Sex From a Woman’s Perspective
(Making love to your spouse is as close as you can get to another person and as much as you can do to love yourself. On earth, it’s the ultimate cure for loneliness. One day, God’s presence will fulfill our deep ache to be united with each other.)
I want my body to be welcoming to you. My breasts filled with a sweetness that you’ve known from your youth. Soft and warm. Ready to open myself up to you… With wetness that allows you to slip easily into me, guiding you to the deepest part of me. Making you as close as one person can be to another, to be inside each other, probing deeper. Your manhood, thrusting into me with all your strength. Your tongue, sometimes your fingers, exploring my mouth, reminding me of your rod penetrating me, making me feel it all the more.
As I suck on you, my entrance tightens around you. I feel you, your cock’s pressure on all the walls of my vagina, as it pushes past, deeper into me. I feel the head of your penis; at times, it kisses my womb, and at others, slips past it and rubs all over my inner mound. I make efforts to push my tongue into your mouth, to probe you and to make you feel what I feel. You probably think it’s cute. But you don’t share the same experience with me. Men and women were meant to experience this differently.
For you, being the one to put yourself inside me, I imagine it’s a comforting, soft place to rest your head (and your other head) and to get into your emotions. You feel safe enough to be aggressive or vulnerable, to be comforted and warmed, and to have even the parts of you that seem unclean be welcomed. I hope you feel total acceptance and love when I willingly take your seed into my body. I’m saying yes, I’m still committed to you. Yes, I love to take your semen into me.
Yes, if we get pregnant, it’s a blessing. Thank you for being vulnerable with me, for being willing to do the hardest job with me and commit to another 18 years, another lifetime with me at any time. Thank you for your willingness to say I trust God to provide for our family, trust Him with our lives and any new lives He may send our way. And I’m honored that He trusts us.
DPN this is so beautiful! It’s a great description of what married sex can and should be. Thank you for sharing this!
Thank you for sharing your heart, feelings and perspective. I am going to post a link and I hope MH Admin approves as it compliments and elucidates your beautiful blessed offering here. And, it explains where we guys are with lovemaking. It also gives insight why premarital sex is actually hurtful to men. Carnally satisfying? Yes! But still hurtful because of what physiologically happens as designed by our Amazing Creator! Physiological connections without covenant commitment is damaging to men whether they realize its impact or not.
https://oysterbed7.com/why-sex/
We actually love Bonny's work and can wholeheartedly recommend her site, especially for the low-libido spouse.
You guys are the best. The MH community is awesome. I want to share a site that I have found to be a useful resource, too. Biblicalsexology.com has some really insightful articles. I may not agree with every word of it, but that whole approach that maybe you love each other first, and submit to each other first, and work on the intimate part of your marriage first has really been a winning approach for me. It goes along with another bit of philosophy that I picked up from liveonpurposetv. "God gave you your spouse so that you would have someone to love" instead of like, comparing them against a list of responsibilities, seeing them as a blessing first. Sorry if I'm rambling. Thanks all.
Interesting article. I’m sure the author believes her quoted scripture supports her comments. Everyone reads into scripture whatever supports their point of view. Worth reading; love to see how others think. Like going to various Christian churches and learning how different they are.
Beautifully written and surprisingly accurately reflects both male and female sexual experience. One additional comment. When a husband is rebuffed by his wife (not in the mood or having a headache), the intimacy you describe is replaced by rejection. For a man there is no middle ground. The humorous comment that “a half hour of begging is not foreplay” is only humorous because it strikes close to home.
You mean "Sex from One Woman’s Perspective." Not to be a critic; we are all unique. No one’s beliefs represent all others in any group. But a very lovely presentation of your opinions.
One woman and A woman are synonyms. I certainly didn't begin to think I spoke for all women. Hope you enjoyed it.
Sorry my incorrect assumption.
Just beautiful ! Real intimacy.
What is Bonny’s site, please?
We approved the link in that comment.
I have to say this: we don’t make love, and I love that. He pounds my pussy hard, and that’s what I want.