Outdoor Sex Advice
My wife and I have always had a fantasy of having passionate sex outdoors somewhere. We both love reading the stories about others trying it outdoors, and have often joked about trying it, but have never found anywhere suitable.
We want to request two things:
First, does anyone have advice on good and safe locations to try this in the area of New South Wales (Australia) or around Sydney?
Secondly, please share any tips or pointers you have! Especially for couples who have done this before, what are some things you did that made it a comfortable and enjoyable experience, or some things you would change to make it more so?
We drove our Jeep out trails in the desert, and parked under a shade tree for comfort. I sat on the tailgate and she stood over me and held on to the rollbar for support. I was able to feast on her in comfort. Then she sat on the tailgate, I stood on the ground holding her legs and entered her.
For cleanup, baby wipes or a water bottle and washcloth. Baby wipes are easier because you just throw them away.
We also pack a picnic. Needless to say we are very fond of our Jeep.
We are Jeep fans too, and have been for years!
We are surrounded by a whole lot of desert with no people in it. We wander around and search for old mining camps and towns, and end up in places where there is little chance of being caught by anyone other than a jack rabbit or a coyote, so it’s easy for us to jump each other while we stop and look around!
We keep an old sleeping bag in the Jeep, so we can throw it down on something outside, or just in the back of the Jeep to make things more comfortable while we have fun with each other’s naked bodies! Often we camp, and make a weekend out of it!
It definitely is an exciting experience, but can be pretty risky. However risk is what makes it exciting.
Over the years we have had outdoor semi-public and very public outdoor sex.
Our recommendation is first check about public nudity an public sex,(lewd) laws .
If you've never done it find clothing optional or nude beaches and or resorts.
Thats a good precursor for actual sex.
The reason for this is that, you need to both be comfortable with being seen naked (there's a chance you might)
The fact is, most of us have probably been near someone having sex and never suspected it.
We have been in parks, in natural tall grass areas hearing others walking by, (bring a blanket).
In wooded areas bent over holding a tree.
Clothing optional beach wheee others were having sex.( Not originally planned but incredibly sexy.)
Even had a train go by as we were have naked and deep into sex .
I was at a picnic table at public boathouse on a certain beach on a certain great lake at night with him between my legs.
Been on my knees sucking him in the middle of the day next to a walking path.
Had sex in a car in a store parking lot.
I've Jill alot in my car !
Be careful for places where there may be young ones, or you may offend someone.
Use your better judgement , it almost always contains risk.
Lady L. 💋❤️
Also, before you would take the chance. Consider the fact that as christians you are responsible for representing Christ.
Hindsight is 20/20 and for us, we now are incredulous that we've taken the risks that we did.
With this in mind we have toned down many of our sexual activities considering our responsibilities as Christians.
Having sex on the ground (without a blanket) is not all that it's cracked up to be. Dirt and other debris get into places that shouldn't have dirt and debris in it. The best we've discovered is her bent over a tree, stump or other object and the other is her riding me. Water is another place that looks romantic but isn't (for us). Water tends to wash away the lube. We have property that we take the camper to and frequently make love in the woods there.
making love in the woods how perfect!
I love being in the forest,,hopefully naked.
My Melody n I have done the sex-fun outside a few times. In our opinion you should probably find a secluded location out of view of others. That being said, sometimes the passion can’t wait. We almost got caught one time.
Per your request, here are some of OUR outdoor experiences (briefly) Some were done more than once.
Wife kneeling on car seat on passenger side. Husband stands on ground n enters from behind… with a nice view of her behind.
On cabin balcony at night in forest. We brought the comforter out to put on the deck.
In a backyard on moonless night in jacuzzi under the stars. Wife rode me as I sat on the bench seat in the jacuzz. Took turns standing in front of each other as our spouse sat – to do oral sex. Wife bent over n held onto side of jacuzzi or outdoor hot tub as I fucked her from behind. She rocks back too so we actually are fucking each other AKA making love!
Messed around some on deck at Latin American resort but went inside to finish – in front of the room’s picture window with a view of a volcano!
On floor in family van driven up into forest .
I stood on fallen log on cool day while hiking. I had a long coat so I just unzipped the coat n my pants n Melody gave me a blow job.
Wife has flashed me while I was driving. I’ve flashed her as well. Not really safe but she’s pumped my rod as I drove n I’ve reached over n played with her nipples. We pulled over a few times to suck each other’s nipples – BJ – etc. This has led to some sex like I described above with her kneeling on car seat. We did this on nature drives.
Made out with heavy petting n boob-play in car in back parking lot of closed cafe. When we got to hotel had rambunctious sex!
Sometimes just messing around a little outside or in the car makes the full-sex later at home or in hotel fantastic!
I still have a fantasy of making love on a beach – on grass – on a small boat – by a waterfall.
We’ve had some great experiences in themed rooms with forest themes, waterfall themes, cave themes etc. Sometimes we do roleplys at those Inns.
Been some time since we've engaged in outdoor sex activities, but I still have pleasant memories from our experiences. Oldest memory was the time we'd taken a m/c ride, .(my '79 Harley, not that it matters) up to the mountains in E. San Diego county. I believe we were on the Sunrise Highway, a ridge just above & overlooking the desert near Borrego Springs. We parked the bike & walked along a small trail, going thru some low brush. Found a spot that had a low, flat rock & sat down, looking out onto the desert. It was a warm, but not hot day. My wife told me to lay back, and she proceeded to unzip my fly & proceeded to give me enthusiastic oral pleasure, which was not done often at that time in our life together. This was 40+ yrs ago & I stlll remember how much I enjoyed the experience.
Thinking back, wife & I camped a fair amount & when camping, having sexual activity was always a part of it.
If insects are in the area, being inside a tent makes any activity more pleasurable. Having mosquitoes, flies, ants, ( whatever ) present intruding our your lovemaking is at best distracting, bothersome & can even painful. A tent prevents unwanted visitors from intruding, as well as providing at least some degree of privacy.
Another suggestion is to use a mat. I bought a couple Thermarest mattresses, as they're small, very compact, & can have air added making them surprisingly comfortable, esp. compared to lying on the ground. An egg crate mattress (like hospitals use) works almost as well, under a sleeping bag, but is much larger/bulkier to carry around. Experiences are more enjoyable if you take efforts for some degree of comfort.
If you want to engage in intercourse in the water, use a silicone based lube.. as it doesn't easily wash off, like water-based lubes do.. You'll probably need lube ( for both partner's comfort ) while engaging in intercourse while in water. Silicone based lube works great even in a hot tub.
Can’t help with location as in Scotland. Found an empty space in middle of nowhere once and just had a very quick one over bonnet. Wanted to do it again but wife not keen so we hired a camper and bought my wife a fuck me easy access dress. She put it on so I knew I was onto a winner. I went and popped on my joggers with a nice pair of lace pants as I like to wear hers, We were over on Isle of Mull in Scotland. Got her to jump in back of camper once we found a quiet spot. Near water I hitched up her dress and gave started to lick her pussy, she told me to stay there as someone was walking past that made me really horny do started touching myself through the lace to make me harder. Got her legs up in air as she was sitting in seat with door open and fucked her till we both orgasmed then I immediately went down and licked her out tasting both her and mines juices while she came again. After that I had an orgasm again using my hand while my wife used a toy to finish off, begore I got my tongue out again to clean everything up. Such a great feeling especially with what I was wearing g and it been semi outside anybody could have caught us.
Hopefully do it again and I hope your fantasy comes true. Such a great frill I had to play with my self writing this.
For about a year, we had an apartment in a converted farmhouse (turned into three apartments; we had the biggest one), located out in the country across the road from a big cornfield.
One day, "the urge" struck us when we got home from work, and so she simply hiked up her skirt on the back porch, held onto the porch pillar, and I unzipped and fucked her from behind. (The porch actually belonged to a different apartment, which was not rented at that time. So, no chance that anyone else would arrive.)
I had done the "calculations", and the chances of us being seen by anyone were negligible — because it was a 55mph zone on the two-lane highway between us and the cornfield, and the house blocked the view for drivers from the opposite direction. BUT, one vehicle did drive past, slowed way down, and honked the horn. […]
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As I've said on this forum before, when my first marriage was good, it was really good. So, when I was still married to [my first wife], we once ate dinner at a restaurant on a very cold night. Afterward, we got out to my truck in the parking lot and "the urge" hit us. She laid back in the passenger seat. I walked around and climbed in through the passenger door (because of the center console). We fucked right there in the passenger seat in the restaurant parking lot. (And, it was a really GOOD fuck, too!)
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[Edited by MH: Removed comments unrelated to the discussion topic. We respect that it's part of your personal experience, but we think the removed comments about the ex-wife are a bit strange and not helpful for the current discussion topic.]
My wife is pretty reserved where I was raised in a none religious background but since marrying my wife, I became a catholic. Pre marriage, I have had many car encounters and had a encounter in the next to the river and had a football oval next to it. I wont go into details because she isn't my wife. We stayed in a hotel room with a balcony, my wife took her underwear off, bent over the rail on the balcony, hitched her skirt up with her freshly shaved pussy and said to me, come and get your pussy.
Had sex on sil's balcony at night. Wrote about, called Standing In Heaven. Wrote about another time in our car on the shoulder of a state highway, at night (forget the title). One time, during the day, on a folded up lounge chair, at my parent's pool. I cased the place first, since it was in town & a two story house could possibly see over the privacy fence. This time wasn't enjoyable. Very uncomfortable & hastily executed. My wife did not enjoy it at all.
Prepare, think it through. Your (or if you know the owner) private property helps, but even then, if seen, people can still call the cops. Try your hardest not to be noticed. Make up in your mind to do it, & do it. Have fun. No regrets.
As an Aussie, my suggestion would be to look for an AirBnB somewhere in the Blue Mountains? Close to Sydney but you can “go bush” (ahem) and there are likely to be some eco-friendly places on big blocks where you can explore and find somewhere nice in a safe way.
(Also, if you’re planning on taking your time, suggest a pop-up mosquito net!)
I think I've shared this before. We have had moments of semi public encounters before and once in the back of a hatchback full out PIV with it open facing the ocean on a rock parking area with cars around us. One recent encounter, was when we were at a beach. It must have been a holiday here, because only a few passer Byers that day. It was secluded and cliffs behind us. We actually had our kids with us. They are older, but they went for a walk down beach and when backs were turned and they were reaching a bend around a cliff . I had my wife going crazy for some action with one passionate kiss. We were under a tent and in our bathing suits and I was rock hard. Since no one was around, I took advantage and slid her bottoms to side and fingered her to orgasm right there. I had pulled her top over her breasts so I could give some nipple action too. She had an amazing orgasm. I think because she could be loud with the waves and no one was around she took advantage of being adventurous. It was so hot . After, she started to give me a hand job and I wanted her to finish, but I was not planning on getting in cold rough ocean water. The kids started back and since there was not a chance for me to go in her mouth or in the sand, we stopped our escapade there so that I could be hot and bothered for the night.
I have zero context for Australia, other than it seems like a massive country with a relatively small population. There have to be plenty of quiet areas, some may be a long drive though.
My wife and I used to have sex in our backyard. At the time we had no kids and the house next to us on one side was empty, so we took advantage several times. Taking a laptop and a blanket out for a movie night and pausing the movie for some naked fun was a great time. Highly recommend. One part I don’t recommend, telling your dad he can come borrow a tool from the shed, then forgetting your phone inside so you don’t realize he’s heading over then. Pops got an eyeful of wife riding me, but he did not interrupt. I only found out years later.
We did it in the car plenty back in our younger years, but if the doors are closed that doesn’t really feel like outside. We did have friends who liked to hike, and they mentioned that a few times they would find a secluded spot on the drive up and she would bend over in the back with the tailgate up for a little quickie action. I prefer full on naked sex, but if pants down boots on is your scene than that works too.
Find a nice quiet beach with gentle waves, I still cherish a memory of my wife and I enjoying public coitus right in plain sight, hidden by the waters of the Caribbean 😏
[From MH: We can't endorse truly "public" sex, knowingly being in plain view of others, but a quiet beach with reasonable seclusion sounds like an amazing place for sex!]
Late response, good chance no-one reads this. Made an account to respond, plus I’ve been tempted to post my stories I write for some years now. Maybe I will.
Outdoor sex is a passion of ours. We’ve taken the opportunity often in our marriage. I’ve never been to Australia but I think some of the concepts still apply.
The earliest outdoor experiences I can recall in our marriage include us sneaking out to the soccer fields out on the edge of town in the middle of the night. It was very dark and completely empty. We went to a field a good ways from the parking lot and knew that if anyone was around they could only see us if they shined a flashlight on us. This was in the days before infrared security cameras and flashlights on every phone. It would not work today. It was funny though because I sprayed OFF bug spray around us to ward away the mosquitoes. As I touched some of her more sensitive spots she squirmed and then forcibly stopped me. I had bug spray on my fingers from the can and it was burning her. We were both really disappointed and had to stop. She said next time I needed to not get off on my hands. We both giggled like school children at the accidental double entendre.
On our honeymoon at a certain resort in another country, the welcome tour included showing us a small secluded pool surrounded by vegetation. They implied it would be a great place to have sex. We took them up on it. Again, today, I’m sure it would be covered in cameras. Different time.
On our first anniversary, we stayed in a cabin in the mountains in New Mexico. It was fairly secluded and we love hiking. We hiked to the top of the mountain (we were already most of the way up by car). We had seen no-one for a day and felt completely comfortable making love at the top. It was the first time I remember seeing my cum drip out of her. I’m sure I had seen it before, but I didn’t remember it. There was just something primal about my seed pouring out of her and returning to the ground. The view was incredible. The scenery was nice too.
On another anniversary trip, we went backpacking in the grand canyon. At the bottom, it’s a beautiful hike along waterfalls leading into the CO River. There are many gorges and spurs that are largely unexplored and covered in thick brush. My wife led me down one of these untrafficked windings far off the regular path in the name of “exploration.” After we were well out of sight and sound she turned to me and asked if I’d like to take her there. She just pulled her swim bottoms to the side and had me take her standing up. It was not the first or the last time I’d find myself inside her in the bottom of that canyon, but the rest of the time was inside a tent… Leading to:
I’m not sure if it counts, but a tent is very close to being outdoors and we’ve taken advantage of that many times. Just don’t turn on a light inside the tent, it will leave your silhouette through the nylon for everyone to see. Also, be silent.
We’ve made love in several hottubs. There was one at a cabin in Arkansas, another in Tennessee. I got a free hottub off Craigslist and built a deck around it in our backyard. I made a few accordion style privacy panels that could fold out and give us a private place free from 2nd floor neighbor’s windows for our skinny dipping nights. I learned I could hold my breath and lick her to orgasm underwater very quickly. Sometimes in just 1 breath, sometimes 2 or 3. We’re fairly certain one of our kids was conceived in that hottub.
There’s several state parks in Arkansas that have small self-explore caves (no guided tours, no lights, no steps, etc etc). I’m not sure if they’re open anymore. Several years ago they closed them due to a bat pandemic from cavers transferring disease from cave to cave with their gear. We explored down to the bottom of a particular cave. It was pitch black without flashlights – can’t see your hand in front of your face. You could hear the echoes of footfalls a long way off if anyone approached and the climb was slow going inside the cave. I convinced her there was plenty of time to let me slip inside. We enjoyed one another standing up there. She didn’t want to be uncomfortable dripping and chafing the rest of our hike so I pulled out and finished in a sweat rag from my camelback.
I volunteer for a kids bible camp several sessions throughout the year. I’m gone for a week or 2 at a time and my wife knows I crave her body the night before I leave. One particular camp, we were just not able to connect – I can’t remember why, just out of our control. The next morning I was getting ready to leave, car was packed and running in the driveway. She walked out to kiss me goodbye while standing in the open car door. It turned into a passionate kiss which led to her hand in my pants. The door blocked the view from 1 angle, the car behind me, and her body in front of me. She continued to kiss me while stroking between our bodies. I tried to slide my fingers into her PJ bottoms but she shook her head ‘no’. She was right – the neighbors couldn’t have missed that.
We were camping on private property for my birthday – a hunting lease we had all to ourselves. I had a great campfire going in the ring and she made love to me in the chair. Fully naked in nature, her body backlit and shadowed by campfire flare ups. We took our time and held each other after until the fire died to embers. I could just see her in the starlight. We had been married for a couple decades, and I was just smitten by her. I told her in all sincerity that she was more beautiful in that moment than I ever remembered.
The world is very different than when we first married. Please be very careful as there are cameras everywhere and you would be surprised how well most of them can “see” in the dark. In my state, if you get caught – and especially if there are children near – you can earn your self a sex offender conviction- complete with being a listed sex offender. After that- good luck passing a back ground check to volunteer for your church, or rent an apartment, or get a job.