A New Start

A week has gone by since I posted “Wanting More”, and the responses I received were quite helpful, thank you. I took some time and read and re-read the comments and decided to take a step in the right direction and make some changes. Here’s what happened this past week.

Monday was a long day at work, I was tired and sore, and by the time we had gotten the kids to bed I was ready to crash. I had a long hot shower, alone. While in there I was hoping my wife would come in and watch so I could give her a show. As I washed, thinking of her my cock grew hard. I was going to start stroking myself but decided otherwise and shut the shower off dissapointed that she didn’t join me and dried off and went to bed. We kissed each other, said our “I love you’s” and shut out the lights.

Frustrated and wanting a release, I laid there awake. It wasn’t long before my wife got up, not able to sleep herself, going out to the living room to read for awhile. Now alone in bed, awake, I decided I needed to cum or sleep would elude me.

I said, “Forget it, I’m giving her a show,” so I got up, stripped down to nothing with my cock already growing hard with excitement of what I was about to do.

I grabbed some lube and a blanket and went out to the living room to see my wife. Without saying a word, I sat opposite from her on the couch, grabbed my dick and started stroking myself and playing with my balls. Watching her watch me was a huge turn on. As I played with the head of my cock with pre-cum leaking out, I sat up on my knees and started to kiss her. It took the slightest touch of her tongue on my lips that sent a pulse to my cock that sent me over the edge and I came, shooting my load into my hand as I continued stroking myself until I couldn’t take anymore. After one last kiss, I got up and went back to bed and finally fell asleep.

Two days later, after a long night of snowmobiling, I came home late and found everyone in bed, and my wife was watching TV. I told her I was going to go get in the jacuzzi and relax, teasing her as I left the room saying,”Why don’t you come down in a bit to play with my cock?”

I went downstairs, filled the tub, stripped down and climbed into the hot bath. With my eyes closed and jets running, I didn’t hear my wife come into the bathroom, and sit on the edge of the tub. I didn’t know she was these until I felt her hand reach into the tub and grab my dick. What a pleasant surprise. I stood up in front of her, wet and hard, and she began giving me a great hand job. I told her to suck me, and without hesitating she took me into her mouth. She has such full, soft lips that feel so amazing wrapped around my cock. She took me all in, and once I was able to see her looking up at me ckecking my reactions I had to pull out because I was ready to shoot my load. She took my cock in her hand, my balls in the other and jerked me off. When I came she didn’t stop stroking me until I nearly fell over in the tub because the sensations were causing my knees to buckle. Without a word, she got up, kissed me and left the room.

Finally, last night, lying in bed together watching a movie, I slid my hand down my wife’s pj’s and slowly caressed her ass. Soon after, we were kissing each other deeply and passionately. All in one quick motion we were taking each others clothes off and my wife was climbing on top of my swelling cock, sliding it into her expectant pussy. With her tits hanging in front on my mouth I began to lick and suck her perfectly hard nipples as I reached around with my hands grabbing her ass, spreading her cheeks fingering her pussy and my cock as she rode me. She loves when I fuck her with my cock and stick a finger in at the same time. Not going to lie, I love feeling myself shoot my come into her. So my wife, having grabbed her vibrator, was sitting on top of me, cock inside her pussy and my finger playing with her asshole, she rode herself into orgasm. Feeling her cunt tighten around my cock and having her crush her tits on my chest as she collapsed on me from her orgasm, I shot my load deep inside of her in an incredible release.

With the help and advice from other MH readers I was able to make the first step towards building a healthier sex life with my wife. I can’t be afraid to take chances or to intitiate when I want something to happen. This is a process, I know, but I think we’re off to a promising start.
Thanks to all, and stay horny.

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13 replies
  1. Lovinghusband says:

    CJ – I loved this! Your follow-up to last week! I thought your going out to the living room with the blanket was creative and bold! Did she say anything to you that night? Did she want sex after seeing you cum? Did she say anything about it the next day?

    Frankly, you gave me some ideas I want to surprise my wife with – as long as the kids are not around at that moment…

    God bless you two! Thanks for writing this!!

    • CJ says:

      To answer your questions, no we didn’t have sex that night, her period wasn’t done yet. We kissed passionately the next morning before I left for work but nothing was said. She did initiate though a few days later when she was ready. Glad I inspired you and gave you some ideas. My wife is always open for me to give her a show, I’m happy to give it too. She really never says no, but I do usually have to initiate. Again, thanks for reply and support, everyone here has been very supportive and helpful, god bless.

  2. hornyGG says:

    Awesome CJ! So glad to hear things are starting to move in the right direction for you sir. I Loved reading how you started the spark by going into the livingroom and jacked off in front of your wife. Very hot! Made me quite moist. Brought back memories of the first time I saw my hubby beat himself off. It too was in the livingroom.

    Anyway, I hope things continue to progress in a positive way for you and your wife. I will be praying for the two of you.

    God bless and stay horny!

    Ps: MH is a wonderful site, isn’t it!

    • CJ says:

      Thank you for your prayers and support and honesty. It’s not easy really letting go, but I know we love each other very much so why not be open and honest right? My wife is a beautiful person, I’m blessed to have her in my life to share my experiences, love, family and intimate moments with.
      God bless and stay horny.

  3. smitten says:

    Good story on taking the initiative, CJ. In the past we would let intimate times slip away because we were waiting for the other one to initiate. We learned that life is too short and started being bolder, taking charge of the now.

    • CJ says:

      You really helped me in your response to my first post. My wife and you sound very similar. It’s a little intimidating to be that straight forward but the risk is worth the reward. Thank you and god bless.

  4. René says:

    Hi all, good reading these stories! I understand this brother at first had some problems with his wife, but is doing now better thanks to help from others from the forum. Well, frankly, I could have some help too. My wife and I have been married now for 27 years and we love eachother dearly. But the every during problem has always been that I love sex, and she doesn’t care that much. When we make love, it is hardly ever spontaneous and passionetely, and basically always the same. I’ve done everything: praying (obviously, a lot!), talking, I bought her a vibrator, which she used a couple of times, but doesn’t want to anymore, she doesn’t want to read this site, and basically doesn’t like me reading it, she will never masturbate, and most certainly not in front of me, and she doesn’t like when I touch myself, even when we are together. She will allow me to cum in her basically any time I want, but most of those times she just ‘let me do my thing’ to help me, but that’s is. She’s very difficult to arouse, although once she is aroused, she’ll come straight away, but never more than once, although it can sometimes last, and I wonder if she isn’t coming several times in a row… Anyway, I’ve always wanted an adventerous, romantic life with my own wife, but it seems to elude me all the time. I could NEVER do most of the things I read on this side, and she’ll basically won’t do ever what other women on this site are doing, so much so that I sometimes wonder if all these stories are real, or just living in fantasies! Can anybody help me? Please do not come with the usual stuff about foreplay, being careful, loving etc, again, I’ve been there and done that and we do have a happy marriage, basically. Thanks anyway! Blessings, René

  5. CJ says:

    I’m sure some stories on this site are embellished a bit, some fantasies, but I do think most are true. This is group of very open, loving and affectionate people. I found it helpful too read through the topics on here that aren’t stories at all, but just general discussions and loving your partner. Only can one be honest with themselves before they can begin to resolve any issues they may have. My situation does sound different from yours though, my wife enjoys sex, just doesn’t really take the initiative to instigate. Everyone is different, so it’s hard to figure these things out. You’ve been happily married for 27 years so I’m almost sure if you approach your wife telling her your wants, needs and concerns about this and how it’s affecting you and your marriage she might be open for discussion. Maybe there’s a health issue too. You won’t know until you ask.
    Just try to be patient and understanding to get needs and she might reciprocate.
    Stay strong and god bless.

  6. René says:

    Dear CJ, thanks for the time you took to answer. Bless you. About talking, that is part of the problem. She just doesn’t want to talk about it, not really. I guess it frightens her too much. I always feel like I hit a ‘brick wall’, like something just doesn’t want to (cannot?) give. There’s no health issue. It’s just that she doesn’t care for sex that much. For exemple, she will never cum when I go into her. She doesn’t really care for that. I always need to use ‘other means’ to make her come, and than I can go into her, and cum myself. Again, we do love eachother dearly, and have been through alot together, but this point has always been a frustration for me, basically from Day 1 of our marriage. I am very understanding, God gives me alot of grace, but I admit it sometimes just ‘takes over’ a bit, although we hardly ever, if ever, fight about sex. Anyway, I guess there are no ‘pet answers’, and I’ll just have to continue to count on God’s grace.
    Every blessing for you all,

  7. CJ says:

    My wife hardly ever comes with me inside her unless we use a vibrator on her clit, but that’s OK, I love eating her pussy, nothing satisfies me more during sex. If that’s what works to get her to come, do it, every time. Try making her come then just stopping, ending it right there, maybe after you do this once or twice she will ask you for your cock. Sex drives are all different, my wife enjoys it, just doesn’t initiate much. But that’s OK, With everyone’s help here we’re working through it together and it is improving. Don’t settle and never give up, God has blessed you to find each other and he will show you the way in time.
    God bless.

  8. Lovinghusband says:

    Dear Rene,

    My heart goes out to you brother! Please don’t forget that God strives with us – sometimes through long periods of trial and testing. I know you know that.

    I’ve pondered your situation in recent days – and your desire for help. I am NOT an expert. I’m a regular guy like you – who leans on the Lord1

    I first want to say in all humility that I am impressed with how much thought and honest self-assessment you have made. You don’t come off as an embittered husband – but as a godly man who loves his wife and wants more in their marriage.

    Second, based on where your wife is, I would want to start small. Don’t aim “to renovate the whole house, just paint one room at a time.” We’ve been married just about the same period as you. When my wife and I have had significant changes in our sex life, twice it started with reading a book together. We saw it fundamentally change us in some things – and it started with having a change of the mind. Not to mention, we were now talking substantively about the subject of sex – both of us became more horny as a result. We were not asexual to start with – but both of us had a stronger 1st Corinthians 7:3ff conviction that our bodies were no longer our own. We were liberated in heart and mind that Song of Solomon calls us to a sexual feast in marriage – not just hors d’oeuvres. It changed us. I can only tell you that our story is real! I don’t write fiction on MH!

    The “world” might just say we came to a place in life when we became more hormonally ready for sex, but we think the difference was more truth-based, than changing physiology. So for example, in a piecemeal fashion, our view of oral sex changed from Song of Solomon and Hebrews 13:4. We enjoyed it sheepishly before – and were now freed to partake.

    Song of Solomon made us know that we were not weird to be thinking and pondering one another sexually as much as we were. In fact, it motivated us to do it more. We just read it!

    Well, I don’t want to write a book here! I would encourage you to not dwell on what you and your wife are NOT right now – but what you are (and rejoice), and then build small from there. Don’t be in a race for what is perfect – go step by step.

    Perhaps some focused attention will begin to renew her mind in ways that will free her up (and become more horny). It did in us!

    Read together (if she is willing). Read a chapter and go for a walk and discuss it. Are our attiudes in line with God’s design?

    Perhaps there a trusted couple in your church that might be helpful to talk with? That can be a little harder to know in advance.

    No matter what, don’t forget that God is on the throne – and hears our prayers. Don’t push too hard for full renovation, before your wife’s “building permit” is approved (her mind being changed by Scripture).

    I wish you both the best. This is well worth working on.

    It is obvious that you love your beloved wife and that is awesome! Don’t stop being the right guy, who is pursuing his bride!

    I hope something in my ramblings is used by God to encourage your heart today. That is my desire – and after I press “submit comment” – it will be my prayer for you both.

    God bless you both!

  9. René says:

    Dear ‘CJ’ and ‘Loving Husband’,
    First of all, thanks so much for the time you both took to so lovingly get into my ‘case’ and write. Bless you. Thanks, above all, for your prayers! I’m not sure what to say (write). You’ve been a real encouragement for me. I’ll just keep on praying. Yesterday, my wife and I had our (most of the time-) weekly ‘special’ evenings, in which we put a small table in our (large-) bedroom, and have a special evening together. She’ll wear lingery, we have a bottle of wine, a good meal, we pray, and usually ‘in between’ have sex. This usually takes about half an hour. It depends on how much it takes to get her aroused, basically. She is a sweet. She’ll take me orally, not till the end, and I’ll have her orally too, although sometimes she’ll like it just with the hand, letting me have me cumming in her afterwards. But it still takes alot of time to arouse her, and much of the time is focused upon that. Anyway, I guess that, compared with many other guys, I’m not that bad off. She’ll just hardly ever initiate. And the ‘saturday morning specials (or any other morning by that matter, very, very special mornings excepted!)’ are definitely off, since she’ll just never is ‘in the mood’ in the morning! In fact, she hardly is ever really is ‘in the mood’, but she does make an effort, as with our Saturday evening special evenings, to be together and enjoy it. I’ve read Song of Solomon to her in bed, sitting right in front of her. Telling her with all my heart that I love her, do not see anything wrong in her, etc. I even washed her feet several times! But she won’t really talk about sex. Once I tried a game. Asking eachother questions, and when the answer is wrong, the ‘punishment’ is performing something sexually. She went along, to do me a favor, but several times afterwards told me she actually hated it. Anyway, I’ll just continue to pray, although I must say I’m not really sure if I’m entitled to pray, and expect anything more, or that I just should be happy with what I got, and that God tells me ‘my grace is sufficient’ for the rest. Thanks for the ‘Building Permit’ parabel. That is a good one, since I do happen to be the kind of guy who sometimes wants to go too quick in things and wants to see things changed faster that they actually can be changed.
    Bless you all, I’ll wait for another occasion/answer. Oh boy, if I might get her to read some of your stories!
    Every blessing, René

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