Hello, everyone. I’ve been struggling with how to phrase this, but I wanted to find out if, among my Christian peers, has a high “body count” prior to marriage mattered in your relationship. Honestly, I am both confused and saddened by society’s answer. I know that men see it as good to have slept with many women, but such promiscuity in a woman gives her a negative reputation. That’s a double standard, in my eyes.
I’ve seen many videos on YouTube about such things, and I don’t know what to make of it. Most of society tells us men to abandon women who have had many lovers. I feel like many of these videos are trying to present a macho attitude, but in the end, it just seems they are bashing women and feminism. I consider myself a feminist in that I support equal rights for women, but they just seem to want to rule over women. So I don’t know what to believe.
I’m saving myself for marriage. But, honestly, I’m worried about it because I don’t have any experience, and I don’t want my marriage to end in infidelity. I wish there were a sex author to answer my questions, like the woman who wrote “The Great Sex Rescue,” Shelia Wray Gregoire, or the woman from the Hot, Holy & Humorous podcast, J. Parker.
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