I came across an article in the blog Scary Mommy titled “Why I Give My Husband A BJ Every Day”. With such a provocative title, I had to read on. The author claims that blowjobs are a near-daily occurrence around her house. She goes on to explain that the frequent blowjobs are her idea. She doesn't do them as something she feels she owes her husband as a “wifely duty”. Instead, she says she enjoys making her husband happy. To her, a daily blowjob is a “surefire” way to accomplish that. “I give my husband blowjobs because he loves them, and I love him. Simple as that,” she says.
The author argues that if you only need to take five minutes out of your day to give your husband a gift he adores, why not? She likens the concept to making him his favorite sandwich or surprising him with a cup of coffee. You do those things because you’re thinking about him. She describes the domino effect of such acts of intimate kindness, how they lead to a happier husband and more harmonious family.
She insists there’s nothing degrading about sucking a dick with such frequency. On the contrary, she suggests that it’s empowering. “In a world that constantly makes me question my capabilities as a mother or a woman in general, I’m reassured that I’m hitting this spouse shit out of the park.” She talks about how fellatio can substitute for intercourse on those nights when you’re too tired and the kids have worn you down. Satisfying your husband’s sex drive with a quick blowjob can let you both get some sleep.
Finally, the author concedes that a BJ every day may not be for everyone. But she recommends that you at least try it. “Because a surprise cup of coffee in the morning might make him smile for a moment … but a surprise blowjob in the morning will make him smile for the rest of the day.”
As you know by now, I love blowjobs and I am “down for them” regularly. I could even do them several consecutive days, but every single day?!? However, she captures how I feel about fellatio with my husband. It’s an easy gift that keeps on giving. I have a hard time understanding other women’s reluctance when it comes to oral sex. It reminds me of the song “I’ll do anything for love, but I won’t do that”.
Not surprisingly, when I shared the article with my husband he was intrigued. He asked if we could try it for a week or maybe a month - out of scientific curiosity, of course. I wagered that he would probably ask me to stop before I would tell him I’d had enough. The bet was on! I’ll follow up when our oral experiment concludes.