Warming Her Up
Hello Marriage Heat Readers,
I’ve read MH for quite some time and have realized that if anyone wants some ideas or advice, you all have been very great at helping out.
I’m looking for new ways to “warm up” my wife, to help her reach maximum pleasure, due to my lack of being able to last long enough. She deserves to enjoy sex as much as I do, and think she might enjoy something out of the norm.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
You can always lick her pussy after you cum or get a sex toy. A small vibrator you can use on her clit will do the trick. You can use it and get her close to cumming before sliding your cock in her pussy and then keep it there as you thrust in and out. You will both enjoy the vibrations.
Why ur not taking any medicine to last long?
One of the things the mrs and i have tried is edging her. Either with oral sex or masterbation bring her close to orgasm several time. But slowly back her down dont just stop. Then when she can't take it anymore. Slowly enter her and she will literly explode around you. That is one.
Have you tried reading a story together?
Mutual masturbation is also a good way to help you out. She can edge you a few times and back off.
Also another good technique is during sex when you feel close to coming, pull out. Orally please her, give her an erotic message, once you have calmed down start back up. We have experienced it both ways. I come in 15 sec or an hour. Its all about how you get there. Talk it out with her.
Does she have certain erogenous zones that she likes to be touched in? I think that might help greatly. I love it when my hubby touches my breasts, ladyplace and when he kisses my neck that does things to me too.
@loving couple. That is a very good option to. I've always had good intention to eat her out after coming in her. While in the act it sounds very hot and sexxy. But after i come that feelings passes pretty quickly.
But the vibe idea is fantastic.
My rule is she orgasms first no matter what. That usually involves tons of foreplay, a vibrator, dirty talk, etc. Once she has one, it is fair game! She usually ends up with 2 or more. This way we don't even need any lub because she is good to go!
I agree, I like certain ways to be touched. Maybe if you cum and she doesn't you can give her an orgasm manually or orally. I don't know how she likes being touched, but maybe be gentle at first. God bless
@zach, you are welcome and good luck!
As a single guy, I have no experience that I can share on how to warm her up, but I may be able to help with the "lasting longer" part.
I have looked into this kind of thing a lot as I prepare for my future wife, and some quick internet research yield lots of different ways to help with lasting longer. (Based on the research I've done, there are even some techniques that people claim allow MEN to have multiple orgasms. I wouldn't count on it, as I haven't pulled it off myself, but it's certainly worth a look.)
One thing that has certainly helped me last longer while in training (masturbating) is being more aware of my pelvic floor muscles and keeping them relaxed. I'm not an expert on it, but there are a couple of online tutorials out there by Nat Eliason, and while they are written from a non-Christian perspective, they helped me get started.
I hope this helps!
It took my wife and I time to totally figure out each other's bodies and for me to get her heated up, but after we figured it out, it's hard for us to do any other method because it works so well. So here is what we do.
We make our for a bit but after kissing her neck and between her breasts, I zero in on her nipples for a long time. What works for that Tom get her worked up is that I flick the top of her nipples with my tongue and after a bit, she starts to squirm because she is getting horny. Even if she asks you to move down below, don't do it. Stay on her nipples for awhile longer and you want to get her to beg. From there, you go down on her until she is SO wet that your entire face is soaked. Then you put your middle finger in her while still licking her pussy until she cums at least twice and from there, you go inside of her and make her cum a few more times. THAT is how you warm her up.