A Dream after an Eyeful
My wife (R) and I needed to go get a phone worked on—something about checking the eSIM to make sure it was working right. We got to the store and there was a waiting area with a few people. We sat there with all the others, and as some of them moved around, we were left with another woman across from us.
R and I were talking and chatting about the day, and also hoping this would not take too long. Thankfully, it didn’t seem like it would. My wife started playing with her phone, I glanced around at the surroundings.
Then I noticed.
The lady in the just across from us was on her phone too. But it was what she was wearing that I noticed.
She had a sheer top on, and a black bra on that barely covered her very full, rounded, large breasts. My eyes darted back and forth, unable to stop looking at this lady and her breasts that were on display right in front of me. I tried not to ogle. I didn’t want anyone to notice—especially her—that I was getting such a good look. I fidgeted in my seat a little and then my wife looked at me and just said a simple sorry. Apparently she’d noticed too, and sympathized with my situation. Soon, the lady got up and moved to a desk to be helped.
R and I talked about it later. “I noticed right as we sat down,” she said. “I’m surprised it took you that long to notice and start getting antsy! Sorry we sat in a spot where it was so hard to not look. It didn’t help that she was so beautiful.” Her eyes sparkled at me with a bit of mischief, and her voice took on the slightest hint of playfulness. “I just hope you were turning those thoughts toward imagining someone else . . .”
“I was just shocked at first,” I told her. “I was mostly just amazed at the sheer size of those things! And of course, she basically had them out for the whole world to see. But I guess it’s really no more than I could see if we were on a cruise, or at a resort where almost ever woman is wearing a bikini that covers even less.”
She considered that. “Yes, I suppose it’s not all that different. It’s just a different location than we’d expect for such revealing clothing, and surprising to see someone with such confidence to wear something like that here!”
“I think you’d look even hotter in something like that,” I said.
She smirked. “Oh, so you were thinking about me . . .”
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That night, I had a dream. I don’t remember much of the details, but I sure remember the important part!
I was sitting in a café of some sort. It looked like it was in a resort town, or some place with a beach feel. I was waiting for my wife to join me.
She walked into the crowded place with a shawl covering herself, but when she sat down in front of me at our table, she took off the shawl. To my surprise, she was wearing the same thing as the lady from the phone store earlier that day! It was an almost identical sheer top, with a black bra underneath that pushed up her breasts perfectly.
I did not say much, and I could not keep myself from looking down at them. She obviously knew!
I don’t know what conversation we might have had in the dream, but I know she kept teasing me by moving around and sitting with her back arched, or with really good posture for me to get better glimpses. Then she got up and walked away for a moment. Because of the vague haze of dreams, I’m not sure what she was doing—going to the counter or bathroom? It didn’t matter.
What did matter was that, when she came back, she had the same sheer shirt on, but this time she had a cupless bra on. You know, the kind that pushes the breasts up well and has a piece that goes over the top, but allows the boob and nipple to poke through. I was in shock and looked around the café. No one was looking. Again, don’t know the conversation that was had—especially with this extra distraction—but there was definitely more teasing. The only think I remember her saying was a teasing, “What’s wrong?” Obviously, my preoccupation showed, even in the dream. Unfortunately, the dream ended all too quickly. I woke up with the biggest stain on my boxer shorts.
Wow! What a dream. I wish my wife had the confidence to pull something like this off. I told her about the dream. Maybe she will take a hint and at least do it in our own home. Although I would not mind her showing off her breasts in public like the lady in the store sometime. Or maybe we could reenact the dream in a café, though maybe not going so daring as to try the cupless bra! Is that okay, do you think? Or in appropriate?
Needless to say, my wife could absolutely pull this off, but we are pretty conservative, so I’m not sure it would happen.
I am glad I had the dream of my wife, because now I get to enjoy that image in my head instead of the lady at the store.
Now off to work to daydream, and perhaps look for cupless bras for my wife.
Editor’s note: some of this story’s dialogue was added in the editing process, but was all based on the author’s original summary of the couple’s conversation.
I think for a lot of husbands (and boyfriends) that situation and following conversation would have gone differently.
Based on what little I know, attitudes I’ve observed, and conversations I’ve overheard, a lot of women/wives would have been upset about their husband/boyfriend viewing such a display and even more so about them becoming antsy.
So, pretty conservative or not, I think you and your wife have a great relationship to be able to handle something like that the way you did.
I think it’s great that you followed up with a dream where your wife was in place of the woman. The two of you could do some very nice role-play if you could convince her.
You could even go so far as to return to that very spot and she could sit across from you. 😉
Yes! Something HUGE I have learned from couples here is the beauty of the mindset of turning any external arousal into desire for one's spouse. Instead of getting upset or jealous or guilty, both are confident in knowing they are loved by their spouse and they can then turn that desire towards each other. I now practice that; if I see a hot guy in real life or in a pic or video, I appreciate his good looks and turn any sexual desire towards my future husband. So much healthier than lusting for a guy I don't know or can't have!
Well hopefully R. will pick up on the dream for you and you two will be able to experience something that will be arousing for both of you !
Not so much anymore because we are getting older. But in years past when we would go on vacation we both enjoyed the attention when I would dress in a more revealing way. Usually we would go out for dinner somewhere and he would say what he would like me to wear.
He enjoyed The attention that would get. And for me I admit that it was a turn on. Especially when I would get positive attention from another woman.
And My compliments to R. for the fact that she has an understanding personality. Some women would jump down their husband's throat if they caught their husband's looking.
I brought it up before here, the fact that we had developed an open rapport about everything sexual in our lives we have learned to take instances like this and talk together about them. The fact is a woman's body is beautiful and sexual. I find myself attracted to women. And when it comes to an attractive man or a woman we are able to talk about it together and point out what it is that we found attractive and what our thoughts might have been. The fact is we all will find someone attractive and we will all at times have sexual thoughts about others. Being able to converse these things to one another is a way to bring it into the light and use it for your own purposes. Some amazing sexual sessions have developed for us in our own intimacy.
And most of all my compliments to you for being sensitive to you wife and staying within the comfort zone that the two of you are accustomed to.
Lady L. 💋
Tutchh, I agree with you! You said most of what I was going to say
I know hubby loves to get glimpses of women in revealing outfits. Its great that he can admire women and know that I'm all he can handle at home.
Hopefully, he was inspired to yank off your clothing and fuck you into cumming so he remembers how great you are.
I agree with Tutchh. My wife and I often comment to each other on beautiful people we see. Neither of us is bothered I even draw nudes sometimes. This doesn’t bother my wife.
The human soul & body is God’s greatest creation. You can look at even a nude body and appreciate the beauty. Yes it may be arousing to us sexually – but certainly not always. And our sexual behavior is focused on each other.
In Australia several years ago a beautiful couple came out to the pool while we were there. They were from Spain and both were very beautiful people with little on left to the imagination. The woman posed in sexy ways around the resort’s pool’s mini waterfall as the man took photos.
I speak Spanish so we ended up talking with them for quite a while. But when my Melody n I got back to our resort hotel room she went all vixen and began posing for my viewing and sexual pleasure.
We ended up having an incredible sex session so we were actually grateful to the young couple! I write up that experience for MH.
❤️
I had to make another comment about sexy dreams. About a year ago I had this long sexy dream where I was a young college student who had to room with a female student. We became good friends and fell in love. Suffice it to say the dream was really REALLY sexy. In the dream my girlfriend n I did not have sex until AFTER we rather suddenly decided to go to the courthouse and get married.
I told my Melody about the dream as I typed it up on my iPhone journal. The dream set her off in a good way! (The coed in my dream looked a lot like Melody.) We immediately started a passionate lovemaking session! I’m so glad my wife doesn’t feel threatened by my erotic dreams.
Love the fact that your wife rolled with it. I am of the thought that if God talks about it, we should, too. And, if it happens in God's creation we should freely acknowledge & appreciate it as the audience to the show. Expressing it as we want.
However, my wife would not see things this way. As, others commented, it is typical for a schism to exist between spouses, here, & in other places. Sexual, or not.
The most apparent, to me, reason for the division is our worldly sinful culture (duh) that compares. But, what it is, specifically, is that women are taught subconsciously to take other women down as a threat. Many times a woman will acknowledge the beauty, or fashion, of another girl with the undertow of keeping her away, or being better than her. This is what our culture has taught women to think. It's not just to compare, it is to size up the other woman in question as to how much of a threat she is to what you have, built, & accomplished yourself. She can take my man, or my man might leave me, among other insecure reasons to defend or be aggressive against.
Yet, here, you show us a couple can acknowledge & appreciate. It sounded as if your wife was slightly aware of the typical "threat" making sure what you saw made you circle back to her. Yet, you were able to express your view of the other woman.
As others have said, I see where a marriage can be aware of threats without being accusing that the other spouse is falling prey, or the that the other person outside the marriage actually has the power to sway the spouse. Both spouses can live the iron clad marriage without all the typical sensitivities & control checking going on.
My desire is for marriages to discuss actual situations like you were in without any defensive posturing. Like a couple would discuss the attractiveness of a Hollywood star, knowing that there would never be a hook up with them. This kind of discussion can allow full expression. Like, her tits looked really good, or I wonder if she shaves. Or, I wonder if she would cum for you like you make me? If the marriage is secure spouses should be able to have their mutual expression of their surroundings.
And, before anyone scoffs at this graphic discussion no one would bat an eye if the wife were talking this way with here sister, mother, or besty about the same scene. This goes for the husband & his core mates, as well.
100% agree with you, SCMM. Marriages have GOT to be built on a strong foundation of trust and confidence, so couples can frankly admire the beauty of others, and none of that jealousy or fear arises.
Thank you all for the comments about this incident. I will tell you, it was a good day and my wife must've been feeling confident. Because not always would it be like that. I think becuase she was calling it what it was, it helped. Wives call it what it is. It is beauty and if you notice, then I guarantee your husband noticed. We all see beauty and it is different for everyone. In this case, it was just the moment and her stepping up and calling it out. I did not have to and it made it easier. I did not tell you her side of the story. Later on in the week, when we got into some foreplay. She asked me about my dream and shared something she had been thinking about. She told me that, she had been thinking that if it were her in that seat. She fantasized about me taking her to the closest desk and laying her across the desk and pounding her. Of course no one in the store, she just was horny and talking about what she had been thinking and we were in our sex session and getting each other aroused. So husbands and wives, just try to keep it real with each other. It is not always perfect, but this situation was honoring to me and by her just laying it out there, it helped me to get past it too.
This post really got me thinking, and honestly, it's inspired me to try something similar myself.
I've got a sheer top I've been too shy to wear, and now I'm thinking of pairing it with my black open cup bra. I love the idea of catching my partner's eye across a room, knowing exactly what he's seeing and that it's all for him. The thought of that little secret between us in a public space, and then the conversation we'd have about it later… yeah, I'm definitely going to try it and write about how it goes.