Anyone Ever Have a “Spouse with Another” Fantasy?
I know what you’re thinking, but it isn’t exactly what you think.
Here’s the deal. Yes, I have had many fantasies surrounding my deep love and affection for my super sexy hubby, Jim, involving another hot woman joining him in bed. That’s a fairly common fantasy that has been discussed before on MH. But the kind of fantasy I’m talking about is different.
You see, lately I have had these very creamy “out-of-body experiences” where I am on the outside looking on as Jim makes passionate love to me, but my view is through the eyes another woman. Because I am not able to comprehensively see him as he’s working me over in bed, these fantasies put me in the place of a third party so that I can take it all in—and masturbate big time while enjoying the show.
As an example, when I am devoting quality service time to sucking every beautiful inch of his cock, I can’t really see the expression of ecstasy on his face that I know is there. I hear the guttural moaning and his heavy breathing while I throat him and finger his balls, but I can’t connect visually. This is the reason, I believe, why I keep having these creamy dreams of him totally blown away by me, watching through the perspective of another woman.
This reminds me, during this fantasy period recently, I will sometimes spot a woman I feel is very hot and appropriately built (like me, pretty stacked, firm and confident showing off), and she might be the one who assumes the position in our bed in a fantasy, while I play and enjoy my mans servicing. These fantasies almost always climax with a very heavy facial on my surrogate at the same time I reach an explosive orgasm from my fingers or a toy.
And importantly, Jim is not unfaithful in this fantasy, because he only sees my face on my dream girl, and I’m really not unfaithful either, because I’m pretty much fixated on his dreamy facial expressions during sex.
So, my question is: am I really weird? Or is this something others in this awesome MH community have experienced?
Beautiful intricate fantasy. Our is simple. When we set our eyes on someone we think he or she is hot, we use them in scenarios and role play.
Mentioning names when we make love or masturbate set both on fire especially names of close people we both know.
Watching each other really adds depth and impact to the fantasy.
Weird is unfair to use Patty. U r amazing in this fantasy and your husband is lucky to be part of this.
You are so sweet Pam…and I’ll bet hot! Lol
Very steamy! I have definitely had the desire to see myself working my Juliet over in bed. You are not weird. Question about your dream girl: do you orgasm picturing your husband’s load on her face?
As a matter of fact, yes. Face and other places! Thanks
Where else do you picture your husband’s load? My full balls are dying to know.
Romeo, I have really been getting off lately by lapping-up his loads from my nipples. As I have mentioned before many times here in MH land, my nips are very large and hyper sensitive to my touch and my tongue. I am fortunate to be sufficiently endowed to enable me to lick, suck and nibble my own rack when the mood strikes, which lately is frequently.
Licking your husband's cum from your nipples…….so hot!!!
I remember the first time Mrs. Tulsa did that, and I was totally mesmerized! I never lost my hard-on, and was slipping it in her pussy as I watched her lap up my cum! As I started humping, I joined her and we cleaned up her nipples together, tangling tongues as we did, until we both came together! It got to be a thing we did now & then after that.
Thanks for the reminder, because it's been a while! I don't think I can get hardened up so fast anymore for a post nipple-cum-lapping-fuck, but it'll still be HOT HOT HOT! 🙂
I certainly have shot several loads to this story and made quite a mess. It needs to be lapped up.
This is an interesting fantasy. Yes, I have kind of had the fantasy of me watching myself making love to my wife. This is also something that I have dreamed about – where I’m watching myself making love to my wife.
Sex with a large mirror kind of makes this possible. We have stayed in hotels & inns where large mirrors gave us a view of the action. Even our own bathroom mirror has done this for us when my wife has bent over the vanity and I took her from behind. Also with her giving me oral in front of the mirror has been fun!
I remember you writing about your mirror encounters, LM – very hot and thought provoking! Keep it hard my man!
Coming from someone who you know already shares many of the same kinks and fantasies.
You've prossibly read about M. or myself finding a woman attractive and how we will discuss what each of us find sexy about her. First off, there is no jealousy between us. We will speculate what we think that person is like in bed and eventually at a point later on we're someplace more private the discussion will become more handsy and mouthy.
But something at our age is looking back at a video of our sexcapades from twenty or more years ago, it is a turnon to watch our younger selves and how. Passionate and raw we would get.
Especially where tge hairstyles and colors were different.
Lady L. ♥️💋
Such special and sexy memories to play with tutchh! Love you two!
My late wife was aware that my fantasy was to have her and another female in our bed, and that it was a sexual FANTASY only. She would ask, is it so and so? I’m not answering that question, but she had an idea who she thought I would like to share her with in a threesome.
I would write short fictional stories that always were married couples playing out roll play sex, but every once in a while one would be a threesome, and she still got horny thinking about it.
There was no way I would ever had played it out for real, but it did add spice to our sex lives.
I totally get it and I do think it’s very hot to have such fantasies. I see from my low raring here that many others disagree. All I know is, I’m masturbating now, thinking about my husband’s face buried between my legs, so, I’m happy and horny reading your thoughts, so thanks!
Patty, I don't know if I would come to the conclusion that the rating is reflective of people's approval or disapproval. I'm kind of thinking that maybe it's because it was on a holiday weekend that your story was posted and there may not have been as much of traffic here as people were occupied elsewhere.
I think these kinds of fantasies are more common than most realize. If one searches about fantasies that women have, surveys have been conducted in posted for people to read about.
Being able to talk about those things openly which have traditionally been considered taboo and open them for discussion is an important service to everyone who may be feels they are the only ones who feel its way.
Lady L. ❤️
Not weird at all. My wife has the exact same thing from time to time. She says the expressions I make with not only my face but my body enjoying turns her on the most. So much so that she squirted in one of her self pleasure sessions. Which then turned me on. We have made home videos for that exact reason. Watching ourselves is a huge turn on us. And of course it's only for us.
She says her biggest turn on is the finishing moment. When I come whether it be in her mouth or pussy.
What's turns you on the most about your fantasy? What gets you to the finish line?
Thanks SM, I would have to say that watching Jim’s body react to my super horny actions really gets me off – and that’s why watching another woman, that Jim (and I) find attractive, servicing his long, thick cock – while seeing it as me doing it, gets my pussy very creamy.
So, I guess is an out of body sex experience with a stand-in.
Lady L, so sweet of you to reassure me about the ratings on this site, guess I was spoiled with most of my 25 stories getting in the 4-5 star range. I’m just hoping I haven’t lost my touch and I’m still able to help men and women achieve more and more intense orgasms!
Keep posting girl ! There plenty of us who are your fans.
Huggggsss💋
Lady L.
Hmm, when you put it that way, maybe I do, a little. I do sometimes get turned on at the idea of someone watching me and my future wife have sex, but realistically, it's not something I have any interesting in actually doing. I want to keep that completely between us, and not let anyone else share the experience, even if only visually. (Although the one exception to that is that I WOULD like to share our experiences for MH, if she's comfortable with that!) And even in fantasy, the idea of a third person joining our special place is more of a turn-off than a turn-on for me.
HOWEVER, the idea of being able to see ourselves from an outside perspective, and watch ourselves from every angle as we ravish each other… that's hot. And it's something I would absolutely love to do. I don't think of it as looking through the eyes of another person, though, I just imagine it in the abstract, or enabled by video, for example.
Recently, I have actually been craving a specific view along these lines. I'd love a view of me and my future wife in a sort of "prone cowgirl" position where she's on top of me, leaning forward so her breasts are against my chest, and her face is right by mine. In that position, I would LOVE to get a view from behind her so I could watch my cock thrusting up into her, her swollen pussy spreading open around me, her gorgeous ass flexing and bouncing, her cute little pucker showing between her spread cheeks, and every other detail I could imagine. Mmh! Sounds delicious!
Thankfully, I think this part of the fantasy can actually come true if she's on board, because we can record it on video and watch it back together as we act it out in real time! Or we could even just run the live video feed into a big screen that we could both watch! Although I'd love to have the video to watch back later too, so maybe both live video and recording simultaneously could work. It sounds incredibly hot, not to mention so intimate, to watch the act of our union together.
I can imagine there might be some dirty talk involved too, almost personifying the camera we're showing off for. "Mmh, yes, my sexy girl. Show off that gorgeous ass for the camera. Let it watch as your pussy takes that big cock. You like showing off your sexy body for the camera, don't you?" I'd take every chance I could get to make her feel sexy and admired!
Very interesting and honest…love it! I feel that this is the sexy vibe all MH readers share, read about others in a secure, passionate relationship – feast on fantasy and fuck like crazy in reality with your devoted spouse!
I know right now, as I am fingering my creamy pussy, that Jim’s cock head is aimed at my wide opened mouth, my head tilted back to open my throat to take in all I can…
…and yet, he’s 1,200 miles away…
Thank God for hot fantasies!
WOW!!
It's me who's wet as can be.
I think I might have to go get our safe phone put in the SD card and watch it on our bedroom TV while I lay in bed.
This has been a pretty Steamy morning.
Thank you marriage heat!!
Lady L. 💋💦💋💦💋💦🥰
I mean I think its a dangerous fantasy, since its quite confusing. But as far as what I understood. You desire to see yourself & Jim in a Third Party Perspective, or Third Party Point of View. Which can be satisfied by seeing each other in a mirror or camera. But I would recommend caution only cause you know the devil is so hopeful for the wrong decision which seems right, until its too late to change course, because the act was done.
So while I absolutely love your sex stories. I would recommend tabling this at the Lord's table as a couple. God bless.
Camogotammo, please know that I deeply respect and appreciate your thoughts on this third party issue, and I would be the first to agree that unless you have a long-standing, trusting and committed relationship with your spouse, even suggesting any third party elements into the sexual dynamics would no doubt be disastrous!
Thanks again!
CreamyPatty- I have had a similar fantasy. In my fantasy, my wife and I are involved in a threesome, but the other woman is my wife. It is an identical twin (I guess) so it is still just my wife, but we are fully engaged; both of us enjoying all the possibilities of pleasure. In that sense, no matter where I cum, it is in/on my wife. She is sucking or fucking me, she is licking and being licked by herself. Obviously this is not possible since she is not a contortionist. (How amazing that would be to be rear entry while she was bent over, head up to be able to lick my balls and her own clit while being entered?)
lol! Wow, now that’s interesting, and actually pretty close to where I’m coming from. Perhaps an easier way to convey this would be to say there are times, especially while I’m sucking his cock, that I wish I could watch his eyes roll back in his head as I’m finishing him off with both hands stroking (sometimes one or two fingers in his hole) and my lips and tongue swirling and sucking his very bulbous head as he unloads!
Is this only from No eye contact and not seeing reactions?
My gf has said she thinks she would like seeing me with someone else. That's not for me, but is there anything that I can take from that without another woman?
Hey punkyskunky, MarriageHeat is a Christian site that focuses on marriage relationships. The site leadership (and most of our membership) does not approve of sex outside of marriage, so you're unlikely to get any of the advice you're looking for here. Sorry!
Yeah, like he said …;)
CreamyPatty,
There is a way for you to make your fantasy become real.
Get someone to record you and your husband on video.
That way, you can see yourself in action from an "outside" perspective.
Being a couple's cameraman just happens to be one of MY fantasies. 😉
(In the "deluxe" version of my fantasy, I get to "interview" the wife while she is in action. I ask her questions such as, "Do you enjoy your husband's cock in your mouth?", or, "How does your pussy feel right now?")
You’re cute TO47, but, believe it or not, I’m not sure I want to share that much of myself, or Jim, with anyone else, especially a cameraman. Sorry for popping your bubble.
I did have my sister take pics of me years ago, but that was quite different- and they were only topless.
It's definitely not weird at all CreamyPatty, I have had similar fantasies as well. Even night after watching my wife finish her Pilates workout I was so aroused by her that I dropped my pants in front of her and started stroking my hard cock. We talked about her pretending to be watching me as someone looking through the window. It was super arousing!
I've had a similar fantasy to Mtstreetdoc, where my wife has a clone and I have came up with all sorts of fun ideas, such as eating one of my wives out while the other one sucks me, then switching because obviously they both deserve a turn. I watch both of them pleasure each other with toys. I would fuck one and finger the other one until one cums then switch. One of my wives would watch while the other one fucks herself with a clone dildo of my cock. Honestly, it's so hot and the ideas are endless!
This inspired a fantasy that I've never thought… my wife and I each having clones of each other and being able to fully "swap" with the clone's "spouse". Like, maybe the clone "wife" clone of my clone is the same as my wife, but a different version of her from an earlier stage in life or with an emphasis on certain elements of her personality that are extra fun and spicy or with certain body traits and different attitudes than the woman she was cloned from (but the same person and face, if that makes sense).
Oooohhhh… so many delicious ways that could play out, too, besides just watching or switching. Thank you, CreamyPatty and MrSunnyD, for inspiring these awesome ideas. I made need to take the day off to "explore" them…
Well, mister sunny D, I guess I know what the “D” stands for. I feel that as long as you keep your lucky wife as the focal point, it doesn’t matter how many versions of her you are sucking, fucking and eating!
As long as those thoughts are keeping that big cock of yours hard and active, the better off you both are.
And I can tell you that after I read every one of these responses to Jim (while his head I’d buried in my bald, creamy pussy of course) he will be destroying every hole he can find on me. You see I’m picking him up at the airport tonight after a five day business trip. And you know how I get …..
Thanks for sharing and keep in touch – literally!
I couldn't agree more! Maybe I'll have to come up with a fantasy where I'm fucking, sucking, and eating a whole group of clones of my wife! That could get really intense!
They definitely do keep it hard and active, especially after reading about how Jim will be destroying all of your holes!
I am sure he is in for a real treat when he arrives home!
You're welcome! I will! I appreciate your reply!
I made a video once of my wife with my phone while I was taking her doggy-style. She didn't know at the time, her face was buried in the mattress. She worked overseas for about 5 years and I used to use that video while she was away while I was masturbating and imagine that she had her phone set to record the action for me to watch. Definitely made my Friday nights when we used to have phone sex and I would pretend she had found somebody to entertain her for my benefit.
Sounds like you had fun with it together, very cool. And as long as she is the star of all of your fantasies, keep stroking that cock and keeping her horny!
Well Mr,Sunny D, since you asked, here's a quick update:
It's just around 11am and I'm just rolling out of bed after marathon sex last night (as predicted, all three access points) and a somewhat forced Deepthroat BJ while I was half awake. Good thing his load was so forceful and deep that I didn't even cough.
I'm not complaining, my four O's over 6 hours total made up for lost time!
CreamyPatty, I can't believe I'm just now seeing this but I'm so glad I did! Thank you for the update! That is so incredibly hot! It has my cock hard as a rock and me fantasizing about me and wife playing out something very similar!
Glad you made up for lost time!
Absolutely agree with MrSunnyD… that's super hot and has me super worked up, as well. I'm craving a marriage where we are each so completely aroused and free use and able to spend hours or days ravishing each other to the point of complete exhaustion. So much lost time to make up, and so for now, I survive on the wonderful knowledge of knowing there are brothers and sisters out there feeling that complete freedom in their loins. Something so powerful about thinking about the freedom coming from being able to fully release orgasms without care and express the innermost energies from my groin. Having the freedom to feel orgasms so richly as you do is a goal I'm striving for… so thanks for the inspiration in the meantime!
It's impossible to read your replies and not get a hard on. My wife says that she also loves it when blowjobs are forced 😉
My wife and I made a dildo (Happy Jr.)from a mold of my cock (Mr Happy)…..createamate was the supplier back then…… I have found it very erotic seeing “my cock” going in and out of her wet cunt. The visual of “my cock head” parting her pouty pussy lips is amazing. My wife loves to suck cock….well….loves sucking mine! I had frequently thought she would be wildly pleased to suck cock while getting fucked. After making Happy Jr., I have fucked her several times with Happy Jr. while she sucked my cock. We have done this with her lying down and in a doggy position. These 2 cock trysts are amazing. She has never said she fantasizes that it is a 3-some but for me, getting my cock sucked while my cock fucks her is very erotic! I would never agree for another man to fuck her but there is a very erotic quality to giving her pleasure in more than one way and all-the-more knowing it is “my cock” doing it!
What a tag team you have there Blessedman! I would too be happy to have a spare cock to admire when my big Guy is away!
Me and my wife often say names out loud when making out. Names of friends we would both sleep with in our dreams but it will never happen. Great turn on saying another girls or mans name while fucking knowing they won’t ever get hold of me or her. I would call out Lesley and she would call Scott it is so much a turn on knowing we wouldn’t fuck them now but if one of us died we know there is someone out there that would come and fuck us anc make us happy we have both agreed this as they are both single.
Very creative, erotic and sweet you two!
Yes. I’ve fantasied about my sweet, elegant Anne with another woman. Observing them and then my wife teaching/showing her how to be pleased. Fantasy, only. I admit that it turns me on to imagine it when I’m horny and stroking.
SG, I love it because your wife is still the focus of your fantasy!!
It's kinda like when you are stroking your cock, thinking about her in any situation that turns you on, you are still shooting your load all over your wife… face, breasts, lips, ass – or down her throat – it's HER!!
Thanks, Creamy, for your comment and encouragement. Just about to stroke my cock and imagine just as you wrote!!!
[I fantasize about seeing] my beautiful Wendy with another man, perhaps [the husband of one of my cousins], who I know secretly loves her and desires her physically. […]
Willy, I’m wondering if you have ever shared your thoughts with your wife. Who knows, she may get really turned on knowing that you fantasize about her sexuality and seduction powers! I know because Jim and I discuss such things openly and securely.
We have never discussed fantasies. I have had some of swinging.
I have asked for details of her past, with other guys, before we knew each other. She did tell me some things. But, she asked why I wanted to hear about her with other guys. I explained that it wasn't about the other guy. It was about sexual expression while she was having sex. In this way, I get what you are saying. Wanting to watch them having sex with another. But, with me, it is about seeing her showing more of her sexual expression than she does with me. Plus, no matter how intense her expression is, it is just plain hot to imagine her enjoying herself & getting off.
But, it all just stays with me, because she does not talk sex. We do have sex, just not too much talking about it goes on.
You two would be perfect candidates for mutual masturbation…watching each other pleasuring and getting off…the best part with Jim and I is when we embrace together after we cum – and immediately go for a follow-up orgasm!
Oh yes Patty! THIS!! We have mutual masturbation often… and one of my favorite moments is when my wife starts going for her 2nd!! Mmm!!!
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Gotta try that, like this afternoon. Jim gets home Friday, plenty of time to play!;)
You can try [an AI site that generates this kind of content.]
I found it after GROK became available only for paid users. This one is much better than GROK, you can generate very nsfw videos, just provide an image of you, you + your partner, ask the site to add a third fake person, etc, everything is possible.
Just trying a few now.
[Edited by MH: Sorry, we're not quite comfortable referring our community members to sites that generate AI porn, even if its suggested use is for married couples.]
Thanks for letting my previous comment appear here MH.
And in some way I understand your note on "we're not quite comfortable referring our community members to sites that generate AI porn", but personally I wound't see as porn fantasies that you can tranform into real videos where you and your spouse are involved, that cannot be porn.
[From MH: We generally agree. Our concern is not with married couples using AI tools to artificially expand on existing images or videos of themselves. The concern is more about supporting a site that almost certainly contributes more harm than good through the creation of content that is used in immoral ways. It would be similar to supporting a mainstream porn site that hosts 95% immoral content, which is viewed in immoral ways 95% or more of the time.
Admittedly, this is just one moderator's view, but if the topic was brought up to the whole admin team, I suspect they would agree with this take. It's the same reason we remove any links or direct recommendations to other porn or erotica sites, except the rare site like Song of the Believers which mostly aligns with our Christian view of sexuality.]
MH point on 69WoodCock is well taken