I’m in my late 20’s, and waiting till marriage is difficult when casual sex seems to be the norm everywhere now. I’m still a virgin but have a sex drive that feels insane. When I’ve viewed erotic material in my weaker moments, I’ve masturbated multiple times in a single day.
It’s very frustrating because I feel as though I can’t talk about it with anyone. I can’t really get to know anyone with whom I could talk openly about these struggles. I go back and forth on my opinions about if I should view nudity while I masturbate or porn, and I still don’t really know how I feel about it. I’m still working through that (but that’s not what this topic is about, and it’s been talked about to death on here).
It’s so strange to me that there aren’t many Christian sites where members can talk openly about these types of topics. I’ve tried a few, and this, by far, seems to be the most active despite the heavy moderation (which I understand is by design). There just seems to be this gaping hole online when it comes to addressing single people’s sexual needs and the frustrations of trying to wait.
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