Hi guys! New on the site today. Christian married man here looking for some advice.
We have been married for 21 years now. She is 42, and I'm 41. I'm more sexual than she is, and we have sex 5-10 times a year. She comes from a strict family (never speaking of sex), and I come from a more open-minded family.
Now I'm planning an evening for the 10th of January. I'm going to cook dinner and make a whole romantic evening. I'll bring out beds to the living room and create a "tent" over them, put some Christmas lights over the fabrics, and create a romantic atmosphere.
The plan is: I'm cooking, and she will come home from work. She will go to shower and get her self ready for a romantic evening (already planned and she knows about it.)
After dinner, my idea is to take her for a ride in the car where we listen to music (we usually do that), and she will drink champagne.
When we come home, I think I'll tell her to put on sexy lingerie and heels, sit on the sofa with a glass of champagne. While she does, I'll take a ride by myself then park somewhere and text her.
I'd like to create a sext-message role play. I know she would like that. (We have been talking about role play but have never actually done it.) But my ideas are so dry; I don't know what to do.
We are not into the "sexy secretary," "nurse," "king," "handyman," etc. but more "real life" play.
Please, do have you any ideas for roles?
Help a brother out! 🙂
p.s. English is my 7th language. Sorry for misspellings, wrong words, etc. (I'm Serbian, living in Sweden:)