Mission Possible!

This isn’t my usual kind of post.  But this is a post that I can’t believe that I can write.  My husband and I have been married for 15 years and in that time, our sex life has had the usual ups and downs, adventure, experimentation, dry spells, flops, and so on.  I have always been multi-orgasmic with clitoral stimulation and I am blessed to have a husband who enjoys my pleasure.  I am grateful for my ability to have multiples, but I always wanted to know what a g-spot was like.  I would chat with a few trusted girlfriends, but the g-spot seemed to be elusive for them as well.  But always in the back of my mind, I wanted to experience it.  I would research it from time to time to see if there were any methods to help.  Most of the advice was usually three things:  #1) Most women never g-spot orgasm, #2) Self-exploration was important, and #3) Communication with your partner is key.  I have mentioned before in previous posts that while I do masturbate, I don’t find it as pleasurable as sex and most often choose to wait for my husband.  The result from masturbating is not as satisfying for me personally.  I shelved the idea of experiencing a g-spot orgasm for a while and just enjoyed the euphoria of my multiple clitoral orgasms.

A few years ago, once the kids were older, I had a resurgence in my sexual appetite.  It was huge!  All I could think about was sex and I wanted it all the time!  Our sex life grew exponentially and the joy of new found pleasure was a wonder and a tremendous building block to strengthen our marriage.  Occasionally, during sex, I would feel something, a tingle maybe.  Something that made me think that my sleeping g-spot might come out of its hibernation.  I began to research the g-spot again, even asking advice from fellow Marriage Heat readers.  I bought a g-spot vibrator and Kegel balls.  The vibe didn’t do anything to awaken the sleeping g-spot and the Kegel balls helped with strengthening my pelvic floor.  Ladies, I don’t dribble when I sneeze anymore!  The Kegel balls were cheap and worth it for that alone.  That g-spot orgasm was still unattainable but possibly within reach.

Our sex life involves lots of positions and whenever I felt that “tingle” again, always in missionary or in cowgirl, I would encourage my husband and do all that I could to try and fully awaken my g-spot.  I would tighten my vagina, visualize, raise my legs or hips, arch myself, all of that but nothing.  That feeling was still intermittent and never consistent but every time I felt it, it gave me a little glimmer of hope that one day I may ride myself into a g-spot oblivion.

On our annual anniversary night away this past summer (there is a story in the MH archives about that), when I was riding my husband on the couch, I felt something come alive and I worked so hard to go over the edge but it eluded me.  But I sure gave it a shot!  Over the next few months, I would have that feeling off and on but I decided to shelve it again for a while.

Then one time when we were having sex, I was edging off and on, hubby was kissing, sucking, and licking as usual and then he entered me in the missionary position.  OH!  It felt so good.  I thought it just felt good because we weren’t able to have sex for a couple of weeks and my girl was itching for a scratch.  Whatever it was, it was absolute bliss.  After some good pounding, we moved into the cowgirl position.  I slid back onto to my husband and I felt that bliss again.  I leaned over him and he played with my tits as I slowly rode him.  I sat up and he reached for my nipples and I began to ride him more and then I felt it!  Oh my! I was going to cum!  I could feel it rise.  A feeling that I had never quite felt before.  This was it!  I leaned back and clenched onto my husbands’ legs and he screamed.  Game over!  I lost it!  I was happy that I almost went over the edge but mad because my husband made me stop because of a little pain!

Our next intimate time together my husband said to me that no matter what, do whatever I needed to do to go over the edge and that he would endure whatever pain he had to so that I could.  I gave him an, “Oh ya you will!” We repeated what we did the previous time.  Lots of foreplay and fun.  When he entered me the first time, I felt it again, whatever it was, it was different.  We continued in our love making and eventually moved to cowgirl and then it was there again!  That feeling rising up.  My husband played with my tits and I rode and it didn’t take long and there it was!  I screamed that I was going to cum and he encouraged me.  Then a feeling washed over me, a feeling I had never felt before.  It was calming and warm.  So different than my clitoral orgasms which are always explosions of my body going out of control beyond my authority.  After it was done, I collapsed on my husband’s chest and let the feeling of peace and satisfaction come over me.  We laughed and exclaimed that we couldn’t believe it; I came from a g-spot orgasm!  My g-spot awoke from her slumber.  She worked!  We high fived and continued our lovemaking.  Luckily, I didn’t get gypped in the clitoral orgasms!  I told you I was blessed.  By the end of our lovemaking, I was in bliss and astonished at what transpired.

I wondered if it was a one-time thing.  I didn’t want to get my hopes up that it would happen again the next time.  Surely it wasn’t going to happen every time, was it?  But to my surprise, my g-spot is in full working order and I have had the joy of experiencing my g-spot orgasm getting a little stronger each time we make love.  Years of research, experimenting, relaxing, exploring, trusting, expanding, shelving, and revisiting have paid off and now my husband and I are able to enjoy a whole new world of bonding and lovemaking.

I write this only as an encouragement to other couples.  The female orgasm is so wrapped up in much more than the physical and it involves feeling secure, trusting, letting go of whatever may bind you, and sometimes no matter what, it can be a difficult thing for some women to achieve.  The frustration over not achieving an orgasm can be overwhelming and it affect your intimacy but with patience, it can be attainable.  And for those who experience one kind of orgasm and not another, there is the possibility that at some point that you will experience another type of orgasm.  God Bless and have fun with your lovemaking.  I truly believe that God will bless a Christ-centred marriage.

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16 replies
  1. OneCouple says:

    What a beautiful story Juicy, way-to-go you guys, so glad you can now frequently enjoy those g-spot orgasms ! My wife also asks about the very same thing from time to time and I know she would love it, she is also, like you, multi orgasmic from clitoral stimulation. We just bought a cock-like dildo which is probably the size of my own cock, maybe a little bit bigger, I was wondering if you tried something like that for your g-spot during your research ? It was awesome reading from you again, thank you for sharing and God bless you both

  2. Lovinghusband says:

    Hi Juicy,

    That was both a fascinating and hot story! I'm so glad for you both. I say "both" because I'm sure your husband's joy in your amazingly satisfying cumming is off the charts too.

    I really admire your diligence over the years in pursuing this understanding and experience. Yet, I don't for a moment sense that your motivation was that of a perverted narcissist. No! Knowing your past writings and your sweet Christian mind – I see how this pursuit has been incorporated all along within the bond you have with your husband. So, though it is your blissfull orgasm- it is definitely been a team pursuit. Awesome!

    Lastly – a question: Has your growing understanding of this now made you able to have a better experience masturbating than you did before? Is there anything you do differently now in masturbating positionally – that enables you to more knowledgeably hit a spot you were unaware of prior? Or does it truly take the live movements of your husband's cock pounding You?

    As always Juicy – your gentle spirit comes through in all that you write – even about your sex!

    Merry Christmas to you and your family. LH

  3. Marie Lister says:

    Thank you, Juicy, for sharing your experiences for gaining more sexual satisfaction. I truly have walked in your shoes and now have similar experiences with my beloved hubby. I think it is very important to share knowledge because you can always learn from others experiences.

    Personally, I find that masturbation is very fulfilling and doesn't take away from my intimacy with my hubby. It helps me understand my needs better so that I can share that during our lovemaking. I find it very empowering when I can take myself to "that place" on my own,

  4. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Ooh la la! Nice story and it's lovely to hear from you again, Juicy 🙂 i, too, prefer to have an orgasm with my hubby because in my experience, those are the BEST! 😀 I can have multiples too, in fact, I had a couple just last night! 😉 It was wonderful. Thank you for this, and may God bless you and have a blessed Christmas, dear! <3

  5. sensualcouple says:

    Incredibly hot just figuring out the “process!” The path that leads to pleasure is often the most satisfying part and figuring it out together, as a couple over years and sometimes decades is one of the great gifts God has given in our marriages. Great for you for continuing to explore!

  6. Juicy says:

    Thanks for the support. I am around on MH but I guess I am not commenting as much……oops!

    To answer your questions OneCouple and LH, I do have a realistic dildo that is pretty much the same size as my husband and I did buy it specifically to help in the g-spot quest. While it felt great, it did nothing to help me with a g-spot. I have explored masturbation differently since the g-spots started but it hasn't changed much – it just isn't as good or pleasurable without my husband. It all comes down to foreplay and the pleasure that comes from the other person. I just can't seem to arouse myself the same way. For me, masturbation is to curb the desire a bit if I can't have sex for some reason. But as I stated, I often opt to wait for my hubby anyway because it is just SO. MUCH. BETTER!

  7. sensualcouple says:

    One thing we tried the other night is that we used our big vibrating realistic dildo, and I just kissed her while she guided it in and out of her pussy, exploring her own g spot. I massaged her inner thighs as I watched my wife fuck herself with this toy. It was just an erotic experience seeing my wife masturbate while all of the attention was focused on her and we just continued to kiss.

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  8. christmakesithot says:

    Thank you for your quick response! that's nice to know. we've been wanting to post some stories and have a few ready. looking forward to it. Do you have a place where people can see updates from you all?

  9. ClimaXX says:

    MH may I also make a request? Would it be possible directly after posting a comment, for the writer to edit it. I have noticed that typos slip through that I only notice when reading what I have just posted.

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