First Time Roleplay and Fantasies (L)
(L) – This story contains strong language.ย
My wife and I have been married close to 15 years, and we role-played last week for the first time ever. It was kinda just a spur of the moment thing.
I pretended I was a masseuse that was giving her a back massage.
“Do you want a butt massage?” I asked.
“Sure!” she replied.
“Are you sure your husband won’t mind?” I teased.
“What he doesn’t know won’t hurt him.”
Then I began massaging her butt.
“Spread your legs for me,” I told her. She happily complied.
I eased my fingers to her pussy and gave her a pussy lips massage. I then brought out the black vibrating dildo that I had snuck in earlier. I’d had it warming up in a warming pad.
While she played with her clit using her normal vibrator, I then slowly eased the dildo into her pussy. She didn’t even see it since she was laying on her stomach. It was so hot to insert the dildo into her.
I only managed to get it halfway in, before she said, “Easy, no more, right there.”
I was nervous, as I wanted to make sure not to hurt her, but at the same time I was so excited and horny, as this was also the first time inserting a dildo like this. We had tried one other time, but she didn’t like the feel of the dildo. I can’t wait for the next time we try this! I hope she warms up to it more, as I wanna really fuck her with it and have her go wild and talk dirty.
Now for some more things I’d love to try with her!
One thing I want my wife to do is “cock worship”, where she sucks my dick while giving it a lot of praise. I’d love for her to say things like, “Oh my gawd, you have such a nice cock, it’s so big! It’s the best dick I’ve ever had. It feels so good in my pussy as it stretches me out good and fills me up so nicely!” I’d also love for her to suck it while looking up at me, maybe even with some sexy secretary glasses. I want her to slap my dick on her face, and then let me cum all over her face, which I have never done before.
I also would love for her to grind her pussy all over my face. I shared this fantasy with her, but we haven’t done it yet.
What are some of your fantasies that you haven’t shared or tried yet? One of my biggest fantasies is to have my wife open up about fantasies that she would never do in real life, but gets off to it anyway. Wives out there, are there any of these types of fantasies you have and would like to share?
I love role-play scenarios, and your massage example is really hot. I hope that you get to experience all of these fantasies with your wife ๐
We have done the masseuse role play too. Hubby is Sven lol. We also role play another cock using a dildo.
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Love this. Try putting the dildo on the wall and then you ride that while sucking your hubby and pretend it's someone else.
Iโm not a lady but I can tell you that my Melody goes all vixen when we do role
play!
I usually โcumโ up with the role play scenarios. ๐ Sometimes I just write up a story or a role play starter scenario and we enact it. Other times itโs far more involved, with costumes & sometimes travel etc. – but always worth it.
Our most common role play is Melody talking for โJulia.โ Julia is my vibrating male stroker. Melody talks sexy as if she were Julia and stimulates my nipples as I use the stroker. โ Juliโaโ is a sexy young adult Latina. Julia was all Melodyโs idea. She even bought me the stroker. We do this several times a week. We do it often as foreplay & on off days where we donโt have sexual intercourse.
Melody tells me that an Indiana Jones role play would be fun. Iโm working on that one.
I want to add that Iโm very grateful to the other Marriage Heat authors for introducing us to role play sex.
Very sexyโค๏ธ
Good on you for listening to your wifeโs wishes and not pushing it further at the time. That really helps build trust in a relationship.
My wife tried to introduce some role-play when we first got married, but I was a bit reluctant to try it at the time. She sometimes acts out that sheโs โpicking me upโ when she picks me up from work at night, and also once we went on a date and pretended like we were meeting for the first time again. It was fun.
I have a lot of catching up to do. We just got home from vacation and I just got a chance to read this little story of yours. My husband and I have engaged in role play multiple times over the years now. We've done the secretary role play and the massage roleplay , and a number of others.
When you say you want your wife to tell you her fantasies. It is something that I have been saying since I've gotten here and have been saying to others for a long time to enhance their love life is be able to speak openly and honestly about your secret desires and fantasies without fear of loss or judgment.
Like I used to be, you are a lot who would find themselves feeling insecure or jealous upon a hearing those thoughts from your own spouse
But it's the ability to accept certain facts in life about both men and women. And both husband and wife need to have that mindset. It also enables other doors to open such as what M. And I have. Quite often in public were able to point out somebody to each other that we find attractive and what it is we find attractive about them without concern of hurt feelings.
Open and honest sexual conversation should be common among people who are sworn to be the monogamous partner in a relationship rather than keeping secrets of these sorts from one another but it happens all the time.
But all of it needs to be tempered with what we're taught in Scripture. It can be very easy to get to the point of attraction and then to the point of role play together and then taking the step into introducing others. And that's where things get dangerous and unscriptural.
One of the things we have to question is where we're getting our ideas from. Quite often if one is engaging of the use of pornography these thoughts are being planted in our heads as a result of something we see and we have to be careful that those things are not necessarily things that God meant to happen but rather perversions of what God originally intended.
There were a few times early on where our roleplay was pretending one or both of us was somebody else. And we have in the past included couples who we were both attracted to in our role plays as far as same room sex or swapping. After much deliberation between the two of us we decided that we needed to keep it more real between us that it would be us who are playing in the roles not some other person. That's not to say that we haven't talked about people, wondering what it would be like. And I've mentioned before that we have even read some of the stories here and wondered what they must look like and what it would be like to be there to experience what they wrote about. And quite often when we do it turns out to be great sex between us.
It's good for a couple to be able to explore new things together. It's essential to keep things alive and vivacious in your relationship. I can't tell you how often I have talked to other women and he to men about life and heard them complain about their marriages and their sex lives. People who have been married for decades and don't even have the ability to be honest with one another about their sexual desires..
I'm happy for you that you and your wife are enjoying such wonderful things together. But be careful of who it is that you're letting guide your sex life.
Lady L. ๐
Not a lady, but ex wife and I loved roleplaying! I was a Teacher (Adult programs so dont freak out lol)so her 2 favs were dressing up as Naughty Student or Cheerleader. She loved the Student one as that one definitely lit her fire ๐
She was VERY curious about my "activities" in class!
Me taken by another man while hubby watches and pleasures himself is a constant fantasy we act out with a sex machine ๐ฅ๐ we gave it a name of a man we both know. How wonderful if I was filmed with the machine and shared it with close couples ๐ค๐ we already talked about it with someโฆ.
@Hot wifey,
This is something that we have done in the past as well, using dildos that suction cup comes in pretty handy and a lot of places.
M. Built a nice walk-in shower in our master bedroom it's big enough for four people really with a nice spray panel on it.
Quite often, our friend, as we call him we'll be stuck to the wall depending on the position we're taking. At waist height if it's me backing into it or forward at it while M. comes in from the back end. Or about knee height while I'm on my hands and knees and M. Rides doggy. Although it doesn't have a name and we really don't have any particular person in mind. He will talk to me in a suggestive and at times very sexual manner telling me how much I love cock and how he loves seeing me with that cock.
This is also been another rooms with the house including the kitchen and living room as well.
Being that M. Is quite handy. He created a saddle which fits over the armrest of our couch and can mount a dildo on. We have role played that it was another cock next to me and he will sit across the room direct me from performing oral on it to masturbating with it and to mounting it at him and away from him a hands up against the wall at the back of that couch. He said he loves the way my butt looks when I'm grinding down and riding up and down on it.
In the meantime he's sitting across the room stroking and watching as he gives me directions.
As I have often said, and this goes both spouses.
We need to be our partners pornstars. And this falls within that belief. It's a turn on to be able to perform sexually for him whether it just be laying on the bed with my legs spread masturbating or riding this or anything else concerning an exhibitionist / voyeuristic sexual endeavor
After I had read and responded to this I showed this to M.
He said almost hands down one of his favorite role plays that we've had was when he would be the handyman.
Years ago he had a business and consequently there were quite a few single women. He knew by some of the way women would begin talking to him that they were into him. Nothing ever happened with any of them and whenever something would happen he would always tell me about what transpired that day. Oddly enough hearing about it intrigued me and kind of turn me on. Almost without exception I would find myself approaching him and groping him and winding up on my knees in front of him with his pants down.
When he would have something to do for one of the customers that I knew were attracted to him and if I was home that day I would purposely use that as a launching platform, fixing my hair and makeup and treating him in lingerie. Often greeting him when he walked in the door with a cocktail. Asking him how his day was and my next question being, how was her behavior today. I would begin to tease him attempt on saying was she sexy did she walk up you brush up against you like this? Did she run her hands over your body like this down your chest or did she just grope you right away like this home buckling your pants.
Of course it would be very verbal and graphic.
… Of course he repaired everything in our house and a number of times I would pretend that we weren't married but I was just customer. Money would be working on something I'll be sure to disappear and come out and something sexy. Not always lingerie but quite often something like stockings in a short skirt or a wraparound dress that I could open up for him if he was working down on the ground it would be sure to be reaching over the top of him so he could see up my dress for step over him pretending the straddle so he could look up.
He would be assuming the role of the handyman and when I would do things like brush up against him or touch him or flirt he would tell me what would your husband think and I would say that I have told him I'll attracted I am to you and he said to go for it. Of course it was my husband that I was approaching and would never do this with another man. But they will play with just grow from there. It was a turn on !
I thought about putting one of the role plays into words so we could share here.
Lady L. ,๐โค๏ธ
Dear Tuchh. How hot is Your fantasy โ he would tell me what would your husband think and I would say that I have told him I'll attracted I am to you and he said to go for itโ ๐ I would add (would u mind if we let him watch us please. He loves his wife being taken by u) ๐ฅ๐ค thank u u r the bestโฆ
Although when we have a dildo there with us and we do pretend it's another person it's a person without a name or face. We just call him our friend.
We have taken this particular role play with him being the handyman and worked the scenario kind of in that way.
It's based on an experience he had when he was working full time and that he had a couple they were both teachers who he had been doing work for a while. Well she was attracted to my husband and her husband knew all about it and was in favor of giving her to my husband. The two of them had worked up such a good rapport between them that often when he would finish the job they would sit down and have a beer and shoot the breeze together.
One time she was present and the husband was asking my husband what he thought of her if he thought she was attractive things like that.
M. my husband of course didn't have any intentions and he was trying to be polite and say that she [was an] attractive woman etc.
The next time he had gone to work for them which was maybe a month or two later , the husband greeted him at the door and told him there was a problem upstairs in the bedroom. M. had done multiple jobs over the years in different places of their house including the bedroom. He ascended the stairs and the husband stayed downstairs when he walked in the wife was standing there in lingerie. He wasn't sure what was going on until it became apparent that they were going to have sex. Trying to be as polite as possible he backed out headed that down the stairs and told the husband that he didn't mean to give them the wrong idea. There was no repair in the bedroom it was all set up.
Well he related all of this to me and in our role plays we worked that scenario out that the husband was in the living room and he was coming in with my husband's approval to have sex with me in the bedroom.
It's one of those situations where you take something that is completely wrong and work with it together and use it for your own benefit. We had repeated that role play over in different types of scenes where I would walk out dressed sexy and we would pretend he was handyman again.
.. as far as that couple went. He had never worked for them again after that.
Lady L. ๐
Tuchh! Thank u for sharing this handyman story ๐ using something that edges on wrong for marriage passion is innovative! One of our fantasies is hubby walking in to see me with a friend of his and encouraging us to keep on and if he can watch and enjoy. Itโs based on true situation. The friend came around once and I was casually clothed while hubby was not home๐ I made a point of it to use it later for fantasy. The friend was polite and of course nothing happened but I enjoyed some teasing.when hubby showed up and saw the robe I had on he gave me the smile I was expecting ๐ค It feels so nice to be slutty for husband and act out fantasies. […] God bless u!
[Edited by MH: Please remember our policy about not sharing private contact information. That includes hints! ๐]
Thank you for the offer love.
But, it's the safety net of prohibiting personal contact that's appealing to alot of us.
But Ido love interacting in the comments. ๐