Yet Another Kink
When it comes to the realm of kinks, I’m realizing two things: I might not be into what most people deem “kinky”, but I might be on the path to discovering my own set of kinks. Some things turn me off while others arouse me greatly.
In several earlier posts, I’ve mentioned that I find male balls extremely tantalizing, also that I’ve had some spicy fantasies about my future husband farting while we have sex. Those could be considered kinks, I suppose.
Well, I have another, and it’s been on my mind for quite a few months, but I just haven’t gotten around to writing up a post about it! I realize that not everyone will find this to their taste, and that’s fine. Kinks are just that: kinky to individuals!
I’m interested in experiencing some levels of piss play. Before I gross anyone out, let me clarify that I have no desire to drink it or have it gush on my face. But the idea of either peeing all over my husband as we make love, or him peeing inside of me, is a huge turn-on for me.
Anyone here who is familiar with my accounts of masturbation knows that I appreciate and revel in sexual wetness. I thank the Lord that I release as much arousal fluid as I do. I’ve never yet had to use lube. So, I guess it stands to reason that I would enjoy further wetness during sexual activity.
I should add that in my latest experiences with the dildo, I’ve felt like I was going to absolutely explode with squirting as I got close to orgasm. Whether that would be urine or “female ejaculate”, I don’t know. And it still hasn’t happened. But I’m working on understanding my body during those moments leading up to climax.
For my MH friends, what are your thoughts on piss play? Does anyone here practice it?
LLL, great post! I've never actually done " piss play ". The closest I got and I guess it's not actually piss play is that I would occasionally hold my late husband Ben's dick for him while he pissed. Not really erotic I guess, but it did kinda turn me on in a way. Anyway Stay horny and God bless you dear. Keep writing!
That was my first experience of piss play, MamaGG! [We] had been out to a wine-paired dinner and came back to our hotel a little tipsy—and with full bladders. I said he could go first, but as he was relaxing to pee—with a classic male piss hardon! lol—I slipped behind him and held his cock. And I was, how shall I say it, a little unhelpful 😂. I sprayed his pee all around the bathroom! We were both laughing hysterically.
Of course, you can see it cumming—I couldn't hold it and peed myself silly through my clothes.
We tore our clothes off and engaged in a lot of snogging and oral sex. Neither of us could cum, though, because we were too buzzed. In the morning, we fucked like bunnies, and then did a BIG cleanup of our rooms—and left a very big tip!
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Great post LLL! Discovering and accepting our own personal kinks is a very thrilling and fulfilling journey. Personally, I don’t find it off-putting at all. I’ve read many stories of people enjoying this to some degree. It’s not a personal kink of mine, but I would be open some exploration if it ever came up at home.
I don’t know if you’ve read it, but there’s an older post by ‘Woods’ called “ When You’ve Gotta Go…” that you might find interesting 😉
Also, as a side note – Some men? Many men? Most men? I don’t know how many, but I know that if I have to pee really bad and can’t go right away, when I finally get to the restroom, the sensation of release can be very similar to that of an orgasm. So, it might not take that much for it to turn sexual for me.
Thanks for sharing and I hope you come up with a story about this kink.
I also hope you can soon find the warm release that you’re looking for…😊
As far as water sports for the two of us it's something that we do occasionally in a power dynamic of dominant and submissive.
I really don't know exactly why it is but sometimes either he or I at times we'll begin feeling a need to experience this dynamic. At times I will be the dominant and I will have him restrained in bed in the four point restraint and I will use him sexually. And in other times he will do the same to me.
We don't do [water sports] a lot because to be honest with you it's not like something super desirable. But it does fit into that dynamic. It's been done in our bed but we do have a rubber backed bed mattress cover so it doesn't get into the mattress. And we do strip the sheets as soon as we can afterwards and get them in the washer right away. But generally it will happen in the shower and it has happened in the kitchen. When we are fully enveloped in the power dynamic with spanking some hair pulling minor slapping and it's some very dirty and sometimes demeaning words. The water sports can be a turn on and fit right in. But otherwise it would be [out of] place for us because we really aren't those people that I just described it just kind of comes out of us on occasion . Me we do use our [bed restraints], spreaders, nipple clamps and other toys more often but when it gets fully involved as I just described before that's occasional.
The thing about having somebody actually pee on you is the warmth of it and the fact that you've smelt urine But the taboo of having someone actually purposely pee on you can be a taboo kind of erotic.
I had always wanted to squirt but we never could manage it. I'm a little bit drier probably [than] most so I do need to use lubrication quite a bit. But we did look at some videos on it and as I said before I have girlfriends who are very open and we all talk sexual things together.
I think I've mentioned that a some women are involved in the lifestyle and a few of them are bisexual and have had sex together and have experienced squirting together.
Apparently, One is above the other with the legs sometimes restrained open so they can't be closed. Two middle fingers are palm up and curved inside of you The fingertips pressing hard against the inside of your pelvis where the fleshy part is just inside your opening. And they lay the palm on the clitoris and vulva then firmly then aggressively masturbate pressing and rubbing the inside g-spot and the clitoris resulting in a very powerful orgasm and squirting. once they have found out that they could do it they would be able to do it in a solo experience with a strong vibrator or their own hands. Sometimes inserting a vibrating butt plug to enhance everything.
As far as of the other thing that you mentioned. We've never tried that because that never had any appeal to either one of us.
As we understand there is a difference between fetish and kink.
If fetish is something that someone for some reason needs to have happen in order to achieve arousal. For some reason somewhere in their psyche they developed in need for certain things and that's what we have to think of when we hear about them whether or not this is something that is a person's psychological need or something they just enjoy. [A] kink on the other hand is something that is tried and found to be enjoyable but not necessarily something that's needed in order for arousal.
For me, other women's feet are very arousing, A friend of mine actually helped me discover where this came from.
When I was a child my father was a salesman often on the road and leaving me with my mother who would fill her time by having groups of women over. She was a very fastidious person and it was an unspoken ritual of when you entered the front door you would take off your shoes.
My mother would have groups of women come over sometimes two or three times a week and many of the same women coming to more than one event but she would have groups for crabs or for Bible study or just to talk who would come and get together. When they answered the front door it was my job to greet them as they took their shoes off then I would carry their shoes to an area where they wouldn't clutter the entry. As a little girl I would sometimes kneel down holding on to their shoe while they put their hand on my shoulder and balance themselves lifting their foot up. I would watch as their calves would flex and their foot would slip out of their footwear sometimes curving back or forward often revealing painted toenails. Sometimes wearing hosiery sometimes barefoot.
Then throughout the night as I would sit with the ladies I would look down at all their feet observing the difference sizes and shapes. Quite often at the end of the night I would get their shoes and bring them back kneeling down and holding them in place while they slip their feet back in. Again with them balancing on my shoulder. This went on for years.
At the same time my mother had a best friend who was over quite a bit and actually slept over at times when my father wasn't home. I had known her so long I referred to her as my aunt. Should would always stay over after and help my mother clean up after the event then they would sit around and talk. I always thought she was really pretty and at times she would ask me to massage her feet ankles and calves, laying her feet into my lap as I [sat] on the floor with my legs crossed underneath me, or having me sit at the end of the couch with her legs up in my lap. I truly came to really enjoy that experience.
Quite often I would associate the shoes with a clothing that they wore. It was when I got old enough and that I found always not just only fascinated but slightly aroused. It was right about this time when my breasts were developing and I was beginning to find the pleasure of playing with [them]. The fascination carried to other places where I would be at events and I would find myself looking around at women's feet and legs.
I was always a little self-conscious about this and never really told people about it until I found out that other people enjoyed it as well.
Oddly enough. This is only a fascination with women's feet I've never had any response to men's feet.
So I guess The point of this is that many people have things that turn them on for reasons that might be unknown to them but actually found a place in there minds while growing up.
This is where pornography comes in play because it can put ideas in our mind about things that previously we would have never thought about but for some reason find it appealing. People will find themselves searching for a subject and once they begin to watch the algorithm of the site begins to lead you down other paths as well. To the point where you will begin questioning why it is that you find this or that so desirable.
We have to be careful about what it is that we're putting into our minds, hearts and souls. Because we could be giving space to the one who wants to destroy us in the end replacing our adoration and worship for God with something other than God.
Lady L 💋❤️
Great insights, Lady L! And I enjoy hearing your experiences and wisdom. I'd love to learn to squirt.
It's kind of funny you mention feet. I do not like feet, even my own, so that is not a kink of mine. Yet I appreciate how different things appeal to different people. Variety makes it interesting! I've learned so much from hearing about what other people do or don't like.
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I agree with LLL, there are some great insights here in your comment.
One such great insight is the fact that you point out the difference between a kink and a fetish. A lot of people use these two terms interchangeably, but as you said, they are very different. I don’t have any fetishes, but I do have several kinks.
One such kink is a sexual attraction to women’s feet. I see them exactly as I see boobs. I have the same level of attraction, desire, and arousal; no difference.
Unlike you, I have no idea where it came from. I always remember noticing them, but I don’t remember any event or events triggering my kink.
I suppressed it for a long time because I thought it was weird, but a few years ago, it came back with a vengeance.
I was browsing a popular brand of women’s outdoor sandals, (yes, just to look a pictures of women’s pretty feet 😉.) When I enlarged a particular picture I spontaneously ejaculated.
I knew at that point my kink wasn’t going away, and I just accepted it.
So, to tie that to your example, for me, walking into a room full of women who were barefoot or wearing stockings would be the same as walking into a room full of women who were topless or only wearing only bras.
Some will still think this weird, but for me, it’s just a part of who I am.
Wow, KM, that is fascinating and very sexy! I can see it making your life a bit hard…no pun intended! 😋 I'm not sure if this qualifies, but I get a similar, or at least very strong, reaction from looking at guy's butts. And muscular chests. 😁
I don’t see why you can’t count those LLL. After all, they give you a very strong reaction. 😉
And yes, a summer time church service, for example, can be problematic…
Interesting, Lady L, to hear that a woman has an arousal like that.
Interesting comments from KM as well, but women seem to like to draw attention to their feet with ankle bracelets, toe rings, high heels, shoes that let the toes peek out, etc. I wonder if they know this can cause sexual arousal!
And LLL, I once knew a guy who was always talking about putting a woman’s toes in his mouth. Your husband may surprise you one day!
Well, Comingsoon, I wouldn't mind that at all! I just don't care to do the same to him, unless I am crazily aroused in the moment! I'll be focusing on other parts of him, I think. 😋
We do not practice it. Years ago, we, not even, halfway tried. She sat on my lap & peed on my leg. It wasn't the greatest experience because my wife was just vacant about it. It was what I wanted to try, but she just did only what was needed to say we tried. Nothing sexual. No foreplay. No sex. Just the mechanics with no heart in it.
Aside from that, play on LLL. I whole heartedly condone pee play as a part of sex & sexual exploration. I love the idea of it in a scene of passion & arousal. I get the picture of my hot & sweaty wife sliding her wet sweat covered body up mine til her pussy is at my ribs & chest. Sliding herself up & down, she pees on me & lets the steamy urine flow as she keeps gliding her body on mine. It being a hotter liquid would feel so great. We would make awesome eye contact as she does it. Then, clean up in the shower would be me peeing on her wherever she wanted it. Then, a hard fuck up against the glass of the shower!
Ahem…So… a…yeah… I am for it…
That sounds extremely hot! I can't say that I won't be acting out a similar scene with my future husband someday! 😉
Your future husband will be a LUCKY man, LovelyLonelyLady!
After my divorce, when I found the love of my life, I dared to admit to her that one of my fantasies was to have my lady squat over me in the bathtub and piss on my cock “like a lioness marking her territory.” Instead of laughing at me or expressing disgust, she asked, “You mean a golden shower?” Surprised, I asked how she knew about that. She told me that she had read about it in her ex-husband’s men’s magazines years ago. She surprised me again when she told me we could do that sometime! Less that a week later, she led me into my bathroom. After I sat down in the tub, we held hands as she squatted over my cock. I watched her golden stream leave her neatly trimmed pussy and felt her warm piss splash all over my cock and stomach! We stood up as her urine ran down my legs, and we kissed tenderly. She surprised me again when she asked if I was going to piss on her! After waiting for my hard-on to go down, we stood face to face while I aimed my penis at her beautiful hairy womanhood and released my stream soaking her pussy. After christening her with my golden liquid, we again embraced and kissed lovingly, both dripping with each other’s urine.
Then we showered together. I loved soaping up and washing her big tits. But I also soaped up her buttocks, and while facing her standing by her right side, I slipped my soapy fingers between her ass cheeks and gently caressed her puckered anus with the tip of the ring finger of my left hand. She leaned into me trustingly as she surrendered, allowing me to slowly ease my finger up her virgin (to me) asshole. We didn’t say a word and kissed lovingly with my long finger comfortably buried inside her warm relaxed rectum.
She had confided to me after we had first met that her husband had painfully fucked her up the ass several times. I expressed my shock when she told me that had used no lubricant! I couldn’t believe that he had done such a thing to her telling her that he surely knew that he should have used abundant lubricant!
I know you’ll LOVE accepting your future husband’s cum/piss cocktail inside your pussy! Just keep him inside after he fucks you and fills you with his cum. As he loses his erection, it will be easy for him to release his stream inside you. But make sure you either do it outside, in the shower, or have a plastic drop cloth under your bed sheet for easy clean up.
Wow, your wife giving you that piss experience and then sharing her asshole with you shows beautiful passion and spice! I bet that was a very pleasant and intimate session!
Wow. What a lovely and sexy woman you have there Bill.
That’s really heartwarming 😊
You’re not alone, this is hot! I’d love to take turns pissing on each other. It would be tough to piss while inside (also not sure if that’s super sanitary for a woman) but that would be hot. I also would welcome a golden stream from her sweet pussy. I’d say I’m in a similar boat to you.. not excited about tasting it, but I would be down for taking turns marking each other up haha.
And you feel like you’re getting close to squirting? Do you feel like you’re holding back at the last moment or pushing for it too hard? I’m sure if it does end up happening we will be the first to know lol
It is certainly an enjoyable sensation. I just wish it would continue to completion! It's like climbing a high wall and almost getting over the top, and then at the last second sliding back down a few feet. It amazes me that it's as complicated as it is and demands such focus and relaxation.
Also when it comes to squirting idk if this would be helpful, but I came across this a while back and thought I’d share it. I’d be trying this with my wife if I was married that’s for sure lol
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A pre-step to take before trying this method. MAKE SURE YOUR WOMAN (OR YOURSELF, LADIES) TAKE A LEAK BEFORE YOU START!! YOUR BLADDER MUST BE EMPTY. YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHY LATER ON.
STEP 1: Make sure your woman, (or yourself, ladies) is comfortable. Maybe a little wine, soft music, or perhaps a good erotic massage, it doesn't matter just as long as she (Or yourself, ladies) is completely relaxed.
STEP 2: Do what ever it is you usually do to make your woman (or yourself, ladies)have a nice normal orgasm.(If you have problems giving your woman a regular orgasm just skip right to STEP 4).
STEP 3: Make sure you keep making her feel very comfortable, it is key!
STEP 4: Start licking your woman's clit and slide two fingers deep in her cunt. If your woman has a slightly bigger box then increase the number of fingers being used.
STEP 5: Turn said fingers so that your palm is up facing you. Ladies if you are trying to do this yourself you should have your palm against your pubic bone then bend the wrist so it points away from your body. Almost like you are making a scoop.
STEP 6: Push your fingers toward the ceiling. Ladies you want to turn your wrist like you are trying to start a motorcycle.
STEP 7: Run your fingers along this "wall", feel for a small rough area. Believe it or not it kind of feels like a walnut. She (or you) will know the spot immediately.
STEP 8: Keep rubbing, increasing the speed and pressure as you do. Don't rub too hard or
too fast right off the start. Work up to it.
STEP 9: This is probably the most important one. When you do see your woman (or feel yourself) starting to get real excited, they might tell you to (or you might want to) stop because they feel like they are about to pee. Remind them they have no pee in their bladder (if you followed the pre-step!) and tell them to
JUST RELAX and let it GO!!!!!
STEP 10: Take cover because you are about to be showered upon. My wife has squirted over three feet in the air lying on her back!!
So there you have it, ladies and gentlemen, ten steps to oblivion. I forgot to mention one thing. TOWELS, TOWELS, TOWELS!! Or get a second set of sheets ready. And don't worry about doing extra laundry, it is totally worth it
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I've tried locating that spot and I'm not sure I have yet! 😂 Feeling for specific textures inside one's body is actually pretty tough!
I can only imagine 😂 man I can’t wait to probe my wife’s pussy searching for it myself.
Even if you don’t think you’ve found it.. is the sensation still enjoyable? Or do you feel like you don’t have it because there’s no sensation there? It’s all so fascinating lol
I personally don’t feel anything for pee play either excitement or disgust, but if you like it you and your husband can try it.
For me, yes, I’ve drunk a little bit of my own pee just because I wanted to see if I could do it in a wilderness survival situation. I could, but I thought it tasted kind of metallic and not particularly enjoyable.
I’ve also tasted Vanessa’s pee in very small amounts. I like hers better than mine, but it’s still not really an arousal thing for me either.
I’ve tasted my wife’s pee residue while eating her out. I didn’t find it offensive at all in the context of what I was doing.
She has also sucked me off after a work day before I showered, so I’m sure she has tasted mine in the same way.
She remarked on it once, but she didn’t stop sucking me off before I showered, nor did she insist that I always be squeaky clean.
This was a long time ago, mind you, as our sex life has all but disappeared, but still.
I think, honestly, most couples could say the same thing about faintly tasting urine on their spouse’s genitalia.
That to say – I don’t think water sports isn’t that far removed from what most would consider “normal” sex or oral. For some, there is just a stronger desire to put it front and center or make it a normal part of their sex life.
Just my HO…
@KingdomMan, right I get what you’re saying — I don’t see it as a particularly odd “kink” either. It’s just sort of a neutral thing in my book
Sorry I somehow kinda missed where you said you don’t want to drink it.
Same thing as before though, I’m sure you and your husband can try it and see what you think.
Me personally I don’t like the ammonia type odor. But in the shower is likely ideal since there’s not really clean up involved.
Hey, sweets – kudos for sharing and letting yourself break a few boundaries.
The closest I ever came to this situation (pardon the pun :)) was when Jim and I were in a very aggressive 69 position and while I was throating Jim's big tool, he was eating my very creamy pussy (this being after I had already cum once as we were watching each other masturbate) and all of a sudden he dipped three fingers into my dripping cream and with one, very had much, crammed all three into my asshole as he chewed on my clit an slapped my asscheeks very hard with his free hand as I lifted for his cock and bucked my waist as hard as I could, so that he was almost fisting my ass while eating me relentlessly….I lifted, twisted my nipples nearly off my rack, and came like I never have before …AND AT THE SAME TIME I PEED ALL OVER HIS FACE, AS I WAS NOT ABLE TO CONTROL THE PRESSURE OF MY RELEASE.
I did clean up the considerable mess after receiving a cum facial … but I was unable to move my lower body for an hour.
Hi CP!
I know my story is not as sexy, but I once had a pretty serious back injury and that’s the only time I’ve really felt a complete loss of control of my bodily functions. It’s a crazy feeling, but one that I associate with pain and not pleasure. I know Vanessa though sometimes loses control of her bladder during intense laughter as well as intense orgasms.
In her case this has only ever happened after two c-sections when we had our littles.
Holy smokes. That’s just raw passion and I love it!
Vspirit…anessa is a sex warrior! Very impressive expression of her sex appeal and adventurous
A sex Warrior … that’s awesome and I love it, she’s going to love that new nickname 😁
Thanks CP!
oops, pardon the above typos…fingers busy …
No worries, I liked “Vspirit”, sounds like the name of some sort of WWII-era top secret tech.😄
…but I understood what you meant 🙂
Hi LLL,
Have you read my https://marriageheat.com/2021/12/01/wet-panty-masturbation ?
I find it erotic to be horny and see pee wetting/streaming through underwear.
Sarah K
I like for my wife to fart while my penis is in her vagina. It feels neat.
I like to watch her pee. I would go for her peeing while my penis is in her vagina. It seems the warmth would feel great. Her agreeing to do it is unlikely at this point. Figuring out how to handle cleanup would be an issue. We have space where we could do it outdoors, but we can't lie directly on the ground, and I don't think she would want to wash a pissy sheet (or me to do it). Maybe something disposable….
Peeing in a vagina would be difficult. As you probably know, guys generally can't pee when erect. No way could I pee if I were hard enough to stay in her. But apparently some guys can. There was a post on a non-Christian site where a gal wrote in asking if it was medically safe. She and her husband enjoy it. BTW, even though the doctor replying to the post said that aside from possible PH upset in the vagina, it isn't a big risk, you wouldn't believe how many negative posts people made in response. Very few were neutral or positive. Sure, it's gross, but no grosser than anal sex, and I'm sure some of the negative comments were made by people who had done anal.
You can also find some posts about it on Reddit.
The things that arouse people are extremely varied and are simply part of who we are….
And there will always be someone who doesn't. understand it…or enjoy it the way we do with our kinks
I discovered tickling to be very playful and fun with young women and had great experiences tickling a couple female friends (who trusted me and we talked of boundaries)…so I even was able to tickle them to their limits with bondage bec I made it playful and fun…my college GF before I met Janet was a submissive sort and we had bondage and tickling adventures as well…But in the 70s…introducing that kink was risky and I didnt bring it up overtly…I simply used sensual tickling as a replacement…..and bondage play was simply by positioning so I could edge my dear wife until she was incredibly aroused (and vice versa)…..but eventually Janet discovered one very sensitive ticklish /erogenous area on me (my underarms) that made her very happy to continue using it the rest of our lovemaking days….
the other kinks happen to be ponytail hairstyles….that came up only in the last 10 15 yrs or so….jsut like the look of them…so wehn a woman is running walking down the street (like KM and the women's feet)…I dont notice the shape of the woman before thoroughly enjoying the look of her ponytail if she has one… Janet had shorter hair but it never mattered bec even tho I like all those things…they are not deal breakers when it comes to a relationship…
so LLL, I'm glad you have the trust in your MH family to mention your kinks….recognizing and acknowledging them is better than trying to hide or ignore them..