All the Things I Love
The more I saturate myself in a sex-positive outlook, the more I find allure and sensuality in even small things. I’ve said before that all my senses are very keen; I’m visual, aural, tactile, etc. My goal is to utilize all these faculties in my sexual practice, especially if I ever become a wife. I want to appreciate every detail about my future husband. And as I learn more about anatomy and sexuality and the uniqueness of the male and female physiology, a lot of things have taken on a new titillation for me. This is just a fun post about all these delightful little things.
I’ve talked about some of the more obvious traits that I find really tempting. A man’s v-line is Number 1 on the list. I see that and my pussy throbs. Maybe because it’s more visible on fit men and fitness is important to me, or because it’s naughty, since it’s so low on his torso and shouldn’t be exposed.
Male chests are also one of my favorite things to look at. I like hairy or smooth, with more rounded pecs. I don’t care too much about a 6-pack, as long as he’s trying to work on his core.
Oh, and a guy’s back! There’s a poster at my doctor’s office showing the rear view of a male torso, and I always fantasize that it’s my future husband and I walk over and kiss all over those rippling muscles.
Did I mention arms? Strong and chiseled, with defined biceps and shapely forearms. Healthy and worked-out, I guess I mean. Though I don’t go for that over-the-top bodybuilder physique where the guy looks like he’s going to bust out of his skin. It looks fake. (Same for women; I like muscle, but not a made-of-rock body.)
Moving on…
The male jawline and neck are very attractive to me. I don’t care for a super-square jaw, but I love just the definition of it. I love the muscles and veins in the neck. My preference is clean-shaven; that grayish shadow of a freshly-shaved jaw is so sexy to me. I forget where I first noticed this, maybe a shot in a movie, but I get extremely aroused by the view from below of a guy’s chin and jaw. For some reason, it’s just so masculine and strong and rugged. I love the idea of being somehow placed so that I can look up and see the underside of my man’s jaw.
Another thing is a man’s hands. Oh boy. I never used to notice hands, but I do now. I stumbled on a Reddit thread called Man Hands, and just those pictures make me hot and needy and antsy in my core. I like them supple and veiny, weathered, maybe some hair on the backs of them, and looking like they work hard. Maybe I’m just weird! But I think of a man’s hands all over my body, touching me where no man has ever touched, pleasuring me, holding me, making me feel that I am his, and I could just faint. My future husband is going to have very appreciated hands!
Next—and this one is also very tantalizing when I think of it—is when a guy sucks his belly in when he’s being heavily stimulated. I’ve seen this in numerous things (movies, workout ads, etc.) and it’s such a raw reaction. It’s like he can’t help but inhale and tighten his abs because of the sensation he’s receiving. And it might not even be genital pleasure. It could be that he’s being kissed or touched on his back or neck or legs. It’s that tight belly and pronounced ribcage that gets me. Whew! I will sure enjoy drawing that reaction out of my future husband someday.
I know that other things have struck me and I’ve filed them away in my brain to explore further, like voices and smiles. As far as voices go, I like them to be, again, masculine. Unmistakably male. That’s not anything against guys with higher or softer voices; everyone is made uniquely by God. But different things attract different people. Since I’m so old-school and old-fashioned and fiercely feminine, I want to be complemented with fierce masculinity. And by fierce, I don’t mean vicious. I mean…intense and grounded and confident. That’s the overall physical/physiological trait I’m looking for.
In the meantime, I’m keeping my senses on the alert and enjoying this journey of observation and cultivating my likes and dislikes. Sometimes I wonder how my future husband is going to view me when we first meet (whenever that happens). I think of myself as being somewhat peculiar, in a funny way. People kindly tell me that I’m beautiful, though I know I’m not model material. But again, everyone has their own special tastes. Every category of person has admirers. My dad and I were discussing this recently. He was saying that sometimes you look at a couple and wonder how on earth they ever got together. The truth is that each found the other attractive. That’s what matters.
Besides, our culture has put unrealistic beauty standards on us, especially women. Real people don’t look like the Hollywood stars or the Instagram models. That’s all photoshopping and colorizing and air-brushing and extreme editing. My belief is that physical beauty comes from caring for your body, which is a gift from God and, for a Christian, the Holy Spirit’s temporary housing. Use what you have and take care of it. Most importantly, follow and love Jesus more. That’s where real beauty comes from anyway.
It’s going to be so fun and wonderful to find a guy whose preferences and likes are realized in me.
Greetings. I have read many posts by LLL. Some are particularly titillating to me. I don't know if rebuke, however, is appropriate in this forum. I remember learning from Torah study that if you rebuke a wise person, they will love you. If you rebuke a fool they will hate you. MH staff, please remove this comment if it perceived hurtful to LLL, or spoils the fantasy aspect of this forum. G-d bless you all.
I love this LLL. I think it’s outstanding that you have put this much thought (and observation 😉) into what you find attractive. Men are conditioned to think that women aren’t that visual, but it’s refreshing to see that you are. I hope that your future husband checks all the boxes and you can truly enjoy the view while he’s ravishing you. 😉
Thank you KM! I am really thankful to be so visual, and it does make me wonder if women in general are more so than they're said to be. Either way, I fully intend to enjoy every attribute of my future husband!
I like this post LLL. I totally feel the same way about women and their bodies. Sometimes I find myself just admiring certain physical traits like you described in this post.
I recently had an idea for a post that is similar to this one. I was thinking the other day about how over the years I feel like I’ve transitioned more from being a boob guy to an ass guy. Obviously I still love boobs, but I feel like I’ve started to appreciate a good ass more.
I’ve been lifting weights for years and throughout the years I’ve learned more and more about muscle building and how men and women react differently to weight training. I do think there are some exceptions, but I believe most women can build a great ass through proper weight training.
So in the same way you appreciate a man’s v-line because you understand the hard work and dedication required to obtain that, I’ve begun to appreciate assess more because of the hard work being done.
It takes some work to get there, but it’s definitely possible! I think I remember a while ago you mentioned that you were trying to build your butt up more in the gym as well. Have you found a good gym routine that works well for you?
Great comment! There is truly so much to admire about the bodies of both sexes. God is the Master Artist.
I think I have hit on what works for me. I work out at home though, not at a gym. I don't like people watching me when I exercise! 🤪 It's definitely taken trial and error, and I know diet plays hugely into it too, but I am definitely closer to building a healthier body as well as carving out my feminine curves to their full advantage. I do a lot of strength training, using bands, and floor work. Also I employ some of the exercises from the T-Tapp program, which is all isotonic or isometric (I can't remember the difference between those two).
Haha! I totally get that. You can definitely get a lot done at home and sounds like you’re making the most of it. To build glutes (or any muscle group) progressive overload is crucial. So being able to increase resistance over time is important. And again the amazing thing about men and women, is that each respond differently. Men will build muscles in their upper body, so shoulders and upper back will widen creating the upside down triangle look. Women will grow muscle mass primarily in their legs and ass which will help create the slim waist and broad hips combo.
It’s amazing how the each sex to the same kind of training.
All weight/resistance training is great, but to specifically build muscle in your ass, I would focus on movements like hip thrusts, squats, and dead lift type movements. You can definitely still execute a lot of these exercises with bands if you don’t have the weights.
Happy lifting 💪🏻 just another way your future hubby will be able to appreciate you! I try to keep myself in the best shape possible for the same thing 😉 can’t wait!
Lovely lady, I feel I know you as a friend having read your comments and stories. You are truly a very sensual woman and I thoroughly enjoy what you write.
You describe things so well that I can picture it as I read it and have read them to my husband.
We have both come to care for you through your writings and feel that whoever the man is that gets you for a wife will indeed, be a very lucky man.
There has been more than one occasion where but you have written has sparked passion in our evening. . Thank you so much for what you write you have brought us pleasure as well. And knowing what happens to me when I write I trust that your fingers have found pleasure as your thoughts and feelings were put to words
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🔥❤️L.&M., ❤️🔥
Thank you so much! That is very kind and also very inspiring! I am honored that my writing can spark some heat between you and your husband. All praise goes to God for my growth in sexual positivity.
"… it does make me wonder if women in general are more so than they're said to be. Either way, I fully intend to enjoy every attribute of my future husband!"
LLL – I think the Bible supports the idea of women being visually turned on. And not just in the Song of Solomon either. In Leviticus it says that the Altar of the Lord was not to be elevated, and that the priests were to wear underwear under their robes to keep people from being distracted. While it does not specify, that at least includes women being able to peek in an up-skirt way. And then there is this gem:
Ezekiel 23:20
She lusted after their paramours, whose flesh is like the flesh of donkeys and whose issue is like the issue of horses.
Equines have very long penises, sometimes over 20 inches long when erect. and the "issue," aka ejaculate, can be more than a cup full; as opposed to human volume which is a couple of tablespoons full. So the prophet acknowledges that size can be very arousing.
IMO the idea that women are NOT visually stimulated is entirely cultural.