Christmas Sex Play Ideas And More
Christmas Sex Play Ideas
Christmas is often the most stressful time of the year. Expectations are high. Why not find some time to slow things down and enjoy some Christmas sex play together. The HuffingtonPost published an article called, “12 Crazy Nights: Your Holiday Sex Survival Guide.” The article is written for the general audience but the ideas given can easily be applied to your marriage. We realize that not every suggestion meets marriage heat guidelines, be a little discerning…
How do you schedule time for Christmas sex play ideas? Here are some starter suggestions: (Maybe MH readers will share more of their secrets)
- Set an earlier bed time. No matter how busy you are, an early bedtime will help. You may find that extra time to Read steamy Marriage Heat “erotica to each other while stroking and groping each other through your clothing. Get turned on and then stop. Feel the heat of desire. Moan with it.” (12 Crazy Nights: Your Holiday Sex Survival Guide)
- Plan a sexual getaway. “Being in a completely new environment can shake up your sexuality and allow you to experiment with the erotic in ways that you may not normally do at home.” If you cannot afford a getaway, use your imagination for a road trip with some sizzling action. Maybe you are going to your parents for Christmas, imagine a sexual romp is the very bed where you may have masturbated as a teen.
- Buy some Christmas related sex products.
- Keep the sweets to a moderate level. Lots of sugar tends to make you tired. A little chocolate though can make you horny. Balance is essential.
What do you think MarriageHeat readers? Do you have Christmas sex play ideas to share? Maybe some of these ideas will surface as hot stories to be shared on Marriage Heat.
From the staff at MH, we wish you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
A little chocolate? I like that 😉 My husband & I both love chocolate, so I’ll talk to him about having a little block each before bed 🙂
Love this! Thanks, MarriageHeat!
1. You can do more than kiss under the mistletoe. 😉
2. Turn off all the lights except the lights on the Christmas tree and make love by the light of the Christmas tree lights.
3. Buy Christmas lingerie. Like a red teddy with the white trim like on Santa’s suit, but it’s a see through teddy. (Like in the Christmas movie “Elf” when he sees the display “For someone special.” LOL) Or one like in the picture for this post.
4. This may be a little bold, but it’s one idea I had: The wife could by sexy panties and hang them on the Christmas tree like an ornament. Then as it gets closer to Christmas she wears one each day. Maybe use the 12 Days of Christmas as a guideline. Another version may be to put them in a stocking if you didn’t want them on the tree where anyone could see it.
5. Role play involving Santa and Mrs. Claus. Or Santa and his elf. Or Santa getting caught by “mom” as she comes down for a drink. Or sitting on Santa’s lap. (“Santa, your lap feels very firm.” “That’s not my lap.”) Etc.
6. Have a sexy Christmas photo shoot. Send the kids to grandma’s for a Friday night and take pictures in various Christmas poses. In Christmas lingerie by the tree or hanging an ornament. Naked by the tree or hanging an ornament. Get creative and incorporate various Christmas items (stockings, mistletoe, candy canes, Santa hat (and nothing else), wrapped presents, wrap a string of lights around you and wear nothing else, etc.
Hope this helps!
Every New Years Eve we play a dice game. We write six things for her to do and six things for me to do. Then one throws the dice to pick one of the things. Then they throw another dice to decide how long they do it for. It works great and is so simple. I write all the things because my wife is shy but she will do the things. A sample would be nibble her ear, kiss her neck. What she has to do for me is more upfront like exposing me, removing things, using a paddle etc. It gets us really hot.
You can always put the panties in a discreet ornament box or clear ornament bulb if you don't want 12 pairs strewn on the tree. So when grndma and the kis look at the tree they will just see the little boxes or pretty lace, chaffon, etc. Fabric in the bulb! ;D
My wife gives me a Christmas eve and New Years eve naked spanking over her knee, it helps us destress and me to stay focused on her.