Question
Hi, all. I’m new here, and 24 years old.
I’ve read a few stories here, and most of them are amazing. Especially on how important sex is for a married couple and what it represents. There have been many categories which I’ve read, and of course I understand why we do “it”. However, getting straight to the point, and this is a question for the ladies …
What is the most important reason why you’d like to go down on your man and give him blowjobs? What prompts you to do it?
Thanks in advance for your insight.
Three reasons:
1. I love my husband very much
2. I enjoy giving him pleasure and he loves for me to do it.
3. I absolutely love sucking his dick!
Hopefully this answered your question hon. Stay horny @
EXCELLENT answer!! Honest, direct, candid. (And, it gave me an instant hard-on!) 😉
I’m not a female but I asked my wife. We discussed it. She actually doesn’t usually care for performing fellatio. Not all women do. I love receiving oral from her. So, my Melody & I made a deal years ago and so she gives me oral on holidays, my birthday, and our anniversary. Sometimes she’ll surprise me with fellatio on HER birthday or on other unexpected occasions, like right before we go to a wedding. She gets into it nearly every time. She has perfected her craft. She gets this “proud of herself” look while doing the deed… & afterwards.
Often I will give her oral after she’s done so for me. Or I will give her oral first. Or I will give her oral with no expectation of getting it myself. Sometimes she blows me until I come and other times oral sex is part of our foreplay.
One piece of advice I have to share is do not force it on your wife. Do not pressure her either. Talk it over. We did. Right after she first gave me oral in our bed – 3 weeks into our marriage, she said it gave her bad memories of her childhood sexual trauma. So she suggested that we do it in our shower/tub. That worked for years. Now she is ok doing it wherever. She has done it in pool private changing rooms, health club private changing rooms, in bed, in living room, in hotel rooms..etc.
Now, to answer your question: The most important reason my wife gives me oral sex is because she loves me and wants to give me pleasure. But ironically, sometimes giving me oral also really gets her sex-motor going! For example… Health issues make this too difficult now but until just a few years ago (as I mentioned ) she regularly gave me oral in the shower then she’d turn around and bend over and I’d finish in a rear entry position inside her pussy. 8 years ago she really surprised me when she let me cum completely her mouth. Still, now more often I cum one spurt in her mouth then she will manually pump me to finish me off. Sometimes I’ll cum on her beautiful boobies and occasionally partly on her face.
Oral sex (fellatio especially) used to be one of the only things we quarreled about. Setting up the schedule really helped. By the way, setting up a sex frequency schedule helped a lot as well.
This comment is more than you asked for but maybe it will help in your marriage or in your future marriage.
When you get married, you become one body in the eyes of God. What's mine is his, and his mine. We do not deny the other access to each other bodies.
The most Christ like thing a married couple can do is make love.
It shows their love and respect for each other.
I love my husband and will do anything to show him that. Oral sex is something I (we) enjoy. To taste him in my mouth is a very erotic experience.
Being single and waiting for marriage to indulge in any sexual activity, I can't answer the question of why I give a blowjob…but I can say why I would! I'm so excited to someday enjoy every part of my future husband. I want to give him pleasure and fulfill his dreams of being desired and loved. Men need that as much as women do (I have an upcoming post on this subject). Plus, it just seems so hot to do this act on each other! My only problem is a very strong gag reflex, so I won't be able to deepthroat him. I'll have to learn other techniques to make up for that. I can't wait!
My wife said she doesn't mind doing them. She does them because she knows I like then.
I'm pretty lucky, I get a headjob about once a month which I think is pretty good for being married 15 years.
You might be wanting a more detailed description from wives here. That would be good story subject.
You have to communicate.
Spouses need clear direction and feedback. It’s ok to flirt but need to speak your wants and needs as a couple.
If a blowjob is a want for him and then it’d be want for her to please him and vice versa. Having his cock in her pussy would be a need in my opinion.