Nothing Like A Big Female Ass
I’m not gonna lie, my wife Vanessa’s ass is something special.
She is a bigger girl, with very broad hips. She has a little bit of melanin to her skin tone with a mostly White Southern heritage and some Black and Cherokee ancestors.
She has been blessed by God with a beautiful combination of features. She knows how to dance well—to hip hop, country, ballroom, you name it. In an effort to help bring her weight down into a healthier range, she has been dancing more lately for exercise like when she was younger, so I’ve been thinking a lot about how much I have always enjoyed seeing her dance. It’s been fun to watch.
I remember one of the first times I began to feel serious attraction toward her was one time years ago when I saw her dancing. She can really work wonders with those hips and that ass God gave her. It’s amazing.
I remember a time several months later when we were on a date and, for the first time, she intentionally backed into me as we stood in line. I remember how she looked into my eyes with a dark, animalistic, hungry expression that almost scared me, and most certainly thrilled me to my core.
I remember going out to grocery shop as newlyweds. I know bigger girls aren’t for everyone, but we used to live in a very ethnic neighborhood, predominantly made up of cultures that tend more towards idolizing larger, curvier women. I remember how exciting it felt to see men doing double takes, staring at Vanessa’s ass as she pushed our shopping cart down the aisles. Some of them gave me knowing smiles, as if to say, “Good for you, man!” Some men’s faces went green with envy.
I still remember how breathless I was when, as newlyweds, for the first time, she invited me to cum on her ass. It was a fantasy fulfilled.
I love playfully spanking that huge, round, creamy-yellow ass, and just going crazy on it with my lips, tongue, and cock. I am hoping we can start a conversation in praise and appreciation of the female derrière. I especially want to give a hearty shoutout to the bigger, curvier asses, and the women of mixed racial heritage.




I love a guy who loves his wife’s attributes. I also love a gal who doesn’t mind drawing a little attention. The visual of her dancing definitely got my attention and if I had the time, I would go do something about it 😉
I love it!
Let me know if you’d enjoy reading a vivid description of Vanessa giving me a private strip show. I’ve been thinking of writing about it sometime.
Oooo, I would definitely enjoy that.
No mixed-race heritage here, but I adore Mrs_story_smith's butt. Even after all these years she hates it but I love watching it ripple as I make love to her from behind. Only yesterday she bent over emptying the washing machine while I was getting something out of the freezer and being down on my knees I only had to shuffle a few feet on my knees so I could plant a big kiss on her jean-clad derriere.
I love that!
To clarify, mixed race heritage isn’t “better” or “worse”, I want ALL men here to brag about their wives, because they’re all gorgeous in their own way and it wasn’t my intention to exclude anyone. I just was giving a shout out to my wife. 😀
Don't worry, I didn't think you were meaning that. I see you struggle with the same things I do as so many stories speak of toned abs, well above average sized cocks and petite women, but that's far from where I am my wife are. However, I do simply adore every inch of her and of course, everything else about her as well.
What really has given joy to my heart is learning that men see so much more beauty in their wives than the wives think. We women are definitely too hard on ourselves! I love that you find your wife so beautiful. Please keep sharing stories! I've been doing all I can to build up my body and shape my butt, and after seven years of consistent exercise and healthy eating, I'm way happier about how it looks. I want it to be a pleasure to my future husband's senses. And I admit, though I've never actually caught anyone doing a double-take at it, I wouldn't mind if they did. 🤪
LLL, I have found that our brains and what we find attractive is very flexible. I don’t think it’s as hard-wired as people think. Vanessa disagrees with me a bit and says attraction should be one of the main things when choosing a spouse. But for me, when we first met, there was initially more of a feeling of friendship where we felt happy to be together and felt like we could talk about anything. The physical desires came over time, and I came to discover things I liked about her that turned me on a great deal (like I mentioned seeing her dance).
I wish people would be more open-minded like the old times. For example, there have been a lot of arranged marriages that have ended up being very loving and passionate. I think now in Western culture too much emphasis is placed on love at first sight. Not that it isn’t real, but I don’t think it’s as common as we’d like to think.
By the way, I was lonely for a long time, so I feel some comraderie with you. Throughout my teens and twenties I was very thin, I have a fairly high voice for a man even though my hormones are at healthy levels, and I have a nurturing, empathetic, emotional personality. Because of all that, people sometimes assumed I was gay even though I was only interested in women. I never even had a date or held hands with a woman until Vanessa and I met and got more serious with each other. Now I’ve put on some muscle and I have scars from work injuries so I look a bit tougher, but I am so glad Vanessa took a chance on me when she did even though I wasn’t the stereotypical “stud”.
As a side-note, I think the way we look at ethnicity is not quite correct. No one is really "pure". We're all mixed to a degree because we all come from Adam and have been intermarrying ever since. More importantly, I think that dividing people by race is just harmful. It's okay to appreciate people groups and their features and culture, but I think propagating the idea of race just fuels the fire of division. There is one race…the human race. Not that I think anyone here disagrees. I'd just love to see Christians adjust the terms they use so we can be part of ending the divide between different groups.
Sure I agree! I’m not sure how to else phrase it, but I guess what I was trying to say is I can clearly see Vanessa’s various ancestors from different regions of the world when I look at her face, her eyes, her hair, her body. I love it all! ☺️
All women are beautiful though and you’re right, we’re all mixed. I was just appreciating a certain “look” that my wife has.
I agree with your sentiment expressed in your post. Of course we are all equal and loved equally by God and are all equally created in His image, and that people should not be divided by race.
But race was created by God. It is inherently a good thing. There are dozens or hundreds of variations of most any animal or plant family. Why shouldn't humans, the crowning achievement of His creation, also come in great variety?
But like sex itself, we humans manage to take a good thing and make a problem out of it. But it needen't be that way. I married someone of a different race back in the early 80s. The only people who objected were my parents! And we weren't raised that way. I guess when teaching us to love people of other races, the forgot to mention that we aren't supposed to marry each other 🙄. They have since come around and now like her better than me!
The opportuinty to "marry out" just fell in my lap. We were classmates. She was going back to her country at the end of the school year. I wasn't looking for a wife at that time. We bacame friends. We never guessed we'd end up married.
I'm glad we took advantage of that opportuinty. It has afforded me an opportunity to travel and meet people of other cultures, experience different art and quisine. And, I think our sex life is better because of it. Most of the time, I am rarely aware that we are "different." She is just my wife. But when making love, I am always aware of her differences, and find them very beautiful and sexy.
By the way, Adam and Eve were likely an interracial couple. We know from our mitochondrial DNA that Eve was Black. We can't genetically determine Adam's race. But in Hebrew, Adam can mean "red." And if you wanted to get a diverse human population off to a good start, what better way than to start with an interracial couple? The funny thing is, they probably didn't realize they were interracial. They probably just figured dark skin was a female trait and white light skin a male trait 🤣.
Oh, there is something incredibly lovely about a nicely-formed butt, and a pair of hips to go with it! In fact if I had to pick one feature about a woman's body that I just love above all others, this might be the one. Nice pic too, MH! And for all the women out there that think their butts are too big, I know there's the stereotype of women asking "does my butt look too big in this," which really make me wonder about how they view themselves. Because I know how I view them… 😋
Amen, Brother! 💯
Also agree with you about the pic. While Vanessa is heavier than this model, her overall shape is very similar, particularly in how it sticks way out. Love that. Also MH did a good job of finding a picture of someone who is a bit darker, cuz Vanessa’s ass isn’t really white, more of a creamy-yellow with some peach and brown undertones to it. Thanks MH, for working hard to find pictures that match the story so well! 👏🏼
I'm really happy to see more and more words of appreciation for the female backside. Not that it's *quite* the same attitude, but there's a story about Alfred Hitchcock where a younger actress asked him which was her best side, left or right, and he said: "My dear, your sitting on it!" 😀
Beautiful is beautiful and has nothing to do with the color of the skin. And thanks for writing so many thoughtful responses to other people, I especially appreciated the encouragement that you wrote for LLL, I needed to read that too. I truly hope and pray that GOD is arranging my marriage because He will know better than anyone who is truly a good match.
Thanks F-M, I’m trying to interact with my readers, I am trying to respond to feedback and become a better storyteller.
I think it’s easy for people on these type sites to focus on the hot and the sexy and the good while glossing over the challenges in marriage and attraction. The downside is sometimes you read all about people’s success stories, and while it’s exciting, it makes me feel a little depressed about my own life when it seems like every husband has a monster cock and every girl is petite and thin and busty and blonde. I’m not saying that such people don’t exist or that it’s not fun to read about such hot couples. I’m just saying I will always try to be clear that Vanessa and I are very ordinary. Yes, she definitely has some hot attributes and ass-ets. While I try to be honest that she also struggles with controlling her weight. As for me, I’m a normal guy, I look a lot like Freddie Mercury, but with a scarred-up face and some silver in my dark hair and mustache. I have a higher voice and don’t sound anything like Macho Man. That said, sex can be exciting for us normal people if you work at it, and cultivate it. I hope my stories can inspire normal people like us to cultivate what they have and enjoy the best sex life possible!
As for descriptions of Vanessa’s skin tone, if enough people want me to avoid that I can in any future stories I write. That would be some time cause a lot are pending posting. I am not sure if it came across that I was saying hers is more attractive than others, but that wasn’t my intention. Maybe the way I phrased this post by giving a shout out to women with certain looks, made it seem exclusive. That wasn’t my intention either, I’m sorry for the confusion. Skin is skin, it’s beautiful and everyone’s is a bit different. Just like breasts, ass, cocks, or anything else. They’re beautiful because God made them. I didn’t mean to divide us by race, if that was the impression I gave.
Finally, thank you for your kind words. I pray my stories and comments will continue to encourage you, and others on this forum.
Don’t give up!!
NS I just wanted to make sure that you knew I was agreeing with you, but I didn't feel like writing a whole paragraph about it. I can obviously do better here. I don't think you should leave out your wife's ethnicity or racial attributes, it's part of who she is and you obviously enjoy that about her!
And thanks for the added encouragement.
My wife's ass has changed over 40 years (like fine wine) and to this day there are few pleasures like pulling out and finishing on her beautiful ass. All she has to do is ask (or beg) depending on our particular tastes…
I love it!! 👏🏼
I love my wife's juicy ass. The other night she came out of the shower in a little pair of loose shorts and top. She crawled on top of me and tried to kiss me. I refused because I hadn't brushed my teeth before going to bed so I got up quickly just to do that, but just prior my hand ran up her thigh up into her shorts to find she was wearing no panties. I couldnt wait to get back into bed and when I did, I found her on her stomach. I started to slowly worship her back with kisses and hands until I made my way down to her waist line. At this point I couldnt take it anymore, and forcefully puller her bottoms off to reveal that beautiful shower fresh hiney just ripe for the kissing. It wasn't long until my face was buried in her ass with two fingers in pussy and her moaning in pleasure. I got a good facial that night.
It was freaking awesome.
We fucked this Saturday too in the bathroom after she got out of the shower. When she is clean I want to be so dirty. It was a good stand up fuck. One of the best ones I ever had. Normally it's hard for me to cum standing up, but she was so dirty and sweet that I came and almost fell to the ground.
Now I'm sitting here dreaming about eating her pussy until she cums all over my face. I so horny. LoLz
😎 Awesome, you should write full length story about that!
I’ve always been more of a boob guy myself. But I’d be lying if I said I didn’t enjoy every bit of my wife’s butt. It is a wonderful work of art and I love giving her a good firm smack on the ass. She always enjoys the attention too.
Both tits and ass are wonderful! 👀
Well if you were hoping to "start a conversation in praise and appreciation of the female derrière," then mark me down as a female derrière appreciator! Haha! I am definitely a fan of the female posterior! I think the entire female body as God designed it is absolutely gorgeous, but for some inexplicable reason, I have a special attraction to the ass.
I do tend to prefer slim and athletic women myself, rather than bigger, curvier ladies, but I can appreciate the attractiveness of a bigger gal with bigger assets!
And since we're talking about the beauty of the booty… One of my biggest fantasies for my future marriage is to bury my face in my wife's ass and shower her with kisses and licks, all over her beautiful ass cheeks, up and down her crack, and if she's game, get her all cleaned up and tongue her little pucker while fingering her pussy. That sounds like heaven to me!
And to conclude with a thought that's hopefully obvious, the heart, mind and soul of a woman matter far more than the body. Proverbs 31:30: "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised." (ESV) I think that's important to keep in mind as an underlying mindset in any discussion about body preferences.
I agree! The female ass is just so much different from the shape of my own. Which, in turn, makes it so much more attractive to me! Vive la différence! 🥵😍
As a single man, I too appreciated slimmer, more athletic, shorter women as well. But none of the ones I asked out ever were interested in me. Funny how God sometimes has different plans than I did, same thing happened regarding my career plans as well!
And yes, I totally agree that the inside trumps the outside, every time. I fell in love with Vanessa the person long before I fell in love with her body. Her larger tits and voluptuous ass were just icing on the proverbial cake. 🎂
I totally agree! My wife Julia’s butt is plus size and gains a lot of attention. She seems to like it “most” of the time. I don’t usually get jealous about it.. in fact I’m typically honored. And yes, my wife is Latina. It just gives you an idea about her sultry walk and darker skin tone and accent -nothing more, and certainly not raising one culture over another. Wide hips are often appreciated on most women everywhere in my opinion
Thanks for your comment Rev Roberto!
My mother came to the U.S. from a Latin American country when she was young, so I can imagine how your wife looks and sounds.
She must be very lovely. Congratulations, Brother!