Thank You, Fellow MHers!
I submitted to MH a story of an incredible oral sex and intercourse lovemaking session that we had two days ago. And tonight I have been thinking about how MH boosted our marital lovemaking. I re-read some comments to some of my recent stories, and y’all are so kind!
To be honest, I have not told you just how severe my and Melody’s health issues really are. It would probably freak you out. But we continue to soldier on in God’s love and in our love for each other. And in spite of our pain, low stamina, and disabilities, we somehow STILL find new ways to pleasure each other. We hope our stories can inspire others and give them hope for the future.
We also feel that marital sex has been brushed under the rug by many members of the Christian community. This is unfortunate because we strongly believe (like many of you) that marital sexual intimacy is one of the most glorious experiences in our mortal life. And reading about how other married couples have sex—or reading fictional stories that include married sex—really can enhance your sexual relationship with your spouse.
Although I have mentioned this in recent comments I have made, I wanted to say it in a post: Thank you to my fellow MarriageHeat writers. That includes any of you who make comments. I always read all comments on every post I have read that my fellow MH authors wrote. And of course, I read the comments to my posts as well. So many of the stories are awesome, and a lot of the comments are incredibly insightful! And often, we get inspired to try some of those things we read about on MH.
So many stories have given us ideas on things to try. It’s true that every couple is different, so we don’t try EVERYTHING we read about in MH. But we certainly have tried some of them with great success!
I am especially grateful for those of you who have written about role-plays and/or following a script. We have given those a try with AMAZING “sexcess!” (Yes I invented that word.) We have “cum” up with our own role-plays as well.
Several times I have written up a story or script that we’ve read and acted out together, and it has led to quite honestly some of the best sex of our marriage! We have also done role-plays where each of us has a backstory but we have to ad-lib what we say and do. Those have been just as good!
Melody is sometimes reluctant at first, but she always gets WAY into the role-play—even more so than me! She becomes an absolute vixen in bed, on the couch, in the shower, in themed hotel rooms, in the car, etc. If you’ve read my stories then you know about some of those experiences that my Melody and I have shared.
I know that we never would have had some of those unique incredibly erotic and lovingly bonding experiences if I had not been a reader of MarriageHeat! (I also read or tell some of the stories to Melody, and we discuss them.) So a big thank you also goes to Missy and Calvin too for all their hard work in keeping this site up! Thanks also to the several volunteers who help keep the site going. That includes volunteer editors and other support people like schedulers. I, myself, am a volunteer editor once in a while. I am certainly amazed at the talent that the MH authors have. Thank you to my fellow authors for their commitment. It can really take a quite a while to write up a good married sex story.
We find that much of the relationship advice on MH is also very good and useful in our marriage. And being older, it’s nice to read about other long-term married couples who also have a hot sex life! You could say that MarriageHeat has spiced up our marriage.
A few years ago, a therapist suggested that I keep a sex journal. And for me, writing about our lovemaking has helped me feel very grateful… as in (to quote Sheryl Crow):
“It’s not having what you want!
It’s wanting what you’ve got!”
I wonder if you other MH readers are like us and appreciate the relationship advice and/or get good sex ideas or feel inspired and hopeful for your future from reading MH stories and comments. Do you?
And do any of you other MarriageHeat authors feel that writing about sex you have shared with your spouse helps you feel grateful? It certainly helps me to feel very grateful and blessed.
What an uplifting post! Yes, LovingMan, I fully agree that this site is a huge blessing and resource, one which has helped me immeasurably. I thank those who run it and keep everything so organized. I thank every author and every commenter. You all have aided me on my journey towards sexual confidence. I love reading each new story (and digging through old ones) and gaining ideas for the day I am ever married, or just enjoying some fuel for my own self-pleasure sessions. And comments, both on my stories and those of others, always show me some new insight. I appreciate that. My prayer is that Christians will reclaim sex and learn to boldly and comfortably discuss, teach, and utilize it (within marriage, of course!). This ministry is a very rich tool, and if I get the opportunity, I will share it with others. I may someday even introduce it to my parents!
LLL, I loved where you said, “My prayer is that Christians will reclaim sex and learn to boldly and comfortably discuss, teach, and utilize it (within marriage, of course!).”
I agree 100%!
I also want to add that your fictional MH stories are fantastic! Every time I read or re-read one of your stories I pray that you and your future husband will find each other.
Thank you! I am glad my stories encourage (and arouse!) you my readers. And your prayers mean so much to me. I'm grateful to say that God has given me complete contentment in the single life, but there are times that I do long to be loved by a good man. So, I am excited to see what the Lord has planned.
Great post, LovingMan! I agree there are many stories that inspire and give so many ideas. It's so ironic you wrote this because your most recent story lead to some wild and kinky sex last night and early this morning. Me and my wife lay here this morning with a wet dick and filled pussy, fondling like teenagers after your last story. Keep writing.
Hey Giants05, that’s great! So glad our sexy experience helped inspire yours! To me that is one of the blessings of MH! God bless you both in your passionate marriage!
Late to the party on this post, but I really do appreciate the relationship advice on here. I hope that I can keep a measure of perspective in my life from reading the posts, but also the comments. It doesn't matter if it was written yesterday or 5 years ago, there are wonderful nuggets of wisdom all over this site. And I appreciate the breadth of experiences displayed in the stories here, from the wild and sexy (like HornyGG) to the sobering and heartbreaking (Atlantic Man), and really loved you telling the story of Melody's first time also. I don't think I have the same gift of imagination necessary for writing a good piece of fiction, but I hope I can eventually contribute in valuable ways!