Easier Handjobs for Her (Hint: No Mess)
Here’s a thought:
Some wives find hand jobs too messy, or some days a hand job can seem like too much work.
There’s a great way for a wife to give her husband a hand job without the mess—or if the wife has a semen aversion: put some lube in a non-lubricated condom and stroke his shaft by stretching the condom over the head of his penis. The wife’s hands stay clean, and the husband gets a quick and easy hand job with no mess. Husbands, it doesn’t feel as good as skin on skin, but your wife will thank you for it, and you’ll get more hand jobs. Give it a try.
Do you use condoms already for hand jobs in your marriage?
Husbands, would you wear a condom for hand jobs to make it a better experience for your wife?
Wives, would you be more willing to give a hand job, or more hand jobs, without the mess?
That’s an interesting idea. We have found that lubricating the inside of a condom first really helps. But we only very rarely use a condom.
My wife will pump my rod but usually I am doing the manual pumping when I come. She always licks n tongue flicks n sucks my nipple as she or I masturbate me to orgasm. We do this every day that we are not having penis in vagina (PIV) sex. Doing this on non-PIV days sometimes leads to full intercourse bc my Melody gets so turned on. (She loves orally loving on my man-nips.) Often we use a vibrating male stroker by Hello Cake.
On actual PIV days we almost always do this as a part of foreolay-but not usually to orgasm. Melody likes feeling “her creamy present” in her pussy too much to do that. And after I’ve filled her pussy & Melody has cum once or twice, we usually do the hand job with or without the stroker for my second orgasm.
Thanks for your suggestion. We’ll give it a try. It really does sound way less messy – which could be useful when one of us has an early morning doctor appointment.
I love a nice condom handjob. With lube inside, it feels really good to me. Makes it feel more like being inside.
Yes, we do use condoms sometimes for sex and handjobs. Not all the time, but sometimes we do and have used them off and on for more than 20 years.
Using a condom would not make a HJ a better experience for my wife. Quite the opposite, as she likes the mess, and likes it on her body, or mine, and likes to play with it!
Sex is messy and cleaning up afterward is part of sex as long as it isn't always the responsibility of the same person every time. I see clean up as a loving act.
I seem to be more worried about the mess than my wife. She seems to want to stroke my cock every time we have sex. Sometimes she'll start doing it and I warn her that I will cum if she keeps doing it and that just makes her that much more determined to do it. I feel so helpless when she does it to me. It feels so good and I can't resist her even when I don't want to cum from it.
I've never had an issue with getting her pussy juices all over my face. I love it. I suppose it is similar feeling for her. It's just a turn on to get the other person so aroused they lose all sense of anything that bothers them to succumb to a wonderful orgasm.
When I feel like a hand job. She knows. I'll go to the drawer. Reach for the flavored lube. Head straight for the couch. Take off my pants, underwear, and get right to work. I begin with a couple of drops and start stroking slowly until a full erection is reached. Then I ask, wanna help? She reaches over and she begins slowly stroking me. Adding lube. Up and down the shaft she goes. She then becomes pantieless. Bobbing in occasionally. Completely throating me. While she's stroking. I then lube my finger, inserting into her vagina. She moans as I vigorously massage. She squirts. Back and fourth we go. Eventually, it winds up: 69. What a mess! We swallow ourselves.
It's a turn on for her.
Not a bad idea for those struggling with the mess. My wife loves to devour my semen and would frankly feel cheated of the experience, and I’m always happy to feed her.
I don’t really get that much pleasure out of a HJ because I think she fears squeezing too hard and doesn’t get the pressure right. She would much rather suck me off and I prefer that too, but great suggestions for those that can benefit from it.
My wife makes me wear a condom. Have always wondered how common it is to use condoms
Many years ago we decided that she will take my seed and it will not be wasted. We enjoy hand jobs but when it comes time for the "happy ending", she swallows or takes my inside of her to finish.