Going Down After Getting It On?
For many years, the thought of going down on Lucy, my beautiful wife, after ejaculating inside her during penetration always sounded hot, but the male body’s natural resolution phase after orgasm made me lose all interest.
Eventually, after much discussion with Lucy, I have overcome this. I can now bring Lucy to crashing orgasms as a result of going down on her after I have come inside her, and it has become one of our favorite ways to finish a sexual episode together.
What are others’ views on this?
Men, how have you had or still have an aversion to this after orgasm?
Women, what are your thoughts on having your man enjoy the sweet mixture after penetration and ejaculation inside your vagina?
This sounds similar to me many years ago. I wanted to masturbate, ejaculate into a glass and then tip the cum into my mouth, taste it and swallow it down. I wanted to get an idea of how that would feel for a woman giving “French.” I was up for it right up to the time of cumming off; then I would immediately go off the idea. It took me many attempts to finally be able to be comfortable with this, and it was soon after that I was able to cunny my wife after I had orgasmed inside her, and we both thoroughly enjoyed it. If this gives you both much pleasure then go for it – you're only young once, says this 71 year old lover..!
I used to go down on my wife often after I came. If I finished first, I didn't want to leave her hanging. She enjoyed it, and I got to give her a wonderful orgasm! Never bothered me. I would even lick up a little semen. She would be hot, wet and enjoyed it. She doesn't want oral anymore though!
Good questions. This is our answer, but it is kind of king: For us, I get so turned on during sex when I think about slurping up my cum from Melody’s leaking pussy. However, like you mentioned, the resolution phase usually ends that desire. But I still want to taste our love mixture. Since in the past we often used flavored lube, I call it our “pussy churned protein shake.” So, usually after intercourse, I use 2 fingers to scoop “sum cum” out of my beautiful wife’s lovely pussy. (I DO think her female genitalia or external part of her pussy is beautiful! I wonder if other husbands appreciate what a beautiful work of art that part of our wife is.)
Anyway, after scooping, I rub our “protein shake” onto or into Melody’s nipples. Then I orally & manually love on her nipples. Melody will buzz her clitoris with a vibrator and almost always cums from this, although sometimes she cums during intercourse. In fact, recently she surprised me when she scooped our cum from her pussy herself & rubbed my treat on her titties for me to enjoy!
Probably about once a month, I feast from the source right after cumming inside my wife. Often this is not my wife’s favorite thing for me to do, so I have to gauge her mood. She doesn’t orgasm during oral, but her body likes it so much that cunnilingus almost always primes her for a great orgasm when my mouth gets back to her tittie and her vibe goes back to her clitty.
Because I usually have two orgasms in a sex or lovemaking session, sometimes if her orgasm(s) is or are taking a while, I will dive in for some clit licking. This will help her reach the peak when I get back to sucking and licking and tongue-flicking her nipples while her bullet vibe stimulates her clitoris. By the between-orgasms phase, her pussy isn’t leaking much, but the lingering taste is awesome!
We now don’t always use flavored lube in her pussy, so I rub it on her nipples during foreplay & often right before intercourse. Then I still get my flavored shake when she or I scoop out the cum & rub it into her nipples.
Finally, there have been times we PLAN on me licking her pussy right after I fill it with my semen. In those times, she will encourage me to “hurry before it leaks out!” I must add that her pussy leaking our love potion is a wonderful and incredibly sexy sight!
In conclusion,
I too, agree that my wife’s vulva & vagina are a sacred work of art, especially with naturally unkempt pubic hair. I never tire of being aroused by the sight of my wife’s triangle of brunette pubes which lead down over her mons to her absolutely petal-like labial lips—yes, the centre of her vulva looks like flower petals, so lovely and crinkly. As for when she gently peels them apart so I can see the beautiful juicy pinkness—oh, what a wonderful God given work of art!
Oops, let me finish my long comment by saying… In conclusion, if the husband loses the urge for post-coital cunnilingus he could do like we do; that is, scoop the sexy cum mixture from his wife’s pussy and rub it onto or into her nipples and lick it off from there. Of course, every couple and every person is different so we wouldn’t expect everyone to do as we do, but it sure works for us!
I didn’t have an aversion to it, it was just something I never thought about doing.
Years ago, it happened after I did one of those two minute drills and my wife was hardly warmed up yet. After thinking about it a bit, I figured I’d give her an O the best way I knew how. I also figured I’d be working on her clit anyway, above all the cum running out of her, so if she freaked out, I had an escape!
So… it turned out, that she had fantasized about me doing it for quite some time! This brought on her own two minute drill and the most powerful orgasm I had ever seen her have!
Long story short, she loved it! Because she loved it, it became a regular thing for us, and I tried other forms of cum-play too!
My husband Ben should probably be commenting on this, but let me say that he has no qualms about eating my pussy after he has cum inside me. He is comfortable with the taste of his cum, especially when mixed with my juices. Plus, I find it to be really hot, and I always cum while he is doing it. Ya'll stay horny!
I'm new here and after reading this I'm glad I'm not alone. I always love to go down on my wife and lick her till she cums and I keep going. At that point I'm so turned on I have to get inside. I'm very comfortable with my cum and hers.
I went down afterwards but I left my seeds on top her bush. She murmured, tongue me. What a mouth full.
We both enjoy the mixture of body fluids prior to orgasms. Not sure if she is crazy about oral after I cum in her but will try it soon and report back. As for me, my precum is not a bad taste, but I do lose interest after a healthy ejaculation. I have had a creampie or two but can’t remember how she reacted other than definitely enjoyed… just not to what degree. She does love me cumming on her tits and abdomen sometimes and then us wallowing our bodies together. 💦 🤪
I have wanted to try it with my wife, but once I have orgasmed, my desire is gone. My wife has stated she would like it; not sure how to not lose interest.
Just do it if that is what she wants! Your enjoyment is not the benchmark always. You might find that you get a revival once you see how it turns her on!
I would love to try out our mixture of love juices. I’ve just not had the gumption to go down on my lovely wife after I have cum in her vagina.
Mr. Martin here. I thoroughly enjoy this practice and often find it leading to multiple orgasms on both ends.
I don’t mind my pre-cum, but I always avoided my own semen.
Now that’s just me, so if that’s what you and your wife like than have at it. Sex after marriage is supposed to be fun and adventurous. And if you’re single or widowed like me, masturbating is fun too.
I also love giving oral sex to my wife after I ejaculate inside of her. During sex, the thought of it drives me wild. After I have an orgasm, I struggle with any sexy thoughts because of the male response cycle after ejaculation, as you mention. Luckily, my wife will whisper some sweet encouragement to me and tell me how much she wants it, which provides me with the motivation, and then I remember how much I love it and her.
The idea sounds very delightful to me, and if I ever get married, I would love my guy to do it.
I too lose interest after finish inside of my wife. What discussions did you have with Lucy to help you get over it? I would like to be able to enjoy going down on her after penetration.
First time…..we had no discussion. I felt bad cause I got off, and she wasn’t even warmed up yet, so I just went down on her to give her her’s.
The second time, I wanted to see if she would cum the same way like she did the first time!
So went the next dozen or so times after that. Then, I started a discussion! I wanted to know where her hip-bucking, face-grinding orgasms were coming from, although at that point, it didn’t matter ’cause I was hooked on bringing them on!
My advise: just bite the bullet, and do it! After the first time, it gets easy quick—assuming your wife reacts like mine did, anyway!
Read a true story once about a guy whose wife would get on top when he was about to finish. As soon as he came,she would scoot up to his mouth so he could give her oral and lick up both of their juices. He said they finished sex like that pretty often.
My husband has always loved sucking my pussy, and I never have to ask. If & when he cums inside me before I cum, his immediate response is to take care of me and suck me off. There are too many times that he fed me his yummy cum and my thanks to him was to feed him my cream-pied pussy. I love riding his mouth, & he asks me cum in his mouth every time he sucks on me. And I do cum so good when he sucks on me. I love straddling his face after he cums inside me. He has never turned me down, & I love that he does that for me. He doesn't cum inside me often because I mostly like sucking him off & having him cum in my mouth. It's just something I prefer. I would much rather have his cum in my mouth than in my pussy. But when he cums inside of me, I willingly share all he's given me. He loves sucking my pussy. Sucking the cum from my pussy has never been an issue. It's just an extra reward for both of us, and I love offering him my cum-soaked pussy. It's his to enjoy.
Many years ago there was a night when we tried everything to get my wife to orgasm. Nothing worked – cock, hand or tongue. After about 30 minutes of unsuccessful effort, she said "OK, you are going to have to cum in me first". I slipped in her and then went down to try again. There was and is something about her knowing that I love her enough to taste my cum in her hot body that it turns her switch. She came within less than a couple minutes. Ever since that first night, we both get turned on when I hear her say I need to cum in her first. I love it because I know that I will soon feel her cuming on my tongue. We have even continued something similar after discovering I could no longer ejaculate in her hot body (old age, not because I didn't want to.)
I could still cum by hand with a lot of effort, so, we would prop up her bottom on a couple pillows; I would get up next to her and start stroking my cock. I would hold open her delicious vagina lips with one hand and cum in her with the other. It was a turn on for both of us – she knew that when I quit pounding up against her that she was going to feel my tongue. I was turned on knowing that I would soon be feeling her cum on my tongue. The taste of my cum doesn't do anything for me, but I definitely love bringing pleasure to my amazing wife.
Definitely much more common than you think. Like Possibility, I tried my own load solo to get used to the flavor and texture. Once you do that it gets so much easier. Love the erotic act of enjoying my own semen with and without my bride. It's clear in Song of Solomon that oral enjoyment is blessed and sacred in the marriage bed. Our load is our masculine essence and just as pure our our wives' feminine essence. Enjoy without inhibition and give honor to God for His wonderful blessing of sex in marriage.