Doggy Style (L/A)

This story contains strong language (L) and mentions anal play/sex (A).

Lauren and I recently went with three other couples for a night out. After drinks, dinner, and more drinks, the conversation turned to—you guessed it—sex.

The eight of us get together a few times per year, and we’re not shy about talking about sex. By way of quick background, the couples are all married and range in age from mid-30s up to their late-40s. All have kids. The topic of discussion was our favorite sex position. Lauren and I were surprised to learn that we are the only couple amongst the group that regularly has sex in the doggy-style position. Doggy-stye is, in fact, our preferred position; it’s the position we’re in probably 70%-80% of the time. While the other couples have had doggy-style sex, they rarely do, instead choosing variations of missionary or woman on top.

For us, doggy-style was a position we gravitated to over time. When we first started having sex, typically it was in missionary or Lauren-on-top positions. As we got more comfortable sexually with each other, the floodgates opened and all kinds of things started happening, including frequent doggy-style sex.

For those couples without a lot of experience with doggy style, allow me to share our perspective on what we think is the most enjoyable position of all.

Variations

First off, there are variations of doggy style, but they all have one thing in common: the guy enters the woman from behind. Typically, Lauren is on her hands and knees, but frequently she’ll drop down to her elbows or even lower if she wants to be fucked hard and deep—which she typically does.

One of the things I most enjoy about doggy style is that it’s not just me doing the fucking. Sometimes, I’ll remain still to tease Lauren, and she’ll then get all hot and bothered and start rocking back and forth, in essence doing the fucking herself. Drives me wild when she does that! That said, for both of us, there is nothing we enjoy more than Lauren getting pounded from behind as she begs for it. No other position we know of offers the ability to just hammer hard and deep, skin-slapping sounds and all.

If you asked Lauren which position she most enjoys from sexual stimulation and orgasm-friendly (more on orgasm below) standpoints, she will say doggy style. And I would say the same thing.

The View

While my wife has always had and continues to have a glorious ass, for a few years I had a hard time looking down because in doggy style it’s next to impossible not to see her asshole. For the longest time, that was a part of her body I didn’t want to see even as its a few millimeters from her vagina. Over time, I got intrigued and looked, and I liked what I saw. Plus, she happens to really be into anal, so it was necessary for me to eventually get in a good place with her derriere.

Bottom line (pun intended): In doggy style, if she’s really into it, her asshole will be in full view during the action. I’ve learned to embrace and enjoy the view because it is spectacular.

Spanking

Another aspect of doggy style that we (read: Lauren) really enjoys is being spanked while having sex. While I would never, ever hurt my wife, I have found over the years that the harder I spank her during doggy-style sex, the more she likes it. The harder I grip her ass cheeks with my hands, the more she likes it. Her pleasure then causes me to get carried away, meaning I start fucking her even harder and more deeply, and then I start saying naughty things to her, like slut, whore, bitch, etc.—all of which she LOVES!

One time, when I hadn’t yet started talking dirty, she looked back at me and asked me if I’d make her my slut. I replied, “Yes, bitch,” to which she replied: “Mmmmmmmmm, yes! Make me your slut!” So, for us, spanking and naughty talk while in doggy style are part of the process.

Anal Options

I mentioned above that seeing Lauren’s asshole took me years to do; I resisted her overtures to engage in anal pleasure, and she never pushed. But eventually, I did look down while we were in doggy style, and the view of her asshole wasn’t so bad. Then I touched it, and she went wild. Then I slid a finger in, and she loved it. In later sessions, we started having full-on anal sex.

More recently, we tried double penetration (my cock in her vagina, her dildo in her ass), and now she’s really into anal plugs. She’s so into anal plugs that I cannot remember a single instance of vaginal intercourse in the last two months where she didn’t have one in her ass, meaning DP is now a norm for us. Quick side note: We were surprised to learn that the other three couples had all experimented with anal sex and enjoyed it, and one of the couples had anal plugs.

Bottom line: Anal sex and anal play aren’t for everyone. But for us to really enjoy doggy-style sex, anal play is a must.

Convenience

Doggy style is a very convenient position! What do I mean by that? It is not uncommon at all for Lauren and me to get in a doggy style quickie, whether in a (private) family locker room at our neighborhood pool, in a dressing room, at a friend’s house during a party (yep, done that many times), on the side of a trail, in the kitchen, etc. She typically doesn’t wear panties even when she’s in a skirt, so it’s really just a matter of her bending over for some action. We can have mutually enjoyable doggy-style sex where both of us cum in as few as five minutes.

Orgasms

The last thing I’ll say about doggy style is that it’s a very orgasm-friendly position for Lauren. During doggy-style sex, she’ll reach back and massage her clit, orgasming at least once and sometimes twice or even three times. No other position is as orgasm-friendly for her.

When I cum, I’ll typically just slide all the way in her and unleash. (I had a vasectomy a few years ago, so cumming in her pussy is how we roll). Every so often, especially if I want to eat her pussy after we have sex, I’ll pull out and cum on her ass and up her back or sometimes in her mouth.

So there you have it. We shared the above insights with the other couples, and they were intrigued. If you haven’t experimented with doggy style, try it!

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37 replies
    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      A few years ago, anal sex would have been unthinkable at least to me. We had been into light anal play. A few times in the dark, I nearly penetrated my wife's ass by accident when we were in doggy style and she always loved it! Finally, one thing led to another and she wanted me to fuck her ass, which I did. I have come to enjoy anal sex more than I did. She loves it. Anal plugs have been a game-changer for us. She has one in basically every time we have sex now, unless it's anal sex (in which case no plug is needed!).

  1. SecondMarge says:

    My understanding is that doggie is very popular. I prefer being on top or spoon where I can include rubbing my pussy. I have included self pleasuring while in cowgirl but find it more difficult. I do not orgasm easily and almost never just from PIV. It’s difficult to even think about continuing after having an orgasm. Nor would being spanked be a pleasurable experience. Clearly we are all different and I love reading the things others have found makes their sex life more enjoyable. It’s great that you have friends with whom you can be open about sex. We did try the DP while discussing a fantasy.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Lauren will often reach back while in doggy style and masturbate. She will rarely orgasm just from penetration. She needs clitoral stimulation. She will reach back and masturbate either with her finger or vibrator.

  2. JuicyForMyMan says:

    I completely agree with all of this! Doggy-style has been our go-to for years. I, too, love a good spanking and it makes me go wild! And, if he needs (or just wants) to stop for a bit, I can always take over and ride him.

  3. redrider2004 says:

    My wife and I have been married 17 years and maybe tried doggie style 2 or three times. We can't find a comfortable way for both of us and stopped trying. I don't know if her having a larger butt and I'm not greatly endowed has anything to do with it. Has anyone else had trouble getting started in doggie ? She orgasms fast from missionary because my body pounds on her clit. She rarely touches her own clitoris but we are hopefully getting past that. I'm sure you would all agree that your wife taking more control of her own orgasm opens up many doors.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Comfort is key. My wife is 5'10" and I'm 6'2". She has long legs and has to spread them a little more than most women might for us to get the right angles in doggy style. Sometimes, this will tire out her groin muscles. She'll also drop to her elbows so I can stimulae her in all the right angles.

    • StillLikeNewlyweds says:

      RR2004, I understand your situation. As MHB said, sometimes she may have to adjust how far apart her knees are. Also, at least to get started, have her get lower on her arms or even completely face down. This changes the angle of entry greatly. Also, make sure her back is not arched up; straight or arched down will tilt her pelvis to a better position.

  4. WeldersWife says:

    Doggy style is by far my favorite for passionate or rough sex. I, like Lauren, really enjoy being spanked and grabbed roughly and that position is perfect for it. Plus I find dirty talk easier when I’m not looking directly at hubby. Only 2 things I can think of keep it from being our favorite….lack of eye contact (intimacy) and he doesn’t last as long

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      I hear ya. Lauren will often look back at me but it's hard to have true eye contact. On lasting long, It can be a challenge! Typically, I could easily cum in 5 minutes, but I have found tricks that can help me last usually at least 10 minutes. That said, if she's super wet, not easy to last! One challenge we do have now and then in doggy style: queefing. We now just laugh about it.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      StillLikeNewlywedssays, we rarely use mirrors except in hotel rooms and occasionally in our master bathroom. But we like them! Lauren will often look back at me and we'll get some eye contact that way. Hot!

    • StillLikeNewlyweds says:

      Oh yes! Hotels often have some good mirrors we’ve made use of. We recently discovered the budget brand Microtel by Wyndham. Your basic “night stopover while traveling” kinda place. Their niche is small rooms efficiently designed. In order to make the rooms feel bigger, though, part of that design is that nearly the whole wall at the head of the bed is all mirror. FUN! It also has a padded bench built into the window bay for anyone who is adventurous ?

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Indeed! Just yesterday Lauren was in leggings (no panties) and we were hiking on a trail. Inspired, we got behind a few trees, she leaned over and we got in a quickie!

  5. LovingMan says:

    Doggy style is a position we partake of, but (pun intended) not as often as you two.

    My wife and I really enjoy it for most of the reasons you listed. When younger, my orgasms in doggy style were so intense that I’d black out for a few seconds.

    My wife loves doggy style when she’s particularly turned on! And you are right that it’s very convenient. We also have had doggy style sex in the private changing room at gyms…. and outside with my wife kneeling on her car seat & me standing on the ground.

    I think that expanding your sex menu over the years is healthy for your marital sexual relationship so kudos to you both.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Well said! We love quickies in (semi) public settings! And YES to the intensity of cumming in my wife's pussy in doggy style!

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Hope she feels better soon! My wife tweaked her knee last weekend and all week we've been in missionary. Could be worse! She's getting better and we think doggy style will be in order this weekend.

  6. StillLikeNewlyweds says:

    Thanks for sharing. This has become our favorite position, too, for much of the same reasons, especially the convenience. I love taking her this way when she’s wearing a dress. In fact it’s usually all I’m thinking about when she is wearing a dress ?. We’ve also started enjoying the spanking, however, we got a small suede flogger that had become much more preferred than hand spanking (until we left it in a hotel room last month). It was surprising to us how great the suede straps felt without really hurting (yes I’ve been on the receiving end of it as well). Alternating between smacking and lightly dragging the soft straps over her bare ass usually drives her crazy.
    One addition variation we love is when she collapses to flat on her stomach with me still inside her. This is sometimes called the prone position. She loves the “overpowered” feeling of my body on her back.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Hot! Yes, we have gotten in hundreds of quickies over the years when Lauren is in a dress. As she doesn't wear panties, it's easy! We also love quickies when she's in a bikini. We have tried prone but had mixed results.

  7. Salcpl says:

    First of all, let me say how envious I am that you have Christian friends and you can go out and talk about sex. Wow!! We love sex together, and have really done a lot of experimenting over the years. However, we have no friends to socialize with us. We are both social people at work, well liked by others, but we spend all of our time at home playing together. We go out to eat occasionally, but it would be so much fun to have some Christian friends we could hang out with, have a few drinks, laugh, and then know everyone is going home to have some hot sex. Our one position is missionary. This is mainly due to us both enjoying eye contact, dirty talk and the ability it gives us to admire each other’s physiques. I would like to have doggy style, but quite frankly it’s difficult due to our heights. I am barely an inch taller and our legs are probably the same length. It’s almost impossible
    for me to do her doggy style. I know she would enjoy it. She definitely likes having her ass spanked and dirty talk. I’ve been wanting to take her doggy style again, and I’m thinking your post has provided the impetus I need to make it happen.

    • StillLikeNewlyweds says:

      Don’t give up, and think outside the bed—or at least at the edge of it. My wife bent over the edge of the bed is one of our favorite ways. Or try with her kneeling on a chair, couch, or ottoman. You get the idea: experiment.

    • O-surfer says:

      A wedge pillow or even the arm of the couch can help make the position work. It was definitely worth it for us. I do, however, prefer the name “stallion style” for this position. ?

  8. Lori D. says:

    Oh My God……. (giggles)……YESSSSS!!
    Although sex is very uncomfortable for me at this time since I'm having a baby in three weeks my husband and I love this position!

    • alwayswet101 says:

      Lori D…that is one of the best times girl! I just delivered our first a few weeks back and I was having pregnant sex with my husband right up until my water broke! The closer I got to having to be induced if I didn’t go into labor we had sex an insane amount. Pregnancy sex was nearly addicting for both of us and we couldn’t get enough of it. My orgasms were insane and doggy style was one of my favorites to get me there! You should try it mama!! You deserve some doggy and some great orgasms ?

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Love this!

      Lauren had bad morning sickness so sex for us was touch and go for the first several months of her pregnancy. But the last few months…mmmmmmm. Those few months were when we really got into doggy style. She was so sexy when she was pregnant!

  9. Lori D. says:

    @alwayswet101 – That's wonderful! Congratulations on the birth of your child!

    Needless to say a woman's desire for sex throughout pregnacy is over the top. Mine was up to the time I gave birth to our son and it hasn't changed with this second pregnancy. I still want my husband and I to share our love for each other as long as possible before giving birth in a few weeks….. as long as sex is comfortable rather than painful. Jamie woke me up a few days ago and needless to say he was VERY aroused. My back was pressed against his chest, he lifted my leg and penetrated me. The feeling was incredible and very satisfying to both of us. Call it "sideways doggy?" giggles

    • alwayswet101 says:

      That’s awesome Lori! So excited and praying for you and your new little bundle of joy!

      That is also a great position and great for when you are nearing due dates due to size. I would often be so wet already my husband could just slide right in without any kind of touch first. I really like that position too because, like doggy, it lets his tip hit my G-spot so nicely, but also he can touch my clitoris. I could relate to this because my husband wakes up like that often where you just know something has to be done. ? Nothing like a rock-hard raging erection poking into your pregnant wife’s back, lol

    • Horny_boy says:

      It is so good that women love that position, and I also love that women at MH are not ashamed to say that they love dick, sucking cock, being fucked by their husband… I just love it!
      That's the design God intended for marriage.

  10. LoverBoy2 says:

    I love doggie, and we will often switch to it after my wife has already had an orgasm in a face-to-face position. But she isn't able to come in doggie because she needs direct clit stimulation (she has never come only by g-spot or other internal PIV stimulation). So, although I LOVE banging her hard from behind, the down side for us is that we can't orgasm together in this way. She also doesn't seem to find it very pleasurable (although it's not uncomfortable either). I know that there is the option of either me or her manually stimulating her clit. We haven't done much experimenting with that, but in general she doesn't like direct manual stimulation that much and prefers the bumping/grinding obtained by face-to-face positions.

  11. 20sophiemarie00 says:

    I agree with all the reasons for Doggy being an incredible position. My husband does enjoy the view, but he more so likes the control he has. And I have to agree; I LOVE when he is in control. Where ever we are, he can pull me aside, bend me over, flip my dress up or yank my pants down and have his way with me. No greater orgasms have I had than the ones when he has to have me right then and there. The feeling of being loved and desired and craved that much is incredible.

    As for me, I love lying on my back so he can play with my tits or just watch them bounce around and see me playing with them and sucking them. I love wrapping my legs around him and squeezing him and making my pussy grip his cock like a glove. I love the eye connection we have and, when we talk dirty to each other, seeing and feeling the effect our words have on each other. I also enjoy seeing his cock sliding in and out of me and watching if he pulls out and cums all over me.

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