Sex Playlist #5 — Daydreamin’
By: Ariana Grande
From her debut album Yours Truly
Sorry Gentlemen, for this one we’re not really required. Well we are, but we aren’t…You know what, just wait.
You walked in
Caught my attention
I’ve never seen
A man with so much dimension
It’s the way you walk
The way you talk
The way you make me feel inside
It’s in your smile
It’s in your eyes
I don’t wanna wait for tonight
Ladies how often has this happened to you? Your man just walks in and suddenly you don’t know what the heck has come over you. It’s just the way he walks, the way he talks, the way he makes you feel inside—BUT! There isn’t enough time. He’s got to go to work, or you do, kids have to be somewhere and one of you has to drive them—whatever it may be, you two just don’t have enough time. So what else is there for you to do? Well you’re Daydreamin.’
So I’m daydreamin’
With my chin in the palm of my hands
About you,
You and only you
Got me daydreaming
With my chin in the palm of my hands
About you,
You and only you
Gentlemen (Now we fit into this!) How many times do we get that text or phone call like:
Now I can’t wait
To hold you in my arms
I know I was made for you
I’m in love with all of your charm
It’s the way you walk
The way you talk
The way you make me feel inside
It’s in your smile
It’s in your eyes
I don’t wanna wait for tonight
As men we should never squander this gift. In case I need to spell it out for you, that gift is a God given woman who is daydreamin’ like a school girl—her chin in the palm of her hand—And she’s daydreaming about you! You! And ONLY YOU!
We are blessed!
By now let me just say that for the ladies, this is a song you pull out when you need to rub one out.
For the men, this is the jam you put on when your fingers and tongue are doing the talking. Let her daydream even if it’s only for a few moments until that dream becomes a reality.
And I want you
Got to have you
And I need you
Like I never have
Loved before
Oh I want you
Oh I need you
Got to have you
Like I never have
Loved before
There is no escaping the fiery passion we carry for our spouses. Sometimes when time is scarce, we just have to handle ourselves. And sometimes it’s just fun to kick back, let our imaginations roam, our memories resurface, until we have the time.
And as always I have some creative ways this jam can be used in your rotation.
Ladies:
Since this song is clearly written from your perspective obviously use this as your masturbation song. Yes, that’s right. Whether you’re using your fingers, a toy, or the washer as Strawberry did in I Am Glad I Am Married—Nude All Day; crank this up in your headphones and let your imagination run with the mood of the music.
But that doesn’t mean you have to be solo all the time. Nope bring hubby in on it. My suggestion—Snapchat. We live in a glorious technological age where this app will take a video while you’re playing music and add it to the video!
Take a video or few and send them to hubby through Snapchat—warn him first by either a phone call or a text, or a few snaps before that let him know something special is coming up. Tell him not to open it until he is alone and preferably with headphones, or after shooting the videos just save them and back out of them and send them in a text later. It used to be the “sexting app” I’m pretty sure people still consider it so, but not so much anymore—Vines have kind of taken over that ideal. Just be careful not to accidently add it to your story…
And as an added bonus let him daydream about being in you as you put this song on and tell him to watch you but don’t touch. Or if you know he’s going to be home soon, just hit repeat and let him walk in on a late showing.
Gentlemen:
This should be one of your warm-up songs. Simple Pickup has a nice way to organize your playlist (warning crude humor and language will ensue clicking onto the link) and also the inspiration for my grind here on Marriage Heat. Let your fingers, your tongue, both, a toy, whatever else you have planned for her. Let that piano rift and Ariana’s Mariah Carey sound-alike voice set the tone for the rest of the night.
Singles/Dating/Engaged:
By now hopefully you guys aren’t new to MH and you know that Masturbation shouldn’t be frowned upon. If you don’t know that and have ever felt guilty in the past about masturbating, follow this lovely link right here——> Masturbation by Christian Singles
This song is all about letting your imagination run wild. Lay down, stand up, whatever is most comfortable and let the music guide you.
How I use it:
We listen to Ariana a lot in the car. And while her new album pretty much is hypersexualized and great for the playlist, I still pay homage to the times that this comes on in the car and I touch my wife while we’re driving and I sing to her.
Little known fact about me—my falsetto is fantastic! 😀
But I think I’m going to go ahead and follow my own advice and pick up some of the ideas I laid down. Feel free to share your uses of the song below!
Sorry it’s taken me so long to do another post. It’s been a crazy year, and I mean that legitimately seeing as the first post for Sex Playlist was a little over a year ago. So happy Anniversary fellow Christian Music Lovers!
Other than that I’ll let your imagination do the rest of the work. But if you’ll excuse me, I think I’ve let my wife daydream long enough.
Until next time, keep Daydreamin, with your chin in the palm of your hand.
–UpCA
Spotify — I can’t stand Spotify but apparently a lot people like it, so here you go! 🙂
Great ideas! Another great song to add is "Hot hands" by Darius
Sweet! I'm actually going to spend the next month or so going through all the suggestions I've gotten so thank you! 😀