What Does it Feel Like?
What does it feel like to explode down your wife’s throat while she is giving you a blowjob? Is it different from a regular climax? How does it affect you physically and emotionally?
I’ve only had it happen three or maybe four times in several years of marriage. Of all the times, it’s those that I remember most. A couple of times, I almost passed out! My question is, am I overrating the feeling? Do others get this much pleasure?
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To answer your question though, personally for me it feels like a longer, more extended orgasm in a way, since the stimulation isn’t as direct and heavy.
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Hello Nathaniel.
My late wife only let me cum in her mouth without a condom three times in 33 years. But I was okay with making her comfortable, and I have no complaints about the pleasure she gave me. She would give amazing BJ’s. But to your point. I did prefer blowjob orgasms over intercourse due to the intensity. Now there was one sexual position we did that made us both come together, and my gosh it was freaking intense.
Now please, if you’re not married, do not rush out there to get a happy ending blowjob. Hopefully you’ll have many years to experience the many pleasures of marital sex.
That’s interesting. I always wondered why my hubby gravitates to the blowjob over intercourse. I never thought about it till now. I have asked him, and he usually just says because he is lazy and would rather have a blow job and use my dildo on me (because at times, I take long with just manual stimulation.) So it’s the intensity. Good to know.
P.S. Sorry your wife didn’t enjoy and pleasure you with more BJs. I actually crave BJs with my husband.
So my wife is generous with her blowjobs and is a happy swallower, meaning I’m delighted to share my perspective. An orgasm is an orgasm, meaning orgasming physically speaking when I’m in her mouth feels no different than when I’m in her pussy. Again, physically speaking. That said, I think there is a longer buildup at least for me when she’s giving me a blowjob but that’s mostly because she can tease me and draw it out in a playful way. Intercourse is my preferred way to be intimate with her but her blowjobs are spectacular and what makes ejaculating in her mouth so pleasurable is that she knows it coming, wants it (yes, WANTS it) and looks into my eyes as I’m unloading. Then she swallows the load and keeps my cock in her mouth as she milks the last few drops, and then typically licks her lips and tells me I was delicious. Simply amazing and I consider myself lucky that my wife enjoys a mouthful of cum. Just a different kind of feeling.
@Marriedtoahotbabe you nailed it..and I agree with your outlook. My preferred way to be intimate w my wife is pounding her pussy but a blowjob is heaven as well.
We went many years without me getting oral, but when we started spicing things up earlier this year, she was craving to try it, and it got her (and gets her) super hot. Nothing beats looking her in the eyes as she is working my shaft. She would alternate spitting and swallowing at one point but now loves getting every drop. It used to be a turn-on cumming all over her after a blow job or sex or after I gave her oral, but recently I either shoot my load in her mouth or in her pussy, and it makes her want more and more.
I think I need to attend whatever rehab she did so I will enjoy giving blowjobs. I bet you could make millions since very few women report doing it because they enjoy it. I am like the majority of the minority that do it all, and do it because he loves it so much.
I much prefer her vagina, but oral is great foreplay. Coming in her mouth once in a while is a nice change.
As above, oral can be great foreplay but true intercourse is the most satisfying. In oral you can enjoy your wife’s body in especially erotic positions, such as in 69 with her astride your head, her pussy over your face, her breasts brushing your front and her lips and tongue on your penis. I find the feel of my wife gently massaging my penis head with her lips and tongue absolutely exquisite but we always switch to penis in vagina sex or a hand job for me to cum.
Nice Story. I love oral and cumming in her mouth. Sometimes she spits and sometimes she swallows.
Only by accident twice in 27 years, but it left wonderful memories.
For me it is different. It's a lot more abrupt and then protracted. The focus is one of the appeals. The main difference is that, after I cum, I am super sensitive. She loves this. It is like pleasure torture. My body wants to cum more as she continues to stimulate me, but can't. Lot's of fun that only is from oral.
My wife usually alternates blowing me and jacking me. Most of the time I come during the jacking, but occasionally I can't control it, or she doesn't realize I'm cumming. When I cum, she likes it and swallows all of it. Great feeling!
I am a hardcore type cocksucker. Learned all the tricks early on. Well for me it’s a norm and standard .I have sucked, learned to deepthroat and even had sex in my mouth. Maybe I’m different, but I thoroughly enjoy it, no matter how it tastes. All I can say it’s very sexy and tasty way of satisfying a man
Would you say it's a learned thing? Early on it happened a couple times but we just got away from it. Maybe it's something that she needs to learn to do?
Loving on each other is always a pleasure. After my husband sucks & fucks me to multiple orgasms, I invite him to fuck my mouth. This is something I do often for him and love giving myself to my husband. As I prop my head up on pillows against the headboard & make myself comfortable, I let my husband know I'm ready to feel his cock pierce my lips & enter my mouth. I have my wand vibrator against my pussy & he straddles me, penetrating my waiting & wanting lips with his cock. He starts off slowly & I urge him on deeper and faster. I moan with each thrust of his cock as he fucks my mouth. Taking his cock as deep as I can is an action that is practiced & wanted. My vibrator against my pussy makes me cum over & over & my husband says that hearing me moan & cum while he fucks my mouth is such a turn on for him. Having his cock in my mouth & my throat as I cum is a turn on for me as well. I love having his cock in my mouth as I'm cumming. Nothing better in the whole wide world !! My husband tells me that fucking my mouth is an invitation he can't turn down. Cumming in my mouth as he fucks me is the best that it gets. He controls the depth, timing & enjoys that I'm submissive enough to give him my mouth to fuck any way he wants. I trust my husband & willingly give him that pleasure. I have always enjoyed giving him my mouth & feeling the thrusts of his cock as he fills my mouth & throat with his warm, yummy cum. His cum in my mouth & throat is my reward & something my husband loves to give me. And I love providing him with this pleasure. I'm hopeful that there are many loving wives that provide that type of pleasure for their husbands. If you have yet to allow your husband that form of intimacy & pleasure, give it a try & see what you're missing. Giving myself to my husband & always reaps rewards.
Our preferred method for many years has been to finish is in her mouth. We have been doing this since deciding not to have any more children. We don’t use any birth control. I sometimes fantasise about filling her pussy with my cum, but oral feels better for me. I think because by the time she has orgasmed a several times, she is very wet and feels much looser. I am not huge to make up for this either, about 6 inches. Doggystyle feels tighter, and now that she is close to menopause and finishing inside her becomes an option again, I’d say I will choose to cum in her for the first time in this position. Previously when having children it was always missionary.