My husband and I have been married for five years, and we are both in our mid-20’s. I want more sex; we barely have any, at all. If we do, it’s only one to three times a month, and I always initiate it. Then there are times when he will tell me no. I ask him if he’s having an affair, but he says no.
I don’t know what to do. I flirt with him, I tell him I want more. Maybe it’s me. Maybe I’m unattractive. Maybe, he doesn’t love me anymore. I just don’t know. But, I’m finding myself discontent while waiting for him to want me.
I’m coping with the lack of sex and intimacy through porn ( I know it’s not right) or masturbation.
Do you have any advice?
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