Masturbating in Front of Your Husband

Hi MH crew,

Alicia’s recent comment (in the Sex Toy post) about being too shy to masturbate in front of her hubby resonated with me. I totally understand being too shy to do such things with an audience. So I’m wondering: for all you gals who regularly play with yourselves in front of your husbands, how did you get to the point of being totally uninhibited? Were you always like that? Or was it something you had to “grow into”?  What did you do to help you get over being too shy?  Are you now at the point where masturbating in front of your hubby is as normal as brushing your teeth?  I would love to hear the story of your sexual journey/growth and any advice you could give to us still shy gals. Thanks so much!

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29 replies
  1. CMLove says:

    Hi AB! Thank you so much for posing the question! I’m actually in that boat with you! Masturbating freely is still new to me, so I’m exploring myself at the same time and, therefore, I’m finding it hard to turn on the “sexy appeal” while I’m doing it in front of my husband! I would love to read any comments our dear sisters (and brothers!) have on the subject!

  2. cameron says:

    Well you do have to grow into it I would say. For me it took me a long time to be able to get in to it with my husband watching. It started out as Jake requesting me to do it and I would for say some thing like his birthday or so other thing like that and then it get got a little easier to do. I know Jake enjoys watching me and since I like to make Jake happy I do it for him. Now almost after years it is no real big deal.

    Hope this helps.
    Take care 😉

  3. Married Couple says:

    As we approach our twentieth year of marriage, only the past five or six have included a comfort masturbating together (and we are still working on improving our long distance masturbation activities, thanks in part to MH!).

    Part of what makes masturbating in front of him such a turn on (in addition to the obvious sight of you touching yourself in a sexual way) is the knowledge that you are trusting him enough to truly “let him in” to your sexual world. His own insecurities about masturbating are mitigated when he sees you want yourself to orgasm as much as he wants you to orgasm. In this way – letting him see you masturbate validates him in many ways.

    If you are already comfortable with masturbation, then think about doing it for hubby as a way to connect deeper with him emotionally. Consider rubbing your clitoris while he is in you so that it adds to the partner sex experience before being on full display. Then as you get more comfortable with that – allow him to take in the image of your entire body as you are pleasuring yourself – but be sure to let him know that it would turn you on even more to watch him masturbate along side of you – fair is fair! Good luck!

  4. ilovemywife69 says:

    My wife is in the same boat. I have encouraged her to masturbate in front of me but she won’t even entertain the idea. I asked her if she ever masturbated and her response was, “I did it a time or two before we got married.” I have a higher sex drive than she does so 99% of the time it is me initiating “play” time. I feel like it may be self image issues but I’m not a doc. I love her no matter what and I have to admit that she is opening up a little since I started sending her MH stories on occasion. If I send them too often she dosent like it. Oh well, I will keep hinting and maybe one day she will surprise me.

  5. HornyHubby says:

    I wanted to offer a guy’s perspective on this. I’m pretty sure all the men on here will share my perspective.

    As a husband I love to see my wife enjoying sexual pleasure. Whether it’s from my hand, hers or a vibrator. (Or some combination of the three!) I just love to see her writhing in sexual pleasure and orgasm. It is truly a beautiful sight.

    Furthermore, I love to see my wife fully embrace her own sexuality. When she shows confidence in her own sexuality and owns her own pleasure, it is truly a major turn on for me. I love to see her have that confidence in herself to take charge and take care of business. And watching that confidence in action is a major turn on as well.

    And in 1 Corinthians 7 Paul says that the wife’s body doesn’t just belong to her but to her husband. And the husband’s body also belongs to his wife. So your bodies belong to your husband. And part of being married is full disclosure. Emotionally, physically and sexually. (I’ve heard of some couples that never change clothes in front of the other or go to the bathroom around each other. I always cringe a little at that because to me that says this couple hasn’t fully embraced the oneness of their marriage.) So just as you would share every thought and feeling with your husband, and you would share every part of your body with your husband letting him see and touch every part of you, so you should also share every part of your sexuality. It is a gift you give to your husband.

    So if you are feeling apprehensive about letting your husband watch you masturbate, consider that you have the opportunity to give him a cherished gift that he will enjoy. You are also giving him access to all of your sexuality, which will help the two of your grow closer in your oneness.

    So I have a few suggestions: 1. Talk to your husband and ask him if he would enjoy watching you jill off. (My guess is that he will say YES!) But also tell him that you are nervous and talk to him about your fears/concerns. I’m sure he will reassure you that you have nothing to worry about and that it would bring him great pleasure to watch you pleasure yourself. 2. Start out slow. Maybe have him watch you lay there and play with yourself but not go all the way to orgasm. Maybe turn the lights down low. Maybe keep YOUR eyes closed so you can forget he’s there and let yourself get caught up in the moment. Maybe have him stand outside the room and just peek in after you get started. Whatever it takes. Sometimes taking it slow helps warm you up to a new idea. Whatever you choose, gradually start opening up to the idea. Start opening your eyes or turning the lights on, etc. 3. Just do it! Sometimes we put something off and let the idea of it build up in our head until we blow it out of proportion. And our imagination can take over and play tricks on our mind. Sometimes it’s best to just do it and show our mind that it wasn’t as bad as we thought.

    But remember this is your husband. He loves you and desires you. All of you. He wants to see all of you. As I said, it would be a gift to him to let him watch you jill yourself off. Just be ready. He will want to fuck you after you get done. 🙂

    • PassionateForChrist says:

      Thank you HornyHubby for the comment! I found the points you made to be very insightful. Maybe you (or any other loving MH heart) can help me with something… I understand the changing of the clothes in front of each other scenario… but do you mean with “go to the bathroom around each other” that it is really suitable for my future husband to be doing stuff like shaving while I’m like on the potty? I’m asking in earnest because I have an insanely high level of shame about being on the potty when other people are in proximity. I believe that to be something I’ve carried with me from my childhood… I was a shorty all my life, have always worn a sweet short haircut (’cause I look best with that) and I’ve always loved wearing pants… so what happened all the time when I went to the bathroom in school when I was little was that the kindergarten kids (the bathroom was on the same level as their classrooms), when they saw me coming out of the girls’ bathroom, always pointed fingers at me and shouted to whichever adult was near that a boy was in the girls’ bathroom. (They topped that in the latter years when the first Harry Potter movie came out and was a hit… then they pointed at me and shouted Harry Potter just went to the girls’ bathroom.) I always smiled it off on the outside… on the inside, it silently hurt though… It had gotten to be so embarrassing to me that for a brief period of time I decided to go to the boys’ bathroom instead (I made sure no boy was in there when I went)… No one perceived me as the girl I was; all who didn’t know me saw me as a boy, so I thought this way at least nobody will point fingers at me and make everyone around aware that I went to the bathroom. It was only for a brief period of time because quite frankly the boys’ bathroom was stinky and I felt so totally out of place. I had less stress and feelings of shame to handle when no one was in proximity, so I then made it my habit to only go to the girls’ bathroom when no one was around or in there – all the more so since the teenage years, after a classmate once waited in the stall next to mine while I was going to the potty and the moment I had my pants down, I heard her climb the toilet to get a peek at me from over the stall… she didn’t manage to see anything because I had heard her climb and sensed what she wanted to do and was quicker than she was (I was used to being highly on guard and alert all the time). It was very much embarrassing to me nonetheless. I couldn’t understand it ’cause I never had any desire to see others exposed. I still feel such an intense sense of shame when in a crowded public bathroom… I’d prefer to let everyone else go before me just to not be in the position to be on the potty while other women are standing in line before the door… that makes me feel so exposed and highly insecure.

      Ps.: Dear MH, I realize that what I just said is probably quite up-close and personal but I am at the point where I feel safe in Christ and in your midst to open up about such childhood traumatic experiences when the time is right… So, I just wish to say thank you for all you do to help me grow and overcome by just being the community, the loving, caring, truthful, safe and open forum, that you are. Thank you for having given me a place in your hearts! God bless you all!

    • CMLove says:

      We all love you so much, PassionateForChrist! And we value your opinion here! Thank you for sharing your experiences. I was molested at a young age and had to deal with feelings of shame as well. Not exactly like what you described but I can sort of empathize. Let me first say, from the bottom of my heart, I am so sorry you had to go through such pain. I pray, as the years have gone by, that you see that you are beautifully complete just the way God made you and He adores you! Second, there is absolutely no shame in feeling more comfortable being “by yourself” when you’re on the toilet or even just in the bathroom! My husband really doesn’t like me in the bathroom when he’s on the toilet, nothing having to do with shame really….he just likes to be alone. I respect him in that and, honestly, I don’t really want to be in there either! Not exactly a “romantic tryst” LOL Also, I like putting on my make-up alone in the bathroom. My husband knows this and gives me some time to get pretty by myself before he comes in and shaves or whatever. So, all that to say, I think there are times that you, as a couple, will find that one of you wants to be alone (for no other reason than it’s just more comfortable that way) and you’ll each happily respect the other in that instance. Remember that you need to be friends as well as lovers. Because you’re lovers, you share everything. Because you’re best friends, you give each other privacy in certain small areas of life. It’s two sides of the same coin, I think! I hope this all makes sense! It’s late and I think I’m rambling! LOL Love you, Sis!

    • HornyHubby says:

      I am so glad you asked this question. I hope to offer some insight that will help free you from both of these issues.

      Sometimes when we have an experience as a child we forever remember that event from our child like perspective. But then we grow up and we still remember that event from our perspective as a child. And sometimes it doesn’t occur to us that we have grown out of it so we don’t need to hold on to that perspective anymore. An example is when I was a kid I rode my bike down a steep hill in my neighborhood. It was fast and a little scary. But then I got older and went back to ride down that hill and it wasn’t that big of a deal. My perspective of the experience changed because I got older. The same is true of my grandfather. When I was a kid he was big and loud and scary. But then I grew up and now I’m taller than him. And he isn’t scary anymore.

      This happens with people who have been abused. They still see their abuser as having power over them so they still fear them. But you are grown now. You need to see your abuser with adult eyes and not a child’s eyes. When you do, you see that the abuser was most likely abused themselves (often this is the case) or denied some crucial form of love they needed. Maybe their dad didn’t spend a lot of time with them, e.g.

      And so we begin to see that the abuser was acting out of his/her own hurt and pain and it wasn’t personal against us. This allows us to realize that the abuser doesn’t have power over us anymore and never really did. If was all fear based mind games. And then we are able to have some compassion for the abuser as we see that they were victims of some kind of abuse/neglect themselves.

      So in your case, the kids that teased you may have been starved for genuine affection so they got attention through ganging up on you. They may have been abused or neglected at home so they felt they had to be a “tough guy” at school and around their friends in order to feel better about themselves. Whatever the case, it wasn’t about you. It was about them. It wasn’t personal. They were acting out of their own pain. They just happened to pick you as a target. But if it hadn’t been you, it would have been someone else. So again it wasn’t personal. Let that thought permeate your mind and let it free you from the trauma of this memory.

      Now concerning the next part, my wife and I never close doors. Whether we are changing clothes or using the restroom, we are both free to go in and out as we need to. And yes there have been many times when I was in the shower and my wife was sitting on the toilet in the same bathroom. Or she was sitting on the toilet while I was brushing my teeth at the sink. Or vice versa. But there’s no shame or fear. We are both so totally comfortable with each other that we are able to do this.

      See, marriage is about two becoming one. So when you get married you no longer belong to just yourself but to your husband. And he to you. (1 Cor 7) The Bible also says the two become one flesh. So they are no longer two but one. (Matt 19) Also the idea of marriage is that the two are naked and not ashamed. (Gen 2:25)

      Are you ashamed to be naked when you are alone? No because there’s nobody around to bring you shame. When you get married your husband is your other half. Are you ashamed to let your bare right arm touch your bare left arm? No because you are touching the other half of yourself.

      In the same way, your husband is your other half. So having him in the same room when you are showering, changing clothes or on the toilet is the same as being in the room alone. Because he is part of you as your other half. And marriage is about two people being naked and having no shame whatsoever. Whether that’s emotionally or physically or sexually.

      And remember, your husband wasn’t part of the crowd that made fun of you as a child. And as your husband he isn’t going to make fun of you. He has accepted you. All of you. Just as you are. Rest in his love and acceptance and let that replace the images you have from your past. And as you do and as you let him in, you will create new memories to replace the old ones. And one day you will find the old memories don’t have any power over you.

    • PassionateForChrist says:

      Dearest HornyHubby,

      Wow! Thank you so much for the wealth of insights you’re offering me here and for the heart you have in all of this! There are many helpful nuggets in what you’ve shared. I’m grateful for all the support I can get that will help me to embrace a new perspective, enabling me in time to become totally free, as I should be in Christ.

      What you’ve said about the abuser is very true… I’ve experienced this myself at the hands of my father while growing up and still up to this day (when he has a bad day – which depends for him solely upon the circumstances he encounters) – the abuse was emotional and verbal, not physical. The fact that I know that his abusive behavior has its roots in that his parents (my grandparents) treated him the way he treats me has indeed enabled me to have some sort of compassion for him despite it all… among other things, this enabled me to push through it all.

      Sadly, concerning the kids, I think it was personal – not in the sense that they meant to hurt me… I don’t think they were even aware that their reaction caused me pain… but in the sense that it just happened because I was the way I was made… Why do I think that? Because it wasn’t one group of kids at a moment in time but it was different kids through the years… The problem just kept sticking with me wherever I went. I don’t blame them, for society teaches us early to think in stereotypes (girls wear dresses/skirts and make-up, have long hair and a bust (I don’t have that big of a bust, which didn’t help the kids to tell the difference either, but I love my bust the way it is. It’s perfect to me 🙂 ); boys wear pants and have short hair)… What they were basically doing is simply seeing the outside appearance and speaking what they perceived to be happening: a “boy” invading the girls’ bathroom. Though I can’t blame them, it still hurt.

      Not being perceived for who I am because of the way I happen to look is a challenge that has been with me throughout my life. I wouldn’t change who I am just to be perceived because I really like who God made me be. Still, it hurts badly at times… especially in respect to the hope I have of being found by the love of my life – the one fine man God made me for. When everything you have thus far experienced tells you it’s impossible to ever happen, and hope still whispers just keep going, keep believing, you hang on to faith, for you have the courage to believe that despite it all it is possible, for one reason only, and that is God. When your past tells you that it is as good as impossible that you will meet a good, believing man, who will see the beauty in you, who will love and cherish you for it and who will bring it all the more out of you as he courts you, loves you and leads you, hope and faith tell you: through God, it can happen. I love how you’ve put it, HornyHubby, when you said “as your husband he isn’t going to make fun of you. He has accepted you. All of you. Just as you are. Rest in his love and acceptance and let that replace the images you have from your past. And as you do and as you let him in, you will create new memories to replace the old ones. And one day you will find the old memories don’t have any power over you.” This is what I believe too. In all truth, I can tell you that when God blesses me with my husband, He will actually bless me with a new life, for I am ready and more than willing to leave everything that has been behind… the places, the people that continue to cause trouble – everything. I am ready and more than willing to start a new, fresh life with him together, simply being his bride, devoting myself to being his godly, beautiful and lovely wife. So far, I’m faith-ing towards this heavenly bliss as best I can. 🙂

      Last but not least, thank you so much for your practical example and your biblical approach to the sharing the bathroom with your spouse scenario! I so loved how you’ve explained this:

      ”See, marriage is about two becoming one. So when you get married you no longer belong to just yourself but to your husband. And he to you. (1 Cor 7) The Bible also says the two become one flesh. So they are no longer two but one. (Matt 19) Also the idea of marriage is that the two are naked and not ashamed. (Gen 2:25)

      Are you ashamed to be naked when you are alone? No because there’s nobody around to bring you shame. When you get married your husband is your other half. Are you ashamed to let your bare right arm touch your bare left arm? No because you are touching the other half of yourself.

      In the same way, your husband is your other half. So having him in the same room when you are showering, changing clothes or on the toilet is the same as being in the room alone. Because he is part of you as your other half. And marriage is about two people being naked and having no shame whatsoever. Whether that’s emotionally or physically or sexually.“

      This is so true!! I am not ashamed to be naked when I am alone and I am not ashamed to touch myself. I’ve never seen this before in respect to the becoming one… I have never made the connection to the fact that my spouse will indeed be my own other half… this is an actually amazing thought! Thank you bunches for having spoken this up so practically! This does indeed hit home and gives a whole new perspective to it. I will certainly continue to meditate on all the wonderful points you have made in here! Thank you and God bless you, HH! 🙂

    • PassionateForChrist says:

      Dearest CMLove, from the depths of my heart, thank you for all of your heartfelt words! I do feel the Christ-like love in your heart and it brings tears to my eyes because it blesses me so deeply. Thank you for sharing from your experience and for reassuring me through it that it is just as perfectly ok to have a few personal spaces in marriage! Dear friend, please know that you can ramble anytime you want when you talk to me, for as long as you want, for your ramblings are accurate and valuable and deep and I appreciate every ounce of wisdom you impart into me through them!

      THIS is a total treasure, a golden nugget of wisdom: “Remember that you need to be friends as well as lovers. Because you’re lovers, you share everything. Because you’re best friends, you give each other privacy in certain small areas of life. It’s two sides of the same coin, I think!” Thank you for it!!!!

      May God bless you and keep you always, guiding you into the fullness of all that He has for you and your spouse, shielding you as only He can, and pouring His mighty love and favor out upon you forevermore!

      With love always, PfC

    • CMLove says:

      Well said, HornyHubby! Thank you so much for reminding us of what Paul said and for the suggestions! They were a huge help! I will be implementing them for my hubby asap! I think it would really open a door for communication and a deeper sexual connection! Thanks again!

    • Barnboy says:

      I think God has created men with a “visual” drive. That is why advertising cashes in on that sexual drive. When I see my wife in full enjoyment of her own “personal” sexuality it fills me with a closeness with her. Something that she secretly experienced with herself she now allows me to enter into her privacy. I feel honored and blessed to be a part of her private sexual enjoyment.

  6. Silver says:

    My husband loves watching me. He’ll tell me to masturbate for him while he touches himself. It’s a turn on for both of us. We introduced it early into our marriage. He asked me to touch myself and I was a bit shocked, but also it was always a fantasy of mine to have him watch, so I was super turned on. For most of my teenage years I’d masturbated and knew how to get myself to orgasm, why not show off a bit to him after all that practice! lol

    I think for the shy girls, my advice would be to start touching yourself during sex, maybe just start with the breasts even before going lower, eventually you’ll get so used to being sexual with yourself in front of him that you’ll be totally comfortable with masturbating in front of him.

    • CMLove says:

      Thank you for the advice and encouragement, Silver! I love reading all your comments; your experience and godly advice are always so appreciated!

  7. Bootylicious says:

    Any one want to share a story of their first time masturbating in front of their hubby? Was it easier than you thought it would be? Did you surprise yourself i.e. that you really got into it and enjoyed doing it? Did it turn you on? How did your husband respond? Were you in your bedroom, the bathroom, the living room, the car? I always find it extra sexy and a big turn on playing with myself in other locations other than the bedroom. I know I’m a woman, but I find stories of other women getting themselves off highly erotic! Do tell! 🙂

  8. Michael & Lisa says:

    Like Silver, we got into it early in our marriage. It’s very much a turnon for us as well. Michael posted this before, I believe.
    One time I caled him on his cell phone at work. I told him to listen and not say a word.
    I was in bed, naked! I told hime I was touching myself all over. That i was getting so wet! I teased my nipples till they were hard. I placed the phone on a pillow next to me. My eyes were closed, wishing it was him touching me. I described everything to him. I then got my rabbit toy, raisef my legs and ran it all over my body. Still my eyes were closed when i ran it across my wet lips!!!!!!! I was moaning, whispering his mame. I spread my petals slowly went in and out just like he would do with his finger!
    Then raising my ass a little, I slowly went in!!! Then out!!! OMG! Repeated it once more, soooo slow and deep! I screamed! Then hung up!

    Lisa xo

    • CMLove says:

      Hahaha! Love it, Lisa! My husband’s going away for a week, I’ll have to try that! Thanks for the idea, Sister!

  9. AB says:

    I was talking to a friend the other day about this topic. Her husband really wants her to masturbate for him too. His biggest turn on is imagining his wife masturbating. My friend has never masturbated, though (not even as a teenager). She has tried doing it (in order to fulfill her hubby’s fantasy) but it just doesn’t do anything for her. It’s her hubby’s hands all over her body that turns her on. Her own touch does nothing for her. Can anyone else on this list relate to this? Are there other women who have tried masturbating but just don’t like it…don’t find it arousing/stimulating? (it doesn’t do anything for them?)

  10. Alicia G. M. says:

    Wow! I never realized my little comment would start a full blown discussion. You guys are awesome! Some really great advice, thank you all so much. God bless you all.

  11. Happy Husband says:

    I literally pray for the day that my wife is uninhibited enough to lay back with her legs open while she rubs her clitoris with one hand while pumping her slick dildo in and out of her pussy with the other, all while looking at me lustilyand begging me to either bring my hard cock over for her to suck or begging for me to stroke my cock harder and cum all over her perfect, naked body as she starts to orgasm. My cock got rock hard just typing this up. Does that scanrio arouse any of the wives reading this? If so, any thoughts on how I can make that attractive to my beautiful wife?

  12. Hopeful Hubby says:

    AB, I read this article with my wife and she will only Masterbate in front of me as part of foreplay as she just doesn’t get anything out of it as she wants me to participate too so usually I will get her warmed up by using finger vibrator on her nipples as she starts to strokes me, then I move down to rubbing her clit with vibrator which then gets her hot enough to start touching herself and she closes her eyes and starts imagining that I’m inside of her but lately she has been needing to give me a blowjob to get herself over the top.

  13. Lisa Hill says:

    The bathroom issue in my family (married and had kids) was having only one bathroom. So as the children got older the girls could be in there together, the father and mother, and parent and child of course depending the age. We are empty nesters ( that is harder than with children) and still have the one bathroom so we actually have over the years learned each other enough usually know when one wants to be alone but we still will ask each other if it is ok to enter. You should talk with your partner if this is going to cause you pain and shame and establish “rules”. For instance, when I am in the shower sure you can come in an use the toilet or when I am brushing my teeth just ask me to rinse in the kitchen if you really need to use the bathroom. Maybe this will make both you learn a little more about each other without having a list conversation of dos and don’ts. Hopefully my sharing helps someone cause you all have helped me in one short morning.

    • PassionateForChrist says:

      It sure does, Lisa. We are all learners, and through what we share we are able to strengthen, comfort, help, inspire, encourage and sharpen one another in our walks of faith and journeys. Thank you for sharing! Welcome to MH! Love and blessings, PfC

  14. DonB says:

    Early on in our marriage, I posed the question to my wife, telling her to be open and completely honest, whether she masturbatec before we were married. She said yes, how frequently I pressed? Twice a day. What! That's more than I had done. My wife and I were always straight forward with each other, so we discussed our personal thoughts on the subject of continuing masturbation while we were married. We agreed that at times like when I was deployed, both of us could and would be free to masturbate. When we were together, it was mutual masturbation, or if the "need" was to strong to resist, go it alone.
    I began to write erotic stories for her, and I would read them to her in bed, this usually started her masturbating as I read, or she would take a que from the story and would start giving me a blow job. Well, I never finished the stories when that happened.
    So, be honest, be open minded, be willing to try new things, and remain faithful. By remaining honest and faithful, your spouse won't wonder whom you're thinking of while your getting busy solo.
    Just have fun with it.

  15. Missymiss says:

    What I did was when my hubby would be rubbing his hands over my boobs I would put my hands over his and follow his hands around my body. This helped me get more comfortable with touching myself in front of him. This was earlier in our marriage. Another thing I do is use him like a dildo. A lot of times he just wants to get in and I'm not always ready for that so I grab him and use him to get me off then as I start to climax I let it slip in. Feels great!!

  16. Tanya says:

    I just LUV IT when my hubby masturbates for me! It's just so damn sexy & so very,very erotic to watch one another! I just LUV watching how he teases his beautiful long, waxed smooth manhood for me. My smooth little kitty begins purring & she's just begging for me to pet her! We both are a just a couple of smoothies, besides hair just gets in the way. He'll start out very, very slowly by gently running his fingers along his beautiful erect shaft starting with his silky smooth balls, and up the entire length his gorgeous cock & while he's doing this I can see his manhood just throbbing more & more with each gentle teasing caress along the underside of his hard cock. Then his cock will begin jump off his groin on it's own to meet his hand & by this time my eyes are just fixated on that beautiful long cock of his & I am just entranced & hypnotized with pure amazement by this beautiful, erotic movement of his erection. By this time now my fingers are giving my pretty little bald kitty a good working over as I am becoming very wet with anticipation. I can begin to see now his clear pre cum is beginning to slowly ooze out of the tip of his cock so, I take my finger & gently begin to make a circular motion on the head of his cock & he starts to grip himself tighter & he continues very slowly to stroke it to squeeze out the sweet love nectar of his, that I yearn so badly for & longing to taste. After repeating this a several times all the while of course I'm still playing my silky smooth kitty, then he reaches over to grab my working hand & brings it close to his mouth, then he will very gently lick and suck on my fingers to taste my sweet love cream that he loves so much as well! This literally makes me cum again even more & nearly gives me an orgasm just from this alone! But I have to wait until we can both get off together ,after several minutes of slowly savoring each other we both begin again to get ourselves off & he starts picking up the pace of stroking that long beautiful shaft of his for me & by now I am frantically giving my kitty a good rubbing, faster & harder we both are going at it now & we both are echoing out soft moans of pleasure as were both watching one other. Then he's tells me he's about to cum and then just shortly later he erupts with all that beautiful hot pearly white cream onto my body. It feels so warm & good when he doe's this just for me & when I see it erupting out like a volcano it takes me right over the edge of shear pleasure with wave after wave of an awesome orgasms!
    I have to recommend to all the ladies out there, you definitely need to seduce your man into masturbating with you sometime at least once! I mean we all have masturbated at some point in our lives why not simply be honest with one another & try it together occasionally? I think most ladies will truly end up just LOVING IT! 😉

  17. Stickys says:

    I have always enjoyed watching a woman masturbate and the peak of that is my wife. She did not always want to share that with me. On the other hand how many men really are that open that they can show their wives every nuance of their own masturbation. We all know we masturbate and that is a wonderful thing. One way we got past the embarrassing part of it , was each one of us at different times would just close our eyes and start out by touching ourselves, we knew the other was watching but with our eyes closed it gave us the courage to do what we wanted, and the other as well. After many times of this we both would sneak peaks at the other and tell each other how beautiful and natural it is. We then moved on to open and very expressive masturbation.

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