Becoming Empty Nesters

My wife and I are closer to 50 than 40, and we just celebrated 25 years of marriage. In addition, our 2nd of three children just started college, so we are moving towards an empty nest phase. With all of the change, I’m finding that our love life is needing to adapt as well.

For example, I’m not as confident as I once was, and my sex motor takes longer to warm up. I think that the worries of life have had some impact. Thankfully, I have a wonderful wife who wants to adapt and grow together in all areas including our sex life.

Recently we bought a good book and found a couple of podcasts that are helping us communicate better in the bedroom. MH has also been a great resource. Finally, we have also started praying together in bed naked, asking the Lord to bless our sex life.

Now, one fun outcome of our growth is that I have discovered my wife enjoys being woken up sometimes by me pulling her panties to one side and sliding my lubed, hard cock into her pussy. She will let out a sleepy moan as I fill her up.

I start off with long smooth strokes as I see her flash a good-morning smile.

Sometimes I will whisper in her ear that I’m not sure how we ended up here. I remember studying for our exam together and closing my eyes for a minute. As I get close to cumming, I tell her that I am running late but would love to get together again tonight.

Her eyes light up, and she gives me a big beautiful smile as she feels me explode inside of her. We kiss and snuggle for a minute, then she asks me to stop by her room again for some after-dinner studying.

“Absolutely,” I respond as I kiss her one last time.

Later that night, when we are together again, we will have a drink before we head upstairs. I pull out our vibrator and coconut oil. Sometimes our lovemaking is tender and romantic, and other times we move to different spots in the house for some passionate banging. As we hear our teenagers move around in another part of the house, we pretend that we are hearing the other college students move around the dorm.

We enjoy this role play because we dated in high school and college and had some epic makeout sessions. Now we can finish what we started and don’t have to spend the night apart. I love watching my wife’s eyes fill up with lust right before she has a powerful orgasm from riding my dick and running the vibe all over her clit. Good times for sure.

P.S. I just had a full knee replacement and we figured out a way to have some naked fun. She had a great orgasm. I think the medicine I’m taking keeps me from finishing, but everything felt amazing, and we had a wonderful time connecting.  It had been a week or so since we had made love (kid sick, traveling, pre-surgery jitters.) So it felt amazing to be lovers again.

P.P.S. Surgery went well, so we are thankful for that.