I am new to the website but have been reading for a while. I have been married to my wonderful husband for 14 years we have 5 children and adopted another recently. In the past couple years we have had much stress in our married lives with aging parents and kids going off to college. My husband seems very distant at times and while he will indicate he is very turned on and can’t wait till everyone goes to bed when all are tucked in nothing happens. We are lucky to have relations once a month. When I try to talk to him about the issue he just stats it has not been that long. I love my husband very much but I have needs. How can I get him to understand that I am feeling neglected without hurting his feelings?
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