Need Your Sex Tips!
Hi friends! I’ve been a longtime reader and while this is my first post, I am a writer as well so hopefully I will post some stories here too!
I need your tips and tricks and any advice you want to throw my way…
First, a question: how many of you women can actually orgasm with your hubby inside you from penetration?
I’ve gotten pretty close but apparently what I need to reach orgasm and my husband’s stamina don’t mix. I’ve read several stories here of multiple orgasms just from penetration alone so I know it’s possible but HOW?
I’m very sexually aware and know what feels good to me, but unfortunately it’s via touching stimulation on the outside. I’d love to be able to consistently have mutual orgasms with my hubby but it’s only happened once. And I have no idea how to recreate it 🙂
We’ve been married almost 2 years and this is my second marriage – I haven’t been able to consistently orgasm via penetration either time.
Secondly, I don’t know how to find my G spot. I’m sure that sounds crazy and I’ve looked it up but I’ve only felt it a few times during lovemaking. Are there better positions to hit it? Tricks on how to find it?
I’m open to all tips, thank you!
Make sure you're turned on enough to feel it. If you've felt it before, surely you must know where it is, so guide your husband to aim there. Also, when it comes to orgasmic from penetration, what my husband does is massage my sweet spot with his pubic bone, so maybe have your husband stimulate you with his pubic bone. What do you mean when you mention your husband's stamina? I'm sorry you haven't been able to climax as much, but hopefully I've been of help. God bless you, dear
Two other options…
First, the TIP TEASE method – the male focuses on penetrating very slowly, just the tip inserted first, letting the in and out motion only return to the tip depth each time for a certain number of strokes, say 10. Then move inside only another 1/8 of an inch for 10 additional strokes, and so on until you achieve maximum penetration. If the man begins to feel signs of an orgasm, he backs off and slows down until the feeling has subsided. It has the effect of providing an effective tease for her and allows the man to get used to progressively more full stimulation before moving on.
Second and opposite is the DEEP THRUST AND STICK. The man goes for maximum penetration so that pubic bones are engaged and he grinds against the pubic bone with very little movement of the penis for a seven count. After a seven count he withdraws all the way slowly before returning to maximum penetration and begin the seven count grind again. Allows for full contact without over stimulating the penile shaft.
Both of these are helpful variations! Enjoy!!!
Don't get too caught up in comparisons. My wife was multi-orgasmic (3 max) only for a brief time during her 5th & 6th pregnancies and breast feeding stage. Otherwise (including now), she is one-and-done. We have had to fight the urge to compare ourselves to others and feel a sense of "less than." You are YOU. And this YOUR story!
And … nothing wrong with asking for tips, and making some improvements. But enjoy who you are too.
1. In answer to your first question, my wife has rarely failed to have an orgasm from penetration alone. I think I can count on one hand the number of times she's failed to cum that way in the past 40 years. I usually suck her off in a 69, and then she cums again during penetration. Sometimes she cums twice during penetration. But she also cums during penetration via quickies too. Unsure if it's my size, shape, etc., but I feel very blessed that she's so responsive.
2. As far as the G spot is concerned, she doesn't like for it to be directly stimulated, saying it feels like she needs to pee.
I have an easier orgasim from penertration after he has cum inside me, I find if I squeeze my pelvic muscles tight while he is cumming, and push my pelvis upwards with my thighs by the sides of my tunmyn then it's more likely to work but not always, best of luck trying new things but if they don't work then just have a great time any way.
I read an article that says MOST women need clitoral stimulation not just penetration to orgasm so you are in the majority. My wife occasionally can come from penetration alone, but I usually rub her clit as I thrust inside. Try that.