Ideas for Bucket List
Over the years, we’ve written down many ideas, fantasies, and goals we hope to try for sexual adventures. Guy and I look for opportunities to include a bucket list idea in normal situations, or special occasions. So, we thought we’d suggest our ideas for the bucket list concept to MH readers to help keep the fires burning. In fact, we’d love to read your ideas, too.
Here are some of our favorites:
1.) Video yourselves having hot sex – We’ve set up a video camera (or cameras at different angles ) and captured our lovemaking. Then we watch the private videos when we need inspiration. For us, it works every time!
2.) Set certain car-sex scenarios –
— After a trip, as Guy was driving, he fingered me to an orgasm. (Darned consoles make it too hard to give him oral.)
— I’ve even moved to the back seat and stripped completely naked (at night). He found a good place, pulled over, and we made love like teens.
4.) Sex at weddings –
— I wear a dress that Guy loves with sexy panties that he picks out ( or go bare-butt ). We find an empty room or closet, and we have sex in there.
— Variations include oral pleasuring, various positions, phone-cam pictures or videos, etc.
4.) Sex out in nature – We’ve had sex on the beach (at night), in a mountain stream (see our posts), and often in state parks. It’s liberating, but don’t get caught. We’ll post more of those in the near future.
5.) Public risk – Check out our series on an erotic phone call. Guy and I were in a nice restaurant. From the ladies’ room, I sent him a video of me masturbating. Then, on the way back to our table, I lifted my dress and flashed him. It was so hot!
6.) The scene from a Hollywood movie-
— Regardless of what it is, if you two have a sex scene you find particularly entrancing, act it out with one another and see how it feels. One of our favorites is from Michael Douglas and Jeanne Tripplehorn’s passionate scene in Basic Instinct, but not as rough.
7.) Home gym sex-
— As I write this, it’s one I’m making plans for. Guy built a nice gym in our basement. He works out hard, and it shows. We’ve had sex in every room of the house; the bathroom, bedrooms, dining room, kitchen, family room, living room, stairs, and sunroom.
— This weekend, while he’s doing his Saturday morning workout, I’m going to surprise him and molest his body. His last exercise is bench presses. So after a shower, I’ll be naked under my robe, and I’ll catch him lying on his back. I’ll strip him, climb on him in girl-on-top positions, and ride him until he climaxes somewhere in me, his choice. Oral is a good option, too. I can’t wait!
These are a few of our ideas, most that we’ve done at least once. So, MH readers, we hope you’ll add your bucket list ideas, fantasies, and the results so we can enjoy them too. 💕
Bluegrassbabe95
Love this post from a fellow country Lover across the pond! I assume 🙂
Our top bucket list item is to hear another couple giving it their all in the next hotel room. Out of our control this one, but we do our very best to encourage anyone next door!! Hasn't happened yet but we're alway hopeful when we check into another place!
There was a viewpoint we used to make out at when dating. I'd quite like to go back and go all the way there.
These all sound like great ideas! And I have to say, if your husband can finger you while driving he's far better at multitasking than I think I would be…
Faith-Manages,
In times past, I have fingered each of my ex-wives to orgasm while driving. As an ex-cop, I'm adept at multi-tasking behind the wheel. (I did not, however, enjoy coffee & a donut while fingering pussy….) 😉
Here’s a few things we’ve done:
We were twice at a national wildlife refuge when my wife started lifting up her shirt n flashing me her beautiful boobies. She also was pinching her nips. This led to us stopping our mini SUV and her kneeling on the passenger seat as I stood behind her with my feet on the ground. We had great semi-doggy style sex both times!
We had sex in a similar position in an isolated backyard hot tub at night under the stars on a moonless night!
Rope-play sex has also led to some absolutely amazing and intense lovemaking for us! Thank you MH for introducing role-play sex to us! Sometimes our roleplay includes costumes and trips to unique inns with themed rooms. Other times we cook up something especially sexy at home.
We have a tradition to make love near the Christmas tree at night at least once every Christmas season. We turn on the Christmas tree lights but no other lights in the house. And of course we turn each other on too! We have some Uber-sexy Christmas lingerie that we wear too. We think every married couple should enjoy their Christmas tree this way at least once.
Writing a “sex journal” has helped me to be grateful for our sex life. Most of my MH stories cum from those journal entries.
Hi BGB,
I love all of these ideas! I’m glad that y’all work hard to keep things hot. Keep writing!
There's a resort near my home that rents out secluded tree houses. One has an outdoor shower. I am thining of renting one for the weekend and just fucking in and out of that tree house.
Thanks for this! Our anniversary is coming up soon and I have an idea to put together a sexual bucket list as a gift for Dr. Daddy. Right now I’m thinking along the lines of a scrapbook or something pretty that we can keep. Obviously we’ll add to it together but I’d like to jump start it with several ideas. So thanks again for the inspiration!
I love every one of these ideas! My favorite, though, was the last one. If there is something that gets me really hot, it's thinking about ravishing my future husband. Generally, it's the guy who takes the lead (which is good by me), but from all I've learned, men like their wives to initiate sexy things. Enjoy your Saturday "workout" with your man!
I've reread all these terrific examples again. It's definitely inspiring. Thank you for your comments and positive votes.
….a treehouse? That's one we're going to have to look into! 🥰
A long time ago, I knew a couple that were both skydivers. Yes, they fucked in freefall.
They connected for only a few seconds, but they did it. Alas, I was not there to view it in person. They both had big smiles as they told the story.