Sexy Game Night Ideas

Sometimes we need to break up our routine in the bedroom to keep the spark alive.

Maybe a fancy date isn’t in your budget, and maybe roleplay isn’t your thing, but here are a few easy and cheap game night ideas for a fun, sexy evening at home. These games are meant to be fun, maybe even a little silly, and sexy enough to get you both in the mood. And who doesn’t love a little fun?

Ground Rules First

These are all games, and many do have “winners” and “losers,” but the goal is for the two of you as a couple to have fun, and . . . well, have sex. So in the end, nobody really loses. Being overly competitive or a sore loser can really kill the mood. So be a good sport, have fun, and don’t take the game too seriously. After all, it’s about what comes after.

Another thing that can kill the mood is discomfort. Be sure your spouse understands the game and is comfortable with what you are asking them to do. If someone is confused or uncomfortable, the game won’t be fun, and the sex will probably be awkward, if it even happens at all. So talk about it beforehand. Plan it out together and come up with some house rules to make it extra fun—or extra spicy. After making your plans, the anticipation will make things hotter.

So here are a few ideas to get your creative juices flowing. And maybe some other juices too . . .

Strip Poker for Two

A true classic. For those not familiar, the rules are simple: you and your spouse play a hand of poker, and the loser has to remove an item of clothing. You could also bet your clothes as though they were poker chips (“I see your pants and raise you a shirt!”), but since it’s only the two of you, it might be easier to just stick to removing one item of clothing per hand.

The game can end whenever you want to; usually, that’s whenever one or both people are naked.

What happens if you decide to go until both of you are in your birthday suits, but one person runs out of clothes first? Well, if the nude spouse loses again, the winner of that hand gets to choose one intimate or sexual activity to be done for one minute. This could be any number of things! The loser might have to give the winner a massage, dance naked, make out, hump a pillow, masturbate with hands or a toy, give a hand job or fingering to the winner, give oral sex, or even have sex in a position of the winner’s choosing—but only for a minute! Don’t be afraid to just be silly with your prize! Maybe the loser has hold a ridiculous yoga pose, or do jumping jacks while singing the ABCs. If you both end up laughing, it’s a win. You can be creative and come up with these things in the moment, or make a list beforehand; it’s up to you and your spouse!

If poker is not your thing, that’s ok. These rules can be applied to almost any two-person game where you win a hand or a round: Blackjack, Skip-Bo, Quiddler, and Phase 10 all work. This can even be applied to certain board games like checkers, chess, or Battleship (capture a piece, and your spouse has to remove an item of clothing). Even an intense game of rock, paper, scissors can work.

Be creative and come up with some house rules if you and your spouse want to add a personal touch. Maybe you start with an even number of piecing of clothing. After all, is it fair if I only wear shirt, pants, and underwear when she has on sweater, shirt, bra, pants, panties, and socks? Or do you even care? Maybe a mismatched amount of clothes is a fun challenge! Does each sock count individually, or do they get removed at the same time? Maybe you both start naked and get right into that list of activities the loser has to perform. Maybe whoever wins the overall game gets to control how you have sex, what positions, pace, etc. Make it your own game with your own rules!

Uno: Adult Rules

Play Uno, but with a twist. Assign an action to each color (kiss, grope, etc.), then every time you play that color, perform that action. Keep these actions short, or you might not make it through the game. Wild cards and action cards like reverse or skip can get extra spicy (like oral or 1 minute of sex in a certain position). And don’t neglect coming up with a special “punishment” for forgetting to say “Uno!”

Truth or Dare

This is another classic. It’s a fun way to learn a little more about each other while warming up for the main event. Come up with your list of truths and dares, or look some up online. Just be aware that most of the “adult” truth or dare items online are geared toward couples that are neither Christian nor monogamous. Also, some topics may be uncomfortable for your spouse and should probably be avoided if you actually want to get laid. So tailor your lists appropriately.

How well do you know each other?

Exchange lists of “get to know you” questions to answer about each other. Include some standard questions like, “What’s your favorite movie?” or “What’s the name of a childhood pet?” But mix in some extra spicy ones, like “What’s your favorite sex position?” or “What’s your favorite kind of foreplay?” See how many answers you can get right, and the winner gets a “special prize” that you two get to decide!

Note that questions about former relationships or painful subjects might not be the best idea here, because remember, the goal is to have fun and set the scene for a sexy evening!

Scavenger Hunt

Send your spouse on a scavenger hunt to find one or more things to be used during your lovemaking session that night. This could be lube, a toy, lingerie, or even yourself. Bonus points if the notes are sexy. This is a fun way to introduce some gifts or build anticipation without being competitive.

Clothing-Optional Charades

Play charades with each other in the nude or in lingerie. Or start clothed and remove a piece each round. Or remove a piece as a reward if your spouse guesses right! Or maybe a correct guess earns a minute of an “activity.” You could even come up with some of your own extra sexy ideas to act out. It’s up to you!

Naked Twister

If you have ever played Twister, this has crossed your mind. Take turns with one of you “twisting” and the other calling the moves (and laughing). Or better yet, find some way to either bring the spinner with you, or find a way to make it automatically call out the moves while you and your spouse “twist” together. Be creative!

Dirty Monopoly

Turn the spice up to 11 with an extra-dirty game of Monopoly. Assign a price to each item of clothing and a variety of sex acts that your spouse can purchase. The shirt? That can go for $10. But the bra? She’s going to need more for that. Maybe she could even buy it back, for the right price. A kiss could set you back $5, but 1 minute of oral will be $100. Things could get pretty crazy with this one: need a loan? Finger her for a minute. Stuck in jail? A 1-minute blowjob will get you out. A minute of doggy style and the bank will sell you that property at half price. Set some of this up beforehand or just negotiate prices as you go. You can be as flexible with the rules and the, uh, prices as you want.

If you or your spouse is not comfortable exchanging even fake money for sex acts, feel free to skip this one.

Minute to Win It

Make a list of affectionate, intimate, and sexy things to do with your spouse. Then pick something from that list, set a timer for one minute, and go for it! Go back and forth, choosing what the other spouse has to do for one minute. You could also number your list and roll some dice to choose.

Think about making multiple lists. Maybe one for solo actions, one for foreplay, one for non-penetrative sex (like handjobs and oral), and one for intercourse that could include different positions. Switch between these lists as you play. Maybe you warm up with a foreplay list, and jump straight to PIV, then back to non-penetrative sex.

Play until someone comes, or you are ready to say screw it to that timer and screw your spouse.

Sock Wrestling

Strip down to your socks. Whichever spouse can get the other’s socks off first gets to choose how you have sex! For a challenge, don’t use your hands.

But be nice! If you hurt your spouse, you’re not going to get any.

Naked Wrestling

Lose the clothes and practice your jujitsu! For some extra fun, coat each other in baby oil first. Just be ready for the mess. You can wrestle until someone gets “pinned,” but this usually transitions naturally into something else. Trust me . . .

Again, be gentle. Winning is not worth an injury and a ruined evening. And guys, sometimes it’s sexy to let the lady win.

Masturbation Race

Get naked, get some lube, get comfy where you can watch each other, and race to the finish line! Whoever comes first wins and then has to help the other spouse finish. You may want to warm up with some foreplay to get good and aroused. But not too much! No cheating!

This is a fun way to add some mutual masturbation to your sexual repertoire, especially if you or your spouse likes a little competition. Incorporate toys if you like. This can also work with handjobs/fingering or 69. See just how good you are at getting each other off!

For a twist, don’t race. Instead, see how many times you can edge before you lose control. Who has better sexual control?

Crazy Sex Position Tryouts

We have all seen them—those lists of “expert” level or Kama Sutra sex positions that leave you scratching your head. So, if the two of you are feeling extra horny and a little adventurous, pick two or three crazy sex positions to try out and see if they actually work in real life. Don’t feel any pressure to make them work, and don’t take it too seriously. Keep it light-hearted and goofy. Just have fun being a little ridiculous and share a good laugh at your own expense and at whoever dreams up these insane ways to get it done! And you never know, one of them might actually work.

A few words of caution: some of these require a great deal of fitness and flexibility to pull off. Honestly assess your ability to perform these safely. Don’t strain anything and don’t drop your wife on her head, for obvious reasons.

Also, be careful when looking these up. While there are censored and non-explicit versions, quite a few sex position examples are literally pornographic. If that makes either you or your spouse uncomfortable, especially if one of you is a recovering porn addict, maybe skip this one or be a little discerning when looking these up. I do recommend looking them up together. Not only do you both know exactly what you are looking at, but you can also choose a few positions together, which can be fun and build a little anticipation.

Final Thoughts

These are just a few ideas on how game night can get out of hand in the best possible way. Actually, I kept thinking of more things as I was writing this, so the possibilities are pretty much endless. Comment if you have any of your own ideas.

One of the best things you can do is plan this out with your spouse. Decide on a date, what game to play, and hash out the rules together. Not only will you both be on the same page, but it will also keep you both aroused and buzzing with that delicious anticipation.

Then be silly, have fun, and make sexy memories. If everyone is laughing at the right time and moaning at the right times, it’s a win.

Even better if you make everyone wonder why the two of you keep giggling every time someone mentions Uno.