Song of Songs 1:7 and Places of Orgasms Poll

Places Where You and/or Your Spouse Have Experienced an Orgasm Together or Alone Outside the Home - Select All That Apply and Feel Free to Share Additional Details in the Comments

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Comment Submission and/or Story Ideas

  • Can you share a funny or unexpected moment that happened in one of these locations?
  • What advice would you give to other couples looking to spice up their intimate life while traveling or in outdoor settings? What experiences can you share?
  • How do you think these experiences have strengthened your marital bond?
  • How do these outside-the-home experiences differ from those at home for you and your partner?
  • Faithful Singles: Have you every masturbated outside your home unknown to others. Where? What happened?
  • For those who chose ‘Other,’ can you describe the setting and why it was significant for you and your spouse?

Song of Songs Study

Song of Songs 1:7: Tell me, O thou whom my soul loveth, where thou feedest, where thou makest thy flock to rest at noon: for why should I be as one that turneth aside by the flocks of thy companions?

Metaphors and Interpretation

“Tell me, O thou whom my soul loveth:”

Tell me: Indicates a desire for open and honest communication within the relationship, emphasizing the importance of verbal intimacy.

O thou whom my soul loveth: This phrase expresses deep affection and love, signifying the emotional connection between the bride and the bridegroom

“Where thou feedest, where thou makest thy flock to rest at noon:”

Feedest: In a metaphorical sense, this could represent the physical and emotional nourishment the beloved provides within the relationship.

Flock: Symbolizes the intimate and cherished companions of the bridegroom, possibly referring to their shared circle of friends or the bride’s companions.

Rest at noon: Noon is typically a time of intense heat, and seeking rest away symbolizes the desire for intimate moments and relaxation within the relationship.

“For why should I be as one that turneth aside by the flocks of thy companions?”

Turneth aside by the flocks of thy companions: This phrase could suggest the temptation or distraction of being drawn away from the beloved’s presence by the influences or company of others.

Sacred Text – James 1:19: So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger.

  1. Heat Conversations:
  1. How can we maintain open and honest communication within our relationship, as expressed by the bride’s desire to hear from her beloved, ‘Tell me’?
  2. Can we provide emotional nourishment and support to each other, ensuring that our relationship remains a source of strength and comfort, like the bride seeking where her beloved ‘feedest’?
  3. What strategies can we employ to preserve our intimate moments and connection even in life’s ‘noon’—its challenges and distractions?
  4. How do we address and overcome any temptations or external influences that threaten to pull us away from each other’s presence, similar to the bride’s concern about being like ‘one that turneth aside by the flocks of thy companions?

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30 replies
  1. CHW says:

    So I have an office in our company. I arrange travel. I arrived 1 hour after my husband had arrived, wearing a professional dress for the staff meeting at 11. My husband texts me, Take your panties off". I do. About 15 minutes pass. Look in the bottom drawer of your desk. I look and see that he has a "little" vibrator there, charged and ready to go. I text back, "You are a perverted man."

    I ask, "What do you want me to do with it?'

    "I want you to turn it on at 10:45 and get yourself close but do not climax. Come to the staff meeting at 11. keep your panties off. I almost climaxed at 10:54. I turned the thing off.

    My husband begins the meeting, "I hope all of you are excited to work here!" He got that right! The meeting went on until noon. I found myself moving and shifting in a way that kept me hot. I was imagining how I was going to get his dick in my pussy after the meeting.

    The meeting was over at noon, and we went into his private office. I was still so wet and wanton. As he shut the door, I opened my legs and started to masturbate in front of him. I was still so wet, and he encouraged me by saying, "Yes, baby." "Cum for me ."I love being an exhibitionist for him. He takes out his member and starts stroking it as he watches me. I climax. I walk over to the credenza, turn around, and pull up my dress. He took his member and gave me my wish. I cum again. He comes.

    We eat lunch. At 1pm, I begin my work.

    • RenewedCouple says:

      CHW – Wow! My wife is way more open now to try things other places than at home. Late at night, Driving. We were both so tired, We stayed awake as I brought her to a climax on a road trip last week! She then returned the favor. We woke up! We got there safe and satisfied.

  2. Sexy Wife says:

    Ever since I was a teenager, I fantasized about giving my future husband blow jobs at various places. I met my man, and I could not wait to suck his cock. After we got married, I gave him his first blow job 15 minutes after the wedding ceremony in the public bathroom at the church. I love the salty taste that stays with you. I have milked him here and there for the last 10 years of our marriage. When pregnant, I desire to give BJ's even more. I should write some stories but am very busy with little kids.

    • Bighuged says:

      Wow sucking your new husband off 15min after the ceremony is so hot! Were you worried about someone walking in on you guys? Would love for my future wife to be that excited to suck my cock

  3. Strawberry says:

    My husband has this thing about me masturbating on planes when we are only two seated in a row. Last month, we were sitting two in a row. It was late. People were sleeping or watching movies all around us. I got out my little vibe. Out and the plane blanket and enjoyed a quiet orgasm. My husband went to the laboratory, hard, and finished himself off. We dozed out for a nice sleep before arriving in London.

  4. Strawberry says:

    My husband has this thing about me masturbating on planes when we are only two seated in a row. Last month, we were sitting two in a row. It was late. People were sleeping or watching movies all around us. I got out my little vibe. Out and the plane blanket and enjoyed a quiet orgasm. My husband went to the laboratory, hard, and finished himself off. We dozed out for a nice sleep before arriving in London.

  5. Aida Lane says:

    I am a single college woman with a high sex drive. I am in my second year at a major university. I am a Christian, and I found MH to keep my head in the game for my Christian values. Some professors have promoted anything but hot marriage sexuality. I love the vision of MH because I can keep my heart and desires for monogamy as I discover who my spouse will be someday. I like the idea of a matchmaker at MH. You asked singles to chime in. I was thinking about future marriage sex during a boring lecture, and I masturbated in the public restroom at the university. My account is named EmpoweredWomen because I am not a victim as I discover my possible marriage future.

  6. EmpoweredWoman says:

    I am a single college woman with a high sex drive. I am in my second year at a major university. I am a Christian, and I found MH to keep my head in the game for my Christian values. Some professors have promoted anything but hot marriage sexuality. I love the vision of MH because I can keep my heart and desires for monogamy as I discover who my spouse will be someday. I like the idea of a matchmaker at MH. You asked singles to chime in. I was thinking about future marriage sex during a boring lecture, and after the lecture I actually masturbated in the public restroom at the university. My account is named EmpoweredWomen because I am not a victim on my journey to discover my future husband, If God provides one.

    • sweetsugarspice says:

      Welcome to the club girlie! Glad you are here, there’s quite a few of us singles and I totally agree with your sentiment and I commend you on getting away with that “situation” 😉

    • WaitingOnHer says:

      Encouraging you to keep it up, EW! Your faith is strong, and we applaud you.

      SSS, happy to refer you to SOTB if you want. Anyways, just read your recent story and wish you healing. That guy was like a venomous snake, good thing he’s out of sight.

    • Bighuged says:

      Welcome EW! Single male here! Glad you’ve chimed in. I’ve definitely been in similar situations as you were in class. There’s been a few times where I’ve had to hide my stick cock as I made my way to the bathroom to shoot my load. Sometimes as a guy I feel like such a horn dog, but it’s nice to know that there are God-fearing women that are sometimes just as horny for a quick cum so they can continue on with their day.

    • Faith-Manages says:

      Welcome to the club, EW, I think you have a great attitude! And you're definitely right to be wary of professors, because there is little they teach these days that could be considered Biblical, whether dealing with sex or outside of it. Stay strong.

    • LivingHope says:

      EmpoweredWoman, how do you envision the idea of a matchmaker at MH working? People sharing their married sex fantasies with each other and being matched up based on mutual arousal? Got me curious and thinking about how it would work in this context.

  7. texasman76 says:

    I made passionate love to my wife in her parent's bed with everyone just outside the door. Also did her at my sister's house in an extra bedroom with everyone downstairs. Checked on my parent's house while they were gone out of town. We stripped down and did it in the hallway floor. Met our cousins in Red River, NM one summer. Our kids and everyone else (26 people) were downstairs sleeping while we were up in the loft. I was horny and fingered her pussy till she came then mounted her. She wanted me to hurry up so no one would wake up. I was taking my time so she reached up and sucked my right nipple and made me blow my load. I think my dad heard me cum as the next day at breakfast he asked me if we had a good time last night.

  8. Bigfoot says:

    My wife and i had many discussions about playing in swimming pools. I asked he about various swimsuits that would allow us to have sex without being caught. In the mid 1990s my we went on a brief business trip and stayed in a hotel that had a 30 foot long serpentine hot tub. At one end of the hot tub, there was one man in the water talking to a couple sitting outside. We sat sat in the other end of the hot tub under the bubbling water facing each other and flirting. I had attempted stroking her breasts but it was too obvious to allow much groping. After a few minutes, I noticed my wife slip down lower in the water and felt her reach out and stroke my hardened cock. She encouraged me to slip lower in the water and pulled my suit down freeing my cock. I was excited that she was going to give me a hand job only to be completly surprised by her guiding my cock into her pussy. In my position I was not able to move without making it obvious what we were doing so I just sat and watched her eyes as she moved her hips, coaxing a massive load from me. I wanted to reach out and expose her lusious breasts but knew that would ruin the moment. We finished just before the guy from the other end made his way over to talk to us.

  9. LovelyHotCouple says:

    We have had several very beautiful times outdoors.
    Several times during our road trip through British Columbia. I particularly loved these!
    Also in the vineyards and the black forest here in Germany where we live.
    Outdoor sex is just so special!
    The excitement, the beauty of the nature and of my wife at the same time. Also the rush of doing something naughty 🙂

  10. Tulsa says:

    We are outdoor sex people. While most couples head to their bedrooms, we head out to the yard, at least, when the weather is warm. We have an outdoor shower too!
    We go out exploring in the desert often, and also camp, but with either, we usually find a secluded place to have sex.
    The list of places is long!

  11. BALove says:

    Great poll question! We have checked six of the boxes in the poll. Coming together as husband and wife in various places is not only fun and exciting but represents Gods call for us to offer our bodies to one another to satisfy those needs and desires. Making love and climaxing in non traditional locations enhances our bond as there is so much intimacy that comes from taking risks to meet each others physical needs. One of my favorite memories was about 10 years ago as we arrived early to pickup our middle school children and some friends at a movie theater. We had run some errands but arrived about 25 minutes before the move was over. With time to kill we started to makeout while parked in the back part of the lot. As things heated up we decided to jump into the backseat of the SUV. In no time we were naked; our windows were completely fogged up and E was on top of me with her legs wrapped around me romping for a passionate quickie. It was an amazing use of our spare time!

  12. On Fire says:

    When my wife was pregnant with our first child, she was incredibly open to outside-the-home orgasms. We were at my parent's house for a long weekend, attending one of her girlfriend's weddings. She had at least 2 orgasms in the car. One by the lake late at night. I got one, too, when we made love by the pier. We went to a wedding that weekend, and she had another one in the powder room. I should write a story about this weekend. I will never forget it!

  13. KingdomMan says:

    Rest at noon: Noon is typically a time of intense heat, and seeking rest away symbolizes the desire for intimate moments and relaxation within the relationship.
    I’m the not too distant past, lunchtime naps were the norm. I daydream about getting back to those days and lazily pleasuring each other before we doze in some afternoon wedded bliss.

  14. Faith-Manages says:

    Strange(r) places I have masturbated:
    -in the public restroom at college
    -at friends' houses (many times)
    -in the back of my car in my church parking lot
    -under a blanket while watching a movie, while my mom's friend was in the room

    Honestly I'm surprised at my audacity!

  15. aussiepastor says:

    Long time reader, first post. When my wife and I (now married 29yrs) were in our honeymoon we made love in a well known, pitch-black, tea-tree lake in the middle of the day with hundreds of holiday-makers in the vicinity. We were cuddling and kissing, she in my lap, and were fully clothed but we managed to make it work. It was highly erotic and tortureously slow as we couldn’t make the usual movements but the passion of youth overcame the difficulties (we were 21 and 20). TBH this sounds a bit creepy these days but we were in the moment and I’m mostly sure no one was the wiser.

  16. sweetsugarspice says:

    I’ve masturbated at the beauty salon in the tanning bed and on the massage bed before. I just started touching my pussy and I began to get horny and I started rubbing my clit, I felt my orgasm building and I tried to calm down but couldn’t stop it, I arched my back and silently orgasmed so hard. My pussy was so wet and tingly after.

  17. QueenandHubbie says:

    Hubbie here: sorry it took so long for me to equate this experience to this poll! On a kayak trip several years ago, even before we started naked kayaking, we pulled up on a small island in a small lake. It was fairly high up in the middle and commanded a good view. Remember, if you can see, you can be seen!

    So we laid some towels out, and started to make out, and feel each other up. It was hot! Queen took my cock in her mouth, and her oral was amazing! I tell her that she’s BTA, Better Than Anyone, meaning she’s better than all the women I’ve been with before. It’s true; she is! And I love to brag on her.

    Anyhow, she’s getting me close, and just as I start to cum in her mouth, a boat slowly cruises by, and they’re sight-seeing. So we’re on a high-up knoll, on an island, my cock straight in the air, Queen working her magic, head bobbing, in the open, on display, and the boaters get a free show! So fucking hot!

    * Advice? Be sexual somehow, every chance you get, no matter what the venue!

    * Good sex automatically strengthens marriage. That’s what it’s for! Special sex in new/unique places has a special element to it, and so strengthens even more!

    * Of course they differ. Sex outside of routine places helps sex stay “not routine”! Different sights, sounds, smells, add to the sense experience, and create a more full-orbed experience. Also, the potential of being seen is fucking hot!

  18. Naturist78 says:

    One of the most memorable sexcapades with my wife (I’ll call her Dani) played out late one night in Dallas on our hotel balcony. Back from a long and leisurely dinner, we had returned with a bottle of wine to our room on the third floor on the north side of the hotel’s central commons below where some sort of big family event was going on, judging by children in attendance. It may have been an apres wedding event. They were a joyful bunch.

    Our balcony lights were off, and in the darkness we enjoyed watching them and the kids at play as we sipped our glasses of wine and relaxed in the nighttime breeze, leaning on the balcony guardrail. Finally, the event ended around 11 p.m. and everyone left except for a young couple who strolled over to their ground-floor room, softly lit by lamps, adjacent to the party area. The north side of their room, facing us, was solid glass with sliding doors and drapes that were thin but so thin that they may as well have not been there. Turned out their bed was just inside those doors.

    As soon as the couple entered their room, the husband embraced his wife. We watched as they passionately kissed for a minute then began to disrobe, pitching their clothes across the room as they stripped naked then danced around. The husband pulled the wife down on the bed, climbed on top of her and began to fuck her fast and furiously.

    “Wow, I can’t believe what I’m seeing,” Dani whispered, smiling. “They must really love each other. This is hothothot.”

    “You should masturbate,” I said. “I dare you,” I added, knowing Dani never would resist a dare, especially a sexy dare. She was erotic and knew she was pretty and shapely, which had always nurtured her self-confidence, and she was thankful for all of that. She took good care of herself and loved our wild playtimes whenever and wherever they occurred.

    Smiling, Dani slipped off her skirt, slid her hand into her thong and began to discretely rub her pussy. I loved watching her masturbate, and she loved to put on erotic shows for me. Dani reached over and unzipped my slacks then gripped and massaged my granite-like erection. “Hey, babe,” she whispered seductively as she watched the couple move from missionary to doggie style. “Why don’t I get naked?”

    “Go for it,” I said, loving how she was playing with my dick. With that, she stopped masturbating herself and me long enough to pull off her top and pitch it across the balcony, then off came her shoes, her bra, her thong. She was laughing softly and whispered: “Hey, you get naked, too,” so I shucked my shirt, slacks, loafers and boxers.

    Dani turned around and backed up against me, pulling my hands to her velvety breasts and slowly wiggling her butt against my erection as we watched the couple reach an orgasmic finale before collapsing on their bed. “Whew,” Dani said. “That guy’s incredible. “He’s a jackhammer. – like you!”

    “Thanks go to our wives — and our Maker,” I said. “Our mates electrify our libidos. It’s how God wired us.”

  19. NorthernSky says:

    So far, in a car several times, and in other people’s houses (usually with them knowing more often than not knowing due to either our sexual noises, or my wife’s very obvious flushed appearance and messy hair afterwards).

    I’d go into more detail, but that would probably be better in story form.

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