Analingus
Okay, so actual anal sex (penetration) aside…how about having your asshole licked? Does it feel really good? Do any MH women love it and want it on a regular basis (as often as having your pussy eaten)? Does anyone cum from having their asshole licked? Is it safe for your hubby to lick both ass and pussy at the same time (going back and forth). My hubby wants to lick me there very badly, but I’m still uncertain and uncomfortable about it just because of what it is and what it’s used for (and the whole “smells like ass” thing, haha). How did you gals get over your hang-ups and get comfortable with having your ass licked?
We're a pretty anal couple (she likes anal plugs and we have anal sex now and then) but we would never do that. No, thanks.
I love to play with my wife's ass. However, she does not! I have been able to slide a finger in 2x and, wow, what a feeling! So tight. We tried anal beads, but she did not like them. We have a small plug, but only use occasionally. When we do, she has great orgasms; not sure why she doesn't want to use it more, but she doesn't. I think its a mental block she needs to overcome.
I've used a finger on her ass before, but she said DO NOT put it back in her pussy. She is a Dental Hygienist and knows a lot about the body and germs.
Then, when I kissed her asshole a few times, she wondered what I was doing.
I don’t think as much as you tried, that place is going to be clean enough for licking. If you’re not prepared to lick the inside of a toilet don’t head for the anus. Some things are better left unlicked.
What a yummy bummy!
I can only offer a male and unmarried perspective, but I have an anal interest, so I've given some thought to this. First, I applaud you for being open to forms of pleasure that many are understandably hesitant to participate in. In my mind, a wife's willingness to explore is almost more important than the exploring itself!
If your husband is eager to give you analingus, he probably doesn't have the same worries you do, at least not to the same degree. But I think it would help ease your concerns (and promote a better experience for both of you) if you took a shower together and cleaned back there first. Methods of cleaning may vary depending on exactly what kind of analingus you and your husband want to do. If it's just rimming, some soap around the outside should suffice to keep things clean and smelling nice. If he wants to penetrate you with his tongue, it might be good to do a little internal cleaning too. This can be anything from a soapy finger an inch or two inside, all the way to several rounds of an enema followed by that soapy finger to be extra thorough. It's probably best not to bring the tongue from anus to vagina, but a good backdoor cleaning would reduce the risk of any issues. With that said, I'm not a medical (or sexual) expert, so I'd definitely do research other places too before taking my advice.
Hopefully that gives you a starting point! I can say I've read many accounts of both men and women who find that anal stimulation definitely enhances the sexual experience, so I'd encourage you to give it a try! Being unmarried, I've never received analingus myself, but I can imagine a warm, wet tongue would feel heavenly down there, especially when coupled with other stimulation! Give it a shot and write a story about how it goes!
My late wife and I discussed anal once and we were both turned off by the thought. So I’m a bit confused about the “why” when others do use it. I believe that every couple should choose for themselves what they want or don’t want, and that a spouses aversion to anal or anything sexual should be respected.
My wife has never agreed to anal sex so I haven't pushed the idea. I have licked her asshole while eating her pussy many times, but she only allows it after she's had a long bubble bath. She is open to almost anything sexually but she does not want my cock in her ass. She just thinks it would be too painful. So that is one adventure we stay away from.
My wife thought the same thing for years. She imagined it would be painful. Then we accidently penetrated when we were half asleep, and she changed her mind. From that day on it became a regular part of our repertoire. She loves it now, and frequently asks me to finish in her ass. Her anal orgasms are earth shattering.
Great topic, Booty! I've also wondered about this since I've read that it's a pretty common practice among couples. I've read (might have been in a Cosmo magazine?) that rimming feels really good because the anus has so many sensitive nerve-endings, which makes it incredibly pleasurable. If a pussy feels really good being licked, it makes sense that an ass would too. Hope to hear from some of the MH ladies who enjoy this practice! Thanks for the question! Would love to hear more from others!
Hot Tamale,
I remember when we were getting HoTT..and my wife gave me a very amazing surprise. As I licked her, she somehow came around and pushed her 2 fingers in my ass hole. And wow! She moved it aggressively in and out..it made me so hard. She wouldn't stop!!
And..I really pounded her for that.
Can't describe how animalistic it was. I loved it!
Both my adorable wife and I love anal play in all forms. We keep the back door clean constantly – not only by showering properly but we've had a bidet in all our bathrooms for over 15 years. The back door has the most nerve endings – second only to her gorgeous clitoris. There's a reason why God designed our bodies in this way. But absolutley keep it clean!!! We both enjoy analingus, plugs and dildos; they enhance the level of orgasms. My adorable adores "blended orgasms"- it's so beautiful to give her such pleasure … it's a spiriual act of worship. By blended I mean when she orgasms in two places at once. For example, I'm eating her pussy/clitoris while stimulating her anal passage with my fingers. Or I'm pounding her cunt and she has an anal plug, or my fingers in her back door – it enhances my pleasure too as her pussy is that much tighter. She reciprocates with me … perhaps she's on top, cowgirl, while we have a vibrating anal dildo in my back door that's stimulating my prostate simultaneously. Still crazy in love and creative in our 60's … that's MarriageHeat!
I just have to say that I find rimming to be a mind blowing sensation. That said, I only want to do that right after I've had a shower, and if he ever wanted to penetrate my ass with his tongue–I wouldn't say no (it would also probably feel amazing, and the prospect of him being that lustful of me that he would do such a thing is a turn on), but I don't think I'd want to kiss him or have cunnilingus very soon after. So I'm certainly not aiming for tongue penetration.
Don't let yourself be pressured into simething your don't want to do, but if you are truly willing to be open minded and explore this (maybe little by little), that's awesome, too. Good luck. 🙂
Rimming is mind blowing. Only do it right after the wife is out of the shower. It’s a primal instinct that I can’t ignore and I lust after her to give her a mind blowing sensation. There have been many times I will tongue penetrate her in order to drive her wild and cum. It makes her very horny and when I finish tongue penetrating her she is then ready to take me inside her ass and begs me to finish inside of her. She was not open to it for a long time. But one night when I went down on her I started to lick the bottom of her pussy and kept slowly licking my way down until I finally was able to feel my tongue licking all around her ass hole. She never resisted it and I opened up her cheeks to gain better access. From that night on, I do it on a somewhat regular basis.
You asked "how about having your asshole licked?" Please be very careful. Feces have e-coli – a bacteria not normally a problem in the colon but which can be very dangerous in other parts of the body such as the upper digestive tract.
Although I had my asshole penetrated many times by my hubby, rarely did he lick my asshole. For one it felt very… I wouldn’t say dirty. but according to him a very sour taste. Secondly, I didn’t feel any sensation as the ring around it was, to me, not so erotic. If need be (and it proved to be rather sensational), he would first tease me with his erection and if we both felt the need, I would just relax and let him do a full anal. At times (because of the tightness), he would ejaculate deep inside. The drawback is that semen flows back out, as it has nowhere else to go. Hence, for hygiene reasons, we mostly use a condom, and in exceptional circumstances, we’ll go without a condom and just clean out afterward.
I think ( I know ..) that licking the ass hole is primal. It's filthy and dominant. It makes me a wild man and in [an extreme roleplay] scenerio, can be quite animalistic. We like it.
I love that butt photo! Great for jerking off!
My DW and I are in our 60's also. We started discussing rimming about a year ago, then tried it one night after she got out of the shower. She shuddered at the thought of me licking her anus, and said, "I just don't see why you want to do this". She lay back on the edge of the bed, legs open and feet on my shoulders as I knelt beside the bed. I ate her pussy for 3 good orgasms back to back, then I went down to her anus licking all around and tried to get it inside, but too tight, she instantly orgasmed once, then twice, then a third time. I asked, "how did that feel?" She blushed and said, "amazing, just amazing". Now she asks for it when she knows we are going to have oral sex, but only if she has just showered and cleaned thoroughly. She likes getting on the bed on all fours just after a shower and says, lick me please. We have anal sex about twice a week. Anal for her means she orgasms shortly after I enter her, and multiple orgasms normally. LOL, she refuses to lick my arse, I just laugh and don't press the issue. But I love her rear and everything we do with it.
Ugh. I don't like anal at all, let alone licking… there. Once my husband tried anal (without me knowing that was his plan). I said to him, "Um… that's not my pussy." He said, "I know." I pulled away and said, "Then what are you doing?" We didn't try again after that.
Just discovered this website and there are very interesting topics in here to say the least. I am 55 and she is 53, both trim and fit and in very good health. She is 5’2, blond, blue, 114 lbs, and petite. Sexually she is more conservative while I am more of the ‘push the envelope’ type of guy. I introduced her to anal play by using my fingers while my tongue would slowly stroke her clitoris. At first she was very uncertain as to how she felt about it. She would push my fingers away but they always seem to find her anus again. I am now and was then very gentle by carefully placing my finger at the entrance of her asshole and only put a little pressure on her there. At same time I would make my tongue soft, like as if I were eating a melting ice cream cone, and softly stroke her pussy lips and clitoris. This would really arouse her because I was gentle, soft, patient, loving, etc the whole time. It should always be about the man providing pleasure to his wife and recognizing that in many, many situations, less is more. Over time our love making does now include me going down on her and licking and tonguing her anus. First I am usually sucking and licking the globes of her ass cheeks. I’ll suck the entire flesh into my mouth and suck on her as if giving her a hickey at that spot. Then I will work my way into the crack of her ass and gently swirl the tip of my tongue around her asshole while she lies on her stomach. To help with access I’ll slide a pillow under her hips (belly) to expose her more. Eventually I part her cheeks with my hands and devour her anus. I’m not rough nor do I move fast. I take my time and if she truly is not in the mood, I’ll stop and not go any further. But more often than not she is gently grinding back into my mouth. I do push my tongue into her as deep as it will go and slip it out again only to shove it back in. Over and over. If I need a small break I’ll use my fingers and softly probe her. Every so often she wants my entire finger in deep but mostly I only go in to the first knuckle. Anyways I am sharing this with you all because she loves it, I love providing that kind of pleasure to my incredibly hot, beautiful wife. And she is the very last person on Earth who’d you expect to be a woman who desires that kind of touch and attention on that part of her body.
During covid, while we were both recuperating, we were refraining from passionate kissing and cunnilingus just in case we had other opportunistic invaders. So, the wife decides to allow me to indulge myself. I was in the mood to gobble her up but she blocked my advances toward her cunt and offered her rosebud. Both of us having just showered, I slowly and tenderly started with the back of her thighs and advanced as she offered her ass to me. She is normally not so much into it but that particular time she let herself go and surprised herself with how good it felt. And recently, she let me use her rosebud to pleasure myself as I worked my cock head back and forth. Full penetration is not the norm….a couple of times years ago but not now. Cleanliness is the key! Let’s realize that eating a gal out puts one’s chin right onto her rosebud. All of the variety of sexual iterations and one is bound to at least bump into that cute little spot. I think the consideration is how deep one goes. We are okay with the exterior and no more than the outer sphincter. As for past that line of demarcation, we had a tryst some years ago whereby my wife encouraged me to fuck her ass hard, and I was balls deep. Amazing! Risky business but can be managed to be safe.
I enjoyed this story. I always enjoyed giving my wife anilingus. She’s always clean for me and enjoys it. We both enjoy some anal play actually. Combined with some role playing, it can be hot.
Here's my two cents on this topic:
While Jim penetrating me anally is out of the question, I do very much enjoy his fingering me there once my pussy is generating lots of cream. He is careful not to finger my wet pussy after anal fingering due to health concerns, primarily UTI. My favorite timing for this anal play is after my second orgasm; it helps shift my pussy in to high gear and it lights my pussy fuse creating another orgasm explosion.
Finally, the woman in the MH photo above has an unbelievably hot ass! I try to keep mine plump but firm for a hot look in my tight jeans, but hers puts mine to shame. 🙂 It is hot though, and just looking at it conjures up an image of some stud pounding away at it. Very hot imagery!
We are open to Anal licking/rimming, but not without a shower and clean up first. I find it hot and arousing to be honest, and using the tongue to lick, tease and probe is awesome if both parties are cool with it. Neither of us have cum from that alone, its more of a buildup and foreplay aspect.
I can only say that I know my wife LOVES receiving copious anal licking & tonguing when I'm also giving cunnilingus. Shower and clean up first are a must. After that, it's the 24/7 candy store for both of us in this area.
We believe completely in "What yours is mine, what's mine is yours." In the 40 plus years we have been together, we have turned down each other's desire for making love only a handful of times. We keep each other very satisified.
We discovered by accident that one of my erogenous zones was my anus. He had mounted me from behind and was making love to me with his hands on my hips. He gently rubbed my anus, and I slipped, causing his thumb to penetrate it. I orgasmed, hard.
We talked about it, and anal play became one of the things we used. One night he got behind me and then I felt him lick my anus. It was very erotic. It is not a regular occurrence but we do practice that and anal sex.
He was licking my pussy and I moved so much he licked my rear door. I was shocked but realized it felt good.
I never "went" for it although I have gotten close. I love kissing her butt cheeks while playing with her pussy. I have let my lips and tongue get real close but have never actually placed either on her anus. I love her hiney and enjoy worshipping it, but I am not sure she wants that. She seems to enjoy all the kissing around it though. I do too.
If you're curious, have the husband start out that way. Getting awfully close but not right to it. If all that gets you tingly, then ask him to lightly lick it using his tongue like a feather. It seems proper to only try after a good cleaning. Make sure you lather up the butt crack and keep the soap in there a good minute or two before rinsing.
I have been married for 7 years. I just performed this on my wife twice in the last month. I have always kissed her butt cheeks but never really gave much thought to actually licking her asshole. I suspected she wouldn't like it, although she often likes for me to rub her asshole while I'm on top in a missionary position. I go completely in her pussy and reach around her ass to play with it while grinding on her clit. She would get so wet from that and order me not to stop until she came.
About a month ago she took a late shower and came to bed. We started in on each other and decided to move to the living room for some couch sex. I bent her over the couch and began kissing her butt. I kissed it all over and moved closer to her crack while I began to play with her clitoris. Each time I got closer into her crack with my lips she seemed to go crazier. Pretty soon she was reaching back to hold my head where she wanted me to direct my kisses. There was no doubt she wanted my lips on her asshole. I couldn't help but keep doing it. She grinded her butt in my face until she came. Then she got me up, tossed me onto the couch, and rode me cowgirl pretty passionately until she forced me to cum. It really woke something up in her.
I could think of nothing else the next day. I rimmed her. I really never thought I would do it or she would get that aggressive once i grazed her asshole with my lips. I was getting hard throughout the day just thinking about it. I had to deal with it because I have to get up and walk around at work, so I would distract myself into a flaccid state whenever getting up to walk around.
Last night, I showered off a bit after she had showered. She had said some naughty things to me throughout the day, and I figured she was wanting sex. So I came to bed with nothing on but my towel. I was feeling so aroused. It was like I was a teenage boy again and the worry was whether I would cum too quick. I just kept thinking that I will give her oral so she can cum and then, if I last not so long, it won't be so bad for her.
Anyways, she reinforced this notion by undoing my towel and grabbing my cock. She played with it so passionately that I was afraid I was going to cum while we made out. At some point, I gazed at her ass and just wanted to worship it a bit, so I made her roll onto her stomach while I began to kiss her all over her back and then down to her ass. At this point, she began to make it clear she was loving it and wanted more.
I began playing with her clit again while kissing her all over the crack of her ass. This did not last long as she began slowly grinding her ass into my face. I got lost in the moment. Her horniness turned me into an animal. Soon I was no longer just kissing her asshole but running my tongue all over it. I was feasting on it like a ravenous dog. In one sense, I couldn't believe I was doing this, but something else overrode all my hangups about it. Maybe because she was super clean and had just shaved everwhere. Maybe because it didn't taste any different than any other part of her body. Maybe because we were both being so naughty I didn't care anymore. I was full on feasting on her asshole. She came so hard. She collapse onto the bed in full ecstacy and moved my hand away from her clit.
At this point the slightest touch would probably set me off. I just couldn't hold out. I entered her pussy from behind, but she wouldn't let me control the pace. She began grinding on my cock until I came. It was mind blowing.
Today, I felt very dirty and began questioning whether I should have opened this door with her. I also felt a sense of paranoia about getting sick from it. It was different than the first time. That was light touching into a moderate make out session with her asshole. This time I full out ate her ass.
Then came the text. I was at work and received this text, "I want to snuggle." This is her code for "I want to fuck". I began to get hard from the thought. I began to think of her naked. I began to think of her butt. I began to think about ravaging her asshole with my mouth and tongue. Tonight, we couldn't do it again, but I think I might have to seduce her tomorrow night. I will likely refrain from eating her ass during our next session, but I think I am getting over any feeling of second thoughts. Yes, I ate my wife's ass. Yes, she loved it. Yes, I will likely do it again just to get that response from her. Geez, she makes me so horny.
Kate and I both love to give and receive rimmings, and very intense ones at that. We no longer need to ease into it, but just start with vigorous tongue probing right from the very beginning. She actually performed it on me before I did it to her, and I didn't even ask for it. She just responded to my verbal feedback and she was going lower and lower on me and eventually her tongue found its way to my anus. We've been going strong ever since, but much more intensely than our early days.
We're a very anal couple, for lack of a better description, and I can't get enough of it. At least 80% of our lovemaking involves some form of it. Our penetrative sex is roughly 50/50 between vaginal and anal. Quite often when we're not going full-on backdoor, we'll always rim each other if we've showered appropriately. We like to inserted a nice finger or two (both of us) during 69s too. So, it's very common that even if anal sex or rimming is on that night's menu, we find our way to a 69, and I'll nearly always opt to wet a finger and slide it right into her rosebud.
I’ve kicked Vanessa’s asshole on a few occasions. I think it turns me on more than it does her.
“Licked”, not “kicked”. Darn you, Autocorrect! 😅