I’ll Do Anything for Love
I came across an article in the blog Scary Mommy titled “Why I Give My Husband A BJ Every Day”. With such a provocative title, I had to read on. The author claims that blowjobs are a near-daily occurrence around her house. She goes on to explain that the frequent blowjobs are her idea. She doesn’t do them as something she feels she owes her husband as a “wifely duty”. Instead, she says she enjoys making her husband happy. To her, a daily blowjob is a “surefire” way to accomplish that. “I give my husband blowjobs because he loves them, and I love him. Simple as that,” she says.
The author argues that if you only need to take five minutes out of your day to give your husband a gift he adores, why not? She likens the concept to making him his favorite sandwich or surprising him with a cup of coffee. You do those things because you’re thinking about him. She describes the domino effect of such acts of intimate kindness, how they lead to a happier husband and more harmonious family.
She insists there’s nothing degrading about sucking a dick with such frequency. On the contrary, she suggests that it’s empowering. “In a world that constantly makes me question my capabilities as a mother or a woman in general, I’m reassured that I’m hitting this spouse shit out of the park.” She talks about how fellatio can substitute for intercourse on those nights when you’re too tired and the kids have worn you down. Satisfying your husband’s sex drive with a quick blowjob can let you both get some sleep.
Finally, the author concedes that a BJ every day may not be for everyone. But she recommends that you at least try it. “Because a surprise cup of coffee in the morning might make him smile for a moment … but a surprise blowjob in the morning will make him smile for the rest of the day.”
As you know by now, I love blowjobs and I am “down for them” regularly. I could even do them several consecutive days, but every single day?!? However, she captures how I feel about fellatio with my husband. It’s an easy gift that keeps on giving. I have a hard time understanding other women’s reluctance when it comes to oral sex. It reminds me of the song “I’ll do anything for love, but I won’t do that”.
Not surprisingly, when I shared the article with my husband he was intrigued. He asked if we could try it for a week or maybe a month – out of scientific curiosity, of course. I wagered that he would probably ask me to stop before I would tell him I’d had enough. The bet was on! I’ll follow up when our oral experiment concludes.
That is a wager it sounds like you both will enjoy win or lose. Sex of some kind on an everyday basis is a concept I see mentioned more often. They say it burns calories. So for health reasons I might be convinced to try.lol
Very interesting, can't wait to hear the results of your experiment. I would think giving such frequent bj's would also have the following advantages. 1: a wife would get better and betting at it, be well practiced, and get that gag reflex taken care of. 2: At first a wifes jaw make get sore, but as with any practice that happens on a regular basis, that should soon go away as the muscles get toned.
Love that attitude! I know a BJ always makes me smile for a long while.
We definitely need a report on how this challenge works out.
Honeysuckle,
This sounds like a wonderful idea to me! My loving wife tells me that she loves sucking me. However, she has a neck condition now that looks like will prevent me from ever getting another bj. The repetitive motion of moving her neck in the process generates pain in her neck and more migraine headaches. I am so sorry for her…and I already miss this part of sex. Enjoy sex with your spouse when you are able. Life can throw you curve balls, especially as you age that can really change things.
You might try letting her lie at the edge of the bed with her head on a pillow. She provides suction; you provide gentle motion, even holding her head still by her hair (love this!) Your legs might cramp, but you can also scoot the mattress back so you can prop your knees on the box springs if you have them. Or a low cushioned stool might work. Where there's a will… ?
If my wife wanted my to go down on her everyday I would, no question. Would I take a BJ daily? Absolutely. I know it would have an effect on my attitude if I got sex or oral daily. Many times people have commented, "You're in a good mood today," when what they don’t know is that I had amazing sex that morning or went home for a nooner and cane back to work de-stressed.
Honeysuckle,
Interesting post. Thanks for sharing this. Can't wait to find out how your bet turns out.
Personally, I love sucking dick . I think I enjoy it almost as much as Ben enjoys me doing it. Granted I don't suck Ben's dick every day, but he does get sucked off fairly often. I too don't feel it is degrading for a wife to suck off her husband frequently and doubt any man would tire of it. I am gonna let Ben read this and see what he thinks. Maybe I will suck him while he reads. Better not, he would never finish reading it. Lol
Who knows, Ben just might be getting a daily blowjob as well ( yum).
Stay horny always sweetheart and God bless!
? GG
I like that idea. Naturally. 🙂 Getting a BJ everyday would be a really great start to the day, or a great way to wind down.
God bless you Honeysuckle! What a kind and selfless perspective. If my wife told me she wanted to suck my dick for 30 straight days… I would be putty in her hands! I would do all my chores! I would eat all my vegetables!
@honeysuckle
Thanks for writing again. Have loved hearing about your love of sucking your husbands dick. Lot most men, I never tire of my wife sucking me and would love to get a daily sucking. I don’t think she loves sucking my cock as much as you do your hubby, but she loves to please me and is very good at it.
Let us know how it goes!
Call me crazy, but I’m not sure I would want a BJ every day. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE a good BJ, but I also love pizza and I don’t want pizza every day either.
To each their own though, and if it works for you guys, awesome! I just like a little more anticipation, a little more build, and I find that some occasional distance adds fuel to a fire for when that erotic encounter does happen. 2-3 times a week is still that sweet spot for us.
A party isn’t a party if it happpens every night, know what I mean?
But there are far worse problems than getting your dick sucked daily, I guess. ?
Great story. I love BJs.
What is so great about this is not really about a BJ every day, but rather about a wife who is WILLING. I wrote about frequent HandJobs some time ago. If a wife combines the two, there just might be a heaven without dying first. You can check out some super techniques here…
https://marriageheat.com/2016/02/07/give-man-hand/
Lovemywife56 like CHLoved said where there’s a will there’s a way! She can combine a hand and a BJ. Also position yourself where you make the thrust she doesn’t have to move her neck so much. I have TMJ issues and sometimes giving BJ can be painful. Usually my desire for him gets my mind off the discomfort. If my jaw gets tired I switch to a hand job and alternate back and forth. He does not care as long as I’m in the moment and enjoying pleasuring him then he is a happy guy! Hope this helps.
Thanks for your concern and tips, both of you. We will keep trying. I just hate to hurt her. And if I think I am hurting her, I go limp anyway. I'll never understand how a man can intentionally hurt a woman.
Awe your sweet! She’s a lucky woman to have you.
Reading all the responses I feel so guilty. You all give your husbands more oral pleasure in a week than I do in a year. Until I read this I was convinced I was more typical than alone. I am fortunate that my husband would much rather be inside me than in my mouth. I liked the suggestion of a hand job a day. I do like the feel of him getting hard in my hand. But honestly if he is never in my mouth again I wouldn’t miss it. And I doubt he will ever cum in my mouth again. I guess that either makes me a bad wife or a weirdo.
Oh, Marge, don't! I think the whole point of MH is to remind us that we don't have to be anyone other than who we are with our spouses and love them the best way we know how. It's no more "weird" to not enjoy oral sex than it is weird to enjoy it. They are just differences, not comparisons. And we need voices from all view points to lovingly make that clear to the next person like each one of us who stops by for encouragement. If your hubby doesn't want blow jobs then it wouldn't be much of a gift for him anyhow. And from your other comments and your post, I'd say you give to him in lots of other ways.
SecondMarge,
Darlin, you are definitely not a bad wife or a weirdo. Not all couples have the same type of love life. If we did Marriage Heat may not be as encouraging as it is.
Like CHL said, you satisfy and love your husband in many other ways, which I am sure he considers a blessing.
Just be who you are and enjoy the love and passion you and your husband enjoy.
God Bless and Stay Horny Always!
? GG
Actually, I share the sentiment. At every possible opportunity I get, it’s like a fantasy to give my husband a blowjob. Initially, he didn’t want me to do it, but when I convinced him about the sensation he’d feel, he let me do it to him. Today, every time we're not in the mood for sex I just go down on his cock, ripping it out of his pants. He is used to it now, and I have taught him he need not worry about being caught with semen on his pants. I will swallow him whole and use my mouth and lips to clean him completely. If at any time he wants one, he merely has to expose his cock to me and the rest is history. I admitted to him after we married that I had done it many times before, though I never had intercourse. He accepted the fact and me as I am. He even knows that many of my friends know I'm a “cock-sucker” and ask me to explain various techniques, as well what to expect from the taste of semen and how to swallow without choking. Of course, I don’t mind him going down on me as well; and mutual oral sex is most refreshing.
First and foremost, I want to apologize to SecondMarge and anyone else I might have offended. I certainly did not mean to imply that a woman who does not go down on her husband is a “bad wife”. I guess I was just stereotyping women who selfishly withhold sexual pleasure in the form of oral sex. But certainly, if fellatio does not bring you or him sexual enjoyment, you should not feel like a “weirdo” at all. Human sexuality is such a broad spectrum.
I really liked what Man with a Plan wrote above about loving pizza but not wanting it every day. And as it turned out, my husband, while being a true "fellacionado," discovered that a daily blowjob was not all he dreamed it would be. Of course, on Day 1 he erupted like a geyser before I barely got started. I dropped to my knees while he was shaving on the morning of Day 2 and he thoroughly enjoyed that but might have got an extra nick or two. I sucked him dry on Day 3 in the laundry room while mommy and daddy were “folding clothes” and he was still pretty enthusiastic. On Day 4, I was awakened by his morning wood poking my hip. So I slipped under the covers and polished his knob again. But by Day 5, I could tell he was losing some of his steam, so I sucked him nice and slow in bed that night to let his desire build. On Day 6, I fondled him while watching TV until he was semi-hard and then went down on him. It took me a while and he never got fully hard but he did finally ejaculate. Then on Day 7, I got into the shower with him and started sucking his flaccid penis. After a bit, we tossed a couple of towels on the bathroom floor and I knelt between his spread legs. Although he managed to get an erection, he clearly wasn’t into it. He eventually conceded.
I didn’t say, “I told you so,” but I knew it couldn’t last. It was just too much pizza!
Thanks for the update. Very interesting stuff!
I feel badly that you felt the need to apologize to me. You did nothing wrong. I guess I justified my lack of giving bj’s first because I was taught it was religiously wrong. Second because I didn’t enjoy it. Third the studies I had read putting me in the vast majority of wives who don’t like it. My husband would say he would much rather ejaculate in my vagina so we kind of abandoned oral completely. He would lose his erection if he spent any time giving me oral.
The more I thought about it and talked with him, we decided I would spend time licking and sucking the head of his c*** while I stroke him during foreplay. So far we have been enjoying it. Knowing he won’t go too deeply into my mouth nor ejaculate into my mouth or on my face I am more relaxed and able to give him pleasure.
SecondMarge – just wanted to say that as I read your comments…I think you have a very open and willing attitude. Very encouraging. LH
In all of my previous posts, I put an emphasis on oral sex with my husband. Every time we're intimate, we please & pleasure each other that way. I love him fingering me as he sucks my pussy & fingering me as I use my wand vibrator. And I love to suck him off in return. Many times I offer my mouth to him to fuck as I lie back & enjoy my vibrator on my pussy. I love knowing how much pleasure I give my husband as he penetrates my lips & enters my mouth with his hard cock. I love when he cums in my mouth. I'm often selfish with him & suck him off just to reward him for being my husband. He gets my loving lips 2 or 3 times a week & he never has to ask. I love sucking the cum from his cock.