Now, I understand that masturbation and Christian beliefs do not always sit well together. So if you are of that way of thinking, I would strongly suggest you do not read this post. However, Lucy and I are very open with each other about our self-pleasure habits, and I would not want it any other way.
At the weekend, Lucy was reading her iPad in bed whilst I had a shower. When I came out of our bathroom, she joked that I was a long while in there today and suggested that I may have been self-pleasuring. As it happens, I was not, but I asked what made her think about that. She said she was reading this article online about May being National Masturbation Month. I joked back that I thought every month met that description, as far as she was concerned. She took my crack good-naturedly, as always, and we continued to discuss the topic.
Now, as I said at the start, we are both comfortable with self-pleasuring, mutual masturbation, and talking openly about it with each other. But a glint in Lucy’s eye told me she had something more she wanted to say on the subject. I climbed back into bed and cuddled up to her.
“What are you thinking?” I asked.
“How about we give this a try and only masturbate for the whole month of May—no sex, just self-pleasure.”
“Are you serious?” But I already knew the answer.
“We could make a game of it, make it fun and sexy.”
“You have really thought about this, haven’t you?” I said, to which she smiled and reached under the covers to feel my now semi-erect cock. Now, sex and fun go hand in hand (no pun intended), so I pressed her for more details.
She said that we should think of the rules together, but we should try to encompass all the different ways that masturbation takes place in our marriage. Solo pleasuring in private, solo pleasuring in front of each other, and of course, mutual masturbation. Then we should consider the times of day that each of these activities took place, daytime when alone, night time when alone, shower time, bath time, and bedtime. The other consideration would have to be how: hands only, toys only, hands and toys, for our own pleasure, or each other’s.
I was totally taken in with Lucy’s idea. I won’t lie; under the duvet, I was now rock hard at the thought of this.
We have agreed to give this a try and think of fun ways we could decide what the theme of the day would be. If we can think of 31 different combinations, we’ll try to go the whole of May with only masturbation as a sexual release. Currently, I have a few ideas, and I’m sure Lucy does too, but I will write a follow up once we decide. Hopefully, it can be published in time for the beginning of May. We’d love to know if anybody reading this thinks they want to try this too, as it would be nice to share ideas before and experiences after.
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