The Art of a Woman’s Breast

WE BOTH LIKE THEM.

Let me say it up front — my hubby is a breast man.  No big surprise to most wives out there, right?  What husband doesn’t go ga-ga over breasts?  I knew when we were dating how much he loved my titties, so I knew what I was getting myself into.

But my confession — I like breasts too.  Love them!  I don’t think I realized it until the past couple years of our marriage.

I have been fascinated with breasts ever since puberty.  From peers in the locker room to teenage slumber parties to scenes in movies, to just looking in the mirror — I love looking at and studying this beautiful creation.

Don’t misunderstand me.  I am in no way a lesbian.  In fact, most of the time I think about or look at breasts, it is not even a sexual thought.  It’s just a fascination… a thing — or THINGS — of beauty.

I had kept this a secret for a long time.  Even a secret to my husband.  We don’t view pornography, but we do occasionally see movies that have some nudity.  I would always get intensely drawn to scenes with female breasts.  I think my hubby had his own eyes fixed on the tv set to notice anything with me.  I finally talked to him about how much I admire, compare, and enjoy female breasts.  It was a new level of vulnerability for me.  I even admitted that I had checked out several of my girlfriends’ boobs — some clothed and even some topless.

After talking about it, I found out that my hubby and I are more alike than I knew.  Of course, I know that he’s a breast man, and he can’t help but notice… well, probably EVERY woman’s boobs.  But, like me, it’s not necessarily a sexual thing or an erotic fantasy.  It’s a lot of admiration for something we find a beautiful part of creation — plus there’s this ongoing curiosity factor for both of us.  But I always knew that my man is and will always come to bed for MY titties… and he’s not disappointed.  He loves them.  He might glance, notice, or study the shape & size of other women’s boobs — but MINE are the only ones he will ever lick, touch, massage, suck, & caress.

Since our talk, we have opened up more about this and other sexual topics like masturbation, fantasies, and even issues from growing up.  It’s been great!  And best of all… I have this new sense of freedom to enjoy my breasts as a true gift from God!  I play with my nipples a lot more while lounging on the couch (my hubby sure doesn’t mind that).  He can easily give me a nipple-only orgasm (no vaginal touching).  And, just for fun, I went completely bra-less for a whole month.  I love it!  [And I LOVE God’s creation]!

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34 replies
  1. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    I admit I also liked seeing seeing other women's breasts in my youth, including my friends' and female family members. It was not sexual at all. I remember simply thinking they're beautiful because of how they give milk to babies. As I got older, my mother told me that men enjoy them too and that they find them "sexy" and that we should keep them only for our husbands. She sure spoke for my husband.

    My husband, as you know loves my breasts, and I love how he has my breasts in his hand, and how he strokes and caresses them. This post has unlocked much in my mind! Thank you so much and God bless!

  2. Anonymous says:

    I recently discovered my wife too has a love affair merely for the beauty of other breasts besides her own. I was sorta struggling with that thought til reading this. Opened my eyes to thinking differently. Thank for sharing,
    Creation woman

  3. Bootylicious says:

    Nipple-only orgasm? That's sooooo cool!!! What does it feel like? How is it different from a pussy orgasm? I sure wish I could cum from nipple stimulation alone; that would be awesome!! Is this something new for you or have you always been able to do that? Oh, and doesn't going braless feel absolutely wonderful?!!! I CAN'T wait to shed my bra once I'm home. If my husband had his way, I'd never wear a bra. He LOVES the braless look and the way my boobs move and jiggle when unrestricted (and how my nipple poke out through the fabric ;-)). Have you ever tried licking your own nipples before?

  4. Lovinghusband says:

    There is something in me that makes it seem not strange for both sexes to be able to have an almost universal enjoyment of seeing the female breast.

    That said, as a man – I do not enjoy seeing other men's cocks. When at the gym – in the locker room – I have no curiosity to see what other men have – zero!

    Still, I can't explain it – but it doesn't seem strange to me that both men and women can have a healthy appreciation of the female breast.

    Just my reaction. No science. LH

    • HornyHubby says:

      I understand exactly what you mean. And I feel the same way. There is something aesthetically pleasing about the female form. And like you I don't feel weI'd about a woman thinking another woman is pretty/sexy or that some part of her body is attractive. And breasts specifically have had an artistic appeal for years. (Look at all the paintings where they show a woman's breasts.) But like you I think it is weird for men to look at other men the same way. I don't know why this is, other than maybe women just have a more visually pleasing body. But it doesn't feel weird for a woman to look at another woman in a pleasing way.

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Thank you for the feedback HornyHubby – I suspected there were other men who felt like this – so I'm glad to hear from you. I'm also glad to hear you say "I don't know why this is" – because that is my thought exactly. God bless you brother! LH

    • She Writes says:

      That makes sense with shay you've seen culturally in North America and other places. Women's bodies are stripped naked and posed erotically to seek everything from cars to chewing gum. Your idea of what's sexy is what has been sold to you in millions of print and film ads that you willingly or unwilling had to see.

      It's a shame and a short circuit on your sexual enjoyment to think cocks aren't sexy, pleasure inducing things for a woman's eyes. I get why you feel that way though. But you can grow past it. Close your eyes and think of your husband strewn naked across your bed. His head is tilted back and his jaw open in sexual arousal, which is all too apparent by his fully exposed, fully erect cock. It bobs erratically as the silver cock ring keeps that mocha shaft fully engorged, just for your viewing and arousal. If you don't to crawl across him and tease the glistening precum off his rose red head, then you're probably not used to the imagery. But if you saw a similarly draped man advertising a brand of floor wax, I bet you'd gravitate to that product and not really know why.

  5. Bootylicious says:

    " I play with my nipples a lot more while lounging on the couch (my hubby sure doesn’t mind that)."

    My hubby LOVES watching me play with my own boobs too! Just curious: what kind of nipple play do you like the most? Others, feel free to chime in too.

    • Jerry says:

      i love to watch my wife play with her nipples, but I have to ask her to do it. I wish she would initiate it; it is a real turnon

  6. HornyHubby says:

    I enjoyed this post. A tribute to breasts. LOL! Like LH pointed out, for some reason it doesn't seem weird for women to admire other women. But it does feel weird for men to admire other men. Not sure why that is.

    One question…how did you handle the practical aspects of going braless for a whole month? Surely you went places (work/store/dinner/visiting friends and family, etc) How did you handle that part? Did others notice you didn't have a bra on? Were you ever self conscious about it? Did you ever feel like people could tell, they just weren't saying anything? Did you have any embarrassing moments because of this? (Like bending over in front of someone without thinking about it and unintentionally giving them a peek?)

    I've talked with my wife before about going braless, but she thinks about practical aspects like this. And since women do look at other women, my wife can usually tell when another woman doesn't have a bra on. So if it's obvious to her, she says it will be obvious to others if she were to do it. Plus at work it might be a problem because there are dress codes and such. So I was curious about how you handled those kind of practical issues with going braless for a whole month.

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Booty, I am curious about the same thing – as to how you maneuver going braless with practical issues. Looking forward to your reply. LH

  7. Lovinghusband says:

    My wife loves many kinds of things done to her tits. Her favorite is when I'm flicking her nipples with my tongue – at hyperspeed. Her nipples get so rock hard! She just loves it!! LH

    • Jerry says:

      i love to play with them as she watches; her tits are goregous; of course I love to look at other womens tits too.

  8. PacMan says:

    CreationWoman, I want to cheer you for your honesty and vulnerability. But a standing ovation for the way you graciously acknowledge your husbands sexual appetite as normal and healthy. I am also first-and-foremost a boob man. I love boobs, period. Not just my wife's boobs. I love boobs that are clothed or naked, wet or dry, large or small, covered or braless, pokies or exposed, perky or drooping. Of course, I don't go around licking or touching other's tits – my wife gets my sole action. But I do notice, admire, and even have sexual thoughts regarding boobs. I think a lot of guys (like myself) feel ashamed of this appetite, even though we are 100% solely our wives'. You have courageously acknowledged your husband's boob appreciation, but also are not intimidated by it. That is such a gift to your husband. I also agree that not all nudity is pornography. I do think it can become lustful if one craves other women's boobs in a covetous way, but I think it's not a bad thing for men and women to enjoy the naked form… of both genders.

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Pacman,

      I enjoyed your thoughts. I think you succinctly summed up a balanced view. Not to lust on one side – but have a good appreciation on the other. In the spirit of "boob appreciation" – I must admit that I really appreciate the picture on this story. I like how MH has it – so that I can't see the person. I will now partake of my wife's beautiful boobs that have satisfied me for almost 31 years. God bless you. LH

    • dealingwithissues says:

      whats the difference between having sexual thoughts about a specific womans boobs and craving another womans boobs in a covetous way? doesn't being 100% solely your wives' mean in your mind as well as your actions? is it normal and healthy to think about another womans boobs sexually just because you are not putting your thoughts into prectice? not trying to be judgemental. this is just a thin line im having trouble dealing with and understanding. i would like to though. and would you be just as comfortable if your wife looked at another man's penis and had sexual thoughts about it?

    • PacMan says:

      Good questions. Absolutely it works both ways for me. Let me answer your question about covetous viewing vs normal sexual thoughts — using your proposed analogy. If my wife saw pictures of penises (hmm, what's the plural of penis? This is a first for me.) and it fascinated her almost like a piece of art, and it awoke sexual arousal in her that made her crave MY penis and want MY penis in her mouth or pussy — I find that a healthy way to look with appropriate sexual response. However, if my wife was looking at pics other penises (or penii?), and it was causing her to think of my penis in a "less than" way, and she was wanting to hold or suck THOSE penises and not mine, then that would be covetous and inappropriate looking. IMHO, this applies to boobs, butts, dicks, whatever. Looking with appreciation is fine, if it's not causing one to crave what is not theirs. True story, when I saw "Titanic" in the theater around age 20, when it got to the scene where Jack is sketching a nude Rose, my dick got hard at the sight of Kate Winslet's tits. They were beautiful. I was aroused. But I wasn't coveting them, like nothing less than Kate's boobs will satisfy. I've had many hard ons while seeing sex scenes, but I'm aroused by all the sexuality — but it's normal and natural to have these sexual thoughts and feelings. And in fairness, there are explicit and erotic videos and movies I have watched that I feel like I crossed the line into lustful, covetous viewing. But my boob appreciation isn't really in that category. I suppose everyone has to gauge there own line where appreciation ends and lust begins – and ovbiously avoid lustful attitudes. But sexual thoughts and lust are not the exact same thing like some Christisnd try to make people believe.

  9. Alicia G. M. says:

    Enjoyed this post. I must say that I also admire the beauty of other women. I am in no way a lesbian either , but I do occasionally check out other women's attributes including boobs, legs and yes even their butts occasionally. It is not a sexual thing with me either, I just admire the beauty of the female form ( including my own ).

    My husband Trey is more of an ass man himself, though he does enjoy my tits as well. I don't have large boobies but I am happy with what the Lord blessed me with.

    Bootylicious, I do enjoy playing with my tits occasionally, especially when I masturbate. I have licked and kissed my own nipples but love it alot more when my husband Trey does it. Especially now that I am pregnant, the sensitivity level has greatly increased .

    Thank you for the post! God bless ya.

    • Bootylicious says:

      Hi Alicia, Belated congrats on your pregnancy! Wonderful news! Have you noticed an increase in horniness during your pregnancy? Or a reduction? Or no change at all? God bless you!

    • Alicia G. M. says:

      Hey Bootylicious! As Trey can confirm, I am a real horny toad!!! Lol. But he loves it, now that he knows he doesn't hurt me. Thanks for the congrats girl!

  10. NewBride says:

    I love my tits too! I'm a DD and my husband LOVES to watch me lick/suck my own nipples. Not long ago, he asked me to, then started licking my nipple with me. It was so hot. It's one of his favorite things now. It's gets us both going when we lick one of my nipples at the same time!

  11. Wonderingheart says:

    Oh my, now you have opened the flood gates. I am too a breast man. I love them too but always felt so guilty for thinking that way. Thank you so much for expressing in wonderful terms how beautiful a woman's breast is. It nurtures new life and brings forth such intense feelings. BTW it is not the size it is the beauty of a woman that makes it so special. Thank you for sharing this.

  12. Old Lover says:

    Ocassionally, it’s delightful to explore old postings.

    Oh, how my Anne and I enjoy her breasts! They represent her feminity, nurturing role, and sexuality. Lingering on and suckling her breasts is amazingly intimate. It’s fulfilling for her, intimate for me, and bonding for us – a satisfying element of her femininity. Kneading her breasts as I tenderly suckle her with the pulsating rhythm of my lips around her aerola and tongue ‘milking’ her nipple is both nurturing and arousing. Time stands still when we are in the throes of her loving surrender of her breasts to my loving of them.

    The intimacy of breast suckling is satisfying enough. Although there are times (most often) when my nurturing suckling overtakes my Anne and she explodes in orgasmic ecstasy. We are approaching nearly 50 years of married bliss in just a week and her breasts satisfy me more today than ever before, Oh, how I look forward to feasting my eyes, lips, and mouth on her beautiful, sensuous breasts!

  13. Bee says:

    I was a stripper from 18-25 (I stopped stripping a few months after becoming a Christian), and I’m a straight woman, but I have to admit the female body is just the more visually pleasing body. There’s a reason we’re called the fairer sex. Women are hot, the curves of our bodies, the softness of our curves. Let me not go further, but I think it’s fair to say that even straight women find other women sexy. -Cindy

    • SecondMarge says:

      I agree. It’s one of those forbidden things to admit. But I find when I am a close enough friend and admit my attraction to the female form, especially breasts, almost always my friend admits they feel the same way. That is despite, like you, we are straight women. Not appropriate to admit any follow up on those desires here, but I do not find them against God’s word. I felt better knowing that in testing of body responses, women do respond to other women’s beauty. Even though most deny it when asked. Breasts are sexy to see and to touch, kiss etc.

    • Nude says:

      Nothing wrong with this at all Bee. As a man, I admire the features of other men. I'm also straight, but I'm an artist and I appreciate the forms God made. There's something very arousing about a penis in art, and even seeing one in person. Us humans are attracted to the human body because it visually reminds us of ourselves and our desires.

    • SecondMarge says:

      Well said Nude. I think we should be able to admit these attractions, turn ons, without feeling like it’s wrong.

    • Nude says:

      Thanks SecondMarge,

      I've found my life to be a lot lighter admitting such things, instead of letting them bottle-up inside and feeling guilty for them.

      On the note of women and breasts, my girlfriend has admitted that she just wants to touch other women's breasts when she sees them. I think I just laughed but I told her that was oddly arousing. But I've given this thought and if we look at the roles women played in early cultures, they were always helping each other, like teaching a new, young mother to breastfeed or helping to deliver a child in birth. Thus, they were always touchy-feely with each other and maybe that still manifests today.
      As an additional note; perhaps because breasts have nourished almost every human from birth, both men and women will always have that link to them and find some attraction to them.

  14. CreamyPatty says:

    What an awesome story. Your hubby and mine have lots in common; if he could he would play with my rack all day long. I love breasts also, I can get very creamy visualizing what lies under a tight halter top, especially when I’m wearing something similar.
    Jim has noticed couples checking out my tits, at the time I’m checking out hers. VERY hot when we all know that we are exhibiting and all get horny doing so….much like our private church friends parties!

    • SecondMarge says:

      Since much of what we discuss often revolves around prohibitions around sex, I have to wonder. Sex is only for married couples is the standard MH rule. But since this topic is about the female breast, is getting to second base actually sex? I would say no. If it’s not, is it acceptable to have someone other than your spouse fondle your breast? Is caressing another woman’s boob allowed by God’s word? Many argue that since two women can not actually have sex, nothing in the Bible prevents them from acts of pleasure.
      Several here including myself have admitted to at least desires for other women’s tits. Would acting on them be a sin? Or maybe some feel even the desire, the turn on, is lust and a sin?

  15. CreamyPatty says:

    I agree 100%, Marge. Before I met Jim in college, I shared a bed with a wonderful woman, who eventually introduced me to Jim in my second year in college. I learned many things, primarily, how to explore the human female body.

  16. Fearless Lunk says:

    The key question should not be centered around certain acts and whether they are “approved/sinful.” It’s based on circumstance. One man going to a bar is a “no big deal freedom” he has, while another person going to a bar is doing a very destructive act of rebellion. The bar isn’t what we should analyze. So the ultimate answer to @SecondMarge’s Q is another Q – Is [blank] beneficial for everyone and 100% honoring to the marriage? If I flirted with a woman behind my wife’s back and groped her naked tits, it would be harmful and non-honoring to my marriage. However, if we were in a hot tub with another couple having sexy banter, and my wife says, “If Jenny allows, go ahead and feel her tits,” I would do it. It would be in an honoring way with my wife’s approval. And NO touching her tits would not mean that Jenny and I “had sex” – LOL! But just because it’s not sex doesn’t mean it’s ok to do it behind your spouses back.

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