Tips on How to Make my Wife Squirt?
MH family, I am interested to hear from both sides here, male and female, on tips for me making my wife squirt.
Me and my beautiful wife Lexus have been married for almost 9 years and we have had us a very fun and adventurous sex life and continuing to always find new fun ways to enjoy sex together. But just recently, we had a conversation of different fetishes for one another and one that I brought up to her was how I have a fetish for making her squirt or her making herself squirt and getting her to squirt on me. I just can’t help but desire for her to ejaculate on me. I don’t care if it’s just a little running out or full on geyser. Just the thought of her doing so turns me on.
She hasn’t squirted before on her own during her masturbation and toy play.
I have assured her it’s not ever gonna be a deal breaker for me if she finds out she can’t squirt. I absolutely love my wife and everything about her body. I believe me and her will have a lot of fun together exploring her body on this love quest to squirting.
There is nothing sexier than a woman getting sopping wet, but squirting is something else and I am not sure all women can do it.
Why not just concentrate on making her feel good. Tease her pussy until she can't stand it anymore will result in good powerful orgasms for her. Let her basque in her endorphins and long for that feeling again. If something like a squirt happens, then it does.
My wife gets very wet but I don't think she squirts, but the other night she was riding me on the couch. She was already extremely wet but she she came I felt a flood of wetness envelop my cock and balls. Her wetness, heavy breathing, and casting away her usual modesty to thrust her pussy and ass in my face is what gets me.
My suggestion is just to make her feel as comfortable doing what she wants to do to get her off and if it happens it happens. If it doesn't, then everyone still had a good time.
For my wife Vanessa she had not had any sort of ejaculation prior to our honeymoon. The first time I was inside her with her on top, she felt what she said was like a water balloon breaking and fluid seeped out. Sometimes it’s felt like someone’s spraying me with a small hairspray bottle. I’ve never seen her squirt and I don’t think she does in the true sense of the word. Just focus on your wife’s clit and upper inside of her pussy I’d recommend, and try to get her as wound up with fore play as possible before you get down on it. Let me know if this helps. And keep in mind just like with men, women vary in how much fluids they produce.
I agree w this 100 percent
My wife is now a Squirting Queen, but she was not always like that for decades. She would get wet, but never a gush or squirt, until one evening. It was the middle of the night and I was awake stroking, she woke up and was really horny and "caught" me playing and joined in. I was on top of her and pounding very hard and her hips were up. She was really into it and next thing I know, in the dark, my belly got sprayed a few times! She squirted all over me! It was amazing and she had no idea how it happened, but being really aroused.
Since then, the last few years she has not been able to "feel" her body and arousal and build up to squirting about 90% of the time. For her she has to be very aroused, second the right spot has to be hit with either my fingers, cock, her vibrator or her fingers. If I am inside of her, fast thrusting seems to get her to squirt, same with a vibrator.
I also have learned to place my middle and ring finger inside her and cup my palm around her mound and clit. Instead of a thrusting or penetrating motion, I move my hand up and down rapidly with my fingers rubbing and hitting the top of her canal opening. This after much foreplay and arousal, but when that happens she turns into a waterfall.
I suggest using a towel or waterproof blanket. Also there is a myth taht the liquid of a woman's squirt is urine, it is not. It comes from a gland inside her, not her bladder. On a rare occasion, because of so much action, some urine drips "leak" out that is minor. But it is not the same as a women's glorious squirt.
Good luck and have fun exploring and playing.
First of all I want to agree with the other commenters when they say not all women can squirt or squirt a lot when they do! That being said I didn’t know I was a squirter myself until I was with my husband so it could be possible!
One of the big things holding me back was that I thought I needed to pee and I didn’t want to pee on him, so I would stop or adjust to avoid doing so, but what clued me into that not being the case was that even when I would go to the bathroom right before sex that feeling would happen to me every now and then, and, with his permission I continued once when I had that feeling anyway. I squirted while I was having an orgasm. We smelled it and it didn’t smell like pee. It was slightly sweet smelling so we determined I was a squirter.
It really feels like you are about to cum and pee at the same time from a woman’s perspective and that can be confusing at first and make you want to stop instinctually because you don’t want to pee on your husband so that’s something to keep in mind.
Another thing is positioning. This is the most important thing for us about getting me to squirt. I’m more likely to squirt when there’s a lot of pressure towards the front part of my vagina and in certain positions it’s easier to do. The most I’ve ever squirted was when I was in cowgirl position but specifically planting my feet on either side of him in a squat position which I believe is called Asian cowgirl. I couldn’t stop it in that position. Another position that works really well is when he is on top, lifting/pushing my legs up, and really leaning forwards towards me.
This is coming from someone who does squirt pretty regularly so I don’t know how well that translates to someone who has never squirted before but above all don’t have any expectations and focus on pleasure instead of the squirting part! I hope this helps!
Ist , I'll agree that some may be unable to squirt during sex play, but I believe that it it is possible for most women, providing a few conditions exist..1st, the woman must be able to achieve an orgasm. While it may be difficult for some women to achieve this, I am of the belief that orgasms, like squirting, is, (or can be ) a LEARNED behavior.
I have posted several times in the past on this very subject in our lives. The 1st is titled " Multiple Orgasm Training" & can be found using the search function on this site . It describes how my wife learned to 1st, become
" multiorgasmic" and to squirt during our playtime, using my fingers & toys, and sometimes, during PIV sexual activity. Another later post titled "Let It Rain Down On Me" describes more of our experiences in creating "wet" orgasms.
Another observation made was the prerequisite for my Mary to feel very aroused. It's not until after she has had a few orgasms that she will squirt. We discovered that when she's either standing or kneeling , she squirts the strongest. Primarily, enjoy trying to create the most enjoyable, pleasurable experience for your mate. Words of encouragement, telling her how beautiful she looks and how excited she makes you feel seems to also help her let go . Best wishes for positive results in your experimentation.
I’m a virgin man so I don’t have any personal experience with this haha but I did stumble across this piece of info here that might be helpful.
I can’t wait until I’m able to have fun trying to make my future wife squirt. If anyone tries this, I’d be curious to hear the results!
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A pre-step to take before trying this method. MAKE SURE YOUR WOMAN (OR YOURSELF, LADIES) TAKE A LEAK BEFORE YOU START!! YOUR BLADDER MUST BE EMPTY. YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHY LATER ON.
STEP 1: Make sure your woman, (or yourself, ladies) is comfortable. Maybe a little wine, soft music, or perhaps a good erotic massage, it doesn't matter just as long as she (Or yourself, ladies) is completely relaxed.
STEP 2: Do what ever it is you usually do to make your woman (or yourself, ladies)have a nice normal orgasm.(If you have problems giving your woman a regular orgasm just skip right to STEP 4).
STEP 3: Make sure you keep making her feel very comfortable, it is key!
STEP 4: Start licking your woman's clit and slide two fingers deep in her cunt. If your woman has a slightly bigger box then increase the number of fingers being used.
STEP 5: Turn said fingers so that your palm is up facing you. Ladies if you are trying to do this yourself you should have your palm against your pubic bone then bend the wrist so it points away from your body. Almost like you are making a scoop.
STEP 6: Push your fingers toward the ceiling. Ladies you want to turn your wrist like you are trying to start a motorcycle.
STEP 7: Run your fingers along this "wall", feel for a small rough area. Believe it or not it kind of feels like a walnut. She (or you) will know the spot immediately.
STEP 8: Keep rubbing, increasing the speed and pressure as you do. Don't rub too hard or
too fast right off the start. Work up to it.
STEP 9: This is probably the most important one. When you do see your woman (or feel yourself) starting to get real excited, they might tell you to (or you might want to) stop because they feel like they are about to pee. Remind them they have no pee in their bladder (if you followed the pre-step!) and tell them to
JUST RELAX and let it GO!!!!!
STEP 10: Take cover because you are about to be showered upon. My wife has squirted over three feet in the air lying on her back!!
So there you have it, ladies and gentlemen, ten steps to oblivion. I forgot to mention one thing. TOWELS, TOWELS, TOWELS!! Or get a second set of sheets ready. And don't worry about doing extra laundry, it is totally worth it.
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“I have assured her it’s not ever gonna be a deal breaker for me if she finds out she can’t squirt.” — OMG, this made me LOL!! 😂 Squirting is still a rare thing for most women. Imagine someone said THIS IS a deal-breaker?!
Fearless Lunk. I probably didn’t word that correctly. The way I was meaning that was during mine and my wife’s conversation about fetishes and me bringing up her squirting as a fetish of mine. I made sure to reassure her that hey we have a lifetime (lord willing) of sex adventures together and if squirting ever happens it happens and not to have that thought in her mind “I must squirt for my husband. “ If someone actually ever told their wife it’s a dealbreaker if she couldn’t squirt we’ll that would be very messed up on so many levels.
My wife’s cumming/squirting and tips of what makes “It” happen?!!…
Well I’m no expert but I will share our exploration and DISCOVERIES from the husband’s perspective here!…
Exploration, talking about and just getting down to “business”~I believe is the key here (and as already expressed in other responses) to this “outcum” is really a case by case scenario! The main component is the point of relaxation leading up to foreplay and throughout this most enjoyable process. To say “…we’re going to arrive at this” ~is an expectation instead of the “outcum”of the love expressed by each and if no squirting surfaces~so be it and embrace what did occur!!
For us…we shower up and prepare for “things to CUM”! An evening experience of sippN & chattN works us up to when things heat up -after I let my fingers linger with coconut oil. With the lube process take care of ~I straddle into a 69 position over top of my wife (my ass towards her face) and I begin slow licking and tonguing her oozing pussy. At the same time she is providing a prostate massage for me with a lubed up device! (I believe this cranks up her horny mode-so I go with it!)
Still in 69 -with her fucking my ass with that device (and sending me to the edge with her hand-job stroking motions on my hard throbbing cock-I slowly direct that “stallion” into the oozing vagina (in this kind of upside down (than normal) position-frenulum on her upper wall)! Mmmmm!! Then before I blow my load -I slip out and move around with my head between her legs and start tongue action as I look up ~to her holding onto her beautiful breasts! O the sight and my hardened cock hardens -(if that’s even possible)!!
I then slide a wedge pillow under her cute little ass and a cock ring over my penis and slither in -slowly (with the device still penetrating my prostrate-Ooooo the orgasms when they arrive-anyhow…) continuing in and out so my penis head is exiting sightly and then back in and out ~like that repeatedly. As I watch her head move back and her eye sockets retract ~ I know something moving and special is happening and then a WARM sensation pulses over my slithering hard cock. I slide out and place my head between her legs and slither up the initial juices trickling out of her engorged pussy as she pleads with me to get that “stallion” back in. I grin and oblige and begin slow thrusting motions and then as she goes into total relaxation mode-the SQUIRTING begins-a spirt at first and then a GUSH!!
Well that does it for me-I shoot my load at that moment as intense warming sensations flood over my pulsating cock.
Wait~Wait -that’s not the end!! I slither out and my head down in between her quivering legs and my tongue kicks into “love~juice” lap up time. O WOW-the beautiful taste and aroma of our mixed fluids is over the top!!
So the recipe-?- just taking time (heading towards 45 minutes of teasing play!) to really enjoy the slowness of these work up moments. L❤️VING and embracing every inch of the L❤️VE of my life is wonderful and just seeing where the adventure of exploration takes us~usually over the “waterfall”~so exciting!!
(…and yes~towels on the bed or wherever are handy!)
Happy Exploring to All!!
I think it would be good to note what squirting is and what it is not.
Squirting is not peeing, despite what some videos show as a woman reaches an orgasm.
Squirting is the result of an extremely aroused woman’s vaginal muscles quickly and strongly contracting, ( sometimes over and over), and thereby “ejaculating” a large amount of her naturally produced female lubrication.
Some women don’t produce that much lube, some women don’t get that aroused, (I blame the man here, make it good for her guys 😉), and some women’s vaginal muscles don’t contract as strongly.
It's different for every woman how and if they can squirt. For me it usually happens after my husband has gone down on me and vigorously massaged my g-spot. Sometimes it happens just from that manual stimulation other times is after pressing on that spot he'll flip me over and take me anally from a steep angle so that he's still pressing my g-spot from the backdoor. It doesn't happen every time for me. I seem to need to be well hydrated and usually after a couple drinks to relax those muscles. I have girl friends who say they squirt almost every time they orgasm. One can do it almost at-will with just a little manual clit massage. Poor thing has to wear a skirt when she goes running because wearing running tights rubs against her and after a couple miles she looks like she peed herself!
We recently bought a vibrating sound. At first I bought it to use on hubs for trying to massage his prostate from inside his urethra. He tried it on me one night and that did the squirting trick within a couple minutes and no g-spot massaging. It's fun finding new ways to be intimate 🙂
Wow that’s so interesting. I know for your friend it probably gets annoying being able to produce that much juice so easily.. but as a man that is so hot haha. To get all that juice flowing with just a little clit and pussy play sounds is wild, and I’m sure that’s only the beginning if you really kept working it. She’s not single is she?! lol jk
Icansay that our relationship, it has become a learned behavior, as if I ak if she wants to put down a towel, we both know it's going to get soaked..and the past month or so, it has, every time.. not because we're trying, just because she claims it feels so good, getting so worked up