the sex after glow, other times everyone still has some energy so we just hang out and sometimes go for a second round. It really depends.
A good example- we all went out of town for a weekend to a concert. We rented a large suite and went there before the concert to check in. Barely stepped in the room before they started fucking. He just pulled her yoga shorts down, stuck his cock in and pressed her to the wall and fucked her. I assume they had been doing some foreplay in the car? Needless to say, that got me instantly hard so my wife just hopped on the couch, pulled her skirt up and let me fuck her. It was a great quickie, but as soon as he and I came, we all pulled our others back together, laughed about needing a release and went to dinner like nothing happened.
As for the “new ideas for next time”- yes plenty of times, but I’d say that is more often when the girls are getting ready or something. There have been plenty of times we know we’re going to do it after a fun day doing whatever on vacation. He and I will talk about what we want to do with them or whatever before hand. We will just sit there and jerk off talking about it waiting for them. It’s a good time and sets the energy, just have to make sure you don’t finish prematurely!
Question:
Last thing: do either or both couples ever share that they are part of the other couples role playing?
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We’ve role played, but never about them. I’m working on a story that will shed light on it. Do we talk about the sex we’ve watched them have? Absolutely. We just don’t role play group sex with them because it would start to blur the lines too much.
Monogamyman,
Thank you again for comprehensively answering my questions.
You exceed expectations in the quality of answers.
I think your bond and trust with the other couple is very unique.
You guys all have restraint – and a commitment not to go further than you do.
You are your best friend masturbating together as you plan that night's escapades is so unique.
You two men – opening up your wives further – to show each other while doggy fucking is so unforgettable.
Cum – getting on everybody – and everyone enjoying it is the height of transparency.
Also, the way each other's recognized horniness gets everyone exponentially more horny is a dynamic almost beyond compare in the exhilaration.
I'm like a voyeur in this – as I read you.
I've fantasized of the things you actually do. I imagine my wife's finding this euphoric.
Lastly, the close up vision of seeing a cock and balls twitching inside a pulsating pussy – seeing the cum – smelling the sex – I totally understand how it makes the watching couple fever pitched to immediately emulate what they just saw.
It sounds as if you guys are able to partake in this without swapping. I'm glad you value monogamy – while enjoying the beauty and excitement of friend's married sex.
You write well.
Thank you again.
LH
Yeah I hope you get the chance to experience it if you have any interest in exhibitionism or voyeurism. It’s obviously the easiest way to ensure only those who are intended to see do see and enjoy.
I assume from your comment, your wife is also reading this. Hopefully y’all find enjoyment in these responses but let me know if you have more questions.
Hopefully the story gets posted cus wife and I took time to really write it in as much detail as we could remember!
Just sometimes. Maybe less than that. One is a Christian who wore tight pants. She has a nice booty. Another was wearing shorts. She sat down and her shorts went way up. I couldn't stop staring. Another wore short shorts. I actually got a tingling sensation.
2nd question: yes, especially with older men. She prefers them anyway, since I'm 51 and she's 28.