Marriage Sex Tape?
My wife and I love seeing questions and stories and how engaged people are about marital sex.
So the questions we have are:
- What are your thoughts of making your own sex tape? (Recording a video of yourselves for y’all’s own pleasure.)
- Have you done it?
- How did it make y’all feel?
- Do y’all ever go back and watch it?
Inquiring minds want to know!
• It’s something that I would love to do. I see it as a beautiful, sexy way to spice things up.
• I haven’t done it
• I think it would feel remarkable to see us onscreen as the stars of our own private sexy show.
• I would definitely rewatch it 😉
I am of the mind set that a married couple can do anything they want, within bounds of God's ok. And, I do mean anything. As long as it is not an explicit prohibition, from God, I feel they can do it.
Of which, I believe we have missed the boat, & allowed many ships to have sailed that we had at our disposal, or could've had, as to more public, more "appropriate," activity we could've been doing all along had we not given marketshare up to sin & fear.
I feel married couples should have preference, authority, & privilege in society that is now only given to illicit sex. Married couples should be a protected species. Given endangered species status. All along, if people/families (even with children) would've happened to see a married couple out (appropriately) sunbathing nude, or having sex (outdoors or otherwise) people should've excused them, & use it as a teaching moment to children. "It is ok, hun, we don't take offense to that. They are married, they have earned that liberty. A liberty allowed to all people that put a ring on it. You live your life right, & one day, that could be you & your husband/wife. It's a beautiful thing. See that? They smiled & waved. Wave back to them. It is polite…"
By all means make marital sex tapes. However, Be of mind that we lives in a sin corrupt world that will try & destroy you at any turn. The Bible is clear that family will even turn on family thinking they are doing the Lord's work. Be mature & mutual about it as much as you can.
We have done it. I usually delete them after a while. Since, my wife doesn't enjoy her body. She finds it flattering that I want to take pics & vid of her, & she gives me permission. But, anytime she has looked, she turns away. Thinking she looks disgusting. Of which, she has never heard anything but compliments from me.
I go back & watch them. It is a way to remember & reminisce. Cock hardening stuff. But, nothing together, sad to say. But, I understand.
I fully concur with your views about married couples. How I wish it was viewed that way! I remember a family member telling me how on her honeymoon she saw a couple on the beach at the resort making out while topless, and she was shocked. I was like, "Uh, maybe they were a married couple enjoying their honeymoon too and what they were doing was fine."
Wifey here! – this is something we’ve done before. Before our wedding we were both virgins and we decided to record our wedding night! Many people have pictures and videos of their wedding which is great but we decided that we needed to also record our wedding night. It was the best decision we had made! Now on an our anniversary we go back and watch that night along with a few videos we made on our honey moon. After 3 years of marriage it’s so cool to see the sexual growth. We currently have sex 3 to4 times a week and haven’t recorded anything since but we’d be open to it.
That's awesome that you revisit it on your anniversary. We have a few videos ourselves. Most recent of the cum trifecta. Wow what a night
Wow that is so hot! I’m sure in some ways it’s kind of comical to see how the first time inexperience shows.. but man to be able to go back and visually relive the first time you became one flesh has to be amazing!
Being an older couple approaching our '70s, recording ourselves during sexual romps together is something we've done aside from taking pictures. But we're also very careful about it.
Here in 2025 one of the things we're seeing is the constant hacking everywhere and anywhere. Not just an individuals phones but major ISP providers.
Not to mention different websites.
The fact is there are people everywhere in this world who would like nothing better to invade your privacy and laugh at sharing your most intimate secrets to the world.
In an effort to stay safer we have taken any videos or photos and put them on an SD card which we remove from our phone not keeping anything on our phones for more than a day or two.
Years ago before the Advent of phones we had a video camera which we had hooked up to a TV being able to watch ourselves not only during the action but many times after. We've had sex everywhere in our house The kitchen counter, on the couch over the couch on the floor on the steps in the basement on the pool table in the outside shed and even in our backyard when it was dark. And we've recorded most of these things because it's been done multiple times..
We also do enjoy having sex in places that would be more risque. A hotel room balcony, a car in a parking lot, hidden spot on a beach or in the woods.
And even in the gym tanning room.
(And we do clean everything up very well after we're finished.
The rush of being able to hear people around us or just on the other side of a door adds to the excitement.
And there are many times we will put these on and watch vacation memories or memories at home.
But we keep all of these memories out of the an electronic device that would be connected to the internet and hidden.
So, would I recommend that you do it?
Most definitely I think everybody should. Watching yourself have sex is the best porn you can watch. And quite often we're watching it while we're going down on one another.
But above all be safe and protect yourself because nobody else will.
Have fun, lady L. 💋
I might add that with age comes the changes in both body and energy and being able to look back at ourselves decades ago not only rekindles loving memories but is also more erotic seeing our more youthful selves.
Tutchh,
The cyber security technique that you described is called building an "air gap" — or "airgapping", for short. That is building a physical disconnect into your system, so that hackers cannot break in. Like abstinence to prevent pregnancy, it works every time. 😉
We've actually done this off and on for the last 15 years or so. But I was always so paranoid that the kids would stumble onto something, that it was only accessible through a locked folder on my husband's phone and never went up to the cloud. So I never hardly got the opportunity to rewatch most of them! This year, my hubby invested in our own private server to back up our family photos/videos which are getting expensive to store on Google, and he put all those videos in a super locked and password protected folder, and OH MY WORD, it has been extremely reinvigorating for our marriage to both be able to enjoy them at will, and get us excited to see each other again at the end of the day. It's fun to see and talk about what turns us each on, and it's giving us inspiration for what we want to try next. Early on in marriage, I would have been more prude-y, having religious ideas about what constitutes porn and addiction, but I'm this season of marriage it's been very beautiful for us. But yeah, making sure I'm this digital age nothing was gonna wind up on the internet or in front of our kids' sweet eyes is a big factor in making this happen.
That's hot. I caught the mister watching our videos the other day and was so turned on by it I decided to join in
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For those who have recorded these special moments, please share some technical advice. Do you use a tripod to hold your phone? If not, are you mostly getting close ups? Any recommended lighting?
We have made many short clips n done many pics that are stored on a password protected app on my iPhone. Content is only on my phone, not the cloud.
We’ve used a ring light that has a cell phone holder in the middle – plus a remote device to take pics or start n stop the taking of a video.
More often I hold the phone or sometimes use a selfie stick.
My favorite videos are of her twerking and stroking her pussy and tits. She twerks on the bed or by the bed etc.
I have several videos of her giving me a BJ. I hold the phone down low so I get a clear angle to watch her work her magic. I’ve also filmed BJs in front of a mirror (very sexy!)
Some of my favorite pics are closeups of her spreading her beautiful pussy open. She also takes pics of me and my hard dick. Sometimes we take full body shots of each other nude and sometimes closeups.
We have also done video n pics of us foreplaying and fucking & pics of a leaking cum-filled freshly fucked leaking pussy.
Some photos are done by halite lamplight and some with bedside lamps. Some are done in full light. Videos work best with brighter light, especially when we use the ring light.
Salcpl,
A tripod does help, but isnt always available. Weve also tried using two recorders but then it takes an editing app and there's no guarantee thats adding another middleman ans possibilty for theft.
We found that using mirrors and camera angles to show reflections helps to show more. Over time, you figure out how to use mirrors creatively, for things like facial closeups our front/ back perspectives.
Just dont let the idea of changing things ruin the passion of the moment.
Yes, for sure use a tripod. Natural lighting is best. So during the day is your best bet.
My wife and I made a sextape, and it was so much fun and erotic. I can still see in my minds eye what we did, and how we reacted to seeing it. Sadly I have neither her nor the recording, because she was afraid the kids would find it. And she’s been gone 13 years.
But yes, if it’s consensual, and within marriage, I highly recommend everyone make one. Put it on a flash drive, and in an envelope marked. “Kids, you do not want to see this.”
This is another of the reasons for recording ourselves. We never know for sure that we will both be here tomorrow.
We haven't done that. We won't at this point. I don't think it would do much for me. I remember everything we do.
However, if it turns a married couple on to having more sex with each other, they should do it whenever they want.
Also, I'm not sure I read one of the other comments right but no one should be having sex in front of children.
[From MH: They were definitely talking about AVOIDING being seen by their kids!]
I love the idea, and have already taken pics and videos of myself masturbating so I can get used to seeing myself doing erotic acts. And yes, I am nervous about those files being hacked into or stolen, so right now I use my old phone that no longer has service or internet connection, and just utilize the camera. Something I really want to do is video, from behind, my future husband masturbating. Oh my, what an image!
Well you are on the right track as far as it not being leaked or hacked. I had asked Ai about this and the safest way is this:
Using an old phone which does not have an active bluetooth or wifi connection. If so, very dangerous for a mishap or a hack, depending on mobile user. Without that, only the cell phone, provided a secure password is enabled then good.
If you want to transfer the same to another non-wifi device or wifi off, bluetooth off, ONLY use a USB not Shareapps as that can cause a major breach and potential to destroy your marraige.
So only a old phone with a good camer, no wifi, no bluetooth, USB device transfers only. No online fingerprints or active google or other active software accounts.
Stay Safe.
We've made one video and I absolutely love it. I watch it all the time! My wife has been hesitant to make another because she's self conscious about her body, but I would really love to make more.
I am learning (and I hope all ladies can grow in this as well) that men don't see our flaws like we do, nor do they care. They see a sexy female! That fact lifted a lot of pressure off of me to conform to today's beauty standards. I am eager to show myself to my future husband someday, though I figure I'll be shy at first! 😋
We have made some and always love it when we look back on them. Have from young 20's to late 50's.
We went away on a weekend getaway back in the 80s. Back then the camera was the size of two cement blocks. We videoed ourselves have sex. It was fun. But when we watched the tape we looked like a couple of animals. We ended up record over it so no one could see it. We had a good laugh. It would be fun to see ourselves 40 years younger going at it again.
We’ve not done a video but I have been blessed over the years by being allowed to take photos of my wife. Never making love but in various stages of being dressed and undressed.
We got married before there were VHS recorders & the like, and long before digital cameras. We did however, take a lot of pics with a Polaroid camera! Later on, we got a digital camera, and then one that would do vids too! We went well beyond just taking naked pictures of each other. PIV in all kinds of positions, Eating pussy, BJ's, Tit-sex Handjobs for both of us, toys………you name it, we got shots of it! (pun intended!)
My wife liked to look & watch the vids when I was away on business! I know, because I got home early a few times, and caught her! What fun that was!
Fun to watch together too, until one of us just can't take it anymore, and goes on the attack! And, they are a lot of fun to look at now, since we started taking them almost 50 years ago! "Look at those six-pack abs!" 🙂
I recommend pics & vids to all couples. Just a fun thing to do, and get things started!
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I have taken pics of myself masturbating before, though it kind of pulls me out of the moment. I haven't done full video but I have recorded audio a few times when I was alone in the house and had the ability to let loose, that was fun. But the first time I think it was a bit strange, like I was giving something of myself away, which is strange, because it's not like anyone has access to those audios besides me…so far.
On the whole, I think that couples making a sex tape together is a great idea although with modern technology, it's become more and more risky. In fact I remember a movie called Sex Tape about just that scenario where it accidentally got shared to all their friends. People have to get away from phone technology which is far too connected to everything else. If a couple had a DSLR and a computer, that's another story…
We don’t use our phones, just a digital camera and the computer. Too easy to send something to the wrong person on a phone, besides all the cloud business.
That said, some friends sent us a CD of a bunch of pics they took when they went to Alaska, but they sent the wrong CD. We stuffed it into the computer to take a look, and it sure wasn’t Alaska, but them having a hot and grand time naked in a pile!
It is great fun making videos and I wish we also had one of our first time. We were both virgins and my new husband had never seen a naked girl or even felt her. I was also untouched and it would have been amazing to have a camera on a tripod at the foot of the bed and video the consummation of our vows.
We really did become joined when his penis pushed through my hymen and now we are one. We would watch it each anniversary and hear my involuntary yelp. We would then hear my moan of pleasure as he enters me now.
The first time is memorable and cause for celebration.