Christmas Wishlist

Hi, MHers! We usually post Advice or Discussion posts on Mondays, but no one has sent one in in a while. So instead, we will pose a question:

If your spouse offered to grant you one sexual wish this Christmas that you could use a single time at your discretion during the next year, what would it be? (Keep in mind that, to be published, it has to meet the MarriageHeat guidelines.)

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47 replies
  1. LovingMan says:

    That’s a hard one, (pun intended)… because over an almost 30 year marriage so many of my sexual wishes have come true (or something close to my sexual wish has come true) But I think my sexual wish would be for a sex session in an isolated but beautiful place in the great outdoors.

  2. Jimmymatt says:

    I have 2. Watch my wife play with herself and get lost as if she was alone and after I cum in her wet pussy for her to plunge her fingers and scoop out all our cum and enjoy licking and swallowing all of it.

  3. D&D says:

    Funny you should ask this question. We were discussing what to get each other for Christmas this year. After being married 35 years it’s much harder to cum up with good gift ideas. I thought of giving each other a sexual gift. I thought we could have 12 days of sexmas. Each day would be focused on foreplay and preparing us to try something we have never tried. Unfortunately she vetoed the idea as a gift but did say that we could try it. Have a very merry sexy Christmas!!

  4. Tulsa says:

    I'm with the others. After over 40 years of marriage, I can't think of anything I still want to do, that we haven't given a shot!
    That said, something I did years ago, and several times, was made & gave her some hand made sex coupons. Gave her about a dozen each time, and most would be things I know she wanted to do, and I'd guess at a few to throw in there, of things I though she might like to do.
    Quite a success actually. Besides getting a coupon right back at me as she finished reading them, seems there were a few things that she wanted to try, but didn't want to mention. The coupons gave her the opportunity!
    And, some of those coupons have a lot of mileage! I never put an expiration date on any, and they have been 'reissued' to me over and over again. (Not complaining)

  5. MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

    We have a pretty extensive homemade sex tape collection. Some of it is decent quality, especially what we've shot with our 4K cam. A fantasy would be to have a sex tape shot of us by a professional crew. Would absolutely love that. We have some good stuff in our collection, including some great angles and very, very graphic stuff, but would love a professional-quality tape. She would never go for that (I probably would).

  6. RMD says:

    My wife and I married later in life, in our late 50’s. I’d been divorced for three years and she had been a widow for twelve before we met. We both have the same wish, that we had met and married when we were young, that we had been the first to undress each other, to touch each other, the first to make love with each other – to have no memories but our own – and all before the wight of life was heavy on us. If we could have just one day, that would be a taste of Heaven.

    • Waiting_Romeo says:

      Wow, that’s really well said. Makes me think a lot about how I need to make sure I don’t take any of that for granted when I find my spouse

    • LovingMan says:

      We married when I was in my early 30s and my beautiful wife was in her early 40s. I had been divorced for several years. I have wished that I had met Melodie first (before my traumatic marriage) but I don’t think I was ready to appreciate Melodie back when I first got married. We’ve been married almost 30 years and it’s been glorious! When I was in my first marriage Melodie was getting therapy for the PTSD she had from being sexually abused as a child. SHE wasn’t ready to be married back when I first got married. It’s weird how life doesn’t work out how we planned, but having a kind, smart, & sexy wife has made a big difference. My rough first marriage has helped me appreciate Melodie so much more.

    • Waiting_Romeo says:

      That’s so neat to hear a story like yours of how God worked the timing perfectly! I’m trying to keep that in mind daily!

  7. hornyGG says:

    Hmmm, I guess my sexual Christmas wish would be something I know would most likely never come true. But being able to watch my husband Ben suck his own dick would completely " blow" me away. I have had that fantasy for quite sometime after he told me how he was able to get the head in his mouth when he was much younger. Makes me wet just thinking about it. Stay horny ya'll!

    • Waiting_Romeo says:

      Haha same Waiting Hardly!

      I actually just tried and all I can manage is getting the tip to touch my belly button… most people can probably do that without having to bend over, but unfortunately I don’t think I was blessed in the ‘size’ department. 😛

    • CrazyHappyLoved says:

      😄😄😄 It would certainly require a great degree of flexibility and a certain length, as well. Thank goodness for that, though, or most men would probably never leave the house—and women would never find a husband!!!

    • texasman76 says:

      Gina, I think all men have tried it at least once. It's funny what we will do when we get all horned up. Like Jimmymatt, I would like my wife and I to enjoy our cum out of her after we have had sex and go another round. Another fantasy is for her to play with herself while she helps me shoot in my mouth. She can lick my balls and play with my butt hair while she is fingering herself so we both cum together.

    • Tulsa says:

      So, a short story:
      Many years ago, we lived in a small town of about 350 people. A friend from our Church decided to start her own business selling lingerie and sex toys. It was some kind of franchise deal.
      Her first 'fun party', was at her own house, and she only invited ladies from our Church. My wife went, along with most others. So, all us husbands laid around and watched football at home or something!
      What do you get when you get a dozen women, feed 'em cocktails, and show 'em skimpy lingerie, vibrators, and all sizes of dildos? A bunch of slightly sloshed, uninhibited, wildly horny women!!
      My wife said the conversation turned to sexual things quickly, and then to oral, and blowjobs. Seems the ladies were comparing notes on their skills, when one of them told all that her husband was always trying to get her to blow him, but she didn't really want too. She said that as he pressed on, he told her that 'it's no big deal, I do it all the time myself!' Jaws hit the floor. Eyes were pied. And, and she was grilled like a witness in interrogation!!

      When my wife got home, we had a grand time! She was horny, ready for action, and got a free vibrating egg as a door prize! But…..the first thing she did, was ask if I had ever sucked my own cock! saying, 'Yes, but I couldn't' was not good enough, I had to show her!
      I wondered how many other of the husbands were at home, trying to get a lip lock, or even a tongue, or their own dicks, with their wives pushing and pulling, at the same time I was! LOL!

      The second fun party with the same group was about a month later. This time all us husbands met at the bar, and had a few beers waiting for what we knew was going to be a good night for us!
      And, we found out how many of us gave that self service a go after that first party!!

    • Waiting_Romeo says:

      @Tulsa: Haha wow! I actually forgot I was reading a comment and thought this was a normal MH story! I bet all the men were even more happy about the lingerie store then the women! 😛

    • Tulsa says:

      Thanks @W_Romeo! I thought about making that comment a story, but it seemed a bit short.
      We husbands were definitely the big winners from those parties! Every time there was one, our wives returned home, and they went on the attack! It changed up things for a lot of us guys, as our wives became the initiators. This was something new for most of us, and I can say in my case, it was a lasting change.
      We also got a double feature. There was party night, and there was shipment day. For the most part, anything our wives bought, had to be ordered and shipped. When the ladle’s orders showed up a week or two later, and they picked them up during the day, by the time us husbands got home, guess what our wives were like? Same as they were after the parties, and no doubt some started without us!
      That first party, with a free vibrating egg for all to attended, got a lot of non-toy owning wives interested (to say the least) in toys. That was the first toy my wife & I ever got. Sure wasn’t the last! Smart salesmanship!
      I think the husbands fared better than the wives myself, but we can call it a tie!

    • Ben G. says:

      Years ago when I was much younger and alot more flexible, I was able to get the head of my dick into my mouth. I didn't cum as I was only able to suck on it for maybe a minute if that long. I have tried a few times since at my wife's request, but no go, as age and loss of flexibility have made it impossible. My sweet Gina loves fantasizing about it though and to be honest, I wish I could do it again. Might just write a fantasy story about it. If MH approves. Anyway just wanted to explain. God bless!

  8. Waiting_Romeo says:

    I think mine would be to lay with her, both of us completely naked, maybe my hands on her breasts, and just feel the connection between the both of us.
    Maybe that’s tame to most, but that’s what I seem to look forward to the most when I get married, not crazy sex, but the beautiful, slow romance of becoming one body together.

  9. SexyBeasty says:

    My Christmas wishlist is something I now want to make with my wife for something to do between now and New Years! Two of the things on my list: to be able to cum in my wife’s mouth while in 69! Also like to make a sex tape!

  10. JohnE says:

    Mine is pretty straightforward, pretty simple. Love certain types of lingerie my wife wears, in particular the black fishnet, crotchless body stocking. Frames her cunt perfectly, makes me want to dive in with my fingers, tongue and then slam her hard with my rock hard cock. Cum shot is usually pretty fierce too!

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Yep, crotchless teddies are super sexy, especially when they have built in garter straps and she's wearing black stockings.

  11. StillLikeNewlyweds says:

    Like others have mentioned, it’s difficult to think of much she hasn’t already done for me (especially this year). But after some thought I think I have one. We have played a bit with some light Dom/sub time, taking turns in each role. It’s been a lot of fun, but my wife has not felt super confident in the Dominant role (you might say she’s a bit restrained—hahahah—ok, sorry). What my wish would be is for a time away from home (a night, or better, a weekend) where she would really get into the dom role, including the outfit. Something like a black leather or wet look corset or something, black stockings and high heels, or even better black knee-high boots. You get the idea. Something that is going to make her FEEL dominant, give her confidence to play the role, and then see where it goes. Excuse me now, I need to go grab my wife.

    • CrazyHappyLoved says:

      As a sub married to man who likes me to sometimes take a dominant role, I can recommend this: outside of roleplay time, when you are discussing what would turn you on, let her know you want to "top from the bottom." Tell her what you want her to wear, things you'd like to hear her say, and suggest tools and activities (with permission to improvise, of course.) With a safe word for when things are edging close to "too much"—we use yellow–she can scale back just a bit and know you still want to continue. That may help her ease into occasionally pleasing you in the "Dom" role without feeling like she's got all the responsibility. I don't know how Dom's deal with that on the daily, but I'll dom my Dom whenever he wants. You can even let the first time be all imaginary; just talk it out together then pour all that sexual energy from imagining it into vanilla sex. After that, a non-verbal cue, like putting the riding crop on her pillow or yours, could be a good way to indicate your preferred role on a given "heavy" day.

      Merry Christmas.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Agree with CrazyHappyLoved. So my wife likes it when I'm in the Dom role. Outside of the bedroom, she's a surgeon, a highly respected expert in her field, quite intellectual, elegant, etc. In the bedroom, she wants to be dominated, such as being spanked, and she loves to be ejaculated on. She wants to please me in every way she can. She has become much more comfortable in the occasional Dom role in the last few years, such as recently when she handcuffed me and "made" me eat her pussy. I think it would be a good idea to talk it over with your wife and let her ease into it if she's open to it.

    • StillLikeNewlyweds says:

      Thanks CHL That’s some good tips. We do talk about it, tease about it, and we’ve had lots of short sessions with her in the dom roll. We have verbal cues we use when one of us wants to initiate it in either direction, along with a response to verify willingness at that time. I like the non-verbal cue idea. (We just started something like that for a different act.) We did something like the talking it through as imaginary regarding being “accidentally” witnessed in the act of sex, but we talked it through while having sex. It was really intense, so something like that about her dominating might be fun as well. She likes doing it, I just think being away from home and dressing the part would make her feel more free and confident. Thanks again

    • StillLikeNewlyweds says:

      MtaHB, thanks for your input as well. Really loved that moment in your story where she surprised you by pulling out the handcuffs and talking charge. We have talked and acted out often and she enjoys it, just wanting to give her a chance to really get into it and feel the confidence. She also reads MH and has already read my “wish” comment. There’s no keeping a secret from her on this site 😆. She hasn’t said if she’ll grant my wish yet, but it’s more like her to just start planning without telling me.

  12. Branecca7 says:

    I've always had this day dream/fantasy of being watched or showing my wife off. Like if my wife and I were staying at a hotel I would love to have sex in an open window or maybe if we have one of our random guy friends over she could come out of the room or walk around in something much too revealing just to get our blood pumping. Like a white t-shirt where her nipples are visible or a silk nighty that comes up close to her butt checks.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Funny you should post that because I have a story going live on 1/6 that hits on that same subject. Happed 18 years ago.

    • PacMan says:

      I have that same fantasy too! It would be so F’N hot to see another man get 🍆 while looking at my wife! 🔥🔥

    • CrazyHappyLoved says:

      To me, it's not wrong to pray for something you hope you would both enjoy, provided God hasn't said that it's "off the menu." I can't find where He said anything loving kept exclusively between a man and his wife is out of bounds.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Bedtiger, have you ever anally stimulated your wife, such as with your fingers? I'm talking about even non-penetrating finger play. If not, you may want to start there and see how she responds. If she likes anal stroking, that tells you what you need to know. 🙂

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