Aftershocks
I’ve noticed both recently and in the past, that sometimes my Mary experiences what I call aftershocks. Sort of mini-orgasms after we’ve concluded our intimate time together. She experiences multiple orgasms during our interactive play-time, of various intensities. Her response appears to build in intensity when she comes, until she has the Big One. She lifts her bottom off the bed, clenches her thighs tightly together, and pulls away from whatever stimuli I’m providing. So intense. She jerks spasmodically in strong orgasmic release until she’s finished. There is (infrequently) a slight squirt or heavy gush of fluid with her release.
If I reapply massage or a toy, the process repeats. Subsequent orgasms may be weaker, or as strong as the strongest one experienced. After our play time has completed, we lie beside one another in post-orgasmic bliss. I may reach over and touch her thigh, or stomach, and she starts jumping around again. It’s as if she’s experiencing another mini-orgasm and begins laughing. She doesn’t initiate further physical contact, but usually responds “I love you.” and “You make me feel so good.” Then quickly falls into a deep sleep. I have noticed she seems to sleep later / longer after we’ve had a vigorous engagement the night before.
Her response has made me curious.
Have others here also experienced these, what I call , ” aftershocks”?
My wife is similar! Many times, after she cums from oral, the real orgasm lasts quite some time, and after the biggie, she continues to shake and shiver a few minutes. It's not separate orgasms, but more like little continuations, or jolts, of the one she had.
There is no gush or anything, but there is a noticeable 'big drool' I'll call it!
After that, if I attempt to stimulate her clit at all, she cannot take it. I get that. It's much like after I cum, and I can't take any stimulation afterwards to my glans and frenulum, at least for a few minutes.
What does happen though, is after that big clitoral O, she wants my dick in her. Not only is she OK with vaginal stimulation, but she WANTS it! To the point of often demanding it, or grabbing me to get it!
And after she, and we cum from PIV, we both can't take any stimulation……except she actually wants more, but to her clit. She wants more in the form of more oral. And the same thing, she'll ask, demand, or grab me by the head and shove my face into her pussy! like that!
Oral gives her, similar to, those 'aftershocks'. PIV, not so much. Might be we are talking the same thing…..not sure…..
Doesn't matter. Do what works for her!
Thanks for sharing your experience, Tulsa
. I had thought that others may have experienced a similar response, & I was curious to hear about them.
That’s really hot oldtimer. You guys have a super spicy sex life. I’m happy for you both.
Thanks, KingdomMan, but I hope it doesn't come across as us having a "super" sex life. I'd describe it as being mutually enjoyable. I believe everyone could experience the same, with desire & commitment. Have trust – which includes acceptance of our responses,l is important. Mostly I feel Blessed that
we can have such strong reactions to each other during our physical interactions , "at our age"..LOL
Can confirm! We haven’t discovered any pattern to why sometimes it happens and other times it doesn’t. At first my wife was VERY embarrassed by the aftershocks, but once she realized I found it amazing to watch her have shock after shock for sometimes ten minutes in waves, then she learned to embrace them.
It really does seem fairly random. Sometimes after PIV, oral, or even just using a vibe.
Very true, Rab Keth. the is no pattern or predictability noticed in the frequency or recurrence of the aftershocks experienced. They don't happen often, but it has happened on more than 1 occasion. Your mention of.your wife's feeling embarrassed by her physical response to experiencing them is very similar to my Mary response to have "wet" orgasms. I believe my acceptance of her response, telling her I found it extremely exciting to see them happen, has resulted in her having an increase in squirting, or gushing release after extended foreplay, and even further release when engaging in PIV activity afterward. I told her I'm "waterproof" and to let it out, if she's feeling the desire to release, while she orgasms..
I've actually experienced something a little bit like this myself as a male, but one difference is that it most often happens after I have a long, intense edging session where I masturbate and enjoy the sensations, but don't orgasm or ejaculate. Sometimes this is combined with breathing exercises and/or anal stimulation. A few times when I've done this, I've felt sexual energy build up in my body and continue buzzing and zinging around pleasurably, even hours later! This is a relatively recent development (within the last year), and I haven't been able to get it to happen consistently.
I'll have to try it again to really document and describe the experience. In a weird way, those "aftershocks" of pleasure are partially voluntary, partially involuntary. I feel some little prompting, but have to allow my body to lean into it and accept the little surges of pleasure.
It has been an interesting and very pleasurable process of discovery, and I hope to share more in the future when I understand it all more clearly and can maybe help others discover similar things!
From a horny womens perspective that experience after shocks frequently. This happens to me when arousal is at its highest and my clit is enlarged. Foreplay or extensive foreplay, oral or clit stimulation has been lengthy prior to intercourse creates extreme sensitivity for me that causes after shocks. Sometimes hard to resist but worth the wait. If you wife does not experience this abd you want her to you could try like we do and have the game go on for several hours. No direct skin or touch contact, public foreplay or introduce vibrating euro balls and take her out to dinner but you control the remote. So much fun to resist a fun game that has these benefits.
These after shocks are amazing and can often cause squirting. If your all out of puff try and pop your fingers back in, slightly twist and stroke ridges with your middle finger drawing your finger over the ridges this will send her into an uncontrollable orgasm and possibly even give you one too. If your anything like my husband he can’t resist and needs to be in on the after shock trembles he thinks it’s hot, intense and he finds it irritable not to cum himself and share the thing we call The Quake.