Planning an Erotic Photoshoot
Recently, I saw some pictures from boudoir and erotic photoshoots, and I decided that someday if I get married, I want to do one with my husband. (Of course, I could do a solo one now and present him with the pics as a wedding gift!) I appreciated that the photos I saw portrayed real people with all their flaws. Yet the spark was evident between the couples. It made it more real and raw for me. And if my guy and I didn’t feel comfortable doing intimate things in front of a third person, we could always set up a camera and snap moments ourselves.
Anyhow, I have some outfits and poses already in mind. There are angles and views of the human body, male and female, that I find very arousing. And when it’s a married couple posing together and capturing their love and passion on camera, it’s the hottest. A shirtless guy is one of my weaknesses, so I’d definitely like some shots of my man wearing only shorts or briefs and one with slacks, a belt, dress shoes, and an unbuttoned dress shirt revealing his chest.
I’d like to have one of him masterfully holding me (dressed revealingly), gazing at me with lust, like a couple on the cover of a romance novel. He could do some solo poses in the nude, artfully and teasingly covering his groin; I’d do lingerie shots in all those delightful poses that women can strike, and which make us look sexy and full of anticipation.
Then we could do more graphic couple shots. A view I like would be me, naked and on my back on a bed, desk, or table, facing away from the camera, which is also somewhat above us. He would stand between my thighs, his cock either inside me or just out of sight.
My favorite part of a guy is that “V” angling down his lower belly towards his crotch. It’s so titillating. So I’d love to showcase that in a photo. Another hot one would be a shot from behind as we stand and he penetrates me, and his butt is tight. Oh boy, that image in my head makes me feel warm right now! A nice taut butt on a guy is… delicious?
I’d also like to ride his cock while he’s standing, and the camera can get low enough to see under his cock to his butt crack. And one from behind (same pose) so we can capture his balls between his thighs.
Just writing this is getting me very wet! I have no clue what sorts of photos my man would want of me, but since men are so visual, I would try anything. Maybe my fingers in my cunt as I look up seductively at the camera through my eyelashes? Or straddling something, like the arm of a couch, or kneeling on a bed with my hands squeezing my breasts.
I love romantic kisses too, so I’d want to get some that are tender and some more passionate and wild, maybe in the act of ripping each other’s clothes off. Oh yes! And I want some of his cum all over me. To me, that’s the satisfying finish to this hot session. He could spurt on my belly as I lie in a seductive pose, or into my open mouth. A shot of it running down his cock and dripping on his groin would be steamy too.
We could have these photos to enjoy with each other or by ourselves, masturbate to them, and get hot for each other. In the meantime, I think I need to go have a “self-care” session now with these pictures in my brain!
Wow! These imaginations are so sizzling! You are not the only one who needs a self-care session! 🔥
Sometimes just reading MH stories/posts get me mighty hot and wet, so same!
This sounds really hot! I have also had this fantasy and really want to do it with my sexy wife. I am just not sure if I can find a boudoir photographer willing to photograph all that I am imagining. Any couples here tried something similar before?
Wow…There are so many things about this I like. Boudoir shoots are amazing and a man or a woman doing this for their spouse (or with their spouse) tops the list of my sexy fantasies. I would most definitely do this for her or with her. Some of the photos could be turned into a sexy calendar or (something I’ve always wanted) be enlarged and hung in the bedroom.
Ooh, great idea. I love the thought of making my and future husband's bedroom a sensual haven, so hot photos of us would be awesome. I'll have to add that to my list!
As a guy, your description of a picture with your fingers in your cunt made my dick hard. I’d also like one of my wife wearing nothing but a tank top, with with the neck pulled down and hooked under her tits. Or one of her pulling on her hardened nipples.
I also thought it was interesting you want a picture showcasing his balls. Is that something women like?
I don't know about most women, but the more I've come to appreciate male and female anatomy and embrace things that once disgusted me, I've found I really like…well, balls. My hope is that my guy will have a nice, low-hanging, sculpted sack that will slap me when he's making love to me. If anyone I know read that, they'd probably faint! I never thought I'd get this erotic in my thinking.
Just a word of "warning": A guy's ballsack is a temperature-control apparatus, so in warmer environments or when his body heat is high, they hang low to cool. In colder environments or when he's needing and nearing release, the sack tightens up to warm or prep for ejaculation. So for your photo, keep the heat turned up literally, but maybe not figuatively!
LLL, love the way you are planning all of these sexy adventures with your husband to be. He will be one lucky guy when he finds you. As a guy, I can tell you that the poses you came up with will have him hard and raring to cover you with that cum you want to capture on film. I have no doubt he'll be able to provide enough for all of those shots you plan. Also great that you are able to pleasure yourself to thoughts of these great adventures. Hope you enjoy yourself many times over!
Thanks! I can truly say that the waiting itself is fun, educational, and satisfying, even if it never happens that I marry. I am trusting God's plan. If He has a man for me, I know it will work out wonderfully.
WOW, this is fantastic! Thanks for posting. I literally just made an account a couple days ago to share my and my wife's experiences about modeling (see the recently "Modeling?" post and my comment for more context). And here we are with another post that we have direct experience with!
Anyway, as I shared in more detail on my comment to the "Modeling?" post, my wife has done plenty of nude modeling, including for boudoir photographers. I'm a professional photographer (part-time, at least), and several of my friends do boudoir photography, so between my job, my friends', and my wife's modeling experience, this is something I'm quite familiar with all angles of (and that my wife Allison and I have thought about from a Christian perspective in much detail).
First, it's fantastic that you're thinking about all this so enthusiastically, with good body-positivity and positive outlook on your sexuality as well. Boudoir/erotic photography can be such a great way of enhancing that, now and/or when you're married! If money allows, I love the idea of doing boudoir photos now, to share with your future husband later. People often do boudoir photography when in a relationship, but plenty of women do them while single, too, and find it a really empowering thing to do simply for yourself for the time being, with the possibility of sharing with a partner later. You'd get to see yourself from another (the photographer's) expert perspective, gain a different glimpse of your self and your body, embracing your femininity and sensuality. And what a fun gift that would be once you're in a relationship! Who knows, maybe you'd want to share lingerie photos with him once you're in a serious relationship? Show him topless ones when you're engaged, and then full nude ones on your honeymoon?
[edited for length; see https://marriageheat.com/2023/05/23/professional-adv…doir-photography/ for full text.]
Bravo for sharing your wonderful sexual imagination about all this, and I hope you go through with this!! Both now, and with your man when you're married.
OMG girl. You need a man! Why are you not married? Where are all of the intelligent guys? Your POV is…..delicious? Loving the way you think! What a blessed man your future hubby will be!
Thank you so much! I am praying that God is chiseling me into the Proverbs 31 woman He desires. As to men, I just don't know any! My sisters and I always joke that there aren't enough men to go around. Everyone we know only (or mainly) has daughters. I understand that women way outnumber men in America.
Strong, Godly, masculine men are even rarer. I am just waiting on the Lord and serving Him meantime.
Dear LLL,
Both my wife and I loved your post. My wife and I were catching up on reading MH stories together and we really loved reading and rereading your post and discussing it. To be honest, my wife was teasing and caressing me as we read, and we want you to know that your words made my cock so hard! The deep desire of a sweet, pure, godly, single woman looking forward to the sexual passion you share with your mate is very exciting.
We loved the idea that you wanted to see his balls hanging between his thighs and see his hard cock from below, actually entering your wetness; that's so hot!
You said, “Just writing this is getting me very wet! I have no clue what sorts of photos my man would want of me, but since men are so visual, I would try anything.” That is such a sexy and healthy sentiment. You are so right that men are visual, but your descriptions certainly capture some of the passion your man will feel for you. Believe me, he will want to undress you, caress you and lick you all over before filling your wet pussy with his throbbing manhood.
You said, “And I want some of his cum all over me… He could spurt on my belly… or into my open mouth.” Wow, that is a hot and sexy attitude. He will love being in your mouth as you lovingly suck him, and when you allow him to spurt all over you—especially into your mouth—it will be a dream-cum-true experience for him that will thrill him to his core. He will be a blessed man, and I pray yours will be a blessed (and very hot) marriage.
Keep dreaming and praying!
Dreaming and praying are two of my favorite activities, so yes, I will continue them! I want to bless and respect a good Godly man someday, if it's what God has for me. And I want to be vibrantly sexual. I get sad the more I hear or read about wives who won't try certain things or who don't like their husbands' cum or who just make it boring. My view is, we GET to have sex in marriage! What a gift! Let's enjoy it and milk it for all it's worth! Why should the world steal it and have all the fun? I say we reclaim it and I intend doing just that should I ever get married!
You sound like a woman I'd like to marry, but please, that idea of having the pictures ready to present to your hubby as a wedding gift is not a good one. The reaction you could get cannot be guaranteed to be reliable. Best you do all the capturing with him. You don't want the wrong questions taking root in your husband's mind for something you did with loving intent.
LLL,
I strongly disagree with O-Man about waiting till marriage for a shoot. Suppose you wait and find that your husband (as I would have) would have loved to have raw boudoir photos of the way you looked before you met. It would be too late then. And if he doesn’t, just destroy them and no harm done. I can’t think of a much greater gift a wife can give her husband than permanent memories of how she looked when in the prime of life.
Preach! Couldn't agree with So much fun more.
Marvelous idea, also some when you are single, including of your masturbating yourself – that would be a sign of your sexual purity that you are giving him.
I had some erotic photos of myself that I gave my hubby on our wedding night, including several of myself masturbating. They were quite important as hubby had grown up with, "men play with love for sex, and women play with sex for love". That implied that women didn't really want sex. Seeing me masturbating myself showed him that I too really wanted sex – for him, that was quite important.
One of my happiest moments early in my marriage was catching him wanking himself while looking at my photos. (I was not well at the time.) I was able to sneak off to get the camera to take some pics of him – these I treasure.
P,S. One of his favourites is a view of me dressed all prim and proper, with clear hard nipple bumps and legs apart, allowing a view up my dress, with good lighting. He can see that the crotch of my knickers are dripping wet.
Sarah K, I can relate to you catching your husband! We have taken many explicit pics over the years! I came home early from a remote job, and found my wife, in the bedroom, with a bunch of our sex-pics spread out on the bed. She was spread out on the bed too, and was furiously masturbating! I stripped off my clothes, and she didn’t notice I was there, until I was shooting cum all over her tits while she was cumming!
I took pictures, mostly of her jizz splattered nipples. A few months later, I caught her looking at those pics, while attacking herself with the Magic Wand!
Take pics! They are lots of fun! And, they are fun when you get older too!
A tricky thing is – who will take the photos?
This idea of yours is sooooooo sexy.
My wife has strongly considered doing a boudoir shoot for a very long time and I really wish she would pull the trigger.
I would have loved my bride to have made/ given me a boudoir album as a wedding gift during our honeymoon!.
I would love some sexy very tasteful shots to hang in our bedroom to set our room apart as a sexual haven.
My wife and I have done a few self shots that we keep privately on locked apps on our phones (don't want someone to accidentally swipe). A good trick is to take a high quality video and then go back and cut the video into individual shots… makes the photos more raw and genuine.
A few ideas for a shots we have done that you didn't mention that my wife and I really love are:
1. Me on my back with the camera either behind my head or the shot from my POV with my wife straddling me on her knees ass visible with my dick in her mouth/on her tongue as she gives the camera a Cheshire grin
1. POV from my perspective of her grinding on my cock (but still exposing a few inches of my dick) arching her back and throwing her head back with one of her hands in her hair and the other clutching my hand to her breast while my other hand caresses her hip.
3. A side shot of her on her back me on top in missionary. Her leg away from the camera bent and her leg closest to the camera flat you you can see me entering her. Her hand closest to the camera gripping the sheets her other gripping my ass. My hand furthest away from the camera caressing her jaw as she nibbles on my thumb my other hand on her hip. Her back arched pushing her breast up toward my mouth.
All you other ideas are sure to get your groom to be so hard he can stand straight!
Oh boy, these are so hot! The third one is my favorite. Missionary is so hot to me for various reasons: the eye contact, the clenching male butt, the side-view of two bodies. Love it. Since I posted this idea, I am definitely thinking more seriously about doing a solo shoot.