Translating Married Heat - How do Christians apply sexual stories in accordance with obedience? We should all be interested in the answer to that question. We want to please the Lord.
It is possible for someone to read Song of Solomon and misuse it. But how? It is the Bible. Well, if a woman was reading Song of Solomon and then fantasized about having sex with her best friend's husband - that would be sin.
Of course, it takes discipline. We must exercise self-control when reading Song of Solomon. I translate that experience to my life with my beloved wife. I ponder her breasts and pussy - not someone else's. Is there temptation to think of others? There can be. This is why walking with God and being fed by His word constantly is so important in living a yielded life - by the Holy Spirit's power within us.
The stories in Marriage Heat are real. Blondie does her best to post only stories that are consistent with monogamous, biblical marriage. We who partake of this site have a responsibility. We must exercise spiritual discipline as we partake. Yes, we must be even careful translating married heat to our marriages.
We use this site in obedience to God when we translate the experiences into our own marriages.
Think of walking into a nice furniture store. They set up living rooms and bedrooms - fully decked out! Most customers don't purchase the whole setup and reproduce it in their homes. It would be too expensive for most people. They purchase part of the whole setup and make it fit the best they can in their already existing home decor.
We must do the same with Marriage Heat. We are all different. Yet, this site teaches us things from each other's experiences - that frankly, make us want to try them out. Yet, we must bring them in to an already existing relationship. This takes wisdom.
My wife and I cannot reproduce running naked in the snow in our backyard - we live in too warm a climate. Yet, there are ways for us to translate that experience. We have fun thinking about how to translate Ben and Gina's experiences. As well as K and Kay's. Or Blondie's. I just read BlackLace's story and want to translate the mirror experience. We love to translate car sex when we travel. We are not creative geniuses - this is why we love the ideas that come (cum) from Marriage Heat.
My wife and I love each other deeply - and are very contented by the ways God has grown us sexually. It mirrors the rest of our relationship. God is constantly at work in us - conforming us to the image of Christ. The Bible makes us expect that we will continue to grow and develop.
Many times, the agency that God uses to change us - is seeing something someone else is doing right - and then we want to copy it. We might see the way a parent dealt gently with their child - and want to imitate it.
We could never have believed we would become who we are now sexually 25 years ago! God didn't take us to where we are immediately. It has been a wonderful journey! It was not a race to get to this point. Our sex lives are the best they have ever been. We are hornier in our late 40's than we have ever been. The world would wonder how that could be possible?!. I give credit to God. Sex simply is NOT getting old - it seems to be getting new.
I think the unique contribution of Marriage Heat is that it helps us to see translations from Song of Solomon in fellow believers - but in an appropriate forum. We could not reproduce this in person at a "Marriage Heat" conference. The contributor's faces and bodies would likely become a lustful temptation that would end up being stumbling block for the rest of our lives.
The good news is - Marriage Heat (like reading Song of Solomon) does not give us pictures of the participants. We are left to translate to our own covenant spouses. When I read of Gina or Marriage Joy masturbating, I have no idea what they look like or where they live. It is not difficult for me to translate their experience to thinking of my wife, on our bed, playing with her cunt. Yet, their stories inflame or motivate me to ponder in this direction. I am heartened that many other Christian women are just like my wife. It gets me hot!
My wife can identify with the other Christian ladies who like to watch their husband masturbate. It has helped her to feel more free to not deny what she enjoys. She knows she is not a freak for enjoying watching me jerk off. She knows she is like other women who also love the Lord!
So, I encourage you to be careful. We are susceptible to weakness. But, God's power can give us self-control. Be a part of Marriage Heat - using the site in the kind of ways that is consistent with right translation. I'm finding this to be a great blessing. Thank you all for the way you encourage my wife and I. You are applications of Song of Solomon!
I am interested to know if many of you feel the same way. Please let me know. I know that I desire to be an encouragement to you all. God bless.