Pussy Pumps
When my wife and I hit up the adult stores, I sometimes notice the pussy pumps and can’t help but get extremely horny thinking about my wife using one.
I have the most amazing, adventurous wife, and she is definitely a secret freak! I would say our sex life never has a dull moment. But when I mention a pussy pump to my wife, and the fantasy of her using one, she makes it clear that she isn’t interested in trying one out.
I respect what she says, despite how bad I would love to use one on her. She already has the most delicious, juicy, and beautiful pussy lips. It’s the thought of them being even more pumped up and engorged that turns me on so hard.
Does anyone have any experience using these? I would love to hear your experience, good or bad. Are they worth it?
In case the votes are “for” (or if you are one to try things anyway), here’s an affiliate link* to one model out there:
I've never used a pussy pump before. I've seen them advertised on Adam and Eve and other sites, but never purchased one. If I'm not mistaken I think my daughter Alicia was going to purchase one, but don't think she ever did. Thanks for the post!
God bless you and stay horny!
I don’t know anything about them, but after reading your post, I looked them up on Adam & Eve. Some of the reviews were pretty enthusiastic. So apparently they work great, for some women at least.
Oh yeah, the one that we have sucks and has a licking tongue that moves back and forth at the same time. It drives my wife wild. Just be ready for here to be super sensitive down there afterwards.
My wife uses a pussy pump on occasion. Basically they create suction to increase blood flow and sensitivity. She doesn't usually cum using it, unless she keeps it on for an extended period of time. She prefers to use it prior to oral. It does temporarily cause her to swell up (vulva, labia and her clit). It definitely is a different feel when I lick and fuck her. She says she can cum harder if she uses it just before sex. She says use plenty of lube and its a better feel if you're bare down there, also work your way up slowly. For me, this is a lot of fun to use in our bondage play.
It sounds like a fun toy to use! Honestly though, I don't know if I'd need it. I already get very aroused, swollen, and wet down there when it's playtime! But I never know; maybe it would add even more enjoyment to my masturbation.
It seems it's not very long before some new sexual practice is coming along or toy is developed.
And we are not adverse to trying the things believe me or the years there's probably well over a hundred different things that we've tried together sexually.
Of course the very first thing is that you both need to be in agreement.
From what it reads like she really doesn't have any desire for it it's you that wants her to do it.
my husband and I came to an agreement a while back that if one of us wanted to try something it had to meet three criteria
1 It could not be expressly forbidden in the written word. (Bible)
2 it had to be legal within the framework of civil law.
3 it had to be safe.
If it was we would try it.
If after trying one of us didn't like it we would discuss why see if there was a way to tweak it and make it enjoyable for both. If we couldn't find a way we threw it out.
If it was enjoyable for both of us kept it in our repertoire. Many of those things we did years ago we still enjoy.
When we first saw penis pumps and pussy pumps it intrigued us. But we found that we both had the same concerns. Once we begin looking into it we saw that there was a possibility of long-term health effects.
First off as always watch out for low quality. Sometimes , the degree of control and sometimes the cheapness of control can put you in a compromising position such as a vacuum pump that you cannot release.
Also there is the possibility of blood vessels breaking and nerve damage. In other words you could risk losing some of your sexual pleasure in the long term.
We gave that one a hard pass. There's a wide variety of things that two can do to make things fun.
SIDENOTE: something else concerning cheap. We have a friend who is an emergency room nurse and she has said it's not uncommon for people to come into the ER with having a toy or other object stuck inside. One of these being butt plugs.
If the stop on the outside is too small you risk the possibility of the entire thing going inside and it being almost impossible to get back out. At other times the end can break off.
Another problem are poorly maintained sex toys. They have to be cleaned regularly after every use and lubrications used with them particularly if they are silicone should be silicone safe otherwise they can cause breakdown of the material.
Have fun, but be safe!
Lady L.💋
Hi Lady L
One thing we've always done with our toy selection is buy top quality toys. On occasion, when we didn't enjoy it, we'd be out the cash, but it's worth it. I think everyone has a poorly made sex-toy story, we certainly do. It's a good idea to check on the health benefits before use, she still uses her pussy pump, but sparingly.
I love your criterion list, we do something similar and I always wondered if other couples did also. Ours extends to different kinds of sexual play as well (role playing, types of bondage, etc).
The hotel we were staying at in Florida for an anniversary vacation many years ago had a fairly reputable adult toy store nearby. The second evening, after a couple margaritas, we walked there to see what kind of mischief we could get into. Among other things we purchased a couples pump which included the tube for him and the dome thing for me. It was more the excitement of doing something different together than any pleasure the device brought. Other than appearance of my swollen lips I didn't notice anything different in sensation or pleasure. The next day we went to the beach. It wasn't a private resort but the beach area was not public. My husband got a kick seeing me wear a thong bikini with my labia and clit still puffy. Overall it's a fun "once in a while" toy but for me it was more about the appearance and doing something fun together than any pleasure it caused. I really enjoyed seeing and feeling his unit pumped up but that's a story for another thread.
R.H. Karen, your pussy was still swollen/engorged the next day? How long did it take to return to normal?
So what exactly did you use on your husband? Was it a penis pump? Love to hear about it.
We have a much cheaper looking pussy pump. I’m the husband and enjoy using it occasionally. It definitely changes the appearance and my wife seems to enjoy the extra sensitivity. She has great orgasms without one, so I don’t know if it improves them at all. But it’s good for a change.
@Hot Tamale:
The swelling took another day or so to go completely down. We hit the beach around noon after that first night of using the pump and I was wearing my white thong bikini which kept slipping between my puffy lips. This wasn't a lifestyle resort or adults only so no one seemed to stare or notice. My husband thought it was funny watching me be embarrassed but I eventually relaxed enough to enjoy it. I got my payback the next day when I made him wear a speedo and kept teasing him.
Sweet n sexy revenge!
How long did you leave the pump on your pussy? Is like to see that affect on my wife sometime. We have a cruise coming up. Might be interesting
I learn something new every day. Never heard of such a thing before. 😂
We’ve used a pussy pump on several occasions over the last 25 years of our over 50 year marriage. Getting a quality pump is the secret as cheap ones make it hard to sustain a good vacuum seal. In our experience, using the pump does increase both the blood flow as well as her sensitivity.
The swelling increase of her vulva and labia varies depending on how long the vacuum is in place, changes from a little to a lot the appearance and sensitivity, which is arousing to me, too. I confess, the appearance of her pussy swollen and hot and moist with her love nectar is super arousing and wonderful for me.
My wife finds it a wonderful help as her sensitivity has decreased over the more than 50 years we’ve been married, so it is a welcomed gift for her, and she usually climaxes from all the forms of stimulation I provide. It now is the only means for her to be able to experience multiple orgasms at our ages.
I enjoy both oral sex with her swollen and sensitive intimate lips as well as how she hugs my penis during intercourse with her pumped.
She usually returns to “normal” by the next day, but is very aware of the increased volume in her love garden for several hours afterwards, and that reminder encourages her to be very sensually open to other erotic connections. For us it is a wonderful addition to our intimate connections and love life.
Certainly worth a try in our book.
ForeverHers, Thank you for the advice and personal story. The thought of my wife’s already beautiful lady bits being swollen even more is an absolute turn on. One day when she is ready I think my wife and I will have much fun getting to experience the pleasure from using a pump.